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My name is Krista (Kris for short). Im 15 years old and I live in New york. I love to play sports like:Soccer,Football,Basketball,Hockey,and Volleyball. I also LOVE to skateboard,rollerblade,read,write poetry,and help people.

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Location: New York
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Age: 15
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Member Since: October 6, 2004
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Last Update: January 23, 2005
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Ok well I like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and I’m well... kinda preppy. The only reason I’ve really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When I talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized I liked him. I really don’t know if he likes me because he's so different from guys I normally like.. And so different from me. Anyway we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and yea.. He always smiles and waves when he sees me and he is so nice. I mean from what I can tell I barely know him though... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now I have no classes with him... I’m really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyway.. I really want to talk to him and just get to know him better. But there are some problems... I’m pretty outgoing but I can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude... most of his friends totally hate me.... And most of my friends don’t really know him (and I wont tell them who he is)... and I have no classes with him. He still waves to me though. I need advice on how to like talk to Frankie and like really have a conversation with him or just play around. I’m pretty creative, but with all the problems I dunno what 2 do.... And I’m just not very bold when it comes to guys... please help me find a way to talk to Frankie! (PS. in case it helps, I'm 13)

Just walk up to him and tell him you like him.
LOL I know it sounds a lil bit scary if ur shy around guys but he probally likes u 2.

Im really sorry i couldnt help more
~*~kris~*~

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im 18/m. I had a gay realtionship about a year ago, and it went on for about 6 months. Im now tired of guys and im with my girlfriend. I really should tell her that i was with this guy, she has no idea that i was. She even knows the guy. How can i tell her w/o her finding out who it was, and will she leave me if she finds out?

I dont know how u should tell her but if she really loves you then she shouldnt leave u.

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I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers...

I think that if you would rather be with a boy then you are gay.Just cuz u think girls are cute doesnt make u bi. If u are attracted 2 girls like u r 2 boys then u r bi but if u just think they r cute then ur probally gay.
hope i helped
~*~kris~*~

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I was dating this guy, and I was really starting to like him. We had "relations" and it became intense for a minute. But my best freind saw him in the mall, and every since then some how he got he number and they have been talking on the phone since. I stopped liking this guy because I felt he didn't respect me or my best friends friendship. Come to find out my best friend want to have "relations" with him and is talking to him on the phone. She really isn't telling me everything. We told each other that a man could not come in betwwen us, but I think in this situation it is diffrent. I mean I stop liking this guy because of her, and now she wants him. Is she being a friend or a freak?

Shes being ignoant and rude i think.

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I'm 16. I'm having a problem. My current boyfriend Scott is wonderful. He's a good friend of mine and we recently started going out. This monday will be two weeks. Anyways, I'm having problems getting over my ex. (We'll call him ****** okay? I don't want to give his name.)So me and ****** have been friends for a while too. We went out for a while but then we broke up and decided to be friends. The other day he decided to tell me that the only reason he initiated the break-up was because he's afraid that he'll break my heart or hurt me. He could never hurt me in the ways that he thinks he can. But we won't get into that. And he doesn't know I'm not exactly over him. I've told him how I felt during the relationship but I never told him that I still feel that way.
Should I tell him?
What should I do about Scott? (I really don't want to hurt him)
And what am I going to do if Scott and I break up?
-Sam

Tell him how u feel.
sry i couldnt be more of a help

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Hello,

I am 16 years old and a female. I am 5'2 1/2 and 93 lbs. I am very thin but not sick looking. I don't really eat like I'd call normal. I eat like once or twice a day normally but sometimes three. I am just never hungry most of the time and I am typically a light eater. The odd thing is last year I was like 115-120 lbs and then a few months ago I was 98 and now I'm 93 lbs. Is there something wrong?

If your active in alot of sports and things there is a big chance that is what making you lose some weight. My brother is 16 and hes like 6'0 and he only weighs like 145 becuz he swims ALL THE TIME and he loses ALOT of weight. Just try and eat more and if your weight doesn't come up more maybe you should see your doctor.

hope i helped
kris

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I love Halloween and I have no clue what to be. Does anyone have a good idea? PLease help!

i think you should be beyonce, alicia keys or like any person you want. if you want to proove to the boys that you are stronger than them, dress up as a s.w.a.t. girl or a cop. if you want to be girly than be a cheerleader. if you want to scare the hell out of them be like dracula or frankenstines wife or something , but dont overdoit because theyll think your a mental person.
hope i helped

~*~kris~*~

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Hello!! Hi i normally give out advice but i need some! bad! Well i have a really bad habit and its biting my nails. It sounds normal but the habit's so bad that when i quit smoking it was easier(!). Now when i bite my nails i bit it down so its just a couple millimerers!! (ouchhiee) Also, when half of my nail is gone a chew and pull my skin around my nail, to like the second layer of skin!and it burns when im peeling it like downward but it..iono its painful but its a habit. i dont realy cut as much as i chew my nails! its turning into something way worse! does anyone have ne ideas how i can stop! il rate u a five..:) help me plz!

I had the same problem but now I just chew gum. You should try it!!
hope i helped


*kris*

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How do you take a pregnancy test like at home? No im not pregnant im just wondering.

you pee on the stick. (lol)





kris

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We have a version of American Idol going on at our school. Only 8 people can be chosen out of the many that have auditioned, and i was one of them. One of my friends, who has an incredible voice, was also chosen, but she came in last place to compete..and she tied with someone else. The only way she could compete was if she sang with someone else as a duet or the other girl dropped out. The head of the competition told my friend this, and they both asked me to sing with her, but they didn't give me any time to think about it so i just said yes,but i sort of regret it because i had my songs already planned out and last year i was in it and got a great reputation as "that girl who can sing and dance" which i like a lot, and i'm afraid that if i sing with her, that might change, or we might not do as well as i would have hoped for...when i sing by myself, i get all eyes on me and i love to own the stage, and no i'm not self-absorbed, its just that i'd rather sing by myself. I couldn't say no because that would just be letting my friend down, but i really wish that i could sing by myself instead of a duet..i'm not sure what to do..please help. Thanx!

just try and tell your friend how u feel. i think if shes really a true friend she will understand


kris

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Haha, okay, well i have this like, don't think it's gross, but a 3rd nipple type thing next to my right nipple. Its been there for so long, and every time i have a physical my doctor seems to ignore it. I thought it was like one of those bumps you get around them but this is bigger, and if you feel it...eh its like a normal nipple!! Its so strange, and I feel really uncomfortable, especally in front of my boyfriend, who laughs at me, but still, im so self-concious about it. I was wondering if anyone had this same problem...or somthing...please help!!

ok wat kinda b/f would laugh at that?

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my friends asked if i wore tampons and i said yea i do i can never feel them..its comfortable to me but she said ima hoe cz its like havin a dick stuck in me for hours at time vs. feeling like im wearing a diaper..im the only one out of my friends that wear tampons everyone wears pads..am i doin somethin worng and how does it make you a hoe ..its not a dick its a tampon!?

Ok WTF kinda friends is that? Your not doing anything wrong you just would rather be confortable then feel like your wearing a diaper. I feel the same way. How could that make you a hoe? Tell your friends to go look up the word "hoe" in the dictionary. They will see a "hoe" is a garden tool.

1 : to weed, cultivate, or thin (a crop) with a hoe
2 : to remove (weeds) by hoeing
3 : to dress or cultivate (land) by hoeing
Thats wat hoe means.
There is NOTHING wrong with you wanting to wear a tampon instead of a pad. I think your friends are idiots myself. [sry that was rude but thats how i feel]

~kris~

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When you get your first period is it normal if it just lasts for 2 days?

Yes thats very normal when your just getting it.




*kris*

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when do girls normmaly start puburty? wat grade

Its different for every person. My grandmother didn't get hers until she was 28!




*~*kris*~*

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ok well i got my first period almost 2 years ago and i had it some what regular for the first 6 monthes or so, but ive only had it twice in the past year and a half. what should i do?

You should defintely see a GYNO.


*~*kris*~*

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How many hours of sleep should a 14 year old girl get each night?
Thanks--

I think around 8 or 9.



~*~kris~*~

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okay i went out with this one boy we'll call landon, and he was sooo sweet.but i felt so insecure about myself,that i borke up w/ him.well he knows i like him know but my friend told him to call me if he still liked me,and he hasn't.what do u think is going on?!?!?like can u help?

Maybe he still likes you but he doesn't wanna let you know for some reason.


*~*KrIs*~*

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what is the exact purpose of the gyno? I know that they look at your parts and crap, but what the hell are they looking for in general? do all people go there?

~thanks~

The look for things like STDs.They check to make sure your ok "down there".
[sry I couldnt help more]

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Many people have been saying that proactiv works to clear up acne but proactiv is from the infomercial, and I'm really scared to try it. Do they have it available in stores? About how much will it cost?

You could just go to your family doctor. My cuzin had really bad acne and she showed it to the doctor when she went for a check up. Her doctor gave her some kind of face pads to wipe on in the morning and cream to put on at night. Within the first 4 days u could notcie A HUGE difference in her skin.

hope i helped
~*~kris~*~

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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?

i think that if your just getting it its normal but if uve been getting it for a while then i would see a doctor if you feel comfortable seeing one.


~*~kris~*~

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