I hang out with this guy a lot, like we go to each other's houses and we always cuddle and kiss and he makes me feel so happy when I'm with him. He also hugs me whenever he sees me in the hall at school.. and I really like him.
BUT he is a very flirtatious person and has lots of friends who are girls and flirts with them at school.
Do you think that he genuinely likes me or is he just using me and thinks of me as 'just another girl'?
amylee answered Friday December 22 2006, 3:51 pm: oh, tough one, if he's flirtatious it might be hard to know for sure.
my advice, give him subtle, yet slightly obvious hints that you like him.
hang out with him in more public places and see if he's as affectionate there, as when your alone.
and over all, be his friend it'll show him you'll be there not just for cuddles and kisses, but whn he needs a good friend,
twistedlover69 answered Friday December 22 2006, 2:43 pm: wow thats a hard question to answer but ill try ok well he flirts with you and other gurls but does he always go out if his way to flirt with you like does he always gives you hugs and trys to make u laugh and does always make eye contact and the most important thing is does he flirt with you the same way he flirts with the other gyrls and i wouldnt read to much into it if hes a player cause love to flirt and play mind games so be careful sorry if i wasnt much help much luck [ twistedlover69's advice column | Ask twistedlover69 A Question ]
the_sweeter_heart answered Friday December 22 2006, 2:31 pm: Well, if he's very flirtatious... I won't lie: he's most likely thinking of you as another girl. But if he's always cuddling and kissing you, that means he has affections for you that he does not have for any other girl.
I suggest you keep on hanging out with him, but not just at each other's houses, but at movies, parks, and anywhere that could possibly be romantic. Be very affectionate to him, and bump your hand into his several times to see if he would hold it. It'll be SO cute!!
ohxthexdrama answered Friday December 22 2006, 2:08 pm: it sounds like he truely cares about you. ask him to go to the movies or out to eat or something. if he says yes or at least wants to, that shows something is deffinatly clicking in this relationship.
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