my friend gave me a bracelt by mariah carey that cost about 12 bucks and it was okay but i didn't like it that much. she gave our other frined a chain that said best and then she has the friends but it cost 3 bucks i think. i was mad beause of it. i didn't care how much it cost, i liked the best frinds thing because we have been frinds longer and it was impoetant to me that she told me she apprciated it.i ddin't care about the cost.my best best freind hurt me by just ignoring me and like kind of abandoning me without no explanation because she gose to a new school. and i am uptight about me other best freind. maybe i am being to mean. it's x-mas.now she is mad andis complaining about me being mean and i wore the gift and evrything but i got fed up and gave it back.was a wrong in the situation?
the_sweeter_heart answered Friday December 22 2006, 2:59 pm: I believe you overreacted in the situation, but I understand why you would be mad about it. Like, you've been best friends with her for such a long time, but she gives a best friend bracelet to another girl?! Ouch!
But look at it this way: she wasted 12 dollars on a gift that you didn't appreciate just because one that cost 3 dollars meant more to you. Your friend used more of her money for you, because she wanted so badly to get a present that you'd like. Apologize, and tell her you were grateful for her gift and that you'd like it back. Just explain how you felt about the best friend bracelet thing, and I'm sure you;d be fine.
Huxtable answered Friday December 22 2006, 11:55 am: Wow dont take this in a mean way because im not trying to be mean but thats very immature. I mean be thankful she gave you a present and it didnt cost more so you must mean more to her! I would talk to her and say you were sorry and you like her present alot and want it back. And tell her you just overreacted about it. Good luck
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