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Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: student
Age: 14
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Member Since: July 7, 2005
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Last Update: August 18, 2005
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Hey, here's something quick. My friends and I have nothing to do today! We really want to go out! It's raining and is supposed to continue all day! Have any fun ideas for teen girls? Mucho Gracias! (link)
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you could go to a movie, rent a movie, go bowling, go to the mall or differnt stores and just shop around and try stuff on, get some take out, do make overs or each other's nails, call boys!
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There is this guy that was my best friend last year. We always used to do stuff together and have fun but over the summer he got distant. At the beginning of the school year, it was fine. But then we stopped seeing each other for awhile becuase we weren't in any of the same classes. I always waved to him in the hall and sometimes he waved, others he gave me a dirty look and walked away. He has changed a lot, now he is very selfish and goes for girls by there looks. He is mean to mostly everyone and he changed so much. At the beginning of the year i had a crush on him and he understood but he wouldn't go out with me because i wasn't pretty enough. Now he won't even be my friend anymore. I miss him sooooo much how do i get him back? I'm sick of crying over him. (link)
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now that he has changed you have to think do you want him back? he isn't the same person that you became friends with. do you want a friend that treats you like that? i would just let the friendship die because he isn't the person you first became friends with and isnt' a very good one.
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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
thx (link)
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If you know that when you tell your parents they will say no way! and things are working out fine how they are now then just keep it that way. but if you want to spend more time together and it is hard to do that when hiding from your parents then take the risk of them saying no boyfriend and tell them.
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how do u get different backround colors and pictures??? please explian i'll rate high!!! (link)
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for back grounds you go under miscellaneous and click page background. then there will be different back grounds. when you pick one copy and the code by highlighting it and hitting ctrl c then go to column settings and copy it in where it says Page background image (URL): and Sidebar background image (URL): then on the side there are differnt color buttons click one and then hit summit at the bottom.
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i babysit 2 kids once a week for an hour (girlsages almost 5 and almost 3) They are lots of fun but we always play the same game (dogs) Im starting to get really bored with it but i dont no what else to play. i dont what to go buy craft stuff or anything i just want some new idea or something. They have low attention spans for the most part and they arent on the same skill/play level so it sometimes makes it hard. what do i do (link)
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have them make up a game or play some board games.
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He makes fun of me...n now he says he loves me..what should I do? (link)
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dont' bother with him. he should always love you and not switch because he might switch back. it might seem wrong but in the long wrong its best!
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im 13 and goin into 8th grade i have really bad acne and i was wondering what i should do i have persripion medication and i wash my face 2 times a day!!! (link)
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there are so many things out there for acne. maybe your prescription medication isn't good for you. you should try around with differnt types of creams and face washes. also have to talke to your doctor?
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ok well my sister thats going to 6th grade as a boyfriend and since now its summer she hasnt been able to see him as much and she really wish she could see him a lot more she really misses him. What should she do so she can see him more. She doesnt have his number because they got together at the end of the school year. I really want them to see each other more they really like each other. Please help. What to do so they can see each other more. I feel really bad for them.
yours truley, confused with love (link)
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have your sister (and you can help her) ask around or do whatever it takes to get his number. try through friends or phone books. then they can call eachother. for getting together they can go to see movies, go to eachother's houses to hang out, or do different group activities with friends.
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Ok, well i have this guy. I went out with him like a year ago..we're in the same grade and everything..but he goes to a different school then me..i ended up going out with him though, everyone was like "OMG, your going out with HIM?" (as a bad thing) and everyone said i was WAY too good for him..so knowing that. i ALWAYS took it for granted..we ended up going out twice that year. me breaking up with him both times and him asking me out both times. well now, a year later. he hates me. he hates anyone who hangs out with me.. i tried talking to him..just friendly..but hes REALLY mean to me..and now, since the break up, he likes someone. and im mad. because i dont want him too. i really miss him..like in class once..he had to write about his favorite thing..he wrote a whole paper on me..i miss that. but its not that it matters, right? i dont want people saying hes too good for me again..but i dont want to lose him more than i already have..what do i do? and i cant COMPLETELY ignore him forever..next year we're going to the same school.. (link)
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ok you dumped him so i can see why he is mad. just let him go forget about him and maybe some day you guys will be able to be friends. you should of thought about missing him before you dumped him those times. and no one is too good for anyone if other people are saying that so don't take other peoples opinions on people you like.
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OK so i met this guy online like 5 yrs ago. We have gotten to close and we both love each other SO much. He lives in florida but plans to move closer to me by next summer.i really want to be w/ him but im really scared i don't know if its right. Should i tell him to go ahead and move here or tell him to wait or something?
THANX
-twiSted (link)
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that doesn't sound too good. why dont' you tell him that you want to plan a trip and meet up with him before he moves just incase because you don't want anything bad for either of you.
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ok so i liked this guy for a while and i had one class with him this year ..i could never get myself to talk to him at school..but we would alwaus talk on AIM ...well he now has a g/f thats like 19 and hes 15...so i tried to get over him but i cant... now one of my CLOSE friends likes him ...well everytime we talk about him she gets really sad (b/c she knows he has a g/f) ...idk most people say he just uses his g/f for sex ..but i feel really bad for my friend and i think i still like him..what should i do?
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If that rumor is true then you need to sit down with your friend and convince you and her that he is not the kind of person you guys should like. Try to forget about him and as friends you should have an easy time doing it together.
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I have had this really good firend for like seven years and we are like sisters. Ive noticed that she never really took a liking to guys and always wondered if she was lesbian or something. She told me just a few weeks ago that she was and that she was sexually attracted to me. I was really confused and disguisted. I dont wanna throw away a seven year friendship...but i dont want my best friend hitting on me. (link)
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If you still want your friendship because you think things will be the same then talk to her and say your off limits or no friendship. If you think that your friendship would be too arkward and not the same then tell her you can continue to be friends because of her feelings towards you.
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hey, heres my long question.
ive been going out with this guy on and off for 6 monthes now. the first time i broke up with him was because i didnt think i liked him anymore. then i realized i still had some feelings for him. when we broke up he was sooo sad. he cried all the time, wudnt talk to me, his friends wud yell at me for breaking his heart, and i felt aweful. then when we got back together things were tough, we fought a lot and we both started to like each other less at different times. now im not sure if i like him so much anymore again. i still like him a lot, but sometimes i just dont. im not sure what to do, its summer and were not going to be in the same school next year, we wont see each other very much. i like him a lot still, but i dont know if i shud move on. i dont think he'll ever move on, thats kind of the person he is and i hate seeing him sad when hes not with me. i dont want to break his heart again, but i kinda want to move on.. i have no idea what to do. do you think i should start by telling him how im feeling? or just think it all over and take action. maybe he would want to know? what do you think? (link)
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I think that you should tell him that you don't really want to hurt him but by staying with him and not liking him will hurt him too. tell him this and when you guys are done give him some time and he will get over it. mention the different schools too. as much as you don't want to hurt him it will help him by you two not being together.
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I'm thinking about making a cd with all the songs that make me think of the guy I like (much too weak a word, believe me) and then giving it too him, but I'm not sure what message that would send. We've been best friends for about five years, and while i'm willing to risk a great friendship for what i feel would be a better relationship, I don't want him to think i have a secret shrine to him in my closet (i don't, btw). any advice on how this might make him feel or the possible consequences to my following up on it?
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I don't think that the cd is a good idea he might think a different way about this and think you do have a shrine. Just try telling him this in person.
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I'm 16 and going to be a junior in high school next fall. I go to a vocational school so I have shop every other week, all day long. I've just started having a crush on my friend who is in my shop. I like him so much, it's crazy. He likes me too. We talk on the phone a lot and I really want a relationship with him but I'm afraid that in the end our relationship won'w work out and we wont talk anymore. I would never ever want that to happen because hes such a great friend. I really have no idea what to do. Please help me out. Thanks in advance. (link)
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I think that you should have a relationship with him but before you should think is he the person that wouldn't be my friend if it doens't work out and then talk to him and say i want to have a relationship but only if you promise we will be friends.
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OK..I ALWAYS go to bed late. If I try to go to bed early, i still don't go to bed until about
3-4AM. I've tried not to stay on the computer and tried to clear my mind and everything and i still cant sleep. After that i have a tendancy to wake up a tiny bit late (10-11 AM)..And i mean a couple times i may get to bed if I'm lucky around 1AM..i dont know what to do and my mom just thinks that i stay up on purpose so she doesnt wanna help me..what do you thinks wrong?? is there anything to prevent this from happening anymore?? thanks!!! (link)
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When you go to bed late like 4 in the morning set your alarm for an early teim like 7 or 8 then get up and start your day without a nap. I'm sure by the end of the day you will be tired because you won't be use to it and will go to bed early. Try this a few nights. If that doesn't work try to tell your mom that it isn't you and ask to go to a doctor.
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i used to play for my school/parish soccer team which is U-14 as far as i know and this year im going to be a freshman but i dont wanna go out for high school soccer...id rather play rec league. do you think i should ask if i can still play since it is a school AND parish team or should i just let it go? thanks in advanced! (link)
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I don't think that you should keep playing for this team. Try your school's team it is not going to be any different.
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Does anyone know how to get rid of burns (from a clothing iron) quickly? How long will it take? Thanks Bunches! (link)
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run it under cold water when it first happens then put a scar cream on it. it will take time though
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what is snogging? (link)
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Kissing and cuddling
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my mom and dad both don't understand me and they don't know me. it is very difficult since i need them for advice as i get older. How do i get them more involved in my life? (link)
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Try to sit down and talk to them. I know this might seem hard but they might think that you are fine with how your relationship is. Plan some family activites so that they can get to know you because i'm sure they want to know their wonderful child! Hope it helped... please rate me!
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