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heres my problem. well ever since like 3 years ago, i've kinda had a thing for this guy, Chris. and we'd always flirt and talk and in class we'd have to get our seats moved bc we talked to much. and my Best Best friend ever has liked him to. but she's always rotating on who she likes. like if she likes a guy, and they dont like her, she decided to like another guy instead. well she recently started going out w/ Chris. and it was their one month yesterday and they dont even act like a couple At all. they like hug at the end of the day and thats it. they hardly Ever go Anywhere together, their basically acting like friends, not boyfriend and girlfriend. and then like last week, she started having strong feelings for this other guy. and she was gonna dump chris and everything. then she changed her mind, and wrote chris a note saying that she had feelings for another guy and it wasnt fair to him that she likes 2 guys at once, blah blah blah. and he didnt even talk to her about it! he just acted like it never even happened! i was like WTF? she had even told me that "i'm gonnna be all over *this guy* and i dont care what chris thinks or says about it" and i told chris that she said that..and he didnt really seem to care about that either? and the only reason i still have feelings for chris is b/c the way he looks at me. we always walk to 11th period together and he's constanly making me laugh. and when me him and my bestfriend are sitting their talking he'll look at me and just give me this amazing smile. i know its corny but his bright blue eyes and that smile just really get to me. and sometimes when my bestfriends not around we'll even flirt a little. i'm just really confused..i think he deserves a girl that likes him and Only him, what should i do? i want to make him see that shes not right for him, but i also dont wanna get into a fight w/ my bestfriend..thanks~*
hmm maybe ur friend thinks she can get whu ever she wants, and she wants as many guys as she can get as once.. if u think chris needs to know what your friend does n says behing his back, then go for it. but friendship is prolly more important.. its really up to you to decide where this one needs to go
One of my really good friends has been really really depressed ever sence her and her bf broke up. A few days ago she started to cut herself.I am really worried about her. Only me and a few of her friends know that she is doing it. I really want her to stop it because I am scared that she is going to do something she will regret. It hurts me a lot to see her like this. I am in practically the same situation that she is in. I want to help her and we always talk about it. ButI feel like there is not much I can do for her right now but try and always be there for her. What should I do?
tell her that shes scaring you by doing all these things. in a situation like this, u need to be by her side at all times n nvr leave her out! just try to get her into whatever there is to do so she will become occupied w something good luck!
ok, Me and my friend have been BEST friends since 5th grade....and now I am going out with this guy....I love him sososo much!! and I think that she is getting jealous over him b/c I dunno....but she like plays childish games with me...like (sry, this is long) on friday night, i was talking to my b/f and hse was over at my house and we were in the same room and she calls me on her cellphone to tell me that she has to pee....WTF?!?! and I love her to death...I would never choose him over her....how do i let her know that without actually telling her....
shes probably feeling left out.. sometimes people tend to do whatever they think of just to get more attention, bc they think they r loosing their bff. all u need to tell her is dont worry bc ull ALWAYS b her friend and nothing is gunna change between u two just bc u have a bf
Hi well like u know i lost prety much the friends that i was really close to before and well laitly i have had hard times of making new friends and well usually i'm really good about talking to people and introdusing my self to them but i just dont know what to do anymore.....what do you think is wrong with me..? and well i hope this site will help me to make some new girls/guy friends that i can talk to when i need some one to hear me out!
u dont need to feel like you cant do something, bc im sure u can.. u just need to get up n go around n make new friends. be VERY outgoing! dont think negative, u need to always think positive n im sure ull make new friends ur first try! :)
alrighty..well I am 14 and a female & I have this really good guy friend but a few months ago I started feeling differently about him..I told one of my friends and of course she had a big mouth and everyone knew..including him*. So he started being a jerk around me and just ignored me so I figured two could play that game & I just got really pissed at him. I was really hurt that he would ever treat me like that. So then, about 2 weeks later we were all hanging out together like usual but it felt really awkward between me and him. So he pulled me aside and we talked everything out & the only reason why he wasnt talking to me was bcuz the person I told that I liked him went back and told him that I absolutely hated him and never wanted to talk to him again..so yea..we hugged and made up all was well..and I also found out that he liked me too...and from what I know..he still does and so do I..but a few weeks ago he told everyone he was gonna ask me out that night but he never showed..i didn't want to start anything again so I just dropped it, but my friend didnt she told him that he didnt know how to treat girls and he wasnt boyfriend material. This bothered him..I would know bcuz I'm the one he came to and he also wanted to make sure he wasnt being a jerk to me...I know he cares about me and I want to be more than friends but hes too scared to make the move..and my theory is that guys should be the one to make the 1st move..what should i do? this has been going on for too long now.
sumtimes guys are too nervous to make the first move, even tho they need to.. in this case it doesnt seem like hes gunna, so you need to! good luck!
ok im kind of a shy person and recently i started making friends at another high school so im mainly with them. they are all so pretty...a lot of guys like them and they're so nice.i just want to fit in with them because when when im with them,i feel like the outsider. i want to b able to open up more...basically what i want to know is how to open up more!? plz plz help i really need it.
dont be afraid to step in and say how u feel.. if there talking about a certian thing then join in and let them know what u think about it. dont be a wall flower and not participate in w/e they do in the weekends... u could try to stand out by doing something that they think u would nvr do. good luck!
My boyfriend, Matt and I have been going out for 9 months. We get along great, and I love him more than anything in the world. The day that he asked me out though another boy, Kevin was going to ask me out (ironic, right?). About 4 months ago I started talking to Kevin after me and Matt had a big fight. I realized that it was so much easier talking to Kevin then Matt, so I started hanging out with Kevin a lot. This summer Matt and I had a huge argument and broke up for about two weeks. I called Kevin crying and ended up going over to his house (he lives in my naiborhood). We talked and ended up kissing, which led to making out. After the incident Matt and I got back together, I told him what happened, and Kevin and I stopped talking. About September I ended up calling Kevin again. I went over to his house and we talked, he gave me a hug and I went home. A week later he calls me and I sneak out to see him. We talk, watch a movie, and end up making out. Matt and I are still strong, but lately I have been spending a lot of time with Kevin. I have such strong feelings for Matt, but at the same time I can't stand the thought of not being close to Kevin. They are both wonderful guys, each having thier own particular trait that draws me to them. To add the problem is that Matt and Kevin know each other and HATE each other. I'm just really confused right now and would like a little advice. Thank you for anything. -Confused
well i think u need to tell matt about u n kevin.. you need to be loyal in a relationship, even if it means getting dumped.. but hopefully matt will understand idn. but w/e u do DONT keep all this inside bc it will come back n be 100 times worse l8er on
hi, im 13/m i have this gf we started going out like 2 months ago and its been really cool and i really like her alot but now i found out shes been smokin pot and drinken and shes only 13 though it was her first time it was kinda shocking cuz i expectede more from her i still like her but i sont kno if i wanna handle this i dont know what to do should i keep going out with her.
well i mean if shes gunna go to partys n drink, she might hook up with someone else without u knowing about it.. so if u dont want that then u need to talk to her about it. its really up to you to decide if u wanna stay with her or not
I lost my virginity in Feb after my 15 birthday. Since then my boyfriend and I have had sex atleast twice a week. He pulls out so we have never completely finished, and we have never had a pregnancy scare. Recently our sex has felt diffrent though. Like it has lost the unique, wild touch it once had. Could I be bored with sex? I get the same pleasure, but instead of feeling fulfilled afterwards I just feel-there. Can someone explain this to me? I'm so confused...
myabe hes not into it as much as the first couple of times.. i guess u could try to get himmore excited n maybe he'll show it more
15/f
I no some people might think I am gross for say this but I am afraid I am a lesbian... but I am not sure. I like this one guy (from the inside out) but then I see a girl and think she is hot. I sometimes even have dreams about me making out with a girl. If I am one, I am afraid my close friends know by the way I act and maybe even my mom. Please help me to find out if I am one, and I don’t think it is an identity crises. and maybe give me a website to do some research. Thanks
if ur more attracted to girls than guys then you are one
Hey I have natrually thick wavy hair a few inches past my shoulders..and I try and scrunch it all the time...but I always have a few problems. I have a lot of hair products ( Scrunch spray, curl revial spray, moose, scrunching gell, regular gell..a lot more ) and I don't know which one is the best to use. Also it's really poofy when I scrunch it..any tips? Thanks so muchhh!
after u take a shower, put it in a tight bun over night (so it will stay wet) and in the morning take it out n i will be damp, get it wet a lil more n use mouse then hairspray it really good afterwords so it wont b all blah n out there
what do guys look for in girls?? it seems like theres plenty of great guys who like me but then all the ones i like don't like me... what am i doing wrong?
idn.. it really depends on the guy i guess. most guys r looking for outgoingness and like loyalty, but some r in it just for the looks n the pleasure they get from u. i dont think u need to change yourself for one certian type of guy, just be yourself n the guy who likes u for u will find u!
Okay well i was walken downtown with my 2 friends today and this druggie/badass was down there and he called over this geeky guy called Josh and all of a sudden he starts beating him up! i was so scared i didnt know what to do.. he almost started to cry and before he left he said im callen aaron (the cop in our town) and my friends r like dont tell him we were here. im afraid hes gunna tell the cop and he'll ask me and somehow it'll get back to the badass and he'll beat the shit outta me .. im a gurl btw and he hits girls and stuff and he like knows how to set up bombs n shit cuz he put a bomb in our school one year.. if the cop does ask me shoudl i say i witnessed it?
yess hun.. just tell the cop to keep ur name confidental
Hey yall i got a really nasty cold any one got any ideas how to get ride of a sore throat or a runny nose help i meisrilble
thanks
take medicane like nyquil or dayquil
I've had my period for almost 10 months now and it still doesn't come on the same days or "schedule" or whatever. I don't know when I am going to get it, because it's such a bad frequency. I don't want to leak in school, and I'm always scared that I did leak, and I didn't notice, and like people are laughing behind my back. I just don't know what to do. I don't wear pads either so..please help?
no ones period is on schedule really, but usually u can start to feel it if its comming pretty soon, with cramps.. so if one morning or @ night u start having pains, then remember to put a tampon in ur pocket b4 u leave
whats blue balls
its when a guy doesnt cum and he needs to.. so his balls hurt. was that a serious question?
hey im about 5'7 i have medium brown hair but then kind of light.. im pretty tan and i have green/brown eyes.. i want to find sum hairstyles and make that will make me look hott!..plz dont tell me look in magazines for hair.. plz explain a hair style to me and makeup.. thank you
or jus IM me at ulshxo
get light blonde highights w layers!
Ok, I am a 19 year old female and i like this guy a lot. I've known him for almost a year now. I told his roommate that I kinda like him but his roommate said that i am not his type because i don't party as much as him, supposedly, and he does not want me to change because of him. He obviously doesn't know me that well, but i dont know if that is just an excuse or what. There was no other reason why 'Im not his type'. Now he won't talk to me when i try to initiate conversation. What should I do to try to get him to talk to me?
just flirt alot... u dont need to change for some1 but if u feel like its nessasary then try to see what kinda girls hes into then act like his type! good luckk
my hair is straight...and up to my waist...all my friends have wavy hair nd always scrunch their hair..its reallie cute..but when i try doing mine it doesnt turn out right...like i'll put my hair in braids over night, take it owt nd use my aussie sprunch spray, but it just doesnt stay in..any advice?!
u need sum really good mouse~ i like herbal essense(it works good) n then hair spray it really good w "xta hold" hair spray
my mother is very unhappy about her figure and she wishes to hide it. Are there any specific colors she can wear to make her look thinner? If So Please HELP!! Shes always so unhappy. Thanks!!
black is always slimming!