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Hey ya'll! My name's ~*Heather*~ and somehow you've stumbled upon my column! Congrats! :P Well, I'm 18 years old and I live in Missouri with my mom and my beautiful cat Corey. :D



Some of my ~*Likes*~ are the beach, exercising, cosmetics, strawberries, cats, this site, Subway, 24, tv, movies, alterative and trance music, teen magazines, shopping, tanning, cheerleading, CSI: Miami, crime shows, The O.C., cartoons, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Britney Spears, and Hilary Duff!



Some of my ~*Dislikes*~ are arrogance, ignorance, ppul who caint spewl, cottage cheese, Vanilla Coke, bosiness, co-dependence, being yelled at, being treated like an idiot.



Please don't be hesitant to ask me a question! I'll be happy to answer anything you bring to me! Add me to your favorites if you like and I'll add you back!

advice

i just got a blender. what are some good recipes...you know like smoothies or something. thanx!

I just buy generic berries, and put them all in the blender and mix 'em up. With lots n lots of sugar! Can't go wrong with that!

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I heard that atkins is better for men than women, is this true?

I've never heard that before...

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Okay, I just found out 2-day that my ex-bf is dating one of my bff's and I think that I am jealous! What should I do? I'm not the jealous type.

Well it's normal to be jealous. You should talk to your so called "bff" about this. Friends should NEVER date ex's. It's in the best friends handbook. lol

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im 13 and never had a boyfriend. How old were you when you got your first boyfriend??

I was 14. If you're patient hun, he'll come to you. Don't worry your prince is out there somewhere.

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i told someone i had *** with this kid and the kid told the other one and now the one i like the one who i said i had *** with is mad at me
PLEASE HELP I AM LIKE IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY!

Wow you're really not mature enough if you use * for SEX.

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ok me and my EX boyfriend havent seen eachother since june 25...right thats along time!! well last night he saw a pic. of me and his cousin that we took like 2days ago at the mall and he was like "so who u goin out wit" i said "no one" and he said he wasent wit no one either!! then he was like "so when ya gunna giv me my pic?" and i was like o ya saw it and he said "yea u look fuckin fine in the picture!!" and he said he still loves me...sooo should i get back with him cz i still love him and umm... im gunna see him on saturday!!..help!!

Depends on how bad your break up was....and how he treated you while you two were together. But if you really love him, I say go for it.

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I like this kid and i want to get his sn to talk to him...i gotta ask ALOT of people so..what are good excuses say i go to Mike and i say do you know konrad or his sn...whats a good excuse with how i got konrads and Mikes sn?? thanks

Tell him you're doing a poll around school about something and you need his SN to give him the information. lol

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OK For haloween im goin to be like a gangsta n dress up like a guy. Im gettin some jeans n a wifebeater but i cant think of what else would complete the outfit. Any suggestions ?

Oh of course! You gotta have the bandana, the upside-down visor, roll one of your pant legs up a bit, and some fake bling. lol

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I dread going to school everyday. I hate it this year and its not my 1st year of highschool. I hate mosta my classes and the people in them...i can never get motovated to go and plus my school sucks big time. My parents always say "well having my job is worse" but my school sucks pretty hard. I hate it and sumtimes i even wish it would burn down lol. Is there sumthin that i can do to not dread it so much?

Well honestly I almost wasn't going to answer this because I'm the last person you'd go to about school considering I dropped out BUT...I figure I'd give you my perspective.

I know exactly how you feel, because I felt the same way a few months ago. I hated waking up so early, I hated having to see my ex and his gf every day. I hated the homework, the assemblies, the teachers, everything. I couldn't handle it anymore so I dropped out. I honestly don't regret my decision. I'm getting my GED soon and I'm going to get a at-home degree in whatever I want to become. :) People say dropping out of high school is the worst mistake I'll ever make and that everyone has to go to college. But you really DON'T have to! I know plenty of pepole who have dropped out of high school in the past and are successful. I'm not worried about my career. I am very determined and ambitious. Hopefully you are too.

I'm sure you don't want to drop out of high school though...I don't know what else to say. I hope my advice "touched" you in some way!

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My friend has a boyfriend and she says she loves him...she wrote i love him on her hand...but she says she also says she loves this other guy from a class she is in..i think this is wrong.But she obviously doesnt since she is always saying she loves both of them.Should i tell her boyfriend?Should i try and convince her that it is wrong?This is advice for my friend also...please anwser soon!!!

No you shouldn't tell her boyfriend but you should try to talk to her about this. She's obviously not really "loving" both of them. So tell her this bothers you, and you want to talk about it.

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hi. im one of those girls who get all the attention from all the guys. yeah they literally follow me around and fight over me. i like the attention, sure, who wouldnt... but it gets realllllly annoying. like im trying to hang with my girls and they just keep talking to me and fighting over me and other girls think im a slut cuz all these guys are always FLIRTING with ME. its not like i come on to them.. what should i do?
thanx alot
-sick of being ms popular

Start being ugly and a bitch. They'll stop coming to you then. lol

No I'm kidding really...I honestly dont know what you CAN do. You're obvoiusly beautiful. I guess just ignore it and when they come to you when you're with your girls just walk away.

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ok like all my friends ave done something wit a guy like sexual n i really havent lke sometimes i really want to do something more wit a guy but my longest relationship was like a month so i ddint do anyuhting like i odnt like this kid too much but hes really sexually active and i wanna like do something wit him but i dunno how to do anhting and i dont wanna embarress myself im only 15 but time is running out and im still here wihtout sex lol

You shouldn't want to do something with someone else because your friends are doing it. I say wait until you're really ready. You will regret not doing so. Trust me hunni.

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I am on someone elses user name. Is advicenators expierencing aome techniquel difficulties?

hahaha No they are not experiencing TECHNICAL difficulties. :)

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Is it true that ARES ruins your computer?

What is that?

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i cant stand not having a boyfriend, i havnt had one in soo long and i feel like im so ugly i mean when i get one i wont obsess over him or kill myself when we break up, but like i feel like im ugly i mean i have blue eyes brown hair and im tan i dont sound pretty but why cant i get a boyfriend??? what are some ways i can??HELPP

I have a lot of trouble on this issue too. I can't seem to get a boyfriend to save my life. :( I mean, I dress real cute and I never leave the house without making sure my hair and make-up and everything is in place...I also have a really good personality and I'm super friendly but no one yet! :(

I'm sure if you're just patient and act like you don't really want someone all the boys will flock to you. That's what I've been told anyway. :) Good luck! I hope you find the guy of your dreams!

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does www.buddypic.com put viruses on your computer?

I don't have any viruses.

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Hey, I was just wondering.. Does anyone know a GOOD place were you can get icons, like bigger sized ones? Ones like the one of my page... Krissyxx9
Thanks so much!

http://www.livejournal.com/

You have to join and then if you do an interest search for "icons" tons of communities will show up and you can join those and get free stuff!

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im having a party . . wat should i have to eat and to do...don't be all perverted and say those nasty things...besides spin the bottle wat good games r there to play...the party is for grls n boys the age of 13.....help

I know everyone probably thinks this is lame but I *love* Truth Or Dare! It's just so much fun! 7 Minutes in Heaven is nice too.

Chips and dip, candy, cookies, etc. are all really good party foods. At my Christmas party my friend and I had apples with caramel and carrots with ranch and they were a huge hit! Everyone loved them!

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OK. i just bought this really cute mid-thigh length white denim skirt and i have no idea wut to wear with it. i know this is probably the stupidest question on here, but if you could help me, that'd be great.

o yea and i rate.

Well I wouldn't wear a really light-colored shirt like pastels or even white because they'd really clash. I'd pick something darker. And flip flops or kitten heels would be cute with it!

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Hey guys....
I'm kind of really sad right now....Since my girl friend and I have been going out (8 months) she has promised me time after time that she doesn't pleasure/finger herself. In fact when I used to say Krysta I think you do she would get so mad and say shes not like that and she really doesn't.
Last night I was going through her email, and she had signed up for www.loveforum.net. The user name that was in that email was never activated so I didn't think about it again until I asked her why she signed up.
On first off she said she NEVER heard of the site and her brother probably did it, or maybe she did it awhile ago and forgot about it. I took that and accidently clicked on a link called 'Pleasure for girls' in the Sex Talk forum. The user name was PhillyChick847, which is what she goes by sometimes.
She was asking for advice on how to give herself pleasure, and hide it from me. She said she does it 3 times a week in the forum when she told me she NEVER has ever done it.
She denyed that she typed that and said there is more than one phillychick online, I took that! Then just for myself, I tried to login with my name as the password and it WORKED! After me telling her I would dump her on the spot if she didn't admitt it she admitted it.
She was so upset that she cut herself...I was really upset because I can't believe she would go behind my back and do this....its almost UNBELIEVEABLE. She told me she loved me sooo much and she was sorry...she said she just did it because it felt so good when I did it to her.
She still said she doesn't do it that often, but she can't explain why she typed that. Heres the link to the post: http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=3965
She made 3 posts and they ALL disturbed me ALOT.
I threw up like 4 times last night, I can't belive she would do this....I'm so upset...I mean maybe if she didn't lie to me it wouldn't be such a big deal. The thing that even disturbs me more is on the time stapms right after I walked her home from the bus stop she went in and did this...and shes really interested in finding more ways...I think the damage to my head is already done.
I still LOVE her so much but I don't know if I want to be with her....she can say shes not going to do it again but no one can stop once they do it, especially if she does it that much...I really do LOVE her but I don't know what to do...That really disturbed me ALOT! can everyone please help me?
Should I break up with her...please help guys...please....

Thanks in advance
Dave

Wow. lol Seriously, this post disturbed me. Probably for the fact that you're really ignorant. You say her pleasuring herself is perverted, but you do it to HER so that's not perverted?

I read her posts, and they're not bad at all. It's not like she's cheating on you or anything. She's making herself feel good...what's so wrong with that?!

Masturbation is not a sin.

And I say she break up with YOU.

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