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i'm 14 years old and i recently got a boyfriend that i really like, and me and him are doing great. but, since i've got this boyfriend, i seem to be spending less time with my friends. and they've been getting mad at me some. it's not that i don't want to hang out with them, i just somehow make plans with my boyfriend first. if anyone has advice on how i can manage friends & a boyfriend please help. i greatly appreciate it.
thanks,
xo megan.

i can understand completely where your coming from. i had a friend in the same position as you. Well, for your friends to know you love them and always will, plan a night just for them. Go to the movies with just you and them [without your boyfriend!] maybe on lie a friday night, then hangout with your boyfriend on saturday. also, it might seem like you hangout with him alot more than you do if you talk about him alot. while your with your friends just try to keep the talk about him on the downlow.

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Ooh my I can't understand Romeo and Juliet one bit. I just can't it's way to hard. So does anyone know where I can find a place on the internet to get like maybe a summary of every act or a modern day play like it?

i hope this site works for you...

http://www.wikisummaries.org/Romeo_and_Juliet

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what ae some songs about like
breaking up and regreting it
wanting someone back
thinking you made a hugge mistake by letting
somebody go

like examples:
* i will follow you into the dark- death cab for cutie
* a lonely september- plain white t's
* up against the wall- boys like girls.

help me out ?? :)

*so sick- ne-yo
*you belong to me- jason wade
*without you- rosario dawson
*my heart will go on- celine dion
*whole again- play
*when there was me and you- vanessa ann hudgens
*truth is- fantasia
*we belong together- mariah carrey

hope its enough.

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15/f


Why is it that whenever a person tells another person a secret or something ...some kind of news.....and that person is close to the other person...and no matter how much you BEG them...and PLEAD NOT to tell the secret...they still ALWAYS do.

What does this mean? Should I stop telling people secret stuff?...I mean....How can I NOT?....I tell my own SISTER stuff....and she spills the beans.


How can this be stopped?


What should I do if I crave to let my emotions and secrets out? Because there's a lot building up inside of me over time. And I can't be trusting of ANYONE anymore...since like all of them (the people) basically stuck a fork up my ass. And backstabbed me with a dagger.

:(

you might want to keep a diary of some sort.
if your friends and siblings have stabbed you in the back, most likely, they will do it again. If you need to let your emotions out you could keep a journal or something in your room and write down all of your secrets. Just make sure you hide it really well, and don't tell anyone you have it, or they might just go looking for it, and tell people your secrets.

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hey im 14/f
okay so. Im part asian, well mostly asian. i have brown hair and grayish eyes. my best feature is my eyes. but i have one problem. My nose is not extremely flat but its like a widish asian nose. and it does not go along with the rest of my face.

i was wondering if there is any makeup tricks to make my nose look slimmer and not as wide looking.


THANKS SO MUCH

do you have an eyeshaddow that is about one shade lighter than your skin tone? if you do, you can brush the color lighty on the sides of your nose and it will give a slimming effect.

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hey i was wondering if singing loses some calories

cause when i went to japan and went to a kareoke place, i started singing some songs like mariah carey. and if showed me how many calories i lost.

Can you really lose calories by singing?

as weird as this sounds, you actually can!
by contracting and pulling in your stomach muscles and expecially those high notes, burns fat! crazy, i know, but it workes.

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13/f.
do crunches even work?
i can do alot of them but my stomch is still fat its not shrinking.
i wana loose weight in my stomach whats a different way?
what do crunches even do?

crunches are really confusing.
sure, they make you loose some calories,
but not enough. If your skinny and you do crunches, it shapes your stomach and makes a six pack more visable. if your overweight, it also gives you a nice stomach, but under some of the fat. So even if you are overweigt, crunches are still good for you, so that when you do loose weight, your amazing abs show through. also, running helps loose weight very well. Whether your running in place to your sterio, on a treadmill, or outside, it always helps alot.
Hope i helped

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what are some tips for making out and kissing?

i need to know everything!

okay here are a few tips...

Great Breath - This is really important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. if you go somewhere with him to eat something, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss, if your lips are too dry they stick and are slightly hard to move. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss, but not too much that it's slimy. and don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.



Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.



Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.


Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose, but not heavily because you don't want to breath all over him. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.

good luck!!

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does anyone know any websites to go to myspace. i mean like a proxy site because my mom blocked mysapce!!

you can try www.facebook.com
it's pretty much the same thing as myspace.
good luck, you!

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I'm going out with a guy who pretty much used to be one of my best friends. Whenever he used to say something that'd crack me up, sometimes I'd say "ha, I love you, you're too funny." Well, that was when we were just friends.

We've only been going out a couple of days, but he's already telling me he actually loves me. I know I don't love him back just yet, so I don't want to lie to him. And I've tried to explain that to him, and he said he'll say it anyways. I just always makes me feel awkward when he does, so what should I say back?

if you've already explained to him how you feel about him, you could try just smiling, or hugging him when he says it. It will mean alot to him to know that you care how he feels about you. You could also say something like "thank you babe" so he knows you care about him alot, but don't love him just yet.

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theres a song in the butterfly effect, and these are some of the words (im not sure if its right..but i know its close.) does anyone know the name of it? or who its by? thanks.

"i never said thank you for that
and i hope i get one more chance
what would you think of me now
so lucky, so strong so proud
i never said thank you for that
i never had a chance
may angels lead you now"

okay i'm pretty sure i know what song your talking about. does it go something like...
"If you were with me tonight
I'd sing to you just one more time
a song for a heart so big god wouldn't let it live
may angels lead you in
hear you me my friends
on sleepless roads the sleepless go
may angels lead you in"

its called 'here you me' by jimmy eat world.


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hey guyss..um i just got an ipod nano. i bought 10 songs so far from ITUNES. is there a way tog et songs for free. cause if i keep buying songs imma be broke. like i made a lime wire playlist is there a way to put the music on there. But, i just deleted my limewire cause they said it would cause viruses so i deleted it. but i still have a save of a playlist from limewire. & again i was wonder ing if you cna put that music or just some free music on to an ipod. & can yall tell em how to do it thanks. sorry if i'm makin yall confuse. but if yall want just IM me on AIM : kristine sayysss or message me on MYSPACE. http://www.myspace.com/i_luv_u_boo thank you bunches.

okay, well im not totally positive if there is a way to buy songs on ITUNES for free, but if you have CD's and on those cd's you want certain songs on your ipod, just put the cd in the c-d rom monitor of your computer and pick the songs you want on it. congratulations with your new ipod by the way.

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