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me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and things have been going great and since i can only see him once a month it has been hard. school has started and so has the girls hitting on him again and his ex tryin to be all over him. but any how for the past 3 days (school started on tusday for him) he has been spend A LOT of time at the mall or at the store doing soemthing. i dont know with who or anything just that when i call he says he will call me back and NEVER does so yesterday i called back and he said 7 words hi i will call you back later.. i was like ok bye and hung up on him yesterday i only talked to him for 30 minutes the day before that to. i am scared that he found soemone else and since i am not around him all the time idk what is happening?? i want to talk to him about it but idk what to say i love him and dont want to loose him.. any advice??
love always,
sad hearted girl (link)
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Dear Sad Hearted Girl,
You and your boyfriend needs o sit down and have a one on one talk. If he's been messing around with someone else then its time to breakup. Seeing eachother once a month is hard to keep the relaitonship going. Tell him how you feel and ask him whats up with him ignoring you.
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. Things are great but.. things feel the same all the time and i want to get that new, bubble feeling back. So.. i guess my question here is.. how do i keep things going? Keep them fun and happy? (link)
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Try doing new things even if its riddiculous and weird n crazy. Just have fun.
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I`m Havin my birthday party in a week and idk what movies to rent for the party.
(Its a sleepover and I have 8 Friends coming ) We all like comedies/chick flicks such as Mean Girls. Some of my friends are still 13 so please not any R rated movies. We also like some scary movies.
Thankss for the help loveliess``. (link)
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Try the new ones that have just came out.
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k even though halloweeen is sorta far away does neone know any costume place to buy a sexy barbie costume ill rate 5s if there good sites (link)
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PARTY CITY! lol or you can make your own its not that hard just resize it.
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Hey, me & this boy named Kyle have been best friends since 2nd grade, he's liked me since then (2nd grade) for a girlfriend & I've liked him as a boyfriend since 5th grade. We never dated because I didn't want to ruin our relationship as friends, and if we ever broke up I didn't want it to seem awkward for us! So, now I'm in 10th grade & I just moved 26 hours away from him (We both still live in the USA) Just I live in Texas and he lives in Pennsylvania. We talk on the phone & internet. I love him to death he's absolutely amazing, and he tells me the same thing back. Except, he won't wait until we graduate for me, he says "Whatever happens, happens!" I guess he's right in a way, I can't stop him from seeing other people, but I want him to sooo bad. He doesn't believe in long distance relationships, so. I don't know what to do. Is he right about the whole situation? Or, do you think I'm just over reacting about the whole thing? Thanks for your help! (link)
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What ever you do keep being his friend because relationship has a friendship base. Just still be in touch and if you meet again you can talk about going out then.
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Ok it all started when i was in 5th grade. There was this kid a year older then me and he was really cute!!! he went to my school and he imed me and i said hey!! and we were talkin then i started to talk to him and one day he must have gotten annoyed by me or something and so we stopped talkin to eachother. then like a few months later everytime he seen me he'd like always look at me and stuff. and i was in a school play and i was putting on my shoes and in the corner of my eye he was looking like right at me but he tries not to make it obvious. Does he like me or what??? Thanks! (link)
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Ask someone to ask him. Or maybe he's just messing with you. Yeah people can give the wrong hints sometimes. or if you want to ask him to hang out or something just for fun not a date but like a group thing.
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My school's homecoming dance is in about 2 weeks. I keep hearing "so and so is gonna ask you" and then the next day "nevermind he might not even go" I'm starting to get really upset that i might not get asked, i'm not really unnattractive either, but i always try to hook up my friends with the guys i really like.. stupid i know. I just wanna know what I could do to not feel so down bout boys cus every1 knows they aren't worth it.. thanx in advance n i'll rate high!! (link)
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On my first homecoming me and my friends went as a group. Some of them had dates but we all went together and hung out in our own crowd. It's much more fun in a group you don't need a date. But if you really want one try going as friends with someone.
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I've known this boy for about a year now and right when I met him I liked him a lot. I've gone out with him 3 times. I ALWAYS think about him. It's so hard not to. And if i hear that he likes another girl a little i cry. He says he likes me but I just heard about the other girl thing. Anyways, I havent SEEN him for 4 months straight. I feel really depressed if i dont talk to him for a long time. If I think about him my heart starts to like pound and when he comes online I get a really cold sweat. Do I love him or what? it feels like I do so much and if he died OMG id probably cry my eyes out for 3 weeks straight. SO do you think I'm obsesed or I love him?? :( (link)
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I think that your just crushing over him. If you get nervous when you see him or jumpy n butterflys in your stomach or you get all sewaty n stuff you're probably in love and it could last a while. If you really like him ask him to hang out not like a date but like a group thing or something.
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I always have trouble on picture day, I have wide shoulders and a large bustline, and not many styles of shirts look flattering, tank tops make me look like a football player, and halters are even worse. I look too busty with a v-nack, but simple shirts seem to just make everything look worse. Does anyone have any shirt ideas that can flatter or disguise my flaws?
14/female. (link)
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Ok try a rounded neck line or do layers. Wear a shirt with a jacket outside. or a scarf tie n let it hang. Try adding a necklace so its less concentrated on your chest.
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does anyone know where i can get the lyrics to "Whats Happenin" by D4L? thanks (link)
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go to www.atozlyrics.com n type in da title.
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I i know this guy who likes this chick. BUt his friends dont want him to date her becasue shes asian and hes white. What he should he do his friends will stop hangin out with him if he does go out with her? (link)
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Ok if his friends are against him for going out with someone of a different race then their not a true friend. Because a true friend doesn't care or judge. Maybe they don't like for someother reason and is using her race as a coverup if he really likes her give it a shot.
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hey okay heres my problem...i have this ex hes a senior and ima soph. like we dont reAlLY get to see each other a whole lot since we go to different schools and such well i he says he likes me i and think i like him too but im not too sure if he really really likes me we've done stuff together and one time...the last time i saw him....he wanted to take it all the way home...we didnt and im glad i didnt im so confused idk if he wants me just for sex or if he really likes me...hes really sweet and loyal to me and i do trust him idk if i love him though beause im confused if he just wants me for sex...what do you think or what should i do?? thanks in advance! (link)
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guys get horny its in their genes but if he really cares then he wouldn't want to do it all the time. I think you should take it slow. He sounds like any other guy but I'd be careful. I don't really know what else to say but to go with your instincts.
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Okay well I have this friend..and she is a lot older than me and I know shes my friend and will always be there for me..but like my other friends who are my age dont like her at all. And they never gave her a chance which bothers me. Shes so down to earth and awesome..but like..my friends want me to stop hanging out with her and I really dont want to. I'm not sure what to do. What do I do? Pretend I dropped her and not talk about her around my friends...or just totally drop her or drop my friends who want me to drop her? (link)
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If your friends don't like your other friend then maybe there's a reason. But if they just hate her for no reaso nthen their not your friends. Because no one can tell you who to hang out with because thats just messed up. And if your friends can't accept your other friend then just forget them and hang out with who your real friend is.
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I'm thirteen and I want my navel pierced. My Grandparents [who were really strict with my Mom and her sister], are even okay with it. Both of my parents say that I'm too young. But my Dad doesn't live with me, so my Mom can still say yes. I asked her why she wouldn't let me get it done and she said 1] that she thinks if I got that done I would want my nipples done or something crazy like that. 2] she thinks I would walk around with belly shirts or something. I told her I'm not a whore like that and that I wouldn't do either of those. And my question to you is do you think I'm too young? And what do you think I should do to convince my Mom? (link)
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Uh.. well I think maybe you should until you start highschool and then ask her again.
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ok..well...my friend who i have known(he is a guy0 since before kindergarten is going out with this girl who every1 totally hates because she is like sluttish and whoreish. a lot of girls like him and he said no to all of them..except he was leading one girl on..and then he just suddenly goes out with the other girl..now everyone is mad at him bc of that..and he has been lying a lot recently. the girl who got lead on is so depressed. i dont know whether to agree with her or my guy friend. and im somehow in the middle of this. please help me sorry this is so long
torn in 2 (link)
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Dear Torn in 2, ok if people call a girl a slut or whore they might not like her for some reason. Your guy friend doesn't seem to be right and if you talk to him and get his side maybe there'a reason why. Break ups are always hard so if this girl is going through a depression don't stop her let her cry and spill her guts out. She'll gt over it eventually.
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and i cant explain the way i feels inside.not really afraid
of rejection but more afraid of how it feels.
its like getting hurt again is not an option,' its more like a
garuntee and im scared to get hurt again
...what song is that? i rate high! (link)
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I have know idea but copy and paste this in yahoo or google and maybe something will pop up.
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My life really sucks. The guy i like has this really popular and pretty girlfriend. All the people at school make fun of me. I do not have alot of friends. My family doesn't seem like they care for me too much. I even sometimes think of suicide.
At school all of the people make fun of me. I am no dork but people make fun of me the way i dress and just plain make fun of me. On my school lacrosse team people always make fun of me. Not to brag but i am probably the best person on the team and yet there are still people making fun of me of the things i do. On my soccer team some of the girls make fun of me too. I do not have alot of friends either. My dad always bothers me to have someone come over and he asks me the number of people i called and its only about 3 because i really don't have alot of friends to call. My family is always yelling at me to. I try to be nice but then my sister makes some smart remark and then my parents expect me to be nice to her. And they think she is like the perfect angel child that does everything right. My sister even sometimes makes fun of me by saying i have no friends. Suicide is also something i think about and life is something i want to take away because it really sucks. Please add some advice to this column. It would really help. Even if it is just about one thing. Please help. (link)
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Ok suicide is no way to go. Your young you have a whole life ahead of you. If people don't like the way you look who cares no ones perfect but if you want get a mini make over change your hair style and/or color and buy some new outfits. Throw a party and inivite some kids from school and get to know them better. Parents can be so annoying just listen but you don't have to pay attention just nodd yes an walk away. Just be alone sometimes, away from people and have some time by yourself. get a journal see a counsolor because they listen to peoples problems and help you.
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I play field hockey and its preseason and i hurt my musucle under my ribs. first it was only the one but now it is both. what should i do? is it from running 1-4 miles a day? shouldi ask to take the day off of running or what? HELP PLEASEE (link)
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You should really get a doctor to see because only a doctor can tell you how to fix it.
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13/m, and all of my friends have made out, and theres a party tomm and everyone plans to make out there. problem is, i dont know how. help. (and dont tell me it comes natural, other then tht, ill rate 5's) (link)
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Um... trying buying some starbursts and if you can unwrap them in your mouth then you'll be fine.
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I have a friend who is over weight and is always saying Im so fat!! Even though she kind of is I dont want to be mean so I say no your not.I dont want to keep lieing to her but I dont want to just say Yeah you are.How can I just make her stop saying she is fat and ugly without hurting her feeling.I rate high..PS If we say something mean to her she freaks out and says omg I cant belive you just said that. (link)
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Tell her how you feel because you can't get someone to know how you feel unless you let them know whats bothering you. And if she still does it or says your mean then she's not a godd friend. Tell her all this time you could have said so many things but you didn't because you care.
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