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hey ok well lately one of my friends has been liying to me ALOT so i told her that i dont want to be her friend anymore and on top of it all she likes my bf and is constantly flirting with him in front of me...but after i told her i dont wanna be friends with her...i kinda miss her but i dont know if i could take her bakc because shes hurt me so much...should i take her back or keep my word?
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ok. to start, are you completely sure that she lied to you or are you just assuming? if you are assuming, you should probably apologize because you arent completely sure and also tell her why you assumed she was lying. if you have cold, hard proof, then read on.
im not saying it was a terrible decision to dump her, but its definatly wasnt the best. she may not take you back because she feels like you may dump her again.
about the whole boyfriend situation:
let her know he's your and she better back off. dont actually saythis to her but let her no by your body language. if she flirts with him right in front of you, cuddle with him right then and there. kiss on his next. make her know that shes not coming in between you and your man. :)
if it was me that dumped her and i was sure she had lied, i would make a pact. let her know you want to make peace. not a friendship; just peace. that will take a load of your shoulders as well as hers
hope i helped. :)
xoxo
p.s. this advice is not meant to change your decision. do what you think is right based on your passed experiences.
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