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my best friend, ricky, is generally a really good guy...hes a good christian and doesnt smoke, or cheat, or drink, or do anything like that...hes really happy and has always been there for me through anything...but hes been hanging out with bad people lately, and i told him i didnt want him to change because of them...he promissed me he wouldnt, and i believed him. he told me he would never lie to me.
but last night, we were talking, and he told me he needed to tell me something, but he couldnt. i was really worried, and i got it out of him. he started by telling me he was sorry he lied to me...so i got scared...he told me he smoked week with some of his friends...i got angry, but he doesnt know that. i didnt want him to feel like i think i can as him anything..but when he needs help, i block him out. but i dont know how to help him..what should i do?
sorry this is really long...
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Thats a hard situation but my best advice is just be there for him. And let him know that this whole weed thing could change your friendship..if he keeps doing it alot. Tell him if he needs someone to talk to..youre there for him. Also..if youre going out one friday..invite him..and tell him you really want him to be there. This way you know hes not doing drugs and at the same time youll have a great time with him.
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ok there is my two best friends we'll call them A and B! ok i have been best friends with A for a loooooong time and with B since 5th grade. ok my friends A and B have been hanging out a lot and im getting REALLY jelous b/c they dont really include me in a lot of things now. so my questions are... (i rate high)
1)Is this wrong for being jelous?...(and)
2)How can i tell them without them getting mad?
Thanks a bunch!
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No its not wrong for being jealous. Ive been in this situation PLENTY of times. And telling them is the hard part because you dont want to come off as jealous..am i right? Well say this to A.."ya know we havent been hanging out lately..i miss you and "B"..you guys wanna hang out with me this weekend" By saying this it doesnt come off as your jealous...and hopefully theyll say yes and you 3 can hang out. I know three people is hard because you dont want to be left out..but make sure you let them kno you want to hang out with them.
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i go to this really preppy biotchy school in dc (all girls, private, kiss kiss) but anyway, i used ta be a really sweet person and like really focused and dedicated in life, but my school has really changed me...i find that i am really judgemental of people in a bad way...and i spend way too much time deciding what to wear and i do alot of trashy stuff with guys...what should i do? (link)
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Ive been in a similar situation. I focused on boys and clothes all the time..and i judged ppl 24/7. But it must be either the friends you hang around with or the whole school is like that. Broden your horizons..go out and meet new people that are different from you. Usually the people you hang around.. is what change you..you start acting like them. Also every time you think about going and doing stuff with guys or going to the mall every week..do something else..like maybe a sport or something you are interested in. This might take the pressure off of doing what you normally do.
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I was just wondering..... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 months now and i know that may not seem like a long time but i really and truely love him. And it may sound weird but i feel like god is telling me that he is the one i am supposed to spend my life with. Can he be the one? Is it true that i can find someone in my junior year of high school? (link)
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Yes..i know lots of people who have found there love in highschool..some where younger than you. Its not out of the normal..i mean it doesnt happen often but it has happened.
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okay well i was friends with someone online for a few months and we got really close - we told each other like everything and stuff. I showed her like one pic maybe and my face wasn't showing that well and I'm not really comfortable showing pics online anyway because I knew that she saved them on her computer. Well, we grew apart, and then a month after we did I found out that she was even bisexual. the problem is.. she ims me every once in a while and asks for my pic, saying that she has all these pics of her friends saved. am i wrong for not wanting to give it, or feeling that im only imed so she could see my pic?
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If you dont feel comfortable sending pics to her then dont send them. You probably will never see this girl. Tell her this..say something like "ya kno my computer got messed up and some of my files deleted plus my pics" Now if she gets mad and doesnt understand then i probably would block her .
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how do i tell my boyfriend that i really like him and enjoy being with him but he can be a little to hyper? i know this is really shallow but it kinda annoys me! thanks again!
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Guys can get hyper even if their gf is there. But the best way to handle this is sit down with him..somewhere wheres theres no one around and say "ya kno i like you alot and youre awesome but wow you can be a little to hyper for me"..and laugh it off..make it almost like a joke..but put it across like..it annoys you. Also..people usually get hyper when theyre doing something active like bowling or putt putting..it gets them hyped up. If youre tired of that..take him to the movies or your house...somewhere low key.
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Hey, Okay I really want a boyfriend.. I mean I know how to flirt and stuph... but uhh is there any other ways to like get a guy? (link)
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There are some other ways..one way you could start by being his friend. Some of the best friendships..turn out the best relationships. Also..find something guys like..although all guys are different..some like sporty girls..so they can talk about sports with..while other like the more girly girl type. It just depends on which guy you wanna go after. Also just talking to them..being there for them if theyre goin through a tough time like in there family.
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oh well my friend has this really great boyfriend. and i think i might be jelous..but i dont know. she knows that i thinks hes cute/hot and i promised her i would never go out with him jsut for her. but im knida jelouse of her. what can i do? thanks! (link)
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In my opinion theres a golden rule that you abide by with your girlfriends..and that is dont go after one of your girlfriends man. I dont care if your girlfriends say it doesnt bother them or w.e..BECAUSE IT DOES. Yeah so ppl say..fighting over a boy is stupid but..when you get a bf and your friend likes him too..and is jealous youll see how it feels. Girls are territorial..well..most of them are. Also it shows what kind of character of a person you are when you do this.
So my advice is forget about this guy..even tho he is prolly totally hot and a nice guy..he likes your friend.
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One of my teachers is always making fun of the students. I know it is just in good fun but 2 girls started crying over this. Should i tell someone or just let him go on making fun of everyone?
Please i need help!
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You should tell someone..because if this teacher does it non stop and doesnt realize that he's hurting his own students feelings then he should be fired. Thats not very professional like.
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Ive seen a lot of girls wear cute sweatpants that say PINK on the butt. What brand is it? Where can I get them and how much are they? Thanks for your help! (link)
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Victoria Secret
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I'm 15 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Pathetic, I know. The main problem people keep telling me is that when i like a guy i tend to be shy around him. I like this one guy right now and he knows i like him thanks to one of my big mouth friends. We've talked only maybe twice before he found out i liked him but thats the only time we've ever talked. When i see him in the halls he looks at me...what does that mean? How can i get him to like me without coming on to him as a stalker? (link)
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Well if this guy knows you like him then just act normal around him. Give him a cute smile once n awhile and say hey in the halls. Talk to him more on aim..just try to get to know him better. After awhile..when you kno him better..talk to him in halls..this will break the tension. Maybe if you do this..he will start to like you.
p.s. Also..BE CONFIDENT!!
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I like this guy.. lets call him B.. and whenever i'm around him i get butterflies in my stomach.. then if im sad or upset..he's the only one that can cheer me up! is this Love?
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Puppy love id say. I dont know how old you are but..if your in your teen years its probably the first guy you really like that when you get older this relationship can mature into love.
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Does anyone know how to tell if you're bipolar? (link)
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Bipolar is a serious thing. Its when your mood change is frm really hyper and spastic to depressed and sadness in a matter of seconds. You would know if you had this. If you have ne questions about it ask your nearest physciatrist or counselor.
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I really like this guy let's call him Joe and 2 of my friends also like him and it gets crazier than that. The first time I saw Joe the room seemed to melt away, like him and I were the only ones in the room. Then it happened again a couple months later. I'm so confused because I just started liking him recently! What do you think is happening to me? And should I tell my friends? Thanks! I appreciate it! (link)
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Thats a tough situation to be in expecially that 2 of your friends like him too. What is happening to you is for the first time..you really really like this person..and thats okay. But you need to tell your friends. Be nice about it and dont get defensive when they tell you they like him too. Now if they start a lil fight where all 3 of yall are trying to get this guy to like you..its not worth it! I REPEAT..NOT WORTH IT. Plus thatll ruin your friendships with the other girls. Now if they are cool with it (which i doubt theyll be real cool about it) then maybe u can go for him.
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Me and my girlfriend just broke up and i was kinda glad that we broke up at first but noe i miss her really bad and i am not sure if she likes me so what should i do? (link)
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My advice to you on this is..unless this girl likes you back..forget about it for awhile. And maybe in the future you guys will reunite.
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Hey how do you to get people to stop calling you rich...like my dad is the president of a hotels all over the world and my mom is a lawyer...like sometimes when my mom and dad are bizzy i go to school in our limo and people wont shut up about it it aggervates me...and we hav a 2 story house on the beach in cali...and they both drive range rovers...it gets on my nerves sooo bad how do u get it to stop...? (link)
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People are jealous of you..thats why they make fun of you. They cant stand it cuz you've got better things than them. Try getting to know these ppl that make fun of you..maybe if they get to know YOU theyll stop making fun of you.
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well i want to have a great tan before i go to Flordia may 26 but i am so white, is there any kind of tanning stuff that works really good and stays for a really long time or stays forever without going to a tanning bed? Also i am tired of shaving all the time my hair grows back so quick, is there any kind of wax or something that doesnt cost that much money that works great to keep hair gone for a while? (link)
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Yeah..i agree dont go to the tanning bed. Get a Spray Tan its easy and quick. A Spray tan can be done at tanning beds or some have there own buildings..it depends. I dont kno how much it costs but i dont think it cost that much. Also about waxing..if youve waxed before there are some waxing kits at like your nearest drugstore. If youve never waxed..I RECOMMEND you go to a professional. Trust me on this one..lol
nemore questions you have..ask me
-heya
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i need to loose weight. i am 5'4" and i weigh 138. i really want to loose 15 pounds by the summer. Yesterday i started a 900 calorie diet adn i have been doin 200 crunches. Is there anythign else you can think of? (link)
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RUN RUN RUN. Running is the best way to lose weight..i know running isnt the funnest thing but it targets every area of the body. Try running around your neighborhood or maybe the YMCA. Start with a goal..for example "OK..im gonna run to this third mailbox on the left" Then take a breather and start running again. Its the best way. I lost 20 lbs doing this..once a day..and eating healthy food..like veges..meats..and wheat bread. A little tip..bread puts the weight on. Try to eat as little as bread as possible.
hope this works..if you have another questions..ask! im here to help
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Ive waxed before but only on my face. Im tired of shaving everything below my chin!!!!! What is safe to wax. I mean what areas. Should I go to a pro for it????? (link)
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You should def. go to a pro for it. Waxing is not something to play around with. Believe me i know from experience.
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14/female
A lot of people at school thinks my life is perfect. it is far from it. i wont get into too much detail and make this too long but i have a few good friends that i love but there are so many morons that get mad because i get good grades or whatever. i just wanted to know does this go away in high school? or will people still asume my life is great because i get good grades?
thank you
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The only reason people say that is because theyre so jealous of you they cant stand it. People used to think that about me..but then i made sure that i got to kno those people and now they dont say those things anymore. Theres really nothing you can do but maybe get to know them better. Id try that..and if they still do it..then ignore them.
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