Hi Tash123 :)
I have a boyfriend right now, and we've been dating for four months since last Saturday.
The thing is, I'm starting to have a crush on this one guy, and we're starting to talk a lot.
I don't know what to do! Please help!
Well you have to ask yourself witch boy would you rather be with in a realationship. If you think these feelings for this other guy are really strong then you should brake up with your boyfriend (quit dragging him along for the ride) this may sound dumb but its better than him finding out from someone else and not trusting you for a long time. You have to think of it from his point of view. Just imagine if your boyfriend got a cruush on another girl. And he didn't want to tell you. So one of your friends found out from one of his friends that your boyfriend's got a crush on another girl. How would this make you feel? Also if you think you can't choose then you can still hang out with your crush just not as much and don't act flirty! Haha! If your boyfriend see's you flirting that might hurt his feeling's ALOT!! Haha! Just make sure to choose before you start really liking this crush and kiss him or whatever! Just remember that stuff goes around the school FAST everyone will think your a player.
Hope this helps! Haha!!!
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There are these 4 girls in one of my classes and we're friends and stuff for the whole year so far. since the first day. I was friends with 1 of them since 7th grade though actually and two others I "kinda" knew. but they go and hang out after school but don't invite me. I mean they've been friends before I knew them, and like 3 of them went to band camp together so they always talk about memories from there and stuff. They're just really good people and are fun to hang out with but I dont get why I'm not like invited to go out and stuff with them. Like they talk about going to see a movie, and like Im there and its like they're talking about going to see it.. even though I said I wanted to see it too they don't ask me to go with them or something. Or like one of them repainted her room and like some of them talk about how it looked like before and stuff. or talk about hanging out later.
Idk.. I mean maybe Im not close and stuff with them enough but we're pretty good friends - we always hang out together in that class as a group of 5. except when we have to make groups and my teacher always makes groups of 4 so I usually exclude myself unless one of us is absent. Or should I start something? propose us to hangout somewhere? idk if it would be weird since i've never hung out with them outside of school.. should I ask them during class when we're not really doing anything, or like on facebook? i dont want them to be like "im not that close with her.." or something. or think its weird that im trying to join their group. ugh. im a freshman in high school btw. i just dont want to waste this good opportunity to have some close friends like that since im not really in a group.. im always just floating around friends from different cliques.. and only a few people im like REALLY close with that i'd go visit them at their homes or something and I'd really like to change that.
15/f
thanks soo much if you can help.
You should ask them to go to the movie's! If there's a big group of people then you could go bowling after that. You can just be like "Hey do you guys feel like going to the movies this weekend?) Haha! You could also just have a party! make a mixed cd and put out chips, pop,pizza ect. And invite lots off people.
Hope this helped!
Tash123
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my boyfriend and i were having sex friday night night (around 4 am) and we had sex about about an hour before we went for a second round. so, we were having sex for the second time. it was lasting 1000x longer then he usually does (probably because he cummed in the last hour). we were having sex. and i felt the condom break. so he thrusted ONCE. RIGHT AWAY, i got up and told him it broke. he took it off and we saw the hole at the top. so we stopped. we were done for the night. i have been freaking out ever since, unable to stop thinking about it.
some things:
well, i have been peeing ALOT today. but i think thats because i drank alot of fluids today haha.
here are some questions:
do you think i could be pregnant? (i know it is still possible to get pregnant even if you did use a condom. but, in this case since it broke and i noticed RIGHT away..)
should i get EC?
(ps; this wasnt our first time having sex, we have had it many times before this haha)
Yes I think there's a pretty good chance your pregnant. The best thing to do is get a pregnantcy test if it says yes than you should make an appointment with a doctor.
Hope this helped! :)
Tash123
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just over a year ago, i was sexually assaulted by a boyfriend when i fell asleep, and wonder to this day if i would have been raped if i hadn't woke up. i think that changed my outlook on things, guys especially, a lot! i hate how these days, people use the verb "raped" so casually. people at school do it all the time, a couple of my friends included, whether it's saying they "raped" someone in a game, or joking around saying "i'll rape you!" and the other person says "ooh i'd love that". whatever it is. you know what i mean, just the way people use it so loosely. i hate it. it gives me a sickening feeling to hear it. i've come close to saying something to people who use it casually at school and stuff, but i cant bring myself to do it. besides the guy who did, only three people know about it, one of which is my mom. one is my cousin, who is my absolute best friend who i trust with all my information, and one is a friend who doesn't personally know the guy that did it. i feel like if i say something to these people, i'll have to explain why i dont like it, or it'll seem really personal, and i dont want to have to explain myself. that's not information that i want to go around sharing. i dont fully trust any of my friends, except my cousin, and that's not something i plan on telling them. but also if i say something, i feel the truth will be written all over my face. but on the other hand, i hate to hear people talk like that, and i feel like if i did say something, people would stop, at least around me. what can i do in this situation? every time i hear those words.. rape, molest, anything.. it brings me back to that day, and i can remember exactly how i felt. should i speak up, or keep my mouth shut?
also, i DONT want to go talk to a therapist or anything like that, so please dont suggest it. i'm not depressed or torn up and this doesn't interfere with my everyday life. i just hate when the subject is brought up.
In this situation, My oppinion would be to ask your friends not to use those words so loosely. Just remember that its not your fault so you should tell them if they ask why. Just remember that you need to do something to get back something. So you'll have to tell your friends but you won't have to deal with them useing those words for the rest of the time there your friends.
Hope this helped!
Tash123
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