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How to join this clique of friends?
There are these 4 girls in one of my classes and we're friends and stuff for the whole year so far. since the first day. I was friends with 1 of them since 7th grade though actually and two others I "kinda" knew. but they go and hang out after school but don't invite me. I mean they've been friends before I knew them, and like 3 of them went to band camp together so they always talk about memories from there and stuff. They're just really good people and are fun to hang out with but I dont get why I'm not like invited to go out and stuff with them. Like they talk about going to see a movie, and like Im there and its like they're talking about going to see it.. even though I said I wanted to see it too they don't ask me to go with them or something. Or like one of them repainted her room and like some of them talk about how it looked like before and stuff. or talk about hanging out later.
Idk.. I mean maybe Im not close and stuff with them enough but we're pretty good friends - we always hang out together in that class as a group of 5. except when we have to make groups and my teacher always makes groups of 4 so I usually exclude myself unless one of us is absent. Or should I start something? propose us to hangout somewhere? idk if it would be weird since i've never hung out with them outside of school.. should I ask them during class when we're not really doing anything, or like on facebook? i dont want them to be like "im not that close with her.." or something. or think its weird that im trying to join their group. ugh. im a freshman in high school btw. i just dont want to waste this good opportunity to have some close friends like that since im not really in a group.. im always just floating around friends from different cliques.. and only a few people im like REALLY close with that i'd go visit them at their homes or something and I'd really like to change that.
15/f
thanks soo much if you can help.
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I say I know how you feel! and I think it really silly have group of freinds. I think A freind should be everybody friends. it sound like they only look for comman ground and plus people are like that. you still be nice to them but maybe adoivd them for awhile and see what they do and maybe if you just tell one freind you know more and see if she a true friend by telling her your little left out. it ok to amitd it. if she make big deal about you saying that then that not a real friend. then you find people like to get know you and wanna be your freind and will invited you and include you in. unless maybe next time they say hey let go to the movies they don't invited you and you can say hey i can't wait to go to the movies. but however remeber I know what it like and i am not in a group of friends becouse it seem wrong leave people out just becouse they don't have what they have. like i have friends bug me about not going collage and driving. they sound like they only be my freind if i go collage and drive. and there reason i don't but you know what. there alot fishes in the sea.. don't worry about them.. find your self another place that right for you. i know you seem to like them. try talking about what they like what you like to maybe that will help.
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You should ask them to go to the movie's! If there's a big group of people then you could go bowling after that. You can just be like "Hey do you guys feel like going to the movies this weekend?) Haha! You could also just have a party! make a mixed cd and put out chips, pop,pizza ect. And invite lots off people.
Hope this helped!
Tash123
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