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Q: i have a question

people alwayss say to drink water so lose weight..well i dont want to lose weight but i was woundering how does water help u lose weight?

thanks for the help!
It's not that it makes you lose weight, but i know some peopel who drink water instead of eating. It helped you burn calories, and it fills you up as food would. Water also helps clear out certain things in your body that are bad for you

Q: whats probobly the bst shampoo to make hair grow faster and smell pretty?
I recommend, Garnier Fructiese LONG AND STRONG :-) i love it, it helped alot with my split ends, and when u dont have split ends your hair grows faster



Hope this helped

Q: ok i want to lose a couple pounds by labor day weekend... what would be the best way ? i have a lot of weights but it doesnt seem to help.. HELP!
Try going for a few runs a day, and eat healthy, like salads or something. Stay away from the fatty foods. Do some aerobic exercises too. Hope this helped

Q: is having sex before marriage a sin
According to the bible, premarital sex is a sin. But most people do it anyway, its hard to come across someone who isn't a virgin, whether they are married or not, unless of course they are real young

Q: i got my belly button peirced 6 weeks ago, but it is still kinda red at the top hole. what should i do to make it not red anymore. plus, how do i know if i can change the ring yet. like how do i know if it's healed?
Don't put ear care stuff on it like was told below.. Well it could work, but where i got mine done i was told to not put that on it.. Anyway, the redness will be there for awhile, you cant make it go away because your skin is still irritated. Wash it with orange dial soap in the shower, or use salt water and lay on your back and just pour a little in your bellybutton, that heals it faster. You shouldn't change it til 3 months after the peircing. Bellybutton piercings have the longest healing time out of any peircing. It takes at least 7 months to heal completely. I wuold also recommend going back to the peircer to have them change it, unless its one of those run down tatoo shops, because when i went back they cleaned it so it wouldnt get infected when they changed it and everything. After that i changed it myself again, and it got infected because i didnt haev the proper cleaning stuff, and my bellybutton wasnt quite healed yet, and believe me an infection there is the worst thing possible, it gets reallly gross. Hope this helped

Q: okay this is mainly a question for guys. girls if you want to put in your own input go for it. these are random questions ive always wanted answers for;

1. is it okay for a girl ask out a guy first
2. is it okay for a girl to ask out a guy for a informal/formal school dance
3. do guys find girls who burp un-attractive [and yes i burp but not like all the time]
4. do guys find people who are overweight or fat un-attractive in a way to go out. but can be friends with them. [im nto overweight just wondering]
5. what type of girl do guys really want to go out with.
6. is a smart girl a type a guy wouldnt go out with.
7. what age to guys usually loose their virginity compared to girls.

LOL THNX! THESE ARE SOME QUESTIONS IVE ALWAYS WONDERED..
1. yeah it definitely is.

2. yes it is, being a girl i would rather have a guy ask me, but it is definitely okay for a girl to ask a guy.

3. Guys dont find it as a turn on to say the least, but they realize everyone burps, just dont do it all the time, if you do it all the time they will get annoyed

4. guys probably don't find fat girls attractive, but they will still be friends with themm

5. a sweet girl, who is easy to get along with, not a high class girl, someone whos down to earth and all thatt

6. guys would rather have a girl to talk to that they can hold a conversation with, and not be like huh? all the time, but not like overly smart and uses like 10000 letter words on them

7. guys usually lose theirs earlier than girls, but not all the time. around 16 is averagee age i believe


HOPE THIS HELPED

Q: Do Tums help period cramps? i rate high if i get good advice thanx!
It works somewhat, but try midol or something instead. I actually use ibprofen, it works great for me! good luck, hope u feel better

Q: around my town lots of the college girls wear there pants or t shirts inside out is there a reason or what?
I've nevre seen anyone do this, but i have no doubt that people do haha. anyway some magazine probably featured it or something and its the "new thing" where you live.. just a fad

Q: ok this girl likes me. and i like her. but im in 9th and she is in 7th. is that kool ? should i go out with her. also she is hot lol all myu friends thing she is hot 2.
Yeahh thats definitely okay! hahah I always date guys that are 2 years older than me. A girl that is 2 years younger than you has the same maturity level as you too, because you probably know girls mature faster. So its just perfect! And shes hott you say, bonus! good luck dear

Q: Hey im going into the 8th grade and i like this kid and i never met him and i heard that he liked me before but i dont know him and im scared of talking to him i liked him since last year but the thing is hes popular and im not a geek or a popular person im just a normal person u know and i dont know what to do should i just leave it alone and go find someone i know? please help!!
I'm kind of confused on the part where u like him but never met him? But i'm assuming you guys go to the same school, and its just a crush on what u know about him.

Anyway, just talk to him! popular people arent as horrible as somepeopel make them out to be, most are caring and the same as your friends.. but just apperance wise they are put into another group. But if he likes you go for it girl! Don't let anything stop you from liking someone!

Q: I'm going to the doctors the day after tomorrow cause he doesnt have hours tomorrow. so dont tell me to go to the doctor cause thats annoying. I AM going.

anyway, my right tonsil is extremely swolen. its so big that I can feel it on my tongue.

And my right gland (the lymph node on my neck) is very swolen also.

ive been sick before, but never had swolen tonsils or glands.

How come its just the right side? anyone know what this could mean? people tell me I might need my tonsils out. is this true? please help if you know what youre talking about!
Dont worry about it! This happens to me most of the time, whenever i'm sick my one side of my throat is always swollen and the other one isnt as much if even at all. You could get your tonsils out, but they usually only take them out if u get swollen tonsils alot, but even if you do get them out, its for the better because u wont have a sore throat anymore! Don't worry about it dear! I'm sure the doctor will explain everything to you



Q: is this a nice phone? i really like it..
are phones that arnt flip phones out of style?
im willing to pay $70 for this phone its really nice.

http://www.t-mobile.com/products/images.asp?phoneid=242032&class=phone
No its not out of style, thers a lot of flip phones because alot of people haev a preference for them, but some people dont like them.and $70 is a great price for a cell phone! its really cute!


Q: I live in an apartment with my mom. We want to get a cat and the landlady said we can if it doesn't have any claws. We aren't sure if thats ok to do to a cat. I no one other person who has a cat like this and the cat seems happy. What do you think?
Get it declawed, even if i didnt HAVE to i would..it just makes it so much easier, they dont scatch up any furniture or put holes in anything and they ecspecially cant scratch you then.I have a few cats, all declawed, they get back to normal like a week later it will be finee i promise:-)

Q: ok well im going to a pool party tomorrow at like 1 pm and its 9 pm now. so im 5 feet tall and a wopping 93pounds- i gained some wait over the summer. and so i have some binkinis but my fat rolls over them but i also have a 2 peice that covers my fat. the people going to the party are all major popular so should i wear the bikini or the other 2peice

thanks so much in advance ill rate high for good answers and any advice is apreciated
I dont think 93 pounds is alot for being 5 foot.. hahah I'm 5'3 and i weigh around 100, and im one of the tinyest girls in my grade. Bikinis show confidence though, and im sure you dont have that much fat, but if you feel better about how you look in the other one go for that hun

Q: I'm thinking about getting my cartilage pierced.. but im afraid its gonna hurt a lot. Does it? How much does it hurt? (How much more than getting ur lobe pierced?)
When i got my earlobes peirced it didnt really hurt when the needle went through, it just hurt afterwards.. my cartlidge was like opposite.. it hurt for the 2 seconds the peircing went through, but then after that i didnt even feel it unless i laid on it or like bumped it, im my opinion it was alot less painful than getting your earlobe peirced. i think you should get it peirced! i think cartilidge peircings look cute!



Q: Im starting High School in 10 days. Im excited/nervous but whatever. Does anybody know any school supplies that will be needed? Or could anybody recommend school supplies i should have? Except for pens,notebooks and a backpack because i already have those things?
Its pretty simple, the first day of school u dont need reallyanything, take like a notebook to write things down if you need to, and bring a folder to put the papers u get in there... The teachers tell you what you need the first day and usually say just have it by the end of the week, they dont expect you to have it the first day of course.


Hope this helped

Q: alright so i guess this is for guys to answer but girls can too..
when guys ask girls to homecoming how long do they normally wait to ask, like our homecomingis october 15th and idk i just wanna know like when to expect to get asked if i do..please and thanks!:)
Well your school might be different, but ours the guys ask like Closer to the end of September or towards the beginning of October and ours is around the same date as that too

Q: What guys look for in a girl?? Thanx

Eye color?
Hair color
Do you want her to kiss you on the first date?
If not when?
When is it alright to take it to second base
How soon do you want her to put it out (sex wise)
athletic, preppy or girly girl?
Skinny,muscular,chubby or fat
shorter or taller than you?
experienced or unexperienced?
Do looks matter?
Whats a major turn off?
Whats a major turn on?
Feature you like the most on girls?
Do you like it when a girl makes the first move?
If your girlfriend gains 20lbs will you stay with her?
Do you like it when girls play hard to get?
Dou you like
Would you date a girl who has slept around just for sex?
Would you date an ugly girl just for sex?
Ass or boobs?
Pretty face or hot body
Do you mind if a girl beats you while playing sports?
Make-up or no make-up?
dressed up girl or sweat pants/casual jeans and a sweatshirt
First thing you notice about a girl?
I asked one of my good guy friends for youu


Eye color? .. Blue or Hazel

Hair color? .. brunette

Do you want her to kiss you on the first date?
If not when?...."no kiss her but hope she doesnt pull away,if she kisses you then she had a really good time and is happy"

When is it alright to take it to second base? i would say 2 months at the minimum

How soon do you want her to put it out (sex wise)? as soon as you are both are ready for it

athletic, preppy or girly girl? athletic/preppy

Skinny,muscular,chubby or fat? she has to have a toned body

shorter or taller than you? shorter

experienced or unexperienced? " well it depends on how you are if you are experienced and can get hot chicks who areit would be good but if not then girls will be like what the fcuk are you doing so it depends"

Do looks matter? they shouldnt but people really do care about it

Whats a major turn off? talking about guys you wish you were with or just guys in general

Whats a major turn on? thong

Feature you like the most on girls? nice legs

Do you like it when a girl makes the first move? sometimes

If your girlfriend gains 20lbs will you stay with her? yeah

Do you like it when girls play hard to get? "at times but too much of it makes me loose hope"

Would you date a girl who has slept around just for sex? nooo

Would you date an ugly girl just for sex? eww, no way

Ass or boobs? ass

Pretty face or hot body? face before body, but preferably both

Do you mind if a girl beats you while playing sports? depends on what sport

Make-up or no make-up? make up

dressed up girl or sweat pants/casual jeans and a sweatshirt? casual

First thing you notice about a girl? face then boobs then ass then legs

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