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okay.. there is this guy who ive known for about two years.. and we have always just been friends.. and yea... so i asked him to ride the bus home with me today so that i wont be all alone and he did.. and when we were on there... he asked me.. "will you giv me a chance? " and i laughed and was like.. no!! because i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt and he got all sad.. and he got off at the next stop.. and it wasnt even his.. but yeah.. i feel bad.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean.. he is really nice and i would HATE to hurt him.. but yea.. what do you think i should do tomorrow when i see him?

sorry it was so long.. ill rate.. because i really need help! (link)
talk to him about it and be like sorry i thought u were kidding...but hay maybe give the kid a chance since hes nice and all =D

*jesikuh


My parents wont let me get the 2nd whole pierced in
my ear but I really wanna do it. So i have dicided to do it on my own! Does any1 know how,and what i should use?? Pleaz dont earase this cuz i wanna make sure i pierce them the right way !!I'll rate high..I promise!! (link)
aww dont go against what ur parents say like that, it'll juss get u in trouble...wait maybe they'll say yes later on and u can get it professionally done!

*jesikuh



Okay this may sound a bit weird. . buh im 14 yrs old and i dont have like a real nipple yet.. when im cold or sumthing liek that.. yaah it looks like it but then it goes away.. please help! (link)
i think thats pretty normal for ur age...ur still developin darlin

*jesikuh


My hair has gotten really dry over the summer, because of the sun. the sea and because i straighten it all the time. Do you know any products or treatments which might help. (link)
triple moisture. its deep conditioner and it smells super good...and the hair mask from triple moisture too...i juss got my hair done and my hair's fried and i used that and after a couple days its back to normal =D (i think triple moisture is by...neutergenia? however u spell it lol)

*jesikuh


I have pretty much quite tanned skin , and recently , i have noticed little dots on my upper arms that are of a lighter shade comapred to the skin colour of my arms . they're so ugly ? ( eve nthough they aren't that obvious ) how can i get rid of them ??! Also , i have HUGE pores on my hands , especially on my fingers . how do i get rid of them ? (link)
hmm put toner or something on ur hands...juss put face stuff on ur hands cuz its for ur pores...anddd about the dots...do self tanner! atleast once..so u skin will even out...i got burnt REALLY REALLY bad this summer (im talkin me whiter than ive ever been its 105 and im on a boat lol) andd ive never been burnt cuz im usually dark and i peeled EVERYWHERE! im talkin ears face chest back shoulders knees hands lol andd i was all blotchy cuz i got tan but where i peeled was WHITE so i used tanner and viola! im one color again! btw girls n guys use sunscreen, i kno its gay but do it...my shoulders are scared =(

*jesikuh


I love my bf but im in love with my best friend.. I wanna stay with my bf and i cant have my best friend.. i dont even know how he feels about me... but i cant stand it what do i DO?!
you know I think i can answer this myself... if i love my bf i'd stay with him right.. well Im gunna of course... but i just wanna know how to just stop and forget about the love and just be his best friend and stay in love with my bf.. cuz my bf means the world to me (link)
yeah juss do that, cuz as u said urself, u dont kno how ur best friend feels about you...hmm or u could live life taking chances and see what ur bff thinks of youu I DONT KNOW!! stay with the bf. since u love him =D

*jesikuh


Hi , okay when i wake up and i brush my teeth , after i get a HORRIBLE stomach ache ! it really sucks because it ruins my day ! is it normal? am i doing something wrong when i brush my teeth? PLEESE HELP ! I RATE 5 ! (link)
i dunno that sounds odd...hmm lol never heard of that one! swy =(

*jesikuh


so i am goin into da 8th grade and my skin is tan and i have dark brown eyes .i dont kno which eyshadow to use, and i don't know what i shud do wit my hair, my hair is dark brown and is straight. please help.
I RATE :) (link)
if you wear eyeshadow...it should match ur outfit...OMG u kno whats really cute?? if you're wearing like...a white tee and jeans and u wear blue eyeliner or eyeshadow under ur eyes in a line...juss under them...so cute! anddd ur hair..hmm u could curl it with a curling iron and use some hairspray to make it stay ORRR u could curl and and not do hand have it be wavy curling, thats cute! hmmm i dunno lol thats about it darlin

*jesikuh


k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!! (link)
victorias secret!!! thats where i get all mine...the new pink collection is super cute and super comfy =D

*jesikuh


yesterday i had a fever of 101.5..i thought it was just side effects from a chicken pox vaccine that i got a week or two ago..the lady told me that was to be expected. however, i was supposed to get better in a day. well, today, my temperature is 101.7. i have to sing on sunday at another church (a solo)...i have been drinking fluids and resting and taking ibuprofen but nothing is helping. in fact, my throat is hurting more than yesterday.

how can i get better in a hurry? (link)
hmm i dunno...id go to the doctor and get checked for strep or the flu or something...so u can get meds and be all better!!!!

*jesikuh


hey!! you said you were on the birth control shot?? what's it called? ah...that does sound like a dream!!=D (link)
haha it is a dream! its called depo provera i think...hmm but yeah 90% of women's periods completely stop after 6 months and before the 6th month ur period is sooo light and only for like 2 or 3 days...im in looove with this shot =D

*jesikuh


well...i am a cutter. i have been cutting for about a year now. by the way i am 13 and female. i want to know why i feel so great after i do cut. its like nothing is wrong after i cut. i have tried to stop....but it has never worked.

also... do u know where i could find other people that are self addmitted cutters? (link)
http://www.vinland.org/scamp/institute/dsh.html

i searched and found that website...they have some links and what not...i hope you'll stop soon =(

*jesikuh


I like this guy, he likes me back. He says he doesn't want to ask me out because asking people is out dumb because no one actually goes out or they stop talking. I'm not goin got ask him out because if he can't ask me out then he is going to be a bad boyfriend. He's had girlfriends before so it's not like he's not ready. WE are both in 7th grade. Any ideas on how ot approach him and talk about it? (link)
i dunno u cant force him...keep him as a crush and maybe he'll come around? =D

*jesikuh


I just got my room re-done in a rustic type style. I live in a log house so half my room is wood and the other half is sheet rock that is a dark orange/yellow color. My bedding is light brown corduroy and the other side is beige with orange the color of my walls, and burnt red stripes, what kinda accesories should i do to just set the them for my rustic room?

XxTBSgirlxX (link)
hmm diff sized black and metal picture frames of u and ur friends all over the room would be sooo cute, thats what i have in my room =D

*jesikuh


What does it mean when your breasts are sore around your nipple area?! Does it mean they are growing? I'm 13, female. My breasts are already a C! So I thought I'd ask about this. Please help (link)
prolly growin...ur a grower like me =D

*jesikuh


Hi well Im jj15 and i need ur help and fast!
I am going out with a guy named rocky , well everytime I go and talk to him he just says Hi and then says that he has to go, Im afraid that he's cheating on me.
I tried asking him if he was and he would just stare and say no then he gose off somewhere.
I am really afraid!!!!!
Help me plz what do I do?
please dont erase this ?!!
and I got my pic on my coulmn now (link)
well sounds like hes not too interesting sorry if u dont wanna hear that...break up with him and find some one better =D

*jesikuh


My boyfriend and I just had sex for the first time..He took my virginity. It was unprotected and Im not sure if he pulled out or not. We were both a little drunk. I dont regret it. Anyway, I was told that you shouldn't have unprotected sex for 15 days after your last period ended. Its only been 10 days. Im a little worried that, well basically, I could become pregnant. Im not sure if the 15 day thing is true. Im going to the health clinic in a couple days to get on birth control and they always give you a pregnancy test. I want to know if I should be worried about this or not and if the 15 day thing is true. Hurry..this has me scared. Thanks. (link)
its around 14 days after ur first day of ur period is aroudn the time that ur egg drops and u can get pregnant. its when ur ovulating! but uhh i dunno i dont htink u should worry too much tho, ur prolly okay ive had this happen lol

*jesikuh


wut r u supposed to do when everything is going rite in a relationship then all of a sudden it just dies... like we werent going out but we acted like it and we havnt talked bout a week but i miss him cuz i like him alot.. i know hes not cheatin or wutever cuz not too many girls like him cuz hes not really a *stud* but hes amazing and even my ex is happy for me and says wed be great together...wut should i do i wanna at least be friends but id like to be sumthing more... that was a like a book in a nutshell cuz it would take me forever to tell me bout this amazing guy... so if u could plz help me out i miss him alot... thanx

kristi (link)
start talking to him again and tell him exactly what u told everyone on advicenators =D

*jesikuh


umm.. dont think im stupid for asking this but i just wanna be safe and sure. if a girl is on birth control, does the guy still need to wear a condom wen they do it? (link)
thats prolly most safe...but i guess its ok if u dont juss not all the time

*jesikuh


Alright, well me and my boyfriend have gone out a couple time's before, and we're best friends. We're going out now, and have been for a little over a week. But, today we saw eachother at the school because we went for orientation, and we didn't talk. He looked at me, but he didn't say hi. I mean he said hi to my friend's, and not me. We always talk on the computer, and sometimes on the phone. And on the computer and phone, we talk a lot, but then we see eachother, we never talk. I mean I have one class with him this year, but I doubt that's going to help anything. I really do love him, but I don't think it's working out. I mean yeah im shy too, but he could atleast say hi. I mean, I was standing right by him, and he looked the other way. He told me he wasn't mad at me and he loved me when he got home and we were talking on the computer. But, I just dont know what to do! Help! IM me at yourmyonlyone951 if you wanna... (link)
well since ur having doubts and hes not talking in person and either are you sounds like its not going anywhere...i mean to do expect this to keep going on? find some one u mesh better with =D

*jesikuh




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