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Ok i feel kind of dumb asking myself a question but i need to know what i can tell myself.... I am really scared because my bf for 1 month wants to have sex and i told him i was a virgin(yeah right) but he told me he wanted to take my virginity what on earth should i do?
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YOu really shouldn't have lied tohim to begin with, because when it comes down to it, a month into your relationship and your already lying isn't a good way to start. But, you should tell him the truth, and tell him the reason you lied. And if he truly cares/wants to be with you, he'll understand and forgive you.
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Tell him the truth and that you are sorry you lied but only did it because he was looking forward to losing his virginity to you and you to him at the same time.
Tell him that ultimately it doesn't matter as you still want to experience this kind of intimacy with him and can help guide him so he knows what he is doing and doesn't feel uncomfortable when he decides to engage in this activity with you.
The truth is needed here but once you tell him you did it to protect him and or his feelings and desires I think he will understand why you did.
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You should tell him that you really aren't a virgin. Honesty is the best policy when it comes to relationships. Especially if it goes as far as sex.
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You should wait.
Look, the 'yeah right' implies that you aren't actually a virgin. And if you felt like you had to lie to your boyfriend, then you obviously aren't ready to have sex with him, right? I think you should tell him that you're not ready to have sex. You don't have to tell him you lied about your virginity, but you should say something like, "Look, I like you a lot, but I'm just not ready, and if you respect me and care for me, you'll wait until I am."
If you ARE in fact a virgin and I just misread that, I still think you should wait. Again, if you're not 100% sure that it's time, or if you have to ask what you should do, then you're obviously not ready.
I'm not saying you should wait for any certain amount of time, like years or even months, but I do think you should wait until you're 100% sure that you're ready to have sex with him (or anyone else, for that matter).
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You should go along with it. Have sex as if you were a beginner. Convince him that you are a virgin.
Hope this helps!
Mimzy*
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