Question Posted Thursday November 13 2008, 1:32 pm
My very best friend is not the same...he became a person i dont know anymore...weve known eachother for 8 months weve become really close he became the bestest friend i have never had...only it feels he threw me away for another..yes it's a girl who i cannot stand we have never ever been friends and she totally wont give up and right now she has won i just can't seem to understand i have tryed to talk to him and spend more time with him...i dont wanna lose him but what more can i do...he'll leave me for her when were right in the middle of a convo and this makes me soo angry and upset and all my girlfriends say "dont let it bother you" or "make friends with another boy" it's not easy he is my best friend and i cant let this go so right now iam thinking should i be more like her?? or what??? i dont know i dont know i dont know PLEASE HELP!!!!! Thank you sooo much!!!
orangebutterfly answered Friday November 14 2008, 3:02 pm: no don't try be like somone esle to please him.. he not doing be your friend with somone else around, you find somone who more worth it and worth being your friend. can't wait around for something happend. if he was really your best friend he not run off another friend out of your converstion with out saying hey wait i need go talk somone for sec or say hey can we talk later. or something like that. plus depend age he maybe just being immtures. that how some guys are. sometimes guys don't have that kind of a mind say hey i brb or i need talk somone you know. they are not sentivtes you think they are. your friends right don't let it bother you. trust me there somone there waiting for you be a friend. but don't pay him back or anything just be a friend in need. and just don't worry and everything be just fine. just be peaceful with your self and be happy. don't just be his friend becouse he make you happy, [ orangebutterfly's advice column | Ask orangebutterfly A Question ]
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