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Q: There are these 4 girls in one of my classes and we're friends and stuff for the whole year so far. since the first day. I was friends with 1 of them since 7th grade though actually and two others I "kinda" knew. but they go and hang out after school but don't invite me. I mean they've been friends before I knew them, and like 3 of them went to band camp together so they always talk about memories from there and stuff. They're just really good people and are fun to hang out with but I dont get why I'm not like invited to go out and stuff with them. Like they talk about going to see a movie, and like Im there and its like they're talking about going to see it.. even though I said I wanted to see it too they don't ask me to go with them or something. Or like one of them repainted her room and like some of them talk about how it looked like before and stuff. or talk about hanging out later.
Idk.. I mean maybe Im not close and stuff with them enough but we're pretty good friends - we always hang out together in that class as a group of 5. except when we have to make groups and my teacher always makes groups of 4 so I usually exclude myself unless one of us is absent. Or should I start something? propose us to hangout somewhere? idk if it would be weird since i've never hung out with them outside of school.. should I ask them during class when we're not really doing anything, or like on facebook? i dont want them to be like "im not that close with her.." or something. or think its weird that im trying to join their group. ugh. im a freshman in high school btw. i just dont want to waste this good opportunity to have some close friends like that since im not really in a group.. im always just floating around friends from different cliques.. and only a few people im like REALLY close with that i'd go visit them at their homes or something and I'd really like to change that.
15/f
thanks soo much if you can help.
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I say I know how you feel! and I think it really silly have group of freinds. I think A freind should be everybody friends. it sound like they only look for comman ground and plus people are like that. you still be nice to them but maybe adoivd them for awhile and see what they do and maybe if you just tell one freind you know more and see if she a true friend by telling her your little left out. it ok to amitd it. if she make big deal about you saying that then that not a real friend. then you find people like to get know you and wanna be your freind and will invited you and include you in. unless maybe next time they say hey let go to the movies they don't invited you and you can say hey i can't wait to go to the movies. but however remeber I know what it like and i am not in a group of friends becouse it seem wrong leave people out just becouse they don't have what they have. like i have friends bug me about not going collage and driving. they sound like they only be my freind if i go collage and drive. and there reason i don't but you know what. there alot fishes in the sea.. don't worry about them.. find your self another place that right for you. i know you seem to like them. try talking about what they like what you like to maybe that will help.
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Q: Ok so my friend (A) has been my best friend since like 3rd grade but this year she made friends with this new girl (B) A doesn't know it but B has been talking about me behind my back and has been pulling me away from A. A thinks she is the best person ever and they hang out everyday. That used to be me. I miss hanging out with A and we used to have sleepovers and stay up late. We have wayy too many good memories to blow it now but today when we planned for her to come over I asked her about it and she said she was going to B's house. She was supposed to come away with me this weekend to a cheer competition and she said no because she was going to hang out with B. I was crying earlier. A lot of my friends have been doing that and I thought she was different. She is always the one who is nicest and cares the most. Can you help me with what I should do to try to get her to come over and stuff more often and how I should handle it??? Any advice is greatly appreciated.
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I know how you feel! you know something you don't drama in your life. maybe try sometimes see if you ask A if she like invited b over sometimes try be b friend.. if that not work out. then if a blowing you off then she not real friend. but you souldn't let it upset you. there alot of poeople out there in your class or school love be your freind. don't relay on her to be there and if she not talking to you or anyhow she probly want to do new stuff with other freinds. maybe you can do same thing. if you meet a freind and see if a come back to you. if not then jsut move on and take care of your self and you better off having freinds that cares and freinds that would indunce u do there freinds. and stand up for you. how ever maybe you try make plans for the weekand and if she blow you off min becouse b then just ingore her for few days. becouse real freinds and true freinds come back.
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Q: I want my nails to grow, really fast.
I took a fake toenail off my toe lastnight, and today, my nail was so thin, it tore on off, its in the quick and its really sore!
How can I make my nail grow fast!
Thanks in advance!
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sometimes typing can chip your nails and i know you shouild wash your hands alot but they say sometime u do dishes maybe u do dishes wear gloves.. you get like clear nail phoish growth.. or get like vitemines they have for nail and hair. eat alot protaine penutbutter and eggs
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Q: heyyy i didnt no were too put this question so i just put it anywere
ive got short hair lol and im i realy need my hair too grow in like 2months is there any thing i can use too soo my hair grows?
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eat alot penutbutter and eggs. they have alot of protaine in it.. sometimes eatting alot penutbutter help. they have vitenims for nails and hair.. help keep heathy and strong. good luck and maybe try not put in tight hairband that will slipt the ends. keep it clean and comb alot. you get some protaine shampoo or vitaimn shampoo
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Q: so i really love ice cream and cookies! they're my favorite sweet foods, but for the past couple months ive been eating very healthy. only oragnic foods. and im working out trying to stay fit and possibly lose a couple pounds. anyways sometimes i feel like i just need some ice cream! is it okay to have ice cream a couple times a week? or will this make me fat?
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you look at the INdredents. sorry bad spelling. High Frotuse Corn strup hase alot of Surgarss tons. u can see how much u eat during the day and see how much surgar your gaining
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Q: so i've been wanting my boobs to grow really badly.
they are a's while my older sister has d's.
she's only two years older than me, i am almost 14, and she is almost 16.
i heard that when your boobs get sore that means they are growing.
normally my boobs aren't sore at all.
but then a couple days ago they got really sore.
but then i got my period yesterday, so that might be why?
i don't know.
i'd just really like to know.
and is there any way you can get your boobs to grow bigger?
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you know there good guys are there don't care for big boobs and you know something sometimes people have hard time wearing cloths. anyway when they are sore that mean your perod is starting.. one of sign. and you still have alot growing todo. we don't stop growing till we maybe 25 people say these days. remeber we shouldn't wish things that we want we wront get them. we should not worry about it. anyway and there no way make them stronger but make muscel stronger left weights everyday..
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Q: holidays
price limit - 60
i know my boyfriend got me something that im going to love
so yeah i had a creative idea and it got messed up
what can i do thats creative
and is worth some money cause i know he spent on me and i want spend on him
i need some creative ideas quickk cause its almost time for us to trade gifts. were both in high school. thanks
ps. something a little more intricate than a mixed cd :] thanks
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can he drive yet? you make him like KeyChain I made some friendship brackets you do some colors of if he like sport, do sport team color or school color.. or his fave colors. or you find like a charm heart put picture of you guys as a keyring. or if he hase walet you find something he can stick on his walet. or i dn't know u use L word. yet but if you do you make i love you out of clay hand sign it be cute. you find handshape cookie cutter somewhere..
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Q: Okay...Im not creative...at all. So I was wondering if you guys could help me come up with some gift ideas for my friends. Due to the recession, something I could make, personal, would be best. I really appreaciate the help. Thank you!
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can you and ur freinds drive? you make somethong out of a key chains or maybe make friendship bracklets? i just learn how to braid not to hard. i went youtube and out books for driction. or if you make earings like buy jewery wire and some charms. hope i help or you can find like charms and make necklaces or bracklets or yet key chains
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Q: so i'm 16 turning 17 in like 2 weeks and i've come to the conclusion that i need a boyfriend. or just some kind of interaction with a guy in my life considering i've never had a real boyfriend or my first kiss. plus my junior prom is slowly but quickly approaching and i am completely unaware of what i am going to do. SO. since i have found that about 75% or more of the guys in my school are total idiots, i am willing to broaden my search to find a decent guy. however, i am not sure where to find this guy. where do cute, funny, smart, guys like to hang out? and how can i approach them? thank you! ;)
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it will happend to you.. it take time. i am 23 years old i not have a bf yet. i Have a aunt and she is 27 and she got her bf and frist bf. I mean sometimes it take time. just don't look. beocuse in some ponit you meet his eyes and you will know. that what iam doing. what ever it to take it will happend. god hase good place and a good time for it to happend.. becareful what you wish for what kind a guy. if you wish for a nice guy then u end up with mean guy think about it. jsut let it come your way. like saying u want a hot guy you think you end up with hot guy? Think about it. that why we becareful what we wish for.
hope i help.
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Q: I'm planning on redoing my hair this week and have a couple of questions.
It's naturally really thick and wavy and because it's just so difficult to deal with, I'm cutting it to about shoulder length and getting layers.
I'm going to ask to get it thinned, but I was wondering if there are any cheap ways of thinning it (thinning sissors, products) that are work and I could do at home? I already straighten my hair to get it to be less thick/poofy.
I'm also planning on dying it to a dark brown color (my hair is normally brown-light brown depending on the season) I use garnier nuttrisse permanent hair color and the color seems to fade from my hair within a month. I accidently dyed it almost black in September and the color luckily faded but it began to fade out so much that my previous really light hair color showed through. Is it just the brand or should I be coloring my hair with two boxes of color because of how thick my hair is? Thanks :)
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try out viturl hairstyle, www.seventeenmag.com and you uplaod your picture and yet you can use different Hairstyle
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Q: A) how long does it take to make your bangs grow about an inch? [the women cut mine soooo short.)
B) what is it that makes the horse shampoo make your hair so fast? [or is that just rumors?)
C) any other ideas on how to make hair grow?
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A lot of protain like Penutbutter and Eggs..
wash 3 day a week and comb alot.. messages your scap little bit when you wash..
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Q: I'll make this long story short by bulleting it.. Basically this girl doesnt like me... idk why...
- On one occasion she started talking about how me and my bf should get a room and she was just being rude and obnoxious.
- Another time she was trying to start trouble by loudly saying she was going to take our food and all this other nonsense.
- lastly, she bangs a window everytime she sees us. That was the last straw. I'm sick, so i just took my breakfast and pushed her out the way, so did my bf. and we left even though she was yelling all this stuff.
She goes to the same school im in.. so when she saw me and my bf she started getting in my face saying "You wanna push me?!" over.. and over.. and over..
all i said was "what do you gain from yelling? Nothing". so she lowered her voice.
moved on to my bf trying to start trouble with him then she spat at him.
Now supposedly she wants to fight me tomorrow. I SERIOUSLY dont know what her problem is... we dont even know her. Oh and she apparently hates us spanish people. I see this as such an immature attempt to ruin my fun. Either she's jealous of something, or just is a trouble maker.
ANy suggestions on what I should do?
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dose she do just the 2 of you? or other people to.. she maybe just a bully and don't like see people happy and yes she is being Immture. sometmes people have hard life or something and people mean to her she be mean others. if your in jr high then she still gotta alot growing up todo. high school okay thats just really bad. if it get worst you guys go see a teacher or the princle.. or else just be nice to her no matter what. but if that not work go see a teacher or guideness cancel can talk to her..
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Q: Does anyone know the official air date for the new season of Kyle XY?? I really wanna know so I can watch!! I've been seeing different dates on the internet, I went on ABC Family.com to try to figure it out but came out with nothing. Thanks
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hopley Jan 1st i think it on a monday. i read at www.abcfamily.com :) I am excited about it coming back on
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Q: What does it mean in sign language if you bring you nad to your face and then place your chinc inbeween your thumb and pointer finger almost like a 'v' or a crooked 'l'?
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i know sign lanuage.. somone calling you a Lesbain. sorry that what it mean. i am hard of hearing nad i know sign lanuage.
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Q: 16/f and my boyfriend's 16/m.
We have an immature relationship and I never get to see him. The only reason I'm still with him is because he's my ex boyfriend as well, and he's my first, so I can't let go too easily. I feel like I'm wasting my time with him, when I could go out there and experience a better relationship. But something's holding me back when I attempt to break it off with him. I start feeling bad for him (he's very attached to me, I think) ..I bite my tongue and forget what I was going to say and I just can't do it. But I KNOW (underline) it HAS to be done. Does anyone have any advice on how to do this without having any regrets? It certainly isn't going anywhere.
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just follow your heart and you don't have worry about regret anything.. maybe writ down tonight how much he means to you but how much you think you can have with out him in your life. i mean he be your freind but not be together. tell him you want see other people and he should to.. see where that goes.
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Q: My very best friend is not the same...he became a person i dont know anymore...weve known eachother for 8 months weve become really close he became the bestest friend i have never had...only it feels he threw me away for another..yes it's a girl who i cannot stand we have never ever been friends and she totally wont give up and right now she has won i just can't seem to understand i have tryed to talk to him and spend more time with him...i dont wanna lose him but what more can i do...he'll leave me for her when were right in the middle of a convo and this makes me soo angry and upset and all my girlfriends say "dont let it bother you" or "make friends with another boy" it's not easy he is my best friend and i cant let this go so right now iam thinking should i be more like her?? or what??? i dont know i dont know i dont know PLEASE HELP!!!!! Thank you sooo much!!!
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no don't try be like somone esle to please him.. he not doing be your friend with somone else around, you find somone who more worth it and worth being your friend. can't wait around for something happend. if he was really your best friend he not run off another friend out of your converstion with out saying hey wait i need go talk somone for sec or say hey can we talk later. or something like that. plus depend age he maybe just being immtures. that how some guys are. sometimes guys don't have that kind of a mind say hey i brb or i need talk somone you know. they are not sentivtes you think they are. your friends right don't let it bother you. trust me there somone there waiting for you be a friend. but don't pay him back or anything just be a friend in need. and just don't worry and everything be just fine. just be peaceful with your self and be happy. don't just be his friend becouse he make you happy,
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Q: im so emotionally...wierd. i take the smallest things personally, and i freak out easily, and about everything. like if someone doesnt text or call me back with in a couple of minutes i get anxious that they dont like me, im always trying to please people so they dont reject me. so i;ve modified my self into an anxious, people pleasing, drone, and its wearing me out. how can i calm myself down in times like these? im stressed out from always worrying.
thanks!
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Okay. You need to be relex and peace with your self. your not in control everything. you need let god. he is control of everyting. you need learn to just relex and let thing happend. becouse if you don't then nothing will happend. you can't please people, they take advange of you. plus can't expect people make you happy if you make them happy. they will not like that. how you sould clam your self down is thinking postive and maybe do some breathing exersize and maybe trying Yoga. remeber people maybe like you anddno't like you you souldn't worry about it. trust me let god and trust him. I read a book on what your problem is pretty realted what i just read. pretty funny how i just read it and got on here. just remeber that god have plan for you. and you should let him guide u. just relex and clear your mind let it go.
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Q: lets say you made this new friend whos new to the school 4 months ago you guys talk during before and after 2nd period class because you guys got a class but cant really talk to eachother because of the teacher and sits far away from eachother. When you guys talk and walking to class with eachohter everything is fine but when her other friend named alexa sees my friend jennifer the alexa starts talking to jennifer OR when jenniger sees alexa, she leaves me and start talking to alexa and we couldnt finish our conversation this happens a lot of times, but im thinking they talk more than we do but is this rude? and what do you think about it?
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Don't take it to serouly.. if she walking away with out tell you bye or let you know she need talk to jen. ask her let you know becouse let her know it hurt your feelings that she walk off with out saying bye or I talk to you later need to talk to alex. if she not like answer then she not being real friend. but other hand she probly not relize it rude. she talk to you and see somone else walk away. maybe she thought you wouldn't care becouse you didn't say anything. like hey i was try talk to you or you know. if your are in jr high just ingore it and dont' take it serouly becouse it part of jr high i never forget. if your in high school then forget her be her friend but not take her friendship serouly if she like that. she little immture people do change. but it up to you. if you need take it off your chest just let her know that hurt your feelings that she walk away talking somone else with out telling you see you later or something like that. plus don't worry about she talk other girl more you guys do becouse that silly and childest. i mean alot people have different converstion about things. so find another friend and have fun and remember your not only one I am sure. i know that becouse think stuff like that never ends. wish it would.
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Q: so im 5'2 and my boyfriend is probably 5'3 .
im 18 and hes 21.
we have a very healthy happy relationship, ive very smart we havent had sex yet or any of that.. (although none of this really pertains to my question im jsut putting these facts out there for you people who might try to lecture me)
anyway my question is does anyone have any advice for me, obviously its kinda weird for someone of his age to be so short, and when i bring him around with me all my friends like look at us and some make fun of me for dating him cause hes so short.. hes actually good looking tho and my friends have said that hes just really really short, and like a lot of people in my school make a lot of jokes and say like you can do so much better and i love him so much but im already really self conscious and all these comments make me so sad and i just dont want to bring him anywhere with my friends and i feel bad becuase he will ask me like why dont you ever invite me with your friends anymore and i dont know what to tell him. I just hate being made fun of and it hurts when people make fun of the person you have feelings for. Do you really think that its weird when you see a bf and gf that are the same height and both really really short like we are?
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this never get old. Short and being tall shouldn't matter not important. all matter you guys have eachter. plus kids at school can be jerks they just want to fnd way to make you guys hurt and bring you down. becoue other people bring them down probly. remeber not care what people think. just say that your lucky that your have him.
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Q: How can I write about my whole life online? to where I can let others view it.. and get feed back?
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easyjournal.com free site
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I am a Postive Person, I enjoy helping other way I can, sometimes I know hows it feels or I been there and done that.. I try my best help as I can I pretty much know more about Family and Friends on the hopic and maybe few others.
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 25 AIM: Yahoo: MSN: whitebutterfly06@hotmail.com Member Since: August 17, 2008 Answers: 151 Last Update: May 2, 2012 Visitors: 13778
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