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Hey, me & this boy named Kyle have been best friends since 2nd grade, he's liked me since then (2nd grade) for a girlfriend & I've liked him as a boyfriend since 5th grade. We never dated because I didn't want to ruin our relationship as friends, and if we ever broke up I didn't want it to seem awkward for us! So, now I'm in 10th grade & I just moved 26 hours away from him (We both still live in the USA) Just I live in Texas and he lives in Pennsylvania. We talk on the phone & internet. I love him to death he's absolutely amazing, and he tells me the same thing back. Except, he won't wait until we graduate for me, he says "Whatever happens, happens!" I guess he's right in a way, I can't stop him from seeing other people, but I want him to sooo bad. He doesn't believe in long distance relationships, so. I don't know what to do. Is he right about the whole situation? Or, do you think I'm just over reacting about the whole thing? Thanks for your help!
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I can see where he's coming from. I mean most long-distance relationships are very hard to do, you have to be VERY determined to keep the relationship, and try to see eachother as much as possible ( which would be hard in your case seeing as you two are like 26 hours away.. ) so maybe you should just do like he says, just see what happens. Just keep talking to him on the phone and on IM and maybe even try and see if you guys can visit eachother from time to time, because if you guys love eachother as much as you guys do, I don't think you guys'll be dating other people and stuff. So then whenever you guys graduate, then maybe you guys can get together and stuff. I hope everything works out for you two and I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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What ever you do keep being his friend because relationship has a friendship base. Just still be in touch and if you meet again you can talk about going out then.
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Well, like you said, he IS right. Whatever happens, happens. Its good that you two have been friends for so long & its amazing that you both have liked eachother that way for so long. I guess all you can do, is keep in touch like you have been doing... don't just let him go. Keep him as a good friend, you two go way back. Let him know that you'll always have a place in your heart for him and you hope that he has one for you. Who knows, maybe he won't find someone he likes and vice versa. Just keep in touch, stay friends... and if its possible, visit him.
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well this is comming from a girl that has had a long distance relationship for over a year now. i met my bf online and didnt actually meet untill about 3 months into it. if he really liked you hed probably wait. i know men will be men and are honry but if this guy loves you like you love him, he shouldnt even have other options. if you love someone others just seem to fall short. then again i also heard from a married women that she was apart from her husband atm for 5 years for collage and such and she cheated on him and he with others but it wasnt relaly cheating to them.. it was more like using people to satisfy a certain thing but they knew they were gonna be together at the end and stop with others. so its what you make with him! if hes certain that hes gonna be with you after HS then thats something i guess, but if he doesnt even wanna wait for you at all.. idk how much hed be worth waiting for you...
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