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i am 22, i love helping people. I have been through alot even though i am still young. I know alot about friend problems, dating, meeting people online, seriouse realtionships, sex, computers, and even parenting. i dont know anything about music that would be one thing i am not good at. I am more than happy to help any one who needs it.
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what do girls do when they start to get sick of a guy? (link)
stay away from them. dont lead them on any more let them know you are growing apart


I'm going to go tanning in my backyard tomorrow and im fair skinned. Does anyone have any tips for me to get a good tan? How long do i have to stay out there? If i ware sunblock will i still get a tan? I will rate! (link)
more likely to burn i wouldnt stay very long. plus it can give skin cancer, by not try a spray tan.


I think I'm in love. what should I do? He has a girlfriend! Maybe even 2! Whenever I see him my heart starts to race. I just want to run up to him and kiss his gorgeus face. How does he feel about me? I will never know. I am a shy girl, all the way from head to toe. When I'm with him I feel as if I could fly. Fly Fly high up into the sky!!!!

What should I do? (link)
if you think he has two girl friends he is a player i would move on. and even if he only has one i would move on too cause its not fair to break two people up. if he ever is single maybe tell him how you feel see what he says


Iv'e noticed whenever i'm showering and shaving my legs i get dizzy and my body starts to sway back and forth like i'm going to faint..i become light headed i usually eat before i shower so i don't go into the shower on a empty stomach when this happens i get worried cause there's a possiblity i could faint while showering...

Why is this happening to me? Should i
tell my parents and my doctor? What can
i do so this doesn't happen anymore?

I know that most of you aren't doctors
but any advice would be helpful... (link)
could just be the way you are standing if you are leaning over the blood rushing but maybe try to sit down to shave. if the only time you feel like that is showering i wouldnt worry to much


What is worse for you; throwing up or taking laxactives? I was just wondering which form of bulimia is worse on your body.

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both are horrible your body doesnt get the nutroince it needs. throwing up will give u dental problems but either way is just as bad


13/f
I met this guy during summer and used to text him 24/7..and then my friends stole his # off my phone and started texting him..and ever since then hes been texting me less and less..and now when i text him he wont reply...i see him a few times a month and he stares at me and i stare at him..but i dont say hi to him because he doesnt say hi to me..im a little confused on whats happening....any ideas?? (link)
either he is annoyed that your friends are bugging him or he likes one of them more


Me: F19 boyfriend:M19
So my boyfriend that I have been dating for a year and 4 months is being a jerk. Here's the story... two weeks ago he throw a party at his older sisters house when she out of town. When the sister came back a neighbor told her he was throwing partys. She asked him if that was true, he lied and said that he threw no partys while she was gone. Well she believed the neighbor over her brother (my boyfriend). Will my boyfriend is so mad that she did not belive him. Me and his sister are good friends. We hungout all day together (two weeks after the party issue). When he realised I spend the whole day with her. This is what he sent me via text message...
Boyfriend: Im so mad at her u dont even know. And uve spent all day with her.
Me:I guess we will talk about this later... but I don't even know why you are. You did have a party at her house. She is not mad at you for it. Just drop the whole thing she believed robben over you.
Boyfriend: F*** off. Go have fun... No we wont be talking about this later. Turning off my phone! Dont text me or call or show up on my breaks.
Me:Jon you don't tell anyone to fuck off especially the one you love. That is very disrespectful, and rude. How dare you get mad at me for hanging out with your sister when you two have a problem
Me:I thought you were goingt to stop being so mean and disrespectful to people. And not treat me like sh** What happen to the guy the guy that wanted to become a better man and not turn into jeff?
* jeff is a really mean guy who treats people really badly*

What should I do? Am I wrong for hanging out with his sister? I am so mad he told me to f*** off I have a right to be right? (link)
he sounds like alot of trouble. I would just move on and find a guy to treat you better. you can hang with any one you want to.


well me & this guy were messing around. & he was talking about how tight i was ,cause he could barely fit one finger in me. he eventually loosened me up enough ,but not enough for his dick to go inside. just the head was going in i guess. idk. anyway ... it hurt really bad ,but in a good way? haha. now sometimes i even crave that pain . i mean it did hurt quite a bit ,but i really liked it. does anyone know why i'm like that? (link)
some people love the thrill. it gets your adrelian going alot of people are like that. its normal but dont go to far and get really bad hurt.


I'm a senior in high school, would it be weird for me to date a guy whos only a freshman?

Btw, im a 17 year old female, he's 15. I will be turning 18 in June and he will be turning 16 in August. (link)
its not common but if you are happy go for it


Hey i got my first puppy about 2 weeks ago and i just scheduled her to get her second set of shots. I was just curious do i go into the room with her when she gets them done? This is my first time going to the vet doctors so im not really sure what to expect.

Thanks for all the help! (link)
go with them poor pupppy will want you there


What can happen if i take plan b and i didn't have sex? i dont remember if i did or not... But i want to be sure.

thanks (link)
it will have the same effect make you sick and get rid of everything that lets you become pregant. its ok to take it better be safe then sorry


is rub on tan bad for u? (link)
no they arnt but they usaly never turn out like you want them to. i would save up and get a spray one.


How can I get real good revenge on my ex boyfriend? He dumped me b/c he got too horny and we started to do stuffthen "god" told him to break up with me... which is a load of shit... someone help plz.. thanx a lot.and nothing that will kill him or hurt him too too bad :D thanx (link)
find a new bf live your life to the fullist and be happy on your own. dont worry about getting back at his its a waiste of your time and you shouldnt want to waist any more of your time on some one that doesnt matter.


I have a problem. I'm 17 and ready to have sex. I WANT to have sex. I mean, I don't want to do it just to do it. I really WANT to. I'm completely ready. Problem- I don't have a boyfriend...agh! What do I do? (link)
just wait till you are in love sex isnt something you rush into you will get hurt in the end. maybe just masterbate.


I'm 15/f
So this guy barely turned 18. He's a senior, I'm a sophomore. I'll turn 16 in a couple months. But is that a big age difference. About 2 1/2 years?
And dating isn't against the law even if he's 18? Not doing anything sexual. Thanks! (link)
me and my bf are 8 years apart im 22 hes 30, age is just a number. so good luck :) just dont get him in trouble with the sex thing cause now aday they are so strick on that


Hey my friend is spending the night in a couple days and i was wondering what is some fun stuff we can do so we won't get bored fast??any movies or games u would reccomend?????help plz i rate!!! (link)
chatrouleet seems like a big thing everyone is doing. or maybe dress up and take pictures. read magazines, go for walk, prank calls nice ones not mean ones. give each othere make overs.


me and my boyfriend have sex alot, but i can never seem to have an orgasm. I was to be able to scream with pleasure. How can i have an orgasm while having sex? (link)
get on top and take control or maybe use a toy. foreplay always makes things better some times girls rush into it and arnt ready for sex. so tons of flore play and relax.


I really like this guy (im 15/f) like i think it might be love.. but he has a girlfriend.. me n him always chill n like make out n stuff.. and he always tells me he loves me.. but why is he with her? (link)
you are young so i would say he just wants his cake and eat it too. love at that age is rare to find so dont be sad about it. if you think you are in love now when you really find it you will be WOWED because the real thing is so much more then just alittle bit you have now. it may not seem like a little bit but when in the future you really find love you will look back and see how silly it was. good luck


Ok my friend katie likes my boyfriend when we were going out. and then we broke up and she didnt even wait 1 week to go out with him. should i tell her off or just suffer? (link)
neither your better off with out him if he would do that you and forget her. if she is rude enough to do that you can get a better friend. move on and show them both they cant phase you let two bad people be stuck together and you go get you a great man


I am 15/f and I always end up liking younger guys. Usually guys that are 14. Is there anything wrong with that.. cause some of my friends think it's a lil weird. (link)
nothing is wrong with it at all. I have only liked one younger guy it didnt work out but if you like some one age is just a number.




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