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im 13 and my boyfriend ( obviously im a G I R L) has been acting really weird with me. i recently wenT to puerto rico for a month to get prepared to compete in a pageant. we talked and we were doing well apart but then he wentto north carolina and has been talking alot and i mean alot to my best friend. i didnt use to mind on account of theyre best friends too.but they look more like a couple than me and him. i feel like there is something he isnt telling me. hes not the type of guy tht would cheat or play me and he wuouldve dumped me if he didnt really like me b/c thats how he is. i know him ....weve been together for 10 months.but something tells me there is something going on. i dont know what to do anymore. im scared to talk to him b/c sometimes he makes me feel like trash and then talks to my best friend again about it. is she really my best friend and how do i know if hes cheating or not? PlEASE HELP!!!! i RaTe 5s!!!!!!!! (link)
Ok first of all, if he makes you feel like a Trash then it is not good..

these are signs of cheating...

1. more time hanging out with his "buddies"
2. spends more time on phone or internet but it isnt you his talking with.
3. changes how he dress or his hair style
4. gets all interested in band or singer that he didnt use to listen
5. accuses YOU of cheating out of guilt
6. try to pick a fight so he can use that as a reason to break up
7. asks weird question
8. try to avoid you ... but very subtly..

and this one is most important one of all

if you think that his cheating, he probably is... i mean a girl cant get a idea like that out of thin air. i mean no air is that thin

and besides, trust your instints...unless you are one of those girls who are insecure which i dont think you are ...

so looks at these cheating signs and see if any of them matches...

hope i helped and hope everything works out

and PS

if he did cheat, then his a lying phoney and its all good for ya because then now you can get a guy who really loves you SO YOU GO AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP GIRL!

ciao~


hey this guy i know said that he loved me, but i never saw him before and know nothing about him..and after he told me he loved me i asked him if he knew anything about me and he said my name and then he said isent that enough..he was acting really retarded..and now every time i talk to him hes like hey babe, what's up sexys...should i go out with him?! (link)
Ok there are lots of jackasses and retards who does that. Trust me its no good. i've met one of those well lots of those people.

i know that because this one guy was like heya babe wanna marry me and all that crap load

and this other guy was like i love you... and i was like you dont even kno me and for all you know i can be ugly as heck and he was all i dont care....

my point is...nothing good will come out of those stuff..

and hope i helped and got you in time

also they can be a internet stalker...so dont ever give them your phone number or address or pretty much anything that he can find or/and track you down..

ive seen people getting killed because of internet stalkers so becareful~


I can be pretty shy. When it comes to guys and sometimes even making new friends. I am going into a new school now, and I just want to be able to have as many friends as possible. And I don't want to be standing there seeing all of these girls talking to guys just because they look confident and walk a certain way. Do you think that makes a big difference? Being confident in yourself and showing it? Or am i just hopeless? Let me know. How can I fix this?

thanks (link)
Ok let me be truthful. its not going to be walk in the park and it might be little hard.

well you can join a school club. and also bring a magazine around with you. but dont get in trouble like reading in class room but bring it to lunch and read it, i am pretty sure it will open up a conversation with new person.

also, you can ask them for paper or stuff. and make sure to say thanks and lots of smiles

and if you are meant to be best of friends, it wil happen when you dont even notice it.

and when you think back, you will wonder how you guys became friend. since it happened quite a while ago and you guys will click right away.

also, before the bell, talk to people around you asking what class do they have next. and if they have same class with you, ask them if they can show you, since you are new and all.

and if that dont help, email me anytime..

=)


hey you said your doing a project that involves punk clothing and to drop you an email so i can get some good outfit ideas:) id like some please. (link)
yea and thanks for participating...

well first of all there are few types within the punk types

1. goth punk. who dresses in all black, but not like gothic.(not like weird long capes and all that)

2. Rebel Punk. who dresses in thrift store clothes, or that are weirdly rare clothes.

3. skater punk. 2 word to describe. Avril lavigne.



so let me know which punk you'd like to dress as then i will tell you the which store to shop from and stuff...

my email is pinkfairy1773@aol.com

and thx again~


i have my best friend over (we're both females) and we're so bored. What are some things we can do? We are trying to start babysitting so things related to that would be good. Just send us anything you like to do. Oh and make sure it's a lot of fun :) (link)
ok well you can do my favortie thingits so fun.

well it was fun for me but anyways...

pick out like craziest unmatching clothes and pick out for EACHOTHER and do crazy makeups...

ya know...like really really electric blue eyeshadows and red red lipstick =)

and dare eachother to go out side...(well you dont have to do that part)

and you can also call up the boys... it doesnt have to be your crushes...(but thats fun) and if you those guys are your buddies, then prank call them.

and also

you can crank up the music and start dancin like crazy and sing like crazy ...=) no one's watching =)

and if you still need more idea. then email me

pinkfairy1773@aol.com

and hope i helped =)


wut is a 3 sum? (link)
uh... it can be mean in lots of way.

if they are not horny or perverts... it can be mean... 3 friends, people. 3 best friends

but if they are 2 guy and a girl. then it means they are having sex . 2 guy and girl

or vice versa


What is the best age for a girl and a guy to get married?

And what should be a good age difference? (link)
well it can be high as 13 age of difference... but it cant be like minor to adult. and

THERE IS NO PERFECT AGE...

it can be early but i wouldnt recommend it(such as 21 yrs old or 20) because they gotta finish the colleage so they can get a good job but if they settle down ,then they have another thing coming.

and most people marry late now because they want to explor the world, well town.

i mean it can be old as 50 but it all depend on how you can commit to those things

i mean if you 2 are really in love then go ahead. if you are legally adult, no one's stopping ya. well they can but you dont have to listen to them . but you gotta think of the future before making a plan.

so hope i helped and

oh yea about age difference. if you are young and marrying a old really old person, it would look like you are after their money.



Me & my guy friend had a fight like 2 weeks ago, then last week I called him to apologize (it was nothing big i swear...just stupid) and i don't think he was happy to hear from me. He went to out of town for a few days and just got back today and now he's leaving again tomorrow for a week and a 1/2. I havent talked to him since I've called him. He told my friend that he's not mad but he just doesn't wanna talk to me bc he's afraid then I might start to like him. I sent him a text asking him if he was still mad and he never texted me back. I need to know if I should try calling him again TONIGHT before he leaves again bc I really miss him sooo much and I don't want our friendship to be over because of this bc we've been friends for 6 yrs & have been thru soooo frikin much together! HELP PLEASE!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO???? And if I call him, what should I say to get him to listen to me? Thanks! (link)
NO dont, then you will looks really desperate. and its clear that the guy dont like you. i am sorry but its true and well WHO NEEDS HIM ! you apologized and if he likes you i mean really likes you, then he should've accepted your apology. and if you dont have him to hang around ,which is good, then you will find a new person who likes you and dont have tiny heart that cant even accept a sorry.

and if you still want to be friend, leave him a message saying that you dont want to end the friendship but if his going to keep avoiding you and stuff, then there is no choice.

because it is true that there is NO choice.

i hope everything works out for you and hope i helped =)


i lost a big part of my life...the person i loved more than life itself...he told me i was annoying and a bad girlfriend...it tore me up...i want him back and now hes talkin to my friend...i just want to die...how do i get over him? someone help me please before i do somethin stupid (link)
OK GET A HOLD OF YOUR SELF GIRL!

think in other perspective.

do you REALLY want him or do you feel you need him because you dont have other guy yet?

if he treats you like that you DONT need him.
its called a SELF RESPECT!

Trust me, if you have fun in your life, you dont need a guy like that.

so think about it. and its good that you guys are not going out, because if you are free, then other guy who CARES FOR YOU AND HAVE RESPECT! will like you and you will be happier then ever!

so please think about in that way.

and if you want to make him jealous? but PLEASE dont try to get him back.

then have fun around him. i mean go out with new guys BUT ! dont use a guy to make him jealous on purpose. well i am not making much sense but

what i mean is... you dont have to be obvious about that you are having fun. just dont mind that your ex is around. if you are having fun, he will notice it and feel like a biggest loser

but dont go out with a guy you dont like and stuff. that is major turn off and that rumor will go around the guys...

so i hope i helpd you and hope things works out =)


I'm 13/f && I'll admit it, I have a big nose. I know I'm too young for plastic surgery but I'm really self consious of it so is there any way I could minimize it? Like is there a way I could do my makeup to make it less noticeable?

xO* GiiRL iiN NEED (link)
well there is no make up that can do like that but there is a way , ya know , illusion .

try to create more intensity around the eyes and lips, so people will notice the pretty lip and pretty eyes.

and trust me, you are not the only one who feels self consious about them selves.

because i have lot of those stuff, and if you do get nose plastic surgery, there is high chance that your nose will get infected.

Nose has highest infection rate, when you do get surgery, so consider that over.

and i hope i helped =)


okay me and this guy have been together for a while but i found out that he was still talking with his ex g/f of 10 months bc we go to diff. schools and they hang out and messed around and stuff so i got really mad and stopped talking to him then a week later he called me and was like i miss you im stupid i shouldnt of done that me and her are over i like you alot blah blah blah so i took him back then it happened again and i still like him bc its hard to just stop bc i love being with him and around him so should i give him another chance? or enough is enough? but i really wanna be with him.. (link)
NO you cant do that to your self... its called a SELF RESPECT , COMEONE girl you know that his playin ya. and if you keep forgiving him like that he will do it again. and i am really sorry to tell you. but he wont be the only guy you will feel loved around. (come on think about it, you were going to break up with him someday, because i know that you wont be married to that guy who does that)

so go out there and find a new guy who is head over the hills for ya, well not exactly but who repects you and loves you

and hope i helped =)


Dose anyone no any cute/hott hair styles for summer? i have an oval face..if that means anything. Thanks!
- (link)
yes it does mean something ...your face shape.

and its good that you are oval because oval face can just pull off any style..

if you are going for short...

try old Mandy Moore style... ya kno short length with wavy hair using hair crimper

medium style.

cut it layered

long.

do one of those hilary hair style (also known as Mary kate and Ashley style)

ya know hair curly with using curling iron

hope i helped

and if you are one of those rebel or not afraid to do anything

then go to Spencers gifts and buy one of those hair dye that comes out in one wash and get hair color that is wild like SHOCKING PINK OR BLUE

hope i helped and if you need more advice on fashion email me anytime because i am doing a big fashion projects
=)


-I'm extremely tiny - 5'1, and thin - about 120
-and my breasts are size 34E / 34DD
-theyre so big it looks weird
-there is NO bathing suit top out there that will cover me
-at cheerleading i have to wear a regular bra and TWO sports bras on top just to support them
- i cant wear button up shirts cause they pop the buttons
-if i dont wear a bra, they hang down and it hurts
-i exercise, RUN, i eat healthy, plus im a cheerleader, and my boobs are STILL big
-everyone in my family has huge boobs, but still...
-i dont have back pain or anything, theyre just huge and embarrassing

is there any way i can exercise to make my boobs smaller? No breast reduction. I'm only 15. please help, i HATE it. (link)
sorry to tell you but there is no way you can make it shrink. well you can try to be TALLER so it would look poportioned to your body.

to get tall, you have to eat healty and sleep a lot well not a lot but around 10:00 PM to 6:00 AM at least. and exercise. but you are already doing that

but to help, buy those vitamins, ya know but especially CALCIUM they help you grow... in heights so if you grow taller, i think it would "fit" more to your body portion..

hope i helped =)

and lots of girl wish they were you...

such as my self, small boobed girl... it just seem big,cuz i am "voluptoulous" (well i am kidna plumpy)

well not big but not small.

srry if i am jabbering like this well hope i helped =)


Does anyone know some good hair products that make your hair wavy? I've tried this one product but I forgot what it was called.. it sort of helped but made my hair all dry & straw feeling. Thanks! (link)
There is NOOOO hair product, such as curling spray or shampoo that will even make your hair wavy. Trust me, i've tried every one of the product there is and NOTHING worked. so you gotta use mouss or gel on your hair and scrunch up your hair or use hair crimper or curling iron

srry to tell ya but its the only way...

unless you go to salon

hope i helped =)


well, i'm really big on acting, and I really want to audition for commercials, etc. The problem is, I dont know where to find auditions for such things. Does anybody know a site or number I could go to or call..that isnt a scam! thanks in advance! (link)
well if you cant find the number or anything, try to get casted by the casters...

well i wasnt really trying to get casted but i was in this academy, and they were shooting commercial so i got in like that, so try to get some people to notice you, like doing the play, and if you need help doing that,and trying to get noticed, ask your drama teacher or just any teacher you feel most comfortable around with so try that and hope i helped =)


my best friend marissa moved to germany.i really miss her.i've known her since pre-k.we did everything together.she was like a sis to me.but what really sucks...is that before she moved we had a fight.well actually she was mad at me for somethin real stupid.i can't call her b/c i don't have her#.and i don't know if she still has her comp.but i want to apologize.please help me.what should i do? (link)
well she should call you if she still wants to be your friend, and if you must, just send her an email because my friend moved away, and she didnt have my phone number or anything and i had her email and when i wrote her (she moved to dif country) and when she finally got her comp hooked up she wrote me back

so write her an email and see if she comes around or she may even call you first

and hope i helped


im having major problems.. cuz like i cant really tell what i feel for this one gu. ive known him for a long time and ive always kinda had a thing for him but were realllllly great friends so i cant tell whether i just love him as a brother or like more than that.. usually this wouldnt be a problem only then yesterday he asked me out and i said yea. so now i feel like, what the heck what if i dont really like him? and then theres another problem. i also like this other guy, ryan but he is friends w. my ex so then that would never happen.. so i just need to know. what should i do about the guy that asked me out ((nolan)) and what should i do about ryan? i rate high if u give good advice :)





----Jen (link)
ok Nolan first, if you really want to know how you feel about him then see if you get jealous if he flirts with other girls, and well just give it a try first,if you dont like it then tell him that you just think its best if you guys stay as friend.

and for Ryan, if you really like Nolan then forget him but if it turns out that you like him as brother then you should try to get to know Ryan little better

and hope i helped =)


okay so i have 3 EXTREMELY close friends that are moving to a different country this summer and it is rele hard because it's all at the same time and everything and i love them all to death. well i have been rele sad b/c of it lately, and b/c i never let anyone see me cry, i cry myself to sleep, EVERY NIGHT. i am rele sad all the time and even my family and friends noticed it a bit. i don't know what to do, I AM SOOOOOOOO Sad!!
-what should i do b/c i probably won't ever get to see them again? -help please! (link)
ok if you are sad then you shouldnt be afraid to express your feelings. i mean they are sad too so you should share that with them too and comfort each other. and i know what you mean. because my best friend had to move to different country. but since we were such a good friends, we had this party just for us, and hung out and had a blast and we kept in touch for 3 years now and we are still very good friend. i mean i've made a new best friend but she is now going away too . but i still have my old best friend. so its not so bad because you can still call each other and email each other...

hope i helped =)


Well my friend invited me to her party shes having, and I told her I could go but now I really don't want too. There like renting the Excercist and I REALLY REALLY do not wanna watch that. I told my parents and they said just tell her you don't want to watch it...well my friend Carina would make me watch it and everyone else wants to and her dad would make me watch it too. And I like hate the one girl she invited and the other one is okay and the girl who I'm actually friends with can't go. And if I tell her honestly why I don't want to go she'll get mad at me(yes stupid i know). I don't know what I should tell her sooo could someone please tell me what to say? (link)
ok i been doing lot of that so i know how to get out of lots of stuff, although you shouldnt have to lie about it when you dont want to watch it but i totally get your drift... because i hate horror movies and sometimes i dont want to look like a scardy cat so i just do watch it and get nightmares later...

anyways here is what you can tell but tell her on the phone so she wont look at your expression

1. Just got phone call from your aunt and have to babysit your little cousins

2. Act Sick but this will not work unless you really do look sick and when she observes it...so if you are a good actress then you should lie in bed with looking sick, you know sweat dripping(water) forehead on fire(use blow dryer) and call her to come over so you can get a ride to the party. then when she comes she will be surprised and you dont have to go. but this might not work

3. Say You are grounded. and if you tell your mom about it, then she might help you with it too. since she's been through this kind of stuff so call your friend and say that you gotta go because your mom's yelling at you. and tell her to call you back in 5 minutes. then when she calls back, let your mom answer it (or if you are really graet voice disguiser but i HIGHLY recommend that you let your mom do it) and let your mom say( write it down like a script) "hello Carina. Look honey i know this party means lot to you but My Daughter wont be attending it since she will be grounded for 4 days"

then she will definetly believe her so i highly recommend that you do number 4

hope i helepd and if you still need more let me know because i ve done those so much i got lots of trick up in my sleeves =)


there are these girls in my school and they bully me to often.It is interfering with my grades.help! (link)
Ok well you gotta do something to prevent that! i mean those girls have no right to do that to you!

ok but before i help you with anything, you gotta be more specific, how are they bullying you? i mean there are lots of different way and each of them have different way to deal with them...

well these are what you can do.

1. report them to the administrator. better than getting grades down and etc.

2. if they threatens to kick your butt then tell them this in very confinently so they know that you really mean it

"Ok. Go ahead. Punch me and knock me out. i dont care, because if you do that, i will press charges on you for using violence and you will get sued and i will be living large when your family have to pay for all those damages. and i will be rich with all the money im getting when i press charges on you!"

but dont say that when you are alone. say that when there are witnesses...

and email me so i can help you more ok? because i dont want innocent people getting hurt!

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