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Hey my name is Rachael and I'm sixteen years old. Like anyone else on this site, I love to help people. Ask me anything and I'll give the best possible answer I can!
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Im in love with my best friend Danny. But the thing is...hes gay and he obviously doesnt like me, but hes so sweet and I really love him with all my heart. And i asked my friend Dylana to talk about it with him. he said he is uncomfortable with the fact that hes gay, and im his best BEST friend and we have known each other for years.But i cant help it. he knows i like him and hes avoiding me latly. Hes home schooled but i will call him and he says hes too busy to talk, but when dylana talks to him, he is never busy. please help me. I want danny to talk to me again!
I think it scares him that you like him.. and that may be the reason why he's avoiding you. He probably doesn't want to hurt you because the feelings aren't mutual. What is it that you like in him? I think you need to come to realization that it would never work. It's not like he chose to be gay, he can't just turn his feelings off. I know it's probably hard for you, too. But, you know that if he ever decided to do anything with you, he's still going to be gay. Talk this over with him and he can tell you how it makes him feel. Maybe then this situation will be less tense and you can get past these feelings.
:] I hope I helped..
hey my boyfriend and i have been together for six months we'll its a few dats short lol I wanted to get him something little and cute to kinda show that i care and i didnt forget but i def dont want to do anything big.
any ideas of something cute and little to do but still shows i care alot about him?
thanks soooo much=]
make him something. :] the cutest little gifts are homemade. Or you could get him a cute teddy bear with candy.. do something personal, though. you could also take him out to dinner..
just a few suggestions.. hope I helped :]
If I do 200 or more crunches a day, how long will i take to see results?!
thanks :)
a couple weeks I'd imagine.
good luck :]
Hey,
So, being the random person I am, I sat here thinking about why everyone always thinks they're fat, all of a sudden.
Like, not all of a sudden, but lately-everyone's complaining about their weight.
Even I am not happy with my weight, at about ninety-five pounds (14).
But the thing that I don't understand is how we've all convinced ourselves that we look horrible? I mean-and I am even guilty of it-how can everyone look into the mirror and see something so much more distorted than what's really there?
We should be so much more confident!
Does anyone have any stories or personal experiences relating to this? Any advice for those going through this?
I, myself, went through a stage where I didn't like my body.. but then I started loving myself for who I am. I love my curves, and other girls should love there's too. Being super skinny isn't attractive for anybody. It looks unhealthy. just boost your confidence and learn to love yourself for who you are.. once you do, everyone else will realize they should too. :]
ok. so yesterday we were at our school picnic and i was walking around with a group of all girls then we decided to meet up with a group of guys to walk around with. and my ex was in the group and i knew that he still liked me and he was the only on i was interested in in that group. so everytime we had to pick who we wanted to ride with i picked him. and then he asked me out and i couldnt just say no to him. i completely led him on and didnt mean it. now idk what to do because i dont like him but idk if i want to break up with him or not..
I had this same problem. If you really don't want to date him, then tell him that. Be kind about it, and apologize for leading him on. Tell him your reasoning as to why you always chose to hang around him that day and let him know that you don't feel about him that way anymore. I'm sure he'll understand. :]
ok well i am getting a big dog but i dont want it to be bad at humping things. so what dogs are really bad at humping things, and whats the worst dog at humping things. plzz help, im gettin one tomorrow.
thx in advance
no certain dog humps things more than another. Get your dog neutered or spaid, then humping things shouldn't be a problem. :]
Quick Question.
I'm not use to the whole "relationship" thing. I'm a better friend than a girlfriend.
So my question is, how can i be a better girlfriend? What can i do, and how do i act? Thankss
to be a good girlfriend, all you have to do is be a good friend. Appreciate your boyfriend, compliment him, and just be nice. The only difference in being a girlfriend rather than "just a friend" is the romantic ties. Just never ever cheat on your boyfriend.
hope that helps :]
My little brother suffers from an extreme case of obsessive compulsive dissorder and a short fuse. How do I deal with his upsetting behavior?
Patience. It's hard to live with someone with ocd.. especially one with a hot temper. just be patient with him. It's not like he asked for ocd, it frustrates him as much as it does you.
good luck :]
this is a wierd question but does anyone know how to get ur thing down there stretched a bit? because i get fingered and it hurts a little bit and i want it loosened. Someone Please Help me
it's going to loosen up the more you have sex.
I think i might have ocd...cuz like weird things happen to me like i was sitting in my room and i coodnt concentrate on anything but washing my hands...i started shaking and i got dizzy until i washed them and this morning i was getting my deoderant out and something in my cupboard fell over and i closed the door.....i walked away but all i cood think of was fixing it and it started to drive me crazy and i had 2 fix it and like it happens all the time
another thing is that when im setting my alarm at night i check 500 times to make sure its right...and when i put on my leggings or socks i have to make sure that they're even on the bottom or it will drive me crazy and im also obssessed with making sure that the doors are locked nad everytime i go into the bathroom i check behind the shower curtain to make sure nobodys there....plzpzplzplz answer thx:D
It does sort of sound like obsessive complusive disorder. go to the doctor and tell them your symptoms and they could either put you on medication like prozac, or get a therapist to help you over come it.
this sounds kinda wierd, but im a 16/f and all i can think about is penis's.. uh.. help?? or do i need any help? lol
you don't need help.. you're normal. It's just your hormones. A lot of other girls are the same way haha :]
i was wondering if girls like it when you shave your balls or not cause i am debateing if i want to shave them
All depends on the girl. Most girls don't like when guys are hairy, so I'd clean up. Makes going down a lot less disgusting for the girl.
I like this kid Tom a lot. We had a class together this year and I sat next to him for a while. He's really hott and the only time I got up the courage to talk to him was when he would ask me a question. I wanted to tell him I liked him but I was too scared to do it in person, and now I found his myspace but I'm still too scared to ask him because I have to sit behind him during our final in a few days. My friend said I should just randomly message him and be like "I like you." But I'm too scared and I think it would sound weird cause I don't really talk to him. My other friend said doing that would make me seem desperate. I don't know what to do. SOMEONE HELP!!!!
sorry its so long.
thanks in advance
get to know Tom a little better. Sure, you know him a little through school cause he sat by you.. but talk to him alittle more. Get to know his likes and dislikes, then you should ask if he wants to hang out sometime. The best thing to do is to build a good friendship first. This way, he'll get to know you as well. Becoming friends first makes the odds of him liking you back greater. He'll respect you more rather than thinking youre just some girl from class who likes him.
Good luck :]
ok well i asked her about it like one of this people toldme to to do but she wants to wait and i dont want to wait! and i have begged and stuff but she wants to wait what should i do?
andi have so much presure like these guys that arae going all the way with there gf and i just want third base!
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If you love your girl, you need to wait. Don't ever pressure a girl to do anything she doesn't want to do. If you're not willing to wait, then you shouldn't be with her. It's really mean if you leave a girl because your needs get in the way with her morals, but it's even worse if you pressure her when she's not ready. You should want to be with a girl because you love her, not because you feel like you have to because your friends are..
Ok, a couple of days ago I'm IMing my friend and I tell her to hang on I had to use the restroom. Well, when I come back and start talking to her again, she asks what I was doing. I said, "just going to the bathroom." She said, "yea, i know but what were you doing?" I got mad because I knew what she meant by that. I got really mad when she asked, "Did you start your period?" She's always asking me, what're you doing this weekend? What did you do last night? Who do you like? And WAY too many personal questions not even my parents know. I told her to stop asking, but she said, "No, I have every right to know what's happening to you." I need advice on what do do. She won't leave me alone about personal stuff! And why would I tell her if she's going to tell everybody else. She always promises not to tell and goes ahead and says it anyway. HELP!
she doesn't sound like a very good friend to me..
she seems kinda pushy and needy. Let her know that you don't like when she asks you questions like that.. if she keeps doing it, stop being friends.
Okay, If you are over the age of 14 then you could really give me some advice. My life sucks! So lets start from the beginning. Shall we? Okay I'm 14/f and I wont be 15 until april 2nd. Well my life is horrible because I dont do anything or go anywhere plus I dont have friends or a boyfriend like everyone else seems to have. I was with this boy that broke my heart. We didnt go out or anything. But I almost lost my virginity wiht him because he played me and I'm young and stupid. He told me that we were meant to be then he ignores me and doesnt want to talk to me so I hate that I did anything will him and I can't get that off my mind and I'm ssooooooooooo depressed about everything! I just cant handle that he played me like a fiddle then left me there. I'm trying to deal with it. I see that everyone else is happy with somebody else! I really want to die. I'm sooo glad i didnt have sex with him because gosh that would be bad. I mean we didnt take our clothes off. So I guess i learned my lesson to make sure I really LOVE someone before I get in their bed and let them stick their hands down my pants. And whats even worse is that my mom is being a bitch about lettin me go anywhere because she knows what I did with that dude. So I lost my moms trust and guys still wont date me. That dude even called me a whore for doing all that I did wiht him sooo fast. So he lost respect for me and I honestly think I will kill myself. My life was bad and now I've made it worse!
Does anyone have advice as to what I can do?
I'm really sorry about what happened with that boy. It hurts really bad to find out that you've been used. You should never ever think about killing youself. If you're seriously thinking about it.. you need to get professional help. Tell someone you know and trust that can seak you help. What happened to you is all apart of life. You learned a huge lesson through this and that's only going to make you stronger. You're only 14, you've got a longg way to go and you're going to encounter a lot more boys.. you'll eventually find a good one.
ok this is kind of gross but right next to the hair down there, like at the top of the hair, then to the right between my leg and vafina sometimes it gets really itchy in that one section ON MY SKIN. And there are red bumps and they itch they are small and they are white at the top. I havent ever had sex so i dont think its an STD. What should i do? I dont get it every day, more like every other day maybe. Its bugging me and scarring me, but I've also been really stresssed out lately so could it be from that too?
I don't think it could be cause you're stressed, but maybe.. I would just go to the doctor and get it checked out to be sure it's not a bacterial infection.
okay thur is this boy tht i really lik he is my neightboor and i wanted to know some good ways to ask sum1 out tht arent tht.....lik scary and make you really nervous to ask i wanna ask em out but i dont wanna jus flat out go up to em and say "will you go out wit me?" he's told me he luved me b4 and comes up and hugs me but i still dont wanna b...flat out thanx alot and any advice appreciated
The best way to ask someone out is in person. Yea, you may be a little nervous about it.. but if you really like him, it'll all be worth it. If he doesn't say yes back, it'll probably hurt a little, but you really shouldn't let that get you down. He'll respect your confidence if you ask him out in person and he'll probably be really flattered.
Everday or mostly everyday I stretch, then run for about 15-20 minutes. Mostly at the end of the day around 8:00 pm. I try to do 50 crunches too afterwards,and pushups, but my body just feels so tired and I can't get myself to do them. So I was wondering if I would still get the same results if I did my crunches and pushups in the morning, then ran at my regular time. Or will I get in shape faster if I do them all one after the other? I am begging you, please someone answer this question who knows about fitness, not just someone who is guessing. Thanks! by the way i'm 13
It doesn't really matter if you break up your work out or if you do it all in one time.. Actaully, it's probably better if you do half your routine in the morning and half at night. If you're doing your crunches at night or in the morning, you should still stretch and maybe get some sort of cardio in to get your blood flowing. But breaking the routine up will be better for you because it's less strenuous on your body.
I really want to ask a guy out. I know a few guys, but the problem is... Nobody will be caught dead dating me. If a guy is dating me, he'll be taunted until he brakes up with me. I'm not a geek or anything. I wear glasses, but they actually make me look better than when I don't have glasses on. I don't act like a geek either. I act ok. a little weird, but ok. I've only dated three guys. 1, hurt me physically. 2, was really annoying and was checking other girls out. 3, dated me for three days and broke up with me because he never got to see me.(He goes to another skool across the state)I don't think I'm ugly, or stupid. I'm confident in stuff like that, but i don't know why guys won't date me. My one friend says it's because I don't like/wear make up and dresses/skirts and well... girly stuff. I don't like that stuff because I'm a tomboy, but i still like dating. I mean sure my first experience was bad, but still. I need advice on how to date and who to date.
You just need to wait a find a boy who will like you for you. You shouldn't have to change who you are to attract male attention. You're probably a pretty, confident girl now.. you just need to find a boy who will see that in you and love you for it. The boys you've dated in the past seem like pretty bad expeirences, but that doesn't mean all boys are like it. Sure, you could change how you look and act to the "norm" of what boys may like, but then you're not really being yourself. You should love yourself for who you are whether boys like it or not. A boy will eventually come around for you.. but just don't rush into it and find a bad one who is going to treat you poorly. Good luck :]