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sex hurts the second time?
I am an 18 year old girl. I had sex twice so far, both with my boyfriend who is 2 years older than me. The first time it hurt a lot. We did foreplay a LOT before. I was really wet and we used a lubricated condom. It hurt every time he entered me, but he went slow which helped. After, i had a little spotting, but not too bad. Then today, we had sex again, and it was the same deal. Lots of foreplay, he went slowly, i was wet and the condom was lubricated. There was less spotting this time, but it hurt just as bad. I was wondering, how many times did it take to have sex before it didnt hurt for you girls? Thank you. I know every girl is different but i want to know what other girls went through because i cant even enjoy it because it hurts so bad. Again, thanks!
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hey,,, mmm i think that the first time he hurt you so bad that it might have irritated something down their. so thaqts probly why the second time hurt.. but i say give it about 5 days to heal over and try again and tell him to take it easy and go slow at first for about the first 4 minutes and then a little faster if u guys want and that should help.
wow im so sorry.. mabie you should ask your doctor.. ive been haveing sex for a while and it doesnt hurt at all and the second time for me was fine also.. i dont think thats normal. mm but mabie if your on birth control it could have some effect on you thats makeing it uncomfortable for you to have sex. im sorry i could not help you. if theirs anything else i can do please let me know. thanks.
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My first time really didnt hurt much at all and the guy was BIG! lol
but i fingered myself a lot before and i think that helped stretch me out a little bit. If you're comfortable with it, you should try fingering yourself or sticking other penis sized/shaped objects inside yourself to loosen you up a little bit. Oh and make sure you're relaxed too, it will hurt more if you're tense.
have fun and good luck!
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Honestly it only hurt a little my first time because the guy wasnt that big. But when I got this Boyfriend that was big.. lol it hurt for the first 4 times. because you havent had sex before this you are still really tight. if your boyfriend is bigger than it will hurt only because he has to stretch you but when you have been stretched enough it won't hurt as bad..... hope i helped
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