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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?

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still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?

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what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help!

i think that you should go out with his friend...cause why should u still go out with him if you dont like him anymore? ya'll two can still be friends but you should deffinatly go out with the guy u like. i think that it would hurt him more if you kept going out with him and didnt like him anymore and he found out then if you just dumped him. hope i've helped! :) please rate!

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Hey well none of my parents are home and I have like really bad swollen glands, and I was wondering if like I could take an ibprofin or whatever they are called? (sorry I can't spell) Because they hurt and I can bearly move my neck and head.

call one of your parents and see what they say. if you do take the medicine...read the back of the bottle to make sure you take the right amount. hope i've helped! please rate!

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so at my school if you dont live in greystone {The rich part} or wear abercrombi (which i think is pointless to pay 80 bucks for prefaded and pre riped jeans)any way if you arent privledged then ure pretty much the scum of the earth.All the punks have spiked or really long hair and wear black shirts and riped jeans. all the preps wear collerd shirts and north face jakets. any way they label the rich kids preps and the middle class to lower class punks. So punks hang out with punks and preps with preps but, this prep likes me and i like her and every one knows so we are both hated by our own soacial clases. so what should we do

GO OUT WITH HER! who cares what your friends think...they are not the ones who are going out with her. as long as she likes u and u like her...who cares what anyone else thinks. let your friends get to know her and let them see what a cool girl she is. hope i've helped. :)

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Everyone is always saying "I hate tanlines" blah blah blah. Is it wierd that I actually like them? Like if you wear a tube top after wearing a bathing suit that ties around your neck, or if you had cris cross straps on your back. I think its kind of like a sign that you tan. idk, I think its kind of cool...is that wierd? I don't like tanning lines after you wear shorts, or a farmers tan...

i LOVE tan lines! cause then when you were a tank top...everyone can see how tan you got! to me thats not weird at all! :) hope i helped alittle.

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Hey I have wrote before but I took out some of the names out of the choices that I wanted you guys to help me with.. I like unique names btw.. not like John or Matthew.. just so my baby will be most likely the only one in his class with that name.. Here's a list below and maybe if you find one or something I may like suggest it please!
Jayden
Daryk
Carsyn
Aiden
Kaden

thanks a bunch!!

i really like the name Jayden because none of the kids have that name. daryk is cool the way you spelt it but there is alot of kids named derek. and carsyn is also cool. i guess i like all of them but my favorite is Jayden.

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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused

hey! i am 14 years old and i just think that it is also gross! there is talk about things like that in my school, like that people have done that and i think that it is so gross. i am not having sex till i am married and i am very proud of my decision. i also dont want to go out with a guy who only wants that one thing.

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Hi, I am 13 going on 14 and i weigh about 106 lbs. give or take two. Is that fat? Bc i really feel fat and i feel like there is nothbing i can do.
What are some ways to lose like 10 lbs but staying healthy!
Ill rate high!
PLease Help!!!
*Overweight?*

to me that is not fat...but if you want to loose weight you can do crunches and push ups. also try to lift weights and run alot. i also like to dance to stay fit. lol but thats just me! =) hope i've helped.

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what are good gifts to get a guy for valentine's day..he's 17 & the 14th will also be our *5 months mark* ..thanx, kristen

i think that chaclate and candy is best for a guy. he will probley like whatever you give him. but dont get him a teddy bear or stuffed animal cause that would just be a waste of money cause when you think about it, like when his friends come over and stuff he cant really have a bear sitting on his bed. and its not like he will cuddle with it or anything...theres really no use to him haveing a stuffed animal. so i would stick to the candy and choclate if i were you! hope i've helped! =)

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i sweat(spelling?) ALOT and i cant seem to find a deoderent that works. any suggestions

there is this deoterant that is called adidas active and it works very well.

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I was just shoveling yesterday alot and last night when I was sleeping I noticed my back hurt ALOT. Today even when Im typing I cant bend over because it hurts too much. What can I do to stop it from hurting? Please help!
Jacki

first, tell your parents that it hurts and see if they have any ideas on what you should do, then put ice on it for a day and then the next day lay on a heating pad...you probley just pulled a muscle in it...but if it dosent get beeter soon i would go to the doctor.

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does anyone no any really good books. My mom wants me to get into reading (i hate reading) so i need a good book thatti wont hate to read!

anything will do! thanks a lot!

"A Child Called It" is a very good book! it is very sad at parts, but it is one of those books that you just won't be able to put down!!!

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im 16.f and my best friend is 13. she likes to boss me around and recently she told me that im so perty and i take everyone away for everyone else. shes not the skinniest person, but hes not overweight. she told me today to gain ten pounds and get ugly or im not realy her friend. im also goin out with her older brother. ( thats not the reason shes my friend tho) and shes told me to break up w/ him b4, but i cant just b/c she says so. she says she gets no attention and nobody likes her. i think i have a future with him and i cant just break it off b/c her. right? thanks..

if she controlles you and bosses you around and she is younger....then SHE is the one not being a true friends..dont break up with your boyfriend cause of her...my guess is that she is REALLY jeolus of you!

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how do u shrink a shirt...please help!

you washing machine and wash it then you put it in the dryer and dry it..the dryer is waht shrinks it..if you want a shirt shrunk, just wash it and then put it in a dryer, if you dont want it to shrink then just wash it and hang it up to dry! hope i've helped!:)

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i have been trying to do crunches for about 3 weeks and my stomach didnt really get any smaller. does any one know how many crunches to do in a day or does any one know what other techniques that will work to get a flatter stomach

try doing about 100 a day and make sure that ur legs are not to close to you. you want them to be at at least a 90 degree angle if not more. hope i've helped! :)

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i think that i am pregnant but i don't know! I don't wanna buy a pregnancy test cause i am only 15! I don't wanna go to the doctor because they may tell my parents! If i am pregnant should i abort my baby or just live with it? Please help i am soooo scared!

ya gotta live with it! dont abort the baby caust that means killing it and then the baby is dead cause you messed up!

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So I got offered this easy babysitting job from a rich family down the street, and they are going to pay me 50 dollars an hour, BUT at the same time my BFFs birthday party is going on. She said it was OK if i went to go babysit.i don't want her to think i don't care but I really need the money!!!!!!!!!!!

*Im 14 by the way and female*

go to your bff's party! you can babysit anyother day but your bff's birthday is only once a year!

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what should i do to get abs? i mean, im very skinny, but i just want to tone my stomach. what is the quickest and most effective way for me to accomplish this? please be specific. thanks

crunches work great!!! they give you a six pack as long as u keep doing them!

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My best friend Olivia invited me and this girl Whitney, her 2 best friends, to go get a manicure with her for her birthday. The only problem is that we're going on the 23rd, and it's the 14th, so i want to stop biting my nails but i don't know how-------any suggestions???????
PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!$$$babiid$$$$$$

hey! i have the same problem! i bit my nails so bad! well on new years..i made a resolution to stop bitting them..and ive done it...i put nail polish remover on them at night and at school i wore a rubberband and if i caught my self bitting them i would snap the rubberband...but mainly u just got to have to WANT to stop!! it worked for me! ir can work for you!

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what are some really good websites for jewelery i want to get my boyfriend I nice.. but yet sort of cheap ring but still very nice. Its the thought that counts but im low on cash. so spare me but please help

www.jamesavery.com they have the best real gold or sterling silver jewelery!

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I always wished I was fatter I'm so skinny and all my friends can wear tight jeans and juniors clothes and I'm stuck in 10/12 in pants and 14/16 in shirts. The 10/12's are even baggy, I can't fit in 8/9 because they are to short. How can I gain weight? I know I have to eat but is there any other ways?

if you want to become fatter then you should eat more...but you also need to control what you eat too because if you are eating tommuch then it will become addictive and once you get fatter you cant stop eating and then you will just become fat-fat!

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