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boyfriends vs. friends i'm 14 years old and i recently got a boyfriend that i really like, and me and him are doing great. but, since i've got this boyfriend, i seem to be spending less time with my friends. and they've been getting mad at me some. it's not that i don't want to hang out with them, i just somehow make plans with my boyfriend first. if anyone has advice on how i can manage friends & a boyfriend please help. i greatly appreciate it.
thanks,
xo megan.
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You need to plan out your weeks and weekends. Pick some days that are just for seeing friends and some days that are just for seeing your boyfriend. And then perhaps on weekends you could hang out with both. Don't break your schedule and you'll have time for everyone. Plus, you may not feel this way right now, but after you are dating your boyfriend for several months, you might get bored with seeing him everyday, so allowing some time for you two to be apart will help keep the relationship stronger. ]
well when you and your boyfriend do stuff, you can have all your friends join in on the action so they dont feel left out.
orrr you can have a girls night out and hang out with your other friends then. ]
well megan i think if they have a boyfriends to maybe all of yall should go 2 the movies or do something together. or make plans with him then ur friends like the next day or something im just guessing though ]
i can understand completely where your coming from. i had a friend in the same position as you. Well, for your friends to know you love them and always will, plan a night just for them. Go to the movies with just you and them [without your boyfriend!] maybe on lie a friday night, then hangout with your boyfriend on saturday. also, it might seem like you hangout with him alot more than you do if you talk about him alot. while your with your friends just try to keep the talk about him on the downlow.
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