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I plan on using one of those tanning-beds for the 1st time soon. The only problem is I have no clue where to start. What do I need/what should I need to know?
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I'm not going to tell you not to use one, because its your choice, but i'm going to advise you not to get addicted, and it may sound silly, but alot of young girls are getting addicted to them.
But you'll need, tanning lotion, NOT sunblock.
And they provide the goggles you need.
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so a close freind of mine got raped
(police were notified everything is under control)
by the way 13/f
i heard my freinds saying that least she never got her period before and her cherry was poped that she wont be able to have kids.
is this true?? (link)
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Having her 'cherry popped' just means, that her rapist took her virginity. Assure her, that by that being done, she can still have children.
And these friends of yours should get their facts straight before they decide their doctors.
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did anyone get the hpv shot? and like how many do you have to get and how long are the intervals in between them? and do they only work if you arent already sexually active? (link)
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I've gotten them, in fact, I just got my second one this past week.
Theres three shots.
You get the first one, and then you get another 2 months later, and then you get the third one four months later.
No, they work whether your sexually active or not. Because you can get HPV without being sexually active.
There is just one down side to the shots, and I don't want to scare you. But, since they are fairly new, doctors/researchers have no way of telling what the long term side effects are, so far there have been none, but you never know. When/If you decide to get them, you doctor will explain all of this to you though. He/She will explain how it protects you, and all of that, and any additional questions you may have.
Another down side is, the day you get the shot, there will be a knot in your arm where you got it, and it will last about three days, maybe four. It kind've feels like a bruise, but there is no mark or bruise. And you may or may not get nauseous afterwards. Alot of people I've known, and myself have gotten nauseous after getting the shot.
I hope I've helped.
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Ok i feel kind of dumb asking myself a question but i need to know what i can tell myself.... I am really scared because my bf for 1 month wants to have sex and i told him i was a virgin(yeah right) but he told me he wanted to take my virginity what on earth should i do? (link)
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YOu really shouldn't have lied tohim to begin with, because when it comes down to it, a month into your relationship and your already lying isn't a good way to start. But, you should tell him the truth, and tell him the reason you lied. And if he truly cares/wants to be with you, he'll understand and forgive you.
Hope I helped.
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Hey. I really like doing hair, and hopefully one day will become a cosmetologist. Well, I have never EVER colored any ones hair other than mine a few times. My boyfriend, unwillingly, offered his head of hair.
What are some websites that show what I can do..preferably easy with his hair?
He has really thick hair also, and it looks really awesome flat ironed. If I bought some chemical straightner, What would that do to his hair? (link)
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Chemical straightner can do a NUMBER of things to his hair;
-Completely kill it as in, make it dry.
-Make it amazingly straight/beautiful.
-Soften the waves if its really curly.
-Do absolutly nothing.
I don't know any websites to recommend, however, I can recommend going to a library or bookstore, and maybe buying a few books on cosmetology.
But with dying hair, I've been dying my own, and numerous friends and families hair since I was in 7th grade, so about 13, and I'm almost 17, and I learned by the instructions that comes in the boxes, and books.
And from the books I've read, I've learned how to frost hair, relax it, perm it, highlights, lowlights. You can learn just about anything concerning comsmetology through books you buy.
Hope I helped some.
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18f/ Can you make a relationship work if you are not compatible. Like you view relationships completely different from one another. Can you make it work if you're really in love??? (link)
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I would like to say yes, but unfortunatly, if you aren't all that compatible, there isn't much you can do to make it work except maybe work on the things you guys have trouble with.
I hope I've helped some.
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what are some good stores to shop at that have grunge clothing. i really want that kind of eighties grunge rock style, and somewhat of the understated hippie thing going on. but i cant find and good stores to get these clothes. please help me out! [i am willing to alter some clothing i have i just need ideas and pictures please!] (link)
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Well you can always buy dark jeans, and take a rag and put some bleach on it, and pat/dab it on the jeans. And take a box cutter, and cut holes in your jeans, and sew some edgy patches behind the holes.
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Hey!
I was wondering some places that have skinny jeans. I found some at Gap but they were like $50. I think I would like to pay less than that because I dont know how long the fashion is going to stay around for, and I dont want to spend alot of money on something that will be gone in 2 months. Thanks sooo much!!! (link)
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Mervyn's should have them. JCPenney. Dillard's. Macy's. They'll be around 30 Dollars in all those stores.
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i've heard that hydrogen peroxide is a good acne treatment...is this true? has anybody ever used it on a pimple?
oh and i just tried using it on like an under the skin pimple and it turned its surface white! will this go away? it isn't the actual whitehead it is like it turned my skin right above the zit pure white (i'm talking like snow white). what is this?
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I would suggest rubbing alcohol, like Benzyol Peroxide, it dries out the skin, and makes the pimple dry out/disappear faster. :]
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is there anything i can buy that will make my breasts bigger besides a push-up bra and that weird exercising technique please help me. (link)
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Well. It may be pricey, but go to Victoria's Secret, and ask one of their consultants for help. Trust me. They help so much, and are amazingly nice. Tell them what you're looking for, and they'll help you find it. :] Hope I helped.
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hey does anyone know a free website to download ring tones for nextel.. my web broser on my phone has ring tones but there like 10 seconds long.. id like some real ringtones some one help please (link)
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No matter where you go ringtones are going to cost you money. :[
Try;
www.dadamobile.com
www.jamdat.com
Or go to google.
And search for the particular ringtone you want.
Say you want;
Beauty in the Breakdown by The Scene Aesthetic
Try searching.
The scene Aesthetic Ringtones.
or whatever band youre looking for.
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(I'm 15/m if this helps)Okay, so like 5 years ago, i developed this wierd mark on my back. It's grown to take up about 1/8th of my back. It even frightens me and now i'm afraid to take my clothes off. This "mark" prevents me from going swimming and having fun. My parents say its a birth mark but i'm starting to doubt it. It's pretty big and if you'd like to see some pictures of it, just ask but please be prepared with some answers :] (link)
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Okay. E-mail me the pictures. And I'll do my best to help you hun. :]
My e-mail is preskool.dropout@yahoo.com
And I check it everyday so. I'll respond within 24 hours. :]
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Over the years I've trained my body to withstand pleasure and concentrate on something else. Now when me and my girlfriend have sex, it lasts for hours, is this normal? One night we went for four hours straight using no pills no attatchments and none of any of those other lovely toys. Is it a bad thing that this lasts this long? How long should it last? Usually I just go until she's completely exhausted and it still feels like I can get up and run a marathon as if nothing had happened. I think there's something wrong with me. Please, if anyone knows how I can fix this tell me. Thanx o^.^o (link)
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My friend Eric used to be able to do that. When him and his current girlfriend used to have sex he could go for fuckin` days if he wanted. So I agree, try jacking off a couple times a day and learn to control it to where you can get off on comand.
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I dont know....
I just recently got a boyfriend and really its great. He's wounderfull. But I dont know if things are going to fast.He asked me out on the phone, And I said yes then when we had to go he said I love you..I didnt want to be akkward so I said it back and UssALY everytime were on the phone he allways says that. Then me and my other friends and him one day went to valley fair! it was awsome! though we didnt talk much. We guessed it was beacuse we were just shy. I have to addmitt I kind of was. But then We went to the mall with only his friend and us, I guess the shyness wore off a bit. We held hands and then later almost after it was over he kissed me! ok not a french kiss but a kiss on the cheek. I know, Really babyish for our age but it was sweet. now soon We are going to the movies. And he asked if we could makeout! we are going to be alone..no friends around. Also about french kissing, touching whatever kind of makeout.. I know. I mean I have french kissed other people before but I never really made-out like touching like that. I dont know to tell the truth I sort of want to do it. but I dont know. I get really nervous.. I dont know I need advice! (link)
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If he said I love you the first day you were going out, thats a bit fast. For any age groups. And I agree with the girl above me, it sounds as if you really like him, but don't let him do things to you that your not ready for. Just take things slow, and at your own pace, if he doesn't like it, its his loss. :]
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is acne a hudge turn off.. or does it realy matter.. im wondering
15/m
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To be honest; to some it is. To some it doesn't matter.
but to help you, buy some acne face pads, and some face washes. :]
And try to relax about it. And find a girl who likes you for you.
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im 14 and my boyfriend is 15. he's not a virgin, i am. the farthest ive been-making out.
should i be intimidated by this? im kind of scared. scared of wheather he'll think im a good kisser or not
and i always freeze up around him
because i feel scared.
i need some advice
how to give a handjob & blowjob
good making out tips[what bodyparts to touch & what to do while making out..not HOW to make out. ik thattt, just..other things like tips & stuff that'll make him want more ;)]
umm...
im not realy looking to have sex
HONESTLY
im smarter than that
i have goals for myself
but.
these are things every girl goes through
and im just lookikng for some help :)
thank you so very very much anyone.!! :D :D :D (link)
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Well. Chances are since he;s only 15, hes a virgin too. :]
So don't worry too much about that.
Most guys his age lie about that kinda stuff.
And there is really no technique on giving handjobs or blowjobs, all guys are different.
But when your giving a blowjob, make sure to not only use your mouth, use your hands as well.
And when making out, kiss on his neck, maybe bite a little, and nibble on his liip and ears as well.
Hope I helped.
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I didn't know what subject to put this under so yeah. I have to go to the ob-gyn and i shave already down there but I don't know if i should shave or not before I go to see her. I don't want to look stupid or for her to be like eww you're hairy or dang you shaved too much. I know she's mature about it and won't say anything, but I don't want her to be thinking this. (link)
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Well. Theres no way to know what shes thinking. :D But, if you normally shave, I'd say hsave the night before you go. Because, you want to be clean shaved, since you NORMALLY shave, and don't want it to be all prickly and stuff. SO. Do your normal routine. :D
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okay so, i have a friend his name is derek and um, i like him ALOTT and i dont know if he likes me but he goes to my school and uh he has a girlfriend but he flirts with me.. ALOt and he allwys cheats on his girlfriend.. not with me but with other ppl. and he dared me to act out what iw ould do if we had sex and i said you nkow hed finger me wed have sex hed rubb my boobs and like blowjob and shit and hardcore makeout.. and then on aim the next day he was like "u like me i know it" and i said "yes i do".. and hes like awh and everything and seemd nice about it.. then he was like i gotta go an said he would do all that stuff to me whenever i wanted him to. and i sent to him i put "lmfaooo haha okay :]" and then he sent back ":] gooodbye (link)
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OKay. I'm not gonna call you a slut, or anything like that. BUT; I do think you should think about this. Because if he cheats on his girlfriend, say you guys do date, whats to say he won't cheat on you. And second, he may only be trying to have sex with you. I'd REALLY encourage you to think super hard about this because if you let him do those things to you, you may end up being hurt in the end. I'm not trying to burst your bubble, but you should really take a few minutes to think, once a cheater always a cheater, and think of how his girlfriend would feel if she found out about it, regardless of if you even know her, imagine if you were in her position and he was going around, fooling around with other girls. How would you feel? If you want anymore help. Feel free to IM me anytime on AIM; binas a ninja
Hope I helped.
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I wasn't sure whether to put this under "Parenting" or "Sex" but seeing as how this category seems to be more popular, I put it under here to get as many possible responses.
Hi, i'm 15/female and i'm a little worried about a possible pregnancy. Any help at all would be greatly appreciated, but i'm asking you nicely, please do not judge or critisize me. If I am pregnant, which I have a strong feeling in my heart that I am, i'm going to take care of the baby with the help of my boyfriend, friends, and parents. All of whom are very supportive of all decisions I have and will make in the future. I still don't know how i'm going to tell them, but i'll found that out later on. I'm feeling very bittersweet about this whole episode, but I have decided i'm keeping the baby if I happen to be. What I need to know is if you guys think i'm pregnant as well?
I've been on birth control (ortho cyclen) for a little over 6 months now. I've had no problems other than the occasional missed pill that so far i've always taken the next day. My period has been a little of schedule here lately, sometimes it comes a day or two late, but I always experience light spotting on the days I don't start. I've recently been in the hospital do to a urinary tract infection and my doctor prescribed me amoxicillin. My boyfriend of a little over a year now are sexually active, and we have been for about 7 or 8 months now. I just recently quit taking my antibiotic, and I noticed as I was throwing the pill bottle out (my mom always gives me my medicine in the morning, so I never really looked at the bottle) that there was a warning saying "This medication may decrease the effectiveness of birth control. Use a backup method" I mentioned this to my boyfriend and we both freaked out; We don't use any other method because i've been on birth control since we've started having sex. And yes, he does ejaculate inside of me, everytime. To make matter even worse, while I was on my antibiotic, I missed a pill and didn't retake it. [I dropped it one morning while taking my other medication (zoloft, claritin) and couldn't find it. I still haven't]. Dumb on my part, I never told my boyfriend this. I was afraid he would become upset with me. And in case you were wondering, I don't plan on telling him. We did some research and discovered that the medicine I was on only decreased the effectiveness by a small amount. I'm still very worried though, because of the missed pill. It's way to late to use any emergency contraception, so if I am pregnant, i'm going to have to deal. I absolutely will not terminate the pregnancy! I am 100% against that. My boyfriend obviously doesn't want to have a baby. He asked me if I would get an abortion if I was pregnant. When I said no, he became upset but dropped the subject entirely. We haven't talked about it since. My period is now 3 days late, and I am pretty sure it's not due to stress. I'm perfectly ok with the possible pregnancy. I'm a little upset as to how mine and my boyfriend's family will take it, but other than that i'm fine. I've had some mild cramping, but no other symptoms or signs of pregnancy. I still haven't taken a pregnancy test, if I don't start in a week, I plan on asking my boyfriend to get me one. We'll take it from there. But basically, i'm just looking for advice. (link)
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Well. I dont mean to scare you. BUT; my couisn was on the pill for about 6 years. She started on it when she was almost 15. Shes now 21. And. She got pregnant last february, and we later figured out its cause she missed ONE does of her birth control. thats ONE pill. and she just had her baby last week. So. You may want to wait for your period. And if it doesnt come, definatly find a free clinic in your area and go get a pregnancy test. Good luck. And let me know what happens. My aim is; binas a ninja and my yahoo is; preskool.dropout
Hope I helped. :D
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I think I have a crush on my bestfriend!!and plus im always looking at girl!their hair,their body ther smile there everything!!!.Last year people made a rumor at my old school that me and my bff were lesbians and we got really mad and told everyone they were wrong!.We are always hugging,dancing together,holdings hands!and some people well think we are lesbians!but the truth is that I think im straight ...just curious!and well I think my bestfriend is straight but sometimes shes a little to friendly!I need some help! (link)
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Well. Even if you have a crush on her, theres nothing wrong with that. You can't control your sexuality. It just happens. And if you do like her. Maybe you should bring up the subject and being bi-curious to her, but don't quite say you ARE, unless she shows interest in it.
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