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ok, so i am a really shy person. theres only a few girls that i\'ve known for so long that know the crazy, outgoing, fun, real me. and with everyone else i just.. ahhh.. i dont know how to, like, talk?!?! haha i sound stupid but what i mean is, like, theres this friend of mine, lets call her hannah, and ive known her for quite a while now and i feel like we\'re drifting apart because we like barely talk and never hang out. and when i do try to start conversation.. well i just dont know what to say. or how to say it. why am i so shy!? like seriously, i could sware i have a disease. i just wish she could start more conversation with me, because that way i\'ll start talking and be going somewhere with the convo, and when i start, hahah, well i start alright! ahaha. i suck at making new friends. i just have this one friend, and lets call this one montana [lmao, stop lauging, i know you are.. aha], and shes my best friend and i open up to her the most and hang out with her a lot but i feel like a freaking douche when i realize and think about the fact that other than her, i only have like.. 3 or 4 friends. because i dont talk to other people because im so effing shy!!. and theres so many other friends i could easily make, if i\'d just talk. agh, i dont know whats wrong with me. i dont really even know how you can answer this. i feel like hannah doesnt need me anymore now that shes made new friends. i used to have a lot of friends.. and i mean a lot, like last year and the year before and before and so on&on. and now they\'re all gone. we\'ve just all drifted apart. wtf? i dont get that. we\'ll only like smile at each other in the halls. not even a simple \'hey\' or \'hi\'. and no drama even happened between any of us that would cause us to loose our friendship. wow, seriously, it makes me soo pissed off thinking about the fact of how i used to have 456413 friends and now like 4. and you know why this all is? because im shy. and so we never talk and just drift apart. but they aren\'t shy, i know they\'re not. they can talk and then i\'ll talk and we\'ll stay friends. how could i possibly loose all them? why is all this happening with hannah and me? how can i.. talk? and.. whatever else i wrote above.. haha
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wow. you sound like me at the begining of this year. and i know it sounds hard but... make new friends. youll probably be a lot happier with a group of friends you can be yourself with. this sound hard but its really not. join a club or a sports team like tennis or softball and meet people there. thats a practice. then you can meet new people from YOUR school. its scary at first, yeah, but its very worth it in the long run. just choose... 1-feel this way for lord knows how long or 2-suck it up and make new friends to be HAPPY. umm, i pick 2. aha. but if you are seriosuly set on keeping your old friends like "hannah" and "montana" (cute, by the way), then get together with them. once again, it will be scary. but worth it. ask them to go to the mall and tell them to bring a couple people. another great way to mke friends.
well i hope i helped. and if theres any specific questions you have, pleaseeeee ask.
i know how this feels. like shiiiit++ id love to help. (:
xoxo
samiiii (is ganster)
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