im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m we've almost been together a year and for our anniversary i want to get matching necklaces. Like half a heart for him and the other half for me and it have a saying on it. Or any other his and her necklaces. i've been trying to look around on the internet but most of it is all girly. Does anybody know any good websites to go to for that?
Thanks a bunch!
I dont think they do much stuff like this unfortunately.. i was looking for awhile. What i ended up doing is getting dog tag necklaces that could be engraved.
here's an example:
http://www.evesaddiction.com/detail_NL10401__563__Personalized_Stainless_Steel_Love_Dog_Tag.html
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I am an 18 year old girl. I had sex twice so far, both with my boyfriend who is 2 years older than me. The first time it hurt a lot. We did foreplay a LOT before. I was really wet and we used a lubricated condom. It hurt every time he entered me, but he went slow which helped. After, i had a little spotting, but not too bad. Then today, we had sex again, and it was the same deal. Lots of foreplay, he went slowly, i was wet and the condom was lubricated. There was less spotting this time, but it hurt just as bad. I was wondering, how many times did it take to have sex before it didnt hurt for you girls? Thank you. I know every girl is different but i want to know what other girls went through because i cant even enjoy it because it hurts so bad. Again, thanks!
My first time really didnt hurt much at all and the guy was BIG! lol
but i fingered myself a lot before and i think that helped stretch me out a little bit. If you're comfortable with it, you should try fingering yourself or sticking other penis sized/shaped objects inside yourself to loosen you up a little bit. Oh and make sure you're relaxed too, it will hurt more if you're tense.
have fun and good luck!
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i'm 19 years old, female.
i've never had sex before, never been fingered, havent done anything really! only made out, and i havent done that in like three years, ohhhh god embarassing! i've been really really horny lately and i really just want to be sexual. now i'm not saying i just want to go have sex with random guys but i would like to get pleasured:)
i'm not into the whole dildo/vibrator thing either...not for me! i just dont know how to go about doing something, and letting my hormones go crazy. i dont even know why i'm like this! i'm on birth control, but probably because i havent really done anything sexal before right??
i hear about my friends having alot of fun and getting frisky haha and no i wouldnt do it because my friends are! i'd do it for ME. i'm 19, i know how to make wise choices, and i think i have so far! but would it be bad to have a guy finger me or to just have some fun with a guy?
You're young and you should be allowed to have some fun with guys haha so id say go for it. Just make sure to have him wear a condom if you decide to do anything that involves his dick touching any of your orifices (lol). You never know what these random guys can have and im sure ud feel pretty silly if you got an std like the first time you did something with a guy. So just be careful and have fun!
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Okay i am dating this guy, and i mean we are doing fine and everything, hes just younger than me and things.. and my ex boyfriend? we haven't been together since probably last valentines day? and the guy i'm dating we have been together for like a week now.. but my ex is telling me he wishes that he could take that part of his life back where he broke my heart, that he still loves me and he always will and he misses me and he wants to be with me and that im the one for him?
-bad part about it is, he has never said anything like that before to me? so i really don't know if i should give him another chance, or what? i mean i still love him & no matter what i would do anything for him, and he has told me he has changed and his mom even said he has? and he cried over me the other night, and he tells me EVERY day that he means that! except last night, he told me that he will always feel the same way about me, but he just doesn't want to hurt me again or anything, and he wants me and him to be friends and he just dont want to date at the moment, but yet he said he still feels the same and always will no matter what? and for a year straight i always wanted him back, and he never would consider it? but now that i have a boyfriend i think he has finally realized what he wants, or maybe he is just telling me that? i dunno..so what should i do? please helpp me =(
I was in a situation kinda similar to this.. the guy went like months without talking to me and every once in a while id send him a message on facebook or aim or text him and he never responded and then out of no where he texted me and was really really nice to me for like three weeks and i was sooo happy and then he was back to not talking to me again. he just wanted to have sex with me and once he did that he had no use left for me. that sucked and i was really sad about it for along time.
Haha sorry i took up so much space with a story about me when im supposed to be answering your question but i would probably say that this sounds a little suspicious. If you still love him and want it to work than you should try to make it work but dont get too attached to him right away and dont make it too easy for him. He needs to earn your trust back after hurting you. You can start out just being friends and see how that works before you go and end it for no reason with the guy you're currently dating. But I'm sure that since you two have been dating for such a short time, he would understand if you said you still had feelings for your ex.
Hope that helps, and i really hope it works out for you two. Good Luck!
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I have huge boobs and I absolutely hate it, because Im only 5'4 and i'm fairly skinny so my boobs are totally disporportionate. I was a D, and then I went on birth control and now i'm a DD. I really want a breast reduction, but if I get one and go down to a C, when I go off the pill, will I go down to a B?
Thanks!!
It's different for everyone.. some peoples breasts stay larger after they go off birth control and some dont.. mine didnt :( So i would wait until awhile after you go off of the birth control. If you want to do it immediately than i guess you should probably get advice from the doctor that prescribed your birth control.
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so how do guys like the area to be shaven down their? completley shaved or what?
ok so im a girl but all of the guys who ive been with have liked nothing there. Thats probably the safest bed. I'm sure different guys like different things like shapes and stuff can be fun but you should ask the guy who's going to be seeing that area of you what his preference is.
Word to the wise: dont do anything that you dont feel comfortable with and you're not willing to maintain. If you let your hair down there grow out after shaving it all completely off than it will itch REALLY badly.
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Hey i wasnt sure where to put this question but what does BS question stand for?iv seen it written on the site soemtimes but just cnt figure it out..sorry if this is a dumb question
bull shit
pardon my language haha but thats what it stands for
its basically like saying:
you're lying
or
i dont agree with you
or
thats dumb
or something along those lines lol
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im 17 and ive been dating my guy for 3 years. he's been my best friend through everything and i honestly love him alot. i want to have sex with him and i know hed stay with me if something like a baby came along but i reallllyy don't want that, since we're only 17 and seniors in high school. i plan on getting on birth control soon and obviously we're going to use a condom and hes gonna pull out. and we're gonna do it right when i get off my period. so my questions are how long should i wait after i get on birth control? and are there any other precautions?
you should specify what birth control you're going to get because it's different for every different kind of birth control.
also if you want to be extra extra safe you could use spermicide too. You put it inside you before you have sex and it stops the sperm from moving.
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my boyfriend and i were carless and got pregnant, we were planning on keeping it but due to complications with the baby its heart stopped and we had to have an abortion.
that was on june 11th ..
for the last four days i have been feeling like im pregnant, like mood swings, lower back pain, and when i take a bite of something it feels like i hate a whole pizza and then 20 minutes later it feels like i havent eaten in days.. that was my worst symptom when i was pregnant and it came back about 4 days ago, my boyfriend and i have been careful we use condoms everytime now except once.. we did the pull out method i have had my period since we did the pull out method.. i havent said anything to anyone because i dont think i could be pregnant again.. let alone its so soon? am i just being paranoid?
It's very unlikely that you are already pregnant again especially since you've been careful. You're probably just being paranoid but if it will make you feel better than you should pick up a pregnancy test just so you know for sure and can stop worrying about it.
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I'm a 13 year old girl, and there is this guy. Well, actually 2 guys One is super nice, and I think he likes me, but I've only known him for about a week. The other guy I've known for a while longer (about a year) and I'm pretty sure he likes me as well. These 2 guys have known each other for a long time, and they never got along. I don't want to ruin my friendship with either of them... but there is a dance coming up at school, and I want to know what to do if they both ask me out. (I kinda like both of them, by the way). What should I do?
If you like both of them equally than just go with whoever asks you first and then if the second one asks you too than you can just tell them oh sorry i would totally go with you but i already got asked by someone else.
Have fun!
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I have some old scars from piercings I use to have. They are old facial scars, mainly. I had a monroe (upper lip), middle lower lip, nose, and both nipples pierced. It's embarrassing because I look back now and see how stupid I was to do all of that. I mean, what was I thinking?!?!
ANYWAY, that isn't the point! The point is that I want to leave that junk behind me but I have these scars that keep reminding me of my stupidity and it makes me feel like trash. How can I get rid of these scars? I know there are scar creams available but I don't know what works and what doesn't...
Can anybody help, please?
You should see a dermatologist if you can. I had really bad acne scars (I know it's a little different) and they gave me this cream called trentinoin or something like that and within two months they were totally gone. A dermatologist will be able to tell what is the best way to remove your scars. I'm guessing that if over the counter stuff did not work for my acne scars, than it probably wont work very well for your scars either. If they're really bad and nothing works you could also get them removed with a laser.
Good Luck!
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So I searched Facebook's Help Center, and found nothing. Probably because there's nothing to find, but I'm going to ask anyway.
If you hide your friends' posts from being visible on your wall, and vice versa, is there a way to find out?
Meaning, is there a way to know if my friends ignore me, or if they can find out I'm ignoring them?
nope :)
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me and my boyfriend play around alot, like sexually . but i can never get wet, like even when we're having sex ,and he takes it out for like a minute, im dry . is there anyway i can change that ? or is there somethings he can do ?
maybe try lube. If you can't get lube or don't want to then you could try having him go down on you or just other foreplay to get you turned on. I don't really know what you've already tried so it's kinda hard to give advice on it. Hope that helped a little anyways.
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So i'm almost 17 and when i am 18 i am wanting to get plastic surgery done to get a bigger but i dont want it real big but i hav a real small but right now and its hard to find pants that fit and i hate it so i want to know if you think this is a good idea and how much do u think this would cost
thanks
I think that before you get surgery you should atleast look into other things. I used to have a tiny butt but then i started doing some exercises to get muscle tone there and now im known as the skinny white girl with the big booty haha. So yeah i would recommend doing exercises that increase your butt muscle. You can just look it up on google or something. Type in butt exercises or butt workouts or something and you'll get alot of good ones. Some of them say that they like decrease flab, but if you dont have any flab there then you would just increase muscle which would make your butt bigger like you want. Or you could try butt pads like the other person said but if you're going to the beach or having a romantic night with your man than that might not work. If nothing works for you and you really hate your butt then maybe you should consider getting the surgery but definitely try other things first.
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okay so my boyfriend is a marine and we've been going out for almost 2 years. he is being deployed soon out to afganistan. but i can still send him stuff for his birthday and the holidays. besides the fact i dont know what to buy a guy in general, i dont know what to get him that would last over sea shipping, and show him i love him.
help
ok here are some ideas:
you could get him a really nice comfy blanket but use it for awhile first or spray the perfume you usually use on it to make it smell like you so he has something to remember you by and cuddle up with when he misses you.
you could take some pictures of yourself for him or get some pictures of you two together and make cute little frames for them.
you could write him a sweet letter or poem or draw him a picture if you're artistic.
Really what he would appreciate most is probably something very personalized that would remind him of you. hope that helps a little bit
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Is Ozzy Osbourne a sin or unChristian or bad to listen to. I like some of his songs but Im trying very hard to be a better Christain. Thanks in advance!
well i'm not a serious christian or anything but there's def music alot worse than ozzy to listen to. Yeah he has kind of a bad rep for being crazy and thats probably pretty true, but if you listen to the lyrics of his songs, there really isnt anything that bad in them.
Like "Mr. Crowley" is a song making fun of a magician. So if you're just going by his music than i'd say listening to it isnt a sin at all but if you take it like by listening to his music you're supporting him and his crazyness than maybe it could be considered a sin.
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For starters, I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 20. I was just wondering who you guys would agree with. We were at his friend's place one day and were well..wanting each other. He wanted to ask his friend if we could use his bedroom. But I didn't want him to know so I said we should just go to the bathroom and not tell his friend. His friend was playing video games so he wouldn't have noticed if we were gone for a little. So which do you guys think is better? Tell him and use his bedroom or not tell him and just do it in the bathroom?
i think i would have to agree with you. Having sex on my bfs friends bed would just be really weird for me but i guess thats just my opinion. And sneaking around is usually hotter for me because theres always that little risk of getting caught. And if your boyfriend was close enough to his friend to consider asking if you two could have sex on his bed, then i dont think it would have been that big of a deal if he caught you guys in the bathroom. Thats just me tho. Hope that helped.
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http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=9188478
This game, does it mean that you can download the sims 2, the sims 2 nightlife expansion pack, and the Sims Celebration stuff ?
yes :)
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I'll be 16 in a month and I haven't hit puberty yet. Never had a period, flat chest, no crazy sexual day dreams, and I only get the occassional random makeout dream.
So, what gives? When is it my turn to become a woman? =P Not that I mind not having a period, but come on, I want some kind of curvage.
OH andddd, I have one more thing to ask, can you get pregnant if you've never had a period? (No I'm not considering sex, I was just wondering) and, can sex cause you to start having a period? (a friend said it could LOL and I don't think it can)
i dont really have much advice on the other parts but about the pregnant part. It actually is possible to get pregnant when you haven't gotten your period yet. Its unlikely, but there's always the chance that your period would start a few weeks after you have sex and then there's a chance of getting pregnant.
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so i kind of know what this is but i dont like i think you use it if you didnt take the pill and know your prego but you have 48 or is it 72 hours to take it after sex but how would you know if your prego in that amount of time? but say i have sex and i use a condom but i dont use birth control but the day after i use the morning after pill would that work? what are the chances of me getting pregnant if i used the morning after pill? how affectvie is it? overall just tell me how it works and if its good to use or not !!! :]
the morning after pill can be taken up to 72 hours after you have sex, but the sooner you take it, the more effective it is. You are right that you can't know if you are pregnant that early. You take it if there's a chance you could be pregnant. If you used a condom and then took the pill right after that and then took another one in the morning like the directions tell you, than it would make it alot less likely for you to get pregnant, but there is no guarantee that you wont.
If you're 16, you should get a prescription for it at the doctor, and it's usually cheaper that way. But for adults, you can get it at pretty much any pharmacy without a prescription so if you know any adults that would do that for you...
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