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I dont understand why so many people have issues with immigrants coming here illegally. i mean what happened to the good ol american saying that its the land of the free? i mean if you lived a crap life in mexico and you were just looking for a better life in america.. doesnt it make sense to try and come here? i mean when people get granted to come here.. its not that easy. you could be told "no". then what are you gonna do? live a crap life there? NO. try to imagine life from their POV. with the border being built up thats gay.. i mean who are we to say how many people can inhabit america? i mean this is a country friggen based on IMMIGRANTS. the closest anyone can call themselves to a real american is if they have a long line of native americans in their family. and what about a long time ago when columbus came and took land away from the native americans? what if they called them illegal immigrants cause they didnt call to come say hello, and uh steal their land and kill their people while they're at it. with hillary clinton she says she doesnt wanna be involved with the building of that humongous border, but thank god obama has some sense. super tuesday was really close.. i was pretty pissed that obama came a close second. bet its just racist old people, since a lot of the younger generation wants obama. like in school (btw 8th grade) we had a poll out of my entire team and obama was clearly the winner. hillary had like 1/4 of the votes and very few were for mccain. and i live in new jersey.. which mostly favored hillary, obama coming second. thats just plain weird that the kids would have diff opinions like that. obama appeals to everybody. there are some people like me that.. like idk why but thers something about hillary i dont like. but with obama.. it just seems so different, so right. with him i actually feel that change will come to our country. anyways, with obama hes gonna try to get the mexicans that come over for day jobs licenses.. so that they know the rules of america and stuff.. cause they need to know them or they can be a danger to the people here, and well themselves as well. cause thinking that a little border is gonna stop people from making outlandish schemes to get over it, is bullshit. not gunna happen. its not right for the racist people around mexico (in america.. like above mexico) go around shooting people they see crossing over. who the hell would give these old coots the right to SHOOT SOMEBODY? for doing what? trying to get a better life! that is totall bullcrap so remember to vote for obama, once again. and yea building that border is not gonna be cheap.. and people complain about the tax prices now.. heh well its not getting better with that border, hunny. money should go to better things. as well with the border surrounding canada which is more ridiciously hilarious.. look at a man of North America and i wont have to explain. k end rant. opinions? please dont like remove this.. i really want to know opinions.. in a way i guess thats sort of like answers right? like advice to me. yeah. or if its wrong like tell me why how this isnt an advice question and how i could make it one. kthanks mods.
First things first, Obama voted for the 'secure fence act' in 2006, there's no denying that.
People have opinions on everything. Some say that illegal immigration leads to crime, some say that illegal immigrants take advantage of the helpful programs offered in the United States. Others stand by the key word "illegal"-illegal means against the law, so why should it be accepted unless laws are changed.
A lot of the issue has to deal with the economy. The economy is in bad shape now, why should the United States take on the responsibility of illegal immigrants? The United States, no matter how wealthy and advanced, cannot care for every other country in the world, it will just not happen even if it were possible.
I think you're a little off with the whole election thing. I highly doubt that 'racism' has much to do with the election, just as 'sexism' has little to do with it. Look at the democratic candidates that have made it here- a woman and an african american. Both wouldn't have made it this far if people didn't support them.
Kids are going to think a lot differently than adults and elders. Younger people might be drawn toward Obama due to his rhetoric and overall presence. Others are drawn to Clinton due to experience, believe it or not she did a lot of good things while her hubby was President. And McCain also has a lot of experience. You might not agree with his views but you cannot deny that he knows politics and Washington well.
Obama does not appeal to everybody. He lacks votes with Hispanics and white women. Just like Clinton lacks in the african american and white male department.
One single person is not going to bring change to a country, no matter how badly people want to believe it. Sure, there can be a great influence, but it takes many people to make such a drastic change.
By the way, I am planning on voting for Obama [if my state's primary even plays a factor in deciding the candidate, PA doesn't have it's primary until April which is really late], I'm just playing devil's advocate here. It's better to have your facts straight before you go about supporting a candidate. You know a lot for your age, but I wouldn't praise a candidate before you know their entire story.
are they satanic? then why are their lyrics evil.. killing babies and such.
I'd say it's about shock value. Back when they started, it was just a different style of punk music [horror punk] for kids to listen to rather than most of the punk bands that were about anarchy and social commentary. I wouldn't call them satanic at all. The lyrics are not "evil", often they're really hilarious, sarcastic, and totally horrendous yet great at the same time. The people that really like The Misfits find a dark humor in their lyrics that was their own original style.
Songs like 'last caress' ["I got something to say, I killed a baby today and it doesn't matter much to me as long as it's dead"] aren't meant to be serious. It's not like danzig went out and killed some babies and smiled about it haha. It's just a type of humor that not everyone appreciates.
If your dorm has a common bathroom, how does showering work?? Can you go take a shower whenever you want to?? Also, can you use your hairdryer/hair straightener in the bathroom or can you use it in your room also?? I know every college/university is different, but generally, what are the usual rules for this situation?? I'm a bit nervous about it since I'm obsessed with my hair straightener. Thanks!!
You can shower whenever you want to, the showers never close. I usually shower at midnight haha. I think most colleges now have private shower stalls, but I recommend wearing flip-flops while showering [you never know what kind of fungi is lurking on the shower floor, gross].
You can use your hair stuff in the bathroom or in your room, whichever is easier for you. I'd say in your room might be easier, since especially in the morning the bathrooms get crowded.
I'm looking for a great hair website that shows detailed photos of different styles. Does anybody know of any? Also I would love it if the site was well updated. Like I don't want to have to go through 30 90s hair dos to find one good modern hair do. Thanks!
check out this site:
http://community.livejournal.com/madradhair/
A lot of it is "scene" hairstyles, but there's also more modest styles. And it is always up-to-date.
16/f
i recently got a boyfriend..my age..
and all of a sudden, all my girl friends are beginning to turn their back on me. i tried to figure out what's wrong...and they all admitted they liked him...or still do.
but it's not my fault he decided to choose me.
what should i do? should i be nice towards those girls?
Tell them to get over it. It's not as though you knew they all liked him when you started dating this kid.
They are [or were] your friends, they should be happy when good things come along to friends, not jealous and immature.
Hopefully they will grow up and realize they are overreacting and being overall bitchy.
I would confront them, not angrily or offensively, but not softly either. Be firm and stand by your opinions, and don't stoop to their level of maturity [or lack thereof].
"God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve."
Would people take that as really offensive? I read it on the internet and we're making a poster on social justice and I was wondering if I should put that sentence in it somewhere.
It could be offensive if the person reading it is gay, or sympathizes with gay rights.
I think it is a bit funny, but after the initial humor of it, it just sounds mean and evangelistic.
Why would you put that on a poster for social justice? just wondering.
my boobs are kinda saggy and i have tried push up bras just not from victoria's secret and they kinda help.. so i was wondering which pushup bra from victorias secret is the best ..and price thanks
ok, I really like the "Angels by Victoria's Secret
Secret Embrace push-up bra", here is it on their website:
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=3H-194398&page=1&cgname=OSBRPTEEZZZ&rfnbr=3763
As you can see, it is pricey at $45.00, but Victoria's Secret makes really great quality bras that will last for a good amount of time without breaking or tearing.
I'd go to a VS store though, they can get you the right size and you can try on every bra in the store if you want. If you're gonna spend the money on a good bra from VS, make sure you try it on and it fits comfortably and you're not popping out of it.
Good luck, I know bra shopping sucks haha.
13/f
I am a very high-performing student. I have never in my entire life gotten below an 86 on report cards, and have an IQ of 143, which I think is pretty good for my age.
I always used to sit in class and be bored as the teacher rambled on for days on things I could not grasp why others did not understand. There were a bunch of helping classes for low-performing students, but never any AP classes. I mean it's only middle school, but you know, it's four years in the same school.
Just this year (8th grade) they installed an AP Algebra class, but I am terribly bored in other subjects, especially English, which is basically full of idiots.
My question is, why did no one ever install advanced classes, but always gave tons of funding to help classes to kids who aren't going to amount to much anyway? I feel held back and kind of betrayed. Can someone explain it to me? I'm not too informed on the No Child Left Behind Act, but someone told me that's why we never got to get ahead. Now I'm learning stuff that's a year ahead of regular classes for Math, but what about other classes? I get really upset about this.
Thanks.
Well I'm not gonna criticize you, because you're just being honest and not holding back. Yeah it might not be politically correct but the world is harsh.
The No Child Left Behind Act could very well be part of the reason. Basically the school will receive more funding if more kids meet the 'standards' that are set, and a reason that the Act is criticized so much is that a lot of people believe that this causes schools to lower academic standards just so they can receive more funding. Then, that extra funding is used to pay for programs to help the students who struggle in school, getting those students to meet the standards of the Act, getting the school more funding. It can turn into a cycle like that because the school acts like a business.
Anywho, I know what you mean about feeling like you aren't challenged at all. Is there a gifted program at your school? Try talking to the gifted program director about courses you can take online.
Another thing, you're still young and have a lot of school left to go through. You'll find that when you hit high school you will have a lot more choices in terms of AP classes, you might even have the opportunity to take classes at a local college.
You basically just have to stick with it, I know it sucks and is boring and will end up being pretty much pointless, but it gets more difficult and challenging. Then before you know it you're in college!
Isn't Christmas about the birth of Jesus and one of God's biggest miracles? So why do most atheist still celebrate it?
Yeah I agree with the person below me, I am also an atheist [a skeptical one at most though] and I celebrate Christmas because it is a time to celebrate family and friends through selfless actions, it's just a fun and happy time of year that I would really not want to miss out on just because I don't believe in God, because to me that is not all that Christmas represents.
Okay, so I am making a mixed CD with some different music on it and I need help thinking of songs. For this CD, I wanted to do like ska, ska-punk, indie, indie-rock, indie-pop, and maybe some Swedish too. I don't know if it helps any but here are some bands I already listen to (and if you could recommend some new similar ones that would be great!):
The Hush Sound, Suburban Kids with Biblical Names, and Pain...
hmm, well here's some of my favourite ska/punk bands and songs that I really like by them:
Big D and the Kids Table:
"Evil Girl Angry Girl"
"I'd Rather"
Bomb the Music Industry! [all his songs are free for download]:
"I Don't Love You Anymore"
"Tell My Boss I Hate You"
Catch 22:
"Beguile the Time"
"Rocky"
"What Goes Around Comes Around"
a lot more by them haha I love them
Five Iron Frenzy:
"Handbook for the Sellout"
"A Flowery Song"
"Every New Day"
Lucky Boys Confusion:
"Sunday Afternoon"
"Dumb Pop Song"
"Needle In My Arm"
Mad Caddies:
"Villains"
"Macho Nachos"
"Road Rash"
Mustard Plug:
"Yesterday"
"Someday, Right Now"
"The Freshman"
more ska bands:
Streetlight Manifesto
The Toasters
The Hippos
RX Bandits
Left Alone
I don't know much indie other than Bright Eyes, Robot Ate Me, Liars, Arcade Fire, stuff like that. But hopefully I mentioned some ska that you like.
what the name of this old song like. i cant even remember the words cuz if i did i would be able to find it. but like the music videos is in black and white and. i like it goes throught this whole domino effect. and like at the end of the video like theres this fire arrow that like misses a target on a wall or something.. and yeah. thats all i remember pretty much. i think it was from like three years ago or maybe even four. but yeah does anyone know what im talking about.
thanksss.
The Bravery- "An Honest Mistake"
haha I knew it immediately, I love that video/song.
i'm fifteen, and my boyfriend turns sixteen in december. a month and 2 days actually.
i'm not exactly sure what to get him, and if i do
get him something.. should i get him something for his birthday and christmas? or like.. really nice thing for both..
helpp :]
Make him food, guys love food. And I would get him maybe a small gift for his birthday [cd or something?], and then just say "there's more to come" and give him another gift or two on Christmas [whatever he'd like, I'm sure you know him well enough to know what he wants. Plus he'll probably like anything you get him]. But yeah I definitely recommend making him food, especially dessert.
well lets just say i think i like a younger guy..and he is about 2 and a half years younger...would it be wrong to date?
My boyfriend is two and a half years younger than me, and we've been together for like 16 months, so go for it, there's nothing wrong with it. Good luck.
im lookin for the Travis Barker version of Soulja Boy. my limewire hasnt been connecting for like the past month and with dial up, myspace music pages take foreverrrr to load, so searching is a problem, and the ones i have found arent downloadable.
does anyone know of a music myspace that has a downloadable FULL VERSION of the song?
or if you have the file [preferrably MP3] on your computer, i could give you my email address if someone would send it to me?
thanks.
I can't find it on the internet anymore, so send me an email and I'll send it to you :) .
williamson910@verizon.net
I'm 17 years old, and so is my boyfriend. He'll be 18 in February 08.. and here's what's going on.
sorry if this is kinda long
Well, we've been together for a year and 3 months and we're both crazy about eachother.
Because of what happened with his parents he doesn't want to get married until his late twenties.
He's a senior this year and is leaving to go to college next year. The colleges he's applying for are all at least 3 hours away. Neither of us know what to do. I can't move away with him. So he said I should wait for him, and we'll see eachother a few times throughout the 4 years he's in college.. But school is his number 1 priority, I mean, he's not happy unless he's getting straight A's. And in college he'd be even more busy than he is now, in highschool, right?
I love him so much but I don't think I'm strong enough to wait so long, not knowing if he's began liking someone else, or something like that. I trust that he wouldn't cheat on me, but I can't be sure NOTHING would happen. I mean, it's college! lol.
Please help me.
I love him so much and I'd die without him.
Hmm...well I'm 18 and in college, and my boyfriend of a year and a half is 16 and in high school, and we're making it work.
Trust is key. My boyfriend trusts me, and I trust him, without that then we would never survive the distance.
In college you get a lot of breaks, such as fall break for a week, thanksgiving break for a week, winter break for nearly a month, a long spring break, and then his freshman year will be over before you know it. It's gonna be really difficult if you decide to stay together [which I really think you should], but the little things can help, like calling every night for hours, writing letters, maybe even driving to visit if you're able to.
Honestly, don't throw away what you have just because he's going away. You might be really surprised at how quickly the time goes, and then once you both are done with college you can be together all the time.
If you two really love each other then it's definitely worth doing everything you can to stay together. You just both need to make the effort.
But for now, don't think about college, you've still got a good amount of months before he goes, just enjoy the time now and think about college when the time comes, good luck and I hope things work out for you.
what were your senior quotes? im trying to find a good one
My quote was one of my favourite lyrics, "still stomp through puddles, the world spins beneath my feet."
Some of my favourites that other people had included:
"I never think of the future - it comes soon enough"
"not all those who wander are lost"
"life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about dancing in the rain"
"to live is the rarest thing. most people simply exist, that is all."
"we seek peace, knowing that peace is the climate of freedom"
Just pick something that's meaningful to you, and that you won't end up hating in a few years.
i've seen these slipper-sock things around like at stores like Loose Lucy's
they're knitted and have a suade-ish bottom
and come up to about your knee
does anyone know what these are called or any stores or online stores i could order a pair from? thanks!
Like these?: http://www.footsmart.com/P-Mukluk-Fairisle-Slipper-Wmn-71161.aspx
these don't have suede on the bottom but they're knitted:
http://www.eddiebauer.com/eb/product.asp?product_id=31901&nv=23211|23998|24013&lview=&cm_cg=C24013&tid=&c=&sc=&lp=v1i007
that's really all I could find. Maybe a store like kohl's would have them, or even sears, jcpenney, or other department stores, sorry I couldn't find more :/ .
I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 20.Yes,I'm a lesbian.We've been together for two yrs now..When we first met,she had just gotten out of a yr and one month relationship with another girl.They were always on and off,but I know that she was in love with her..They cheated on each other all the time.Well,me and my gf,we'll call her N have never broken up once,or cheated on each other.We both had bad reputations with relationships and girls.But we never let it ger in our way..She was my first,for EVERYTHING,physically and emotionally.Our love has been strong..But she still talks about her ex.About the good,or the bad.I want to erase her ex out of her mind!I feel so inferior to her.It's been over 2 yrs since they've been apart and it's been like over a yr since they've stopped talking.The girls has a boyfriend now and they're serious..But I feel inferior,because that girl drives,has a job,and is totally independent..I'm not,yet.I've told N about this,and how I want her to stop talking about her in ANYWAY.But it doesn't get through to her..I feel digusted with myself.My question is,really...What would you do to make yourself feel better?Or something?I have another question..But I'll ask you later.My apologies for this being too long.
I think what you really need to do is just tell N totally how you feel, and I know you said you told her, but you obviously need to keep telling her. Have a long one-on-one discussion about it, tell her how this hurts you and makes you feel, don't hold back, if you need to get emotional for her to understand your feelings then get emotional. Something's gotta get through to her, and if she doesn't pay attention to it then she's just being selfish and needs a good reality check.
To feel better? Think of all the reasons that N loves you and all the reasons why you love yourself, whether it's your beauty, brains, humour, wit, kindness, any of that. Don't let the negative get through. Indulge in your favourite things. Go for a long walk to somewhere pretty and just lay in the middle of a giant field and watch the sky, relax your mind. Just don't feel inferior dear, N is with you, not your ex, and that means a lot, that means you are her love, no matter how much she may talk about her ex, she loves you and she needs to listen to you when you tell her you feel inferior. Good luck with everything.
There's this girl who I really admire.
We're in the same grade, but don't really talk that much...we're friendly though.
But she hangs out with these people who lately have been getting in with the wrong things...
like drugs, alcohol, sex, and stuff.
But she's above everything.
And she's a really strong person.
And I want to let her know...without creeping her out and seeming like I'm into her business
help?
I think you should just come out and say it. It's not like you're a complete stranger to her, and she seems really nice and like a genuine good person, so she should appreciate you telling her how you feel about her staying 'above the influence' and such. I know I'd take that as a great compliment and I would hope she does too. Just mention it to her when you see her and are having a small casual conversation. It really shouldn't creep her out, she should be flattered.
You never know, she might even be feeling pressured to do all the drugs and sex etc, maybe you telling her how you feel will reinforce her decisions to not partake in all those wrong decisions her friends are making.
Good luck.
13/F
So, I'm emo, well I also have a perverted mind. i posted a question about being emo, but this is different. I like perverted things like, someone says go do that. i'll start laughing. I jus tliek that stuff it's funny! I mean I'm immature. That's me. Don't tell me to grow up. It's me and I want peopel to except me for it. I mean, my friends are like that too. My problem? People keep sayign I've had sex, I cut myself, I'm a pervert literally.
I really don't like that. I mean, I like to laugh at that. Can someone help meh?!?!?! THANK YOU!!!!
--Izzy Uchiha! ^/-\^
Just ignore them. When people are young they make up stupid things and spread dumb rumours etc.
Having a perverted mind isn't a bad thing. At least I hope not since I'm a big old perv haha.
But yeah, don't listen to other people. You're young, you can be immature as much as you want, enjoy it while you're still young.