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she hates me for no reason


Question Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 11:01 am

I'll make this long story short by bulleting it.. Basically this girl doesnt like me... idk why...

- On one occasion she started talking about how me and my bf should get a room and she was just being rude and obnoxious.
- Another time she was trying to start trouble by loudly saying she was going to take our food and all this other nonsense.
- lastly, she bangs a window everytime she sees us. That was the last straw. I'm sick, so i just took my breakfast and pushed her out the way, so did my bf. and we left even though she was yelling all this stuff.
She goes to the same school im in.. so when she saw me and my bf she started getting in my face saying "You wanna push me?!" over.. and over.. and over..
all i said was "what do you gain from yelling? Nothing". so she lowered her voice.
moved on to my bf trying to start trouble with him then she spat at him.
Now supposedly she wants to fight me tomorrow. I SERIOUSLY dont know what her problem is... we dont even know her. Oh and she apparently hates us spanish people. I see this as such an immature attempt to ruin my fun. Either she's jealous of something, or just is a trouble maker.
ANy suggestions on what I should do?


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Missa8305 answered Monday December 1 2008, 8:33 pm:
I think she's either jealous... Or she has some serious emotional issues that cause her to act out this way. Either way, it's not your fault.

If she's just acting immature, ignore her. I know that her behavior makes you angry... But I doubt you're going to be able to reason with her. I don't think that sinking to her level will accomplish anything either. So... If she's going to act like a child, treat her like one. Simply walk away. If the harrassment becomes increasingly worse or she harms you physically... Talk to your parents/teachers/principal.

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orangebutterfly answered Monday December 1 2008, 7:32 pm:
dose she do just the 2 of you? or other people to.. she maybe just a bully and don't like see people happy and yes she is being Immture. sometmes people have hard life or something and people mean to her she be mean others. if your in jr high then she still gotta alot growing up todo. high school okay thats just really bad. if it get worst you guys go see a teacher or the princle.. or else just be nice to her no matter what. but if that not work go see a teacher or guideness cancel can talk to her..

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