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Hey, My name is kendra. I go through a lot in my life and I love to give good advice to people who have experienced what i have been through. Im not the type of girl to tell you what to do, that's not my job. I just give advice and what you want to do wit it..is ur decision. I'll do my besT to understand every problem or question that is being asked. I take any questions and I dont judge. So drop some letters on my page and i will definitly give the advice thats besTT for ya..smoochiez..

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Hi, I just moved here from another town about 31/2 hours away and at first things were going really well. But now, the people that I first met and considered my first friends are different. My friend, lets call her "s" was this sweet quiet girl. But she started to hang out with this group of girls that changed her. Now she is loud, obnoxious, and mean. Another girl, used to be independent and strong is becoming preppy and again, really mean. It is so hard to make friends in this town, I tried to join clubs, ect but the are all really cliquey. How should I handle this?

I went and is still kind of going through the same situation except i'm not far from my hometown..I'ts really hard for me to make friends in my school since everyone already new each other and came from the same jr. high to the high school together. i am still eager for friends i have many associates and everything but noone i can actually call a friend....but anyways if you can relate to that i think that you should wait for friends and they will eventually come to you. your friend "s" changed and so did another girl but maybe their just acting like that becuase of thier friends or maybe it's because they are changin into the real them....you have to realize that people change and things will happen but life goes on. you'll soon fit into your crowd and have your own group of friends...my advice is to just be yourself everywhere and friendships will grow in your life naturally....hope i helped

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lately my skin has gotten darker and really dull. I have lil red blemishes on my cheeks , how do i get my skin to be better or atleast how it was a year ago? Suggest foods please....specific foods and

you should defiantly drink 7-8 glasses of water a day
*Garlic, onions,scallions,chives
*whole grain cereal
*especially spinach, broccoli and all other types of greens
*hot peppers it has vitamin c and a good source of protein the vitamin c is good for you face they also help you with your immune system(even though that might burn when leaving your body)
*and calcium foods also like milk, yougurt and cheese

hope i helped

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is my penis small its like 5 1/2 inches i need answers

wow wut a question...umm well it depends on how old you are.. the average size of a penis is 4 to 5 inches long..i dont really wanna judge you on your penis because i've never seen it. but you should know that during sex it is a myth that "size matters" even though we hear it all the time..it really matters on just how you work it...but if you take less pressure in worrying how long your penis is then hopefully it will grow to the a size you'll really really appreciate...but try to appreciate it for what size it is now..hope i helped

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hey people

i really like this guy! and he liked me back i think cause he always simled at me! i kinda ignored it but i still talked to him on the bus (he's in 8th grade and i'm in7th) and laughed at his jokes and we were getting along pretty good untill a friday when he sat next to me and asked me a lot of questions. i answered kinda weird i was really shocked i mean the questions where like totally normal like do you like somebody or are you good in school whatever and i only answered with yes or no and then he said im mean because of that he was like: why are u being so mean to me your not answering my questions! and then he asked: soooo do you wanna be friends? i couldnt say anything cause he got interrupted by a friend and then my busstop came so i never answered that question! but the thing is that a week later he told me he loves me and i was REALLY shocked then and i was like : uuhhmm to bad and i know that was really mean! so then we had vacation for about 2 weeks and when school started he didnt talk to me or anything and well i also ignored him but he still looed at me. then i called him and i was like:
peter:( thats the guy im talking about) hello
me: hello my name is cornelia can i please talk to peter
peter: yeah
silence
peter: i am peter
me: ohhh sorry uhm i yeah remember me cornelia?
peter: uhuh
me: well im really sorry for being so mean to you lately
peter: yeah...
silence
me: soo is everything ok again?
peter: yeah
me: ok than
silence
peter: bye
me: uhh bye

that was it and well he really acted weird and since that happened he IS weird!!! he only lookes at me when im not looking and i became kinda angry cause he was like an idiot at the phone and in school so i just ignored him! so then once he looked my way really sad and i almost started crying but today on the bus he totally ignored me again and i really dont know what to think anymore! i dont get it what is he thinking??? he ignores me all the time and it really hurts and well now im doing the same thing......what should i do now? i tried to talk on the phone but well you know.....he acted like weird and does he still like me? i would do anything to get those days back when we where like kinda friends and when he smiled at me and always said hi! so maby you guys know what hes thinking! guys are like a mystery!!!

i think he does like you and is only ignoring you because you seem you aren't "out going" and you're not talkin to him..which i really think you should start talkin to him..maybe he thinks you dont like him so start some conversations with him not over the phone but on the bus..and if you have to be the one to get things started between the two of you the go for it>>>hope i helped

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My friend is always complaining about her figure and looks and it annoys me because she is one of those girls who have perfect looks skin and figure. I am overweight, not the best looking girl with bad skin and am seriosuly over my age height. I want to make her feel good about herself but she never does and everytime she starts it makes me feel bad about myself. I want her to feel better but when I reassure her she doesnt believe me. I know its wrong but I am scared I will end up like her. I used to like myself but now I have started feeling really depressed about it. Any advice on shutting her up and getting myself back how I was before? I hate the NEW me

i think your friend has issues...maybe she is really insecure about her body and is envying someone else that probly looks better then her..which you shouldn't start doin. Everyone is different and we have to live and work with what we have and be happy..and im being real, there are ugly people and there are pretty people..but u just have to face it that you cant be any one and noone can be you..(well maybe with a little technology & surgery)...but anyways you should tell your friend you dont like when she starts complaing about her figure & looks and tell her how you really feel when she does that.

hope i helped>>>u welcome

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last year i was like the outcast and this guy Jared liked me and he asked me out i didnt know why the heck he liked me but it soon became love he loved me. and i loved him back the realtionship lasted for 10 1/2 months and i felt like we were good and that we were gonna be together for a while longer then we were and now he ignores me and tells his stupid friends things about me and half the time i cant have a regular conversation with him.. i sed about 3 months ago that i'd changed things for him becuz i love him and he completely blew me off. and when his friends are not in school he will talk to me like he would when we were together and i dont know what to do!! should i let him go and ignore him or tell him one more time how i feel??

thanks and sryy its so long

yes you should defiantly tell him how you feel...he is just trying to impress his friends by acting different towards you. if he doesn't understand how you feel then yea i think you should ignore him..its no need to keep someone on your mind that doesnt care about your feelings or pretends not to. Since you guys did have love between each other, it might be hard for you to ignore him but if he still acts like you guys can't be friends then, like i said dont let him waste your time there are other boys to think about.
hope i helped ask me a ? anytime:)

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Okay I'm going out with Ross. Ross used to be Kaitlyns boyfriend ( Shes my BFF) but they broke up. And before he even asked me out my best friend reassured me MANY MANY times that it was perfectly fine if I went out with him. She's even had two boyfriends since they broke up.

But now, shes telling everyone she likes him again, when I asked her about it she swore she didn't like him. (BTW, shes got a boyfriend right now) So I don't know what to do, I mean I really love this guy and were pretty serious, and the fact that she reassured me it was okay to date him, and now she's lying to me about liking him has made me to start growing apart from Kaitlyn.

I don't know what to do, .. can yall help me?

You should never let a boy come between your friendship with kaitlyn no matta how cute or gud to you he is or no matta how much of a bitch kaitlyn is actin to you now. the same thing happen to me a while ago and i dont even speak to the guy anymore and i still speak to my friend but we are not as close as we use to be.. talk to kaitlyn and straighten everything out..hope i helped

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hello,im a 17 year old female. my boyfriend and i has had sex in january but i cant remeber what date but what i do no is that i ended my period on jan 29,2006 and we didnt have sex while on my period. so i ended on jan 29, and i didnt have my period in feb at all and know its march 19. i talked to my school nurse and she said it was sooo normal that i have missed it and feb is a short month anyway. im jus worried i no im not pregnet i took a home preg. test and it said that i wasn't. i have totally stressed my self out about being preg the whole month of feb. and i have had breas soreness for about 1 month know, my school nusrse said that common also she said it could be from ouvlation, stress ,even growth ect but i jus want to have my period i usualy hate to have it but im now die to have it,im jus so worried and i just want my period back i havent had any symptons of pregnacy at all i feel regular so if you could please give me some advice and answers why i havent had my period it seems so long i ended on jan 29 and it MARCH!!! does'nt it seem to long or maybe im stressein my self to much. i just had my school exams in jan and i didnt pass any of them, i was upset and my parents are going through a divorce and 4 days out of the week the argue or something. so i really need answers on why my period hasn't came im sooo despreat( if i spelled it right des pirt) for it to come, i totally want my perios i dont care if it came through a white pair of pants i was wearing at home and everyone seen!!!

yes its stress if you can relax and get over the fact that you have'nt gotten your period yet then you'll eventually get it. the pregnacy test said you are not pregnant so you already know you're not..you have other things in your life that you are worrying to much about..calm down and get over it...things will soon get back to normal..hope i helped

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i am soo confused about this one guy. me and him went out and now we are just friends. he keeps on seeming to flirt w/ me but when i flirt back he doesn't like it! i Don't get it, i am really confused. Can anyone help me and tell em wahts going on. My best friends mom said that he is immature and if he was older he would be able to tell that i like him back, but i don't know if i do. I mean i WANT to be friends w/ him but i want to be able to flirt w/ him too. You know? but i dont get why he does that? any answerS?

well maybe he does know you like but he just acts weird when you flirt with him to make you feel bad..yea that's immature but my advice to you is to stop flirting with him to see how he'll act..hope i helped

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what does o.g stand for? like when people say "we're o.gs" thanks.

It stands for Original Gangtas..like the baddest or the offical ones

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I want to tell my friend something..It's a problem I've been having and it's kind of serious. I've never told this friend anything this serious before though. How do I know if she'll accept me and keep it a secret?

Well, you dont really know if she'll accept you or not. If you trust her and is sure that she is one of you FRIENDS than go for it and tell her. If she doesn't except you or keeps it a secret then she's not a true friend. But if you're having doubts maybe you shouldn't tell especially if it's something that will affect your friendship with her. Also doubt should be your bestfriend when you feel something is wrong. my advice is to go and tell her becuase then you wouldnt be a good friend by keeping a secret away from her.

*and just call her and tell i need to ask you something but its personal and i would feel more comfortable telling you to your face..
hope i helped..u welcome

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Hey,my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old can anybody tell me some ways that I can go over to my boyfriends house without my parents knowing and without me getting caught?

you can tell them you going out with a frined to the movies or to a friends house to hangout or to take a walk

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This kid at my school keeps calling me a elephant.I have hit people in the past because of diffrnet things and i dont want to hit him.I dont want to get bad grades.So ive told teachers.Nothing.I dont want to become the bad kid again i have picked up my grades and my teahcers and my parents are proud of me and i love that.I dont want to hurt him.Ive thought about telling my favorite teacher.she loves me.And telling her everyhting that had happend and about scared about hitting him and i want her to talk to him cause if i do he will lose a tooth or somthign and then iss will come.How do i solve this problem with out hitting without anythign of getting in trouble.I cnat ignor him i cant just dont ask why i cant

plz help me anything to help me and ill give u a five right off the bat.
hopfully,
katie

well i think you should scare him instead of hittin him. he is bothering you for a reason maybe because he doesnt have a life or..idk but its defianlty a reason whether its a stupid reason or not. but anyways just try warning him. and i understand you cant ignore him but if thats a problem you have i think you should'nt take anything he says to you serious. and try to have self control and not get mad or sad about the stupid lil immature stuff he says.

ask me any more questions..anytime...hope i helped

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Ok, I'm a 13/F and I'm happy like 24-7. I mean everyone always comes up to me and asks me how I could be so happy all the time. I mean everyone knows me as the "happy peanut" (school nickname don't ask lol) And I mean I am. And I'm always the friend people come to if they have a problem or if they need someone's shoulder to cry on or anything. But I mean lately everything in my life's been going wrong. My dad's left my family, a kid who was like my brother just died. and I mean I don't know how to talk to anyone about it because they always come to me. And like no one else. And I just want to like SCREAM!! I don't know what to do. It's like I've lost controle of my own life and can't get it back together again. I just want someone to know what's going on. The bad stuff. Because someone needs to know or I'm going to go insane. But I just don't know how to tell anyone. I rate 5's for any answer!! Good or bad, long or short. I'm really in some need for advice. Thanks a bundle if you can help =D ♥Samm

well everyone life isnt perfect. Of course you are goin to experience hard times no matter how happy you are or pretend to be. Just be strong because its many others goin through things worse than you. Keep ya head up and eventually you'll see happiness again.
hope i helped
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I can't get over my fear of guys. I just can't be myself around them, i flirt by total accisdent and i put myself down around them, like i ahev this one fried he CAN DO EVRYHTING, 5 instruments, 3 types of dance, sports, he does it ALL. Compared to me i cant do anything i feel really abd about ithisa dn wish i could just act somewhat at the same level of succesfulness as him. I'm trying to learn to do mroe things because of him but until then, i don't know how to act like myself, teh thing that makes it worse around this particiular guy is that we used to go around,a nd i think i have leftover felings for him, nad hes in 7th grade im in 8 th, evrybody tells me he is immature and i dont think tehy want me to be friends with him but im sacred it i wont be friends wiith him then ill be even more scared of guys then i am now. this iused to eb abig problem i coudlnt even say a word to guys and now im good, but i just need help ebing myself. Confidence!

alot of people struggle with confidence, and it seems you are insecure about your self and aren't sure of yourself..the only person that can actually get you through that is you. i think this boy intimidates you but doens't do it on purpose..just remember that you only have one life to live so live it to the fullest and be yourself no matta who trys to bring you down or no matta how scared you are. because im sure you want others to like you for who you are.
hope i helped
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i know this is weird, but...normally im not happy. my futures pretty much shit. i cut and i know i shouldnt but i dont know how to stop.


when i listen to music it feels like everythings going to be ok and my future actually HAS something in it. whats up with that?

maybe you use music as a way to get away from everything thats in your life that makes you unhappy and miserable...same thing with me also. but some people use drugs, alchol, or sex to get over things. another example is you cutting yourself..maybe you should listen to music more often.. you may have a passion for it or began to grow a passion for it..
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okk i know alot about sex. but my friend asked me the other day what an orgasim was. i wasnt really sure. like i know the general but how do i explain it in words. hmm pls help...will rate.

An orgasm is a sexual climax that includes excitement and consisting of intense muscle tightening around the genital area. It is a pleasurable wave of tingling sensations through parts of the body..for men and women to enjoy
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Okay I really like this guy, and I think hes gonna ask me out soon. However my parents say No Boyfriends whatsoever. I've had boyfriends plenty of times before but not ones that go over to each others houses and go to movies and stuff cause I've never been able to tell my parents about boyfriends. Now this guy that I like, is the type of boyfriend that yall hang out every day outside of school and I totally want that, But I don't know how to get my parents to approve of me having a boyfriend. Any ideas?

omg, its crazy because im going thru the same situation, except my parents have never told me no boyfriends. but in my life i only had 1 boyfriend that my parents didnt noe about and i reacenlty moved and over here its boys that wanna take me out, to their house and movies and just chill but i cant tell my parents that..im to embarrased or scared to talk about boyfriends to my parents and thas y i never really had a realtionship..but i think you shud keep your soon to be boyfrined on the low away from your friends and when you wanna hang with him let your parents noe its a friend or use one of your friends as a cover up..ex. you go to the movies wit your friends but the whole time you'll be wit him..undastand??

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is it odd to date somebody a year younger then you, and he's a little bit shorter then you?
Im a female.

it's not odd and nuttin is wrong...if you havin insecurities about dating someone younger and shorter then you, then you should get over that or do somethign else

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okay well for awhile now i've been noticing that everytime i like a guy i seem to like them a lot but once i know they like me i get all happy but then once he asks me out i kinda loss interest in him. like this one kid we'll say george.. well we went out before and then broke up and then went back out a few month after but like before we were going out i really liked him but then we started going out and i was like oh man. i dont know if i really like him anymore.. and then i broke up for him. im not trying to lead people on like i actually do like them its jsut that once we're going out i just stop. then that happened with this other kid we'll say ryan. like we were talking and then he was like i like you a lot and i thought i liked him too but once he like walked away and we were going out i was just like omg. i dont really want to go out with him and then dumped him. but like the thing is if i know the person i like doesnt like me i still like them a lot but once i get my chance with them its like idk bout you anymore? i dont know what this is.. help? pleasee.. sry its long.

it seems to me that you're a "Heart Breaker" I swear im the same way because i dont like guys when they like me alot. it seems you and i wanna work for wat we want and me, i dont want to fall in that L-O-V-E thing because i dont have the strong enough heart for that and thas anotha reason for me to dump guys..but anywayz its not a problem that u lose interest in the guys u go out wit and if after a while you not feelin them...eventually you'll get over that phase and find somebody you'll like and who likes you

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