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hey! i`m katie & i`m just making this advice column on a whim. but i feel that i have a lot i can help people with. i`m a great listener and i`ll give advice on things like boys, sports, exercise, make-up, moving, family, friends, love, break-ups, life, school, moving & anything else you can think of. No question is too personal, but if you feel that it really is you can e-mail me anytime & id be glad to help you out!


a little about myself, i`m a 15 year old volleyball player from missouri. i`m a southern girl through and through. i`m currently single!! i live with my parents and have one older sister who is basically my hero. i have been through a lot of rough shit and have managed through with the help of my friends and family. life isn`t always easy and i learned that very young but i`m working on myself, and trying to live each day happy. figuring out who i am :)


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I play se;ect soccer. I get really really nervous before games and i don't know how not to be. I won't eat anything and i won't talk and i need a way to make my stomaach not hurt before a game and to be less nervous and calm!! Please help thanSS!!

Try to breathe and think about things that make you happy. I have played club sports before and I know they are serious and coaches put a lot of pressure on you but try to remember, your life doesnt rely on that one game. It will be okay and just try to have fun!

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Ok, I love wearing makeup. Its pretty fun but I suck at eyemakeup! How much eyeliner is too much and what areas should eyeshadow cover? Like should it go right under my eyebrow because that's what one person told me?

Too much eyeliner is really a personal thing. If you feel like you have too much on then you probably do. I personally dont wear eyeliner under my eyes too often because it doesn`t look good on me but on some people it looks good. As far as eyeshadow, it should go a little above the crease of your eye. I don`t put eyeshadow up to my eyebrow because I think it makes you look older (not in a good way).

Just some visuals as far as how far up I wear my eyeshadow.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v30/xneonsporkx/100_4772.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v30/xneonsporkx/100_3078.jpg

A great tip with makeup is wear what you feel good in. Play up your good features!

Hope I helped.

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soccer is coming up soon.... i need to get in shape... really bad. whenever i run now i feel i get out of breath a lot easier. and i think my leg muscles decreased, i lost a lot of weight. what can i do do get in shape, and increase my muscles (mainly leg muscles.. although arm muscles would help for my throw-ins)?

thanks..

I think you should start jogging as soon as you can. I play soccer and I know running is a huge part of it, that will help increase your stamina. Also as far as leg muscles go, lunges are killer. A great way to incorperate legs and arms is to do lunges will you hold weights straight out in your hands. So, your taking big lunges steps with dumbels or any other kind of weights in your hands.

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i know alot of girls probably do this.. but i always compare myself to models and girls who i believe are prettier than me.. im always putting myself down and looking in the mirror finding everything thats wrong with me and wishing i was perfect like other girls I know... does anyone else do the same.. how do you get over it

I think every girl does the same thing, weather they admit it or not. I know I do and the best thing to do is just try to think positive. Find your best feature and play that up. Also try to remember that those models you see in magazines are airbrushed beyond belief so it would be really hard for a normal person to look like them, because thats not even how they look! Keep your head up and surround yourself with people who also dont compare themselves to models & such. It will get easier!

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I've been making clothes for myself for a while and Its so much fun...but I can't think of anything to make. So I was wondering, does anyone have any good do it yourself clothes ideas?
domo arigato to all!

I personally dont make clothes but I think some cute ideas would be purses, belts, PJ pants, tops and jackets. I`m sure you can make just about anything. I really wish I was that creative and patient to be able to sew.

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okay my guy friend and i were suppose to spend yesterday together but we didn't cuz he didn't call me. he is not a dependable person. so today in the hall he said hi and i ignored him. was that the right thing to do? and does anyone have any ideas on what i should say to him or what should i do?

honestly, the right thing to do is what you think. i don`t think you should have completely ignored him but it was rude of him not to call. if it was my bestfriend (also a guy) i would have just went up and yelled at him. guys are slow, they dont understand that when you say your going to call - YOU SHOULD CALL! lol anyways, just talk to him and do what feels good to you!

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okay well i used to like this kid matt, and he found out but we didnt make a big deal out of it. it was around christmas. now its like 3 months later and im starting to like him again. he doesnt know.. but it seems like he wants to be with me alot more. he is always volunteering me for things in school, like today in math we did this thing with judges ((dont ask)) and he was like.. she would be good at it!! and i was like.. but i dont like to talk.. and he was like.. shut up you love to talk you talk to me all the time.. and then at lunch he kept looking at me and whenever our eyes met he would smile at me. im not sure if i should tell him or not.

I think you should talk to him, as hard as it may be it`s really best to tell him how you feel. He may be the same way, and just be shy about it or he may have different feelings but it`s so much better once you know the truth. If it`s meant to be then it will happen. Just be friends with him, he obviously has an intrest in you just see where it goes!

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Ive waxed before but only on my face. Im tired of shaving everything below my chin!!!!! What is safe to wax. I mean what areas. Should I go to a pro for it?????

Basically, any area is safe to wax but if it`s anywhere other then your legs, I would say go to a pro. You really don`t want to burn yourself because things like that can take weeks to heal.

katie

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