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the nukka that runs the site is samantha (speaking). sam or sami for short. yeah so i am looking forward to next year: freshman '07-'08 bitchh. i have the most incredible friends ever. they could beat yours up. like pow. mm hm. i also have sooo many guy friends. its hard to keep up with them all. on a random note, i think i might have that new disease thingy. blackberry thumb. yeah you get it from texting way too much. till your hand hurts. i know right. im a crazy party animal. and i act high even though im not on drugs. i dance way too much. competitively. so back to the whole advice thing. i give gnarly advice (yes, gnarly) because ive been through just about every situtation... twice. but thats samantha for you.







i give amazing advice on any topic. unless you are rude. then forget it. i'll treat you nice if you do the same for me. i love helping with relationship advice. i'm good in that department. so, ask me on the site or if its really personal or something you can email me by clicking here.
this sites screename is ohxthexdramaaaa soo. have fun and i will answer as many questions as i can. (:






xoxo,

sam

advice

i love abercrombie and hollister. well today at school my friend told me that there was going to be another store thats coming out made by abercrombie called Concept 5. she didnt know anything else about it and i googled it and didnt find anything on it, and well does anyone on here have any information at all about the store? thanks in advance!

i just thought you should all know;

1 - they will not release the information until after 2007

2 - they arent going to call it "Concept 5". Its their 5th concept. Like, their 5th idea.. hahha just thought you should know.

Anyways is probably going to be around the same prices as Hollister, maybe a tiny bit more...


Thats all I know...
xoxo
ohxthexdrama

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tonight i shaved my bikini area like i always do and accidently cutting myself isn't an unusual thing so when i did cut myself, some blood came out and i just blew it off. but when i got out of the shower, it wouldnt stop! it kept bleeding and bleeding. not gushing or a lot or anything but it just didn't seem to heal. well i put a band aid on it and after like an hour or so i took it off thinking it close up finally. but it didnt! what's going on!? i'm freaking out. thank youuuu

dont sweat it. its nothing out of the usual. its just bleeding a lot because either 1-your skin is sensitive because you're close to that time of the month 2-it keeps getting wet and hasnt had the chance to scab (gross i kow. but a part of lifeee) or 3-your skin is just sensitive.
just try to keep it aired out as much as possible. no you dont have to walk around naked er anything. just dont keep a band-aid on it. it locks in moisture.

if it still doesnt heal after a few days (or at least mostly heal) let your mom or some adult know. its probably nothing though.

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ok, so i am a really shy person. theres only a few girls that i\'ve known for so long that know the crazy, outgoing, fun, real me. and with everyone else i just.. ahhh.. i dont know how to, like, talk?!?! haha i sound stupid but what i mean is, like, theres this friend of mine, lets call her hannah, and ive known her for quite a while now and i feel like we\'re drifting apart because we like barely talk and never hang out. and when i do try to start conversation.. well i just dont know what to say. or how to say it. why am i so shy!? like seriously, i could sware i have a disease. i just wish she could start more conversation with me, because that way i\'ll start talking and be going somewhere with the convo, and when i start, hahah, well i start alright! ahaha. i suck at making new friends. i just have this one friend, and lets call this one montana [lmao, stop lauging, i know you are.. aha], and shes my best friend and i open up to her the most and hang out with her a lot but i feel like a freaking douche when i realize and think about the fact that other than her, i only have like.. 3 or 4 friends. because i dont talk to other people because im so effing shy!!. and theres so many other friends i could easily make, if i\'d just talk. agh, i dont know whats wrong with me. i dont really even know how you can answer this. i feel like hannah doesnt need me anymore now that shes made new friends. i used to have a lot of friends.. and i mean a lot, like last year and the year before and before and so on&on. and now they\'re all gone. we\'ve just all drifted apart. wtf? i dont get that. we\'ll only like smile at each other in the halls. not even a simple \'hey\' or \'hi\'. and no drama even happened between any of us that would cause us to loose our friendship. wow, seriously, it makes me soo pissed off thinking about the fact of how i used to have 456413 friends and now like 4. and you know why this all is? because im shy. and so we never talk and just drift apart. but they aren\'t shy, i know they\'re not. they can talk and then i\'ll talk and we\'ll stay friends. how could i possibly loose all them? why is all this happening with hannah and me? how can i.. talk? and.. whatever else i wrote above.. haha

wow. you sound like me at the begining of this year. and i know it sounds hard but... make new friends. youll probably be a lot happier with a group of friends you can be yourself with. this sound hard but its really not. join a club or a sports team like tennis or softball and meet people there. thats a practice. then you can meet new people from YOUR school. its scary at first, yeah, but its very worth it in the long run. just choose... 1-feel this way for lord knows how long or 2-suck it up and make new friends to be HAPPY. umm, i pick 2. aha. but if you are seriosuly set on keeping your old friends like "hannah" and "montana" (cute, by the way), then get together with them. once again, it will be scary. but worth it. ask them to go to the mall and tell them to bring a couple people. another great way to mke friends.

well i hope i helped. and if theres any specific questions you have, pleaseeeee ask.

i know how this feels. like shiiiit++ id love to help. (:

xoxo
samiiii (is ganster)

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Im getting a hair cut tomorrow and I want to look really different. This is my hair right now:


http://i10.tinypic.com/49b0t28.jpg


& I want to know any ideas you guys have for styles that would be good. I would love pictures, too if you can provide them. Celebrities or whatnot. :] Also, that picture was taken a few months ago so my hair is longer + the bangs are down to like my shoulder (I always wear them up.) I dont want my hair short, please!

well one thats really getting hot right now is this style.

http://i12.tinypic.com/2upqzgg.jpg

i got my hair but like this but asked for a litte longer.
this is the best picture i could take;
http://i17.tinypic.com/2ugdhqg.jpg

hope i helped.
xoxo

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hey, i like bands like the following. something corporate, story of the year, hawthorne heights, fall out boy, plain white ts, play radio play, penfifteen club, yellowcard, american hi-fi, the red jumpsuit, the afters, bowling for soup, hello goodbye, cute is what we aim for, my chemical romance, and panic! at the disco. can someone please tell me good songs by those bands or new bands that i could listen to. im getting bored of the same songs and bands.

copeland is pretty good. and theres the hush sound, building 429, casting crows, pink spiders, afi, relient k, ok go, the police, sugarcult, rosewood thieves, rooney, robert pollard, mooney suzuki (whom i looooooove), m.ward, labrats, french kicks, earwig, chris mccoy and the gospels....who are also really good.


hope i helped. xoxo
if you need anymore, let me know.

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hey, well right now i dress sorta like everyone else in the world. hollister, ecko, abercrombie, you know those famous brands. i would like to start dressing differently. like leggings, ballet flats, chunky necklaces, and other trendy items. im afraid of the reaction my friends will have. i know i should just be myself and not care what others think. its hard tho.

honestly, if you start the trend, people may look at you in a weird way at first, but soon they will pick up the idea. i vote you do it. we need more fashionista's in the world.



xoxo,
samantha (:

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ok so im in 7th grade, and everyone has a boyfriend, it seems like, besides me. I try being outgoing and stuff, but it doesnt work. I already tried asking like 5 billion guys out and they all said no. I know im not supposed to change and stuff, but i dont want to end up 20 and only have 1 boyfriend in my whole life. Can you help me?

PS.. Me and my friend share this account, so not all posts are gonna bve from me

well, just bare in mind, this is going to be long.


heres some tips/tricks;

*dont be so concerned with getting a boyfriend. its great, yeah, but also brings on a lot of stress and pressure.

*dont change yourself to get a guy. if a guy is meant for you, then you wont need to chase him. he'll come to you.

*you're only in 7th gradetake a second to ask yourself, "what relationship last through middle school, through high school, through college, and they live happily ever after". MAYBE one in 3 billion. but only maybe.

*dont ask the guys out. i know people will tell you "fight for what you want!". but honestly, guys love a challenge. that turns them on about a girl. im not saying play hard to get. dont be IMPOSSIBLE. just flirt with him a lot. be sweet. but also follow the next tip.

*guys love a mysterious girl.


if there happens to be a guy you have your eyes on, keep these thing in mine;
*dont always answer his phone calls.
*dont tell him your deepest secrets.
*dont ever atempt a real conversation
while he's with his friends. you'll get
slammed. trust me. thats how guys are
*dont get mushy with him in front of his
friends either.
*phone calls should be no longer that 30
minutes. 15 minutes is even better.
*dont except a quikie date
*a quickie date is a date that is last
minute. they decide to ask you because
they have nothing else to do. make him
give you a couple days notice.

i think this message has been way past long enough. if you need anything else, please ask. or if you want me to explain something.

if its private you can always click the link on the page to email us.


xoxo

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I have a pair of skinny jeans that are just blue jean. I have a couple shirts I got over the weekend and i need to know which shirt looks the best with these jeans.

Shirts I have :

-Pink shirt with cupcakes cookies and lolipops on it.
-Navy blue shirt with new oreleans saints symbols on it and a humming bird or each of the top corners.
-An Alicine wonderland shirt where she is walking through the forest
-A pink and white striped shirt that has half sleeves.

Thanks for the help :]

pink and white stripes. you dont want to put to much into the outfit. but if you are going with skinny jeans (which are sorta high fashion) then you need to follow those same standards.

also consider a spiked heel and/or pizza toed shoe for a high fashion feel or a flat for an urban/80's vibe.

how we helped (:

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my friend gave me a bracelt by mariah carey that cost about 12 bucks and it was okay but i didn't like it that much. she gave our other frined a chain that said best and then she has the friends but it cost 3 bucks i think. i was mad beause of it. i didn't care how much it cost, i liked the best frinds thing because we have been frinds longer and it was impoetant to me that she told me she apprciated it.i ddin't care about the cost.my best best freind hurt me by just ignoring me and like kind of abandoning me without no explanation because she gose to a new school. and i am uptight about me other best freind. maybe i am being to mean. it's x-mas.now she is mad andis complaining about me being mean and i wore the gift and evrything but i got fed up and gave it back.was a wrong in the situation?

hello (: melyssa speaking.
the same thing happened to me. kindof.
but in a different situation. ask her what's wrong. & dont be afraid to ask her questions about the problem. it might help alot! call her.
that's what i'd do! hope it helped.
xoxox

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I hang out with this guy a lot, like we go to each other's houses and we always cuddle and kiss and he makes me feel so happy when I'm with him. He also hugs me whenever he sees me in the hall at school.. and I really like him.

BUT he is a very flirtatious person and has lots of friends who are girls and flirts with them at school.

Do you think that he genuinely likes me or is he just using me and thinks of me as 'just another girl'?

it sounds like he truely cares about you. ask him to go to the movies or out to eat or something. if he says yes or at least wants to, that shows something is deffinatly clicking in this relationship.

xoxo

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can someone tell me honestley through expierience how much getting your belly button pierced hurts on a scale of 1-10.

5.5-6

but its worth it++

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theres this guy i like.. and im kind of a shy person, but i act differently outside of school. or unless im good friends with you. im outgoing and junk, but only to people im comfortable with and good friends with. how do i become more outgoing? or should i just accept the way i am? or.. i dunno. cause theres this guy i like whos pretty popular, and im not a loser not popular either..... soo yeah. and alot of times im kinda shy to talk around him or may say something stupid. and sometimes i give him side glances in school.. maybe i shouldnt do that but hes so fun to look at! anyways, what can i do to get him to like me? or any guy, in general. hes pretty nice to me now, but i havent really had many full conversations with him or anything. i guess its also because im shy, and i want to go away from him but at the same time be around him. ackk and we both do sports.. like today i saw him at a bball match and i saw him and im like "omg!" but i didnt say hi or anything.. cause what if he found out i like him! arrg an sometimes i dunno what to talk about when theres nothing really going on. soo.. any suggestions to anything i said? thanksss!

this sound like me. aha

seriously just take a deep breathe and go talk to him. and if you are worried about him not liking you, well if he doesnt thats the end. there are sooo many other guys. you just gotta wait for the right one to come along.

the thing is you said you are comfortable around peole you know well. if thats the case, then just get to know this guy and then youll be more comfortable.

its funny this is exactly how i was with someone at my school, and now we are dating. :)

xo


p.s. dont force a relationship. just let it happen.

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Okay I like this guy and I think he might like me. Does anyone know what boys give as signs that they like you?

oh yes. here are some my bf used on me.

+talks to you in b/t classes
+teases you
+if he sits in front of you, he always turns half-way around in his desk... not all the way - its not ovious
+he evesdrops on your conversation
+he is constantly sending you IMs on aim
+he does stupid little things to impress you
+he notices little things about you that have changed ex-painted your nails
+tickles you like crazy

there are many more. let me know what they are. it is usually easy to tell if a guy is flirting.
:)


btw. hope its turns out well for ya.

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hey ok well lately one of my friends has been liying to me ALOT so i told her that i dont want to be her friend anymore and on top of it all she likes my bf and is constantly flirting with him in front of me...but after i told her i dont wanna be friends with her...i kinda miss her but i dont know if i could take her bakc because shes hurt me so much...should i take her back or keep my word?

ok. to start, are you completely sure that she lied to you or are you just assuming? if you are assuming, you should probably apologize because you arent completely sure and also tell her why you assumed she was lying. if you have cold, hard proof, then read on.
im not saying it was a terrible decision to dump her, but its definatly wasnt the best. she may not take you back because she feels like you may dump her again.

about the whole boyfriend situation:
let her know he's your and she better back off. dont actually saythis to her but let her no by your body language. if she flirts with him right in front of you, cuddle with him right then and there. kiss on his next. make her know that shes not coming in between you and your man. :)

if it was me that dumped her and i was sure she had lied, i would make a pact. let her know you want to make peace. not a friendship; just peace. that will take a load of your shoulders as well as hers

hope i helped. :)

xoxo

p.s. this advice is not meant to change your decision. do what you think is right based on your passed experiences.

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i want to enter the science fair...but the problem is...i cant think of any ideas!any tips,advice,or ideas would be great!!!

do something interesting that would interest everyone. i found a local article about how eating just one cookie 18 exta minutes of exercise needed to be healthy. anyway, here is the link
http://chron.com/disp/story.mpl/front/4418584.html

hope i helped++

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i just started teachin myself how to play the electric guitar so can anyone send me links to some really easy tabs? christmas songs or rock/alternative songs would be great but they gotta be easy lol even if its like just the intro to the song! thanks =] 16/f.

http://guitar.about.com/library/blchristmassongmenu.htm

just scroll down, click a song title, click guitar tab and strum away. aha.

hope we helped.

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Hey, does getting your cartilage pierced hurt? If i were to get mine done, I would go to Piercing Pagoda, where they use a gun. Also, I might have to take it out after about 4 or 5 weeks to play softball, but I would put it back in right away. Would it close up after being outs for about 3 hours? Thanks a lot!

i personally dont have my cartilage pierced but manymanymany friends of mine have had it done. they say it doesnt hurt much more than getting a standard ear piercing. good chose with the gun.just make sure everything is sterile. and the hole may close up a tiny tiny bit but it would be easy to put the ring back in. make sure you keep everything clean. :)

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Could someone tell me if the Razr phones are good? We are updating our phones soon and I want a camera phone and I like the pink Razr but I've heard they are crap. Any opinions or suggestions?

they are pretty nice. i must say. the only thing is you should 1. buy it straight from you provider. don't use ebay or anything. those can be rip offs and sometimes they are all screwed up. and 2. be careful. the opening wing to the phone tends to break off. so try not to drop it a lot.

otherwise, its a great pone
hope we helped. :P

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soo i got that Plus White 5 Minute Speed Whitening Gel.. umm its in like a toothpaste kinda tube and the directions say to swab it on your teeth and leave it on for 5 mins or 15-20 if you have rlly stained teeth but dont let it touch your gums. soo ive never used it and i was wonderin after i put it on can i close my mouth or do i have to like smile for 5 minutes?

good question. you should leave it on for around 5 mintues (trying not to close your mouth) so it can set in but after that just relax and try not to lick it off er anything like that.

hope i helped. :P

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i am doing a project on polar bears and i came across the term "material cycling"...does anyone know what this means and how it relates to polar bears? thankss

i looked it up and im thinking its basically the whole circle of life deal. something dies, its body decays. matter runs into the soil and grows into the grass. animals eat the grass and give birth therfore the original decaying matter exists in the newborn.. wow. i may have just confused myself. let me know if you totally didnt understand that.

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