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hola! my name is kait. im fouteen. i swim, dance, twirl, and act. i loove my friends. i have no idea where i would be without them. my family is awesome too. without their support i could never be where i am today. my hopes for the future are to go to duquesne university, do the whole pgh. triathalon, and travel the many different countries. i love helping people and giving them advice..hope i'll be able to help you.
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theres this girl and i dont like her like a girl friend or anything but every time were together all we do is sexual things... so you think its bad to do this we have never screwed and wont but we just play around do you think i should stop or do you even think it matters?
its fine just as long as your not leading her on that you dolike her more than a friend.
xokaitox
Ok im a senior and i have had these friends since freshmen year and our shopmore year me got in a huge fight and i stopped talkin to them all and now since its our senior year i want to get back to the way things once were so im just forgetting everything that had happened and moving on...do you think it will work out? and also do you think im dumb for tring to get my friends back?
i think thats great that you are being the stronger one to forget about it..but dont get upset if they dont want to make up..you'd be better without them if that happens
hope it all works out!!
xokaitox
okay their is this guy who is obsessed with me and his name is andrew. hes a dorky and all. but hes nice. i dont like him but he follows me everywhere i go. hes always asking where i am and what im doing. he talks to my friends to see what im doing and when im hangingout with them so hecan join us. and even on his myspace it says I LOVE BRITTANy all over it. oh and he says i love you to me. even though he doesnt know me. he knows.. that i know that he likes me. its kinda like a no BRAINer. and hes even asked me out. but like i said i dont like him. But he tells me even if i dont likehim, he will never stop loving me. and honestly the guy doenst know me well enoguht to love me much less like me.
SO HOW DO I TELL him to basically screw off.. because ive tried that and it doesnt work and ive tried just telliung him nicely.?!??!?! help me.
hes putting you in a difficult situation and it may seem hard to talk to him about it but you have to let him know that hes making you feel uncomfortable when he tells you he likes you. explain to him that you only like him as a friend and hes ruining his friendship with you by sharing his feelings. and even if he is dorky, hes nice so dont completely blow him off but stand up for yourself. dont worry, it will work out!
hope this helps! send me a msg if you need more help!
xokaitox
Does any one know some good songs about self reliance? like having to do things yourself and being on your own and not having anyone to rely on through hard times?
Thanks ;)
miss independent - - kelly clarkson
irreplacable - - beyonce
thats all i can think of now. how this helps!
xokaitox
how do you get a background on xanga. do you have to buy something??
go to the xanga home page and
go to "blogrings"
search for something like "layouts"
find a site and look for a layout you like
copy the code there
go to your look&feel
paste the code in INPUT COSTOM HEADER
hope this helps! if you need anymore help, just ask!
xokaitox
my bf and i have been going out for over a year and i really love him. the problem is that lots of other girls like him too. girls are always calling and texting him, inviting him to do stuff, and hanging all over him, even in front of me. i always hear rumors about girls saying they like my bf and wish we'd break up. some of these girls are even my "friends." and im thinking HELLO, he has a girlfriend!!! is that normal behavior? becuz i just dont get it. i would never, ever throw myself at a guy who is taken. my dad says i should get mad at them and say something like "hey, stay away from my bf!" but im just not like that... i dont want to start any drama or seem like im jealous or overprotective. but i feel that way inside, and im tired of worrying about losing my bf or being betrayed by a supposed friend.
just talk to him about it. it may seem akward to but if you've been going out for over a year, then you two are probably pretty close. the other girls are going to keep trying to get closer to him but if you and him just keep staying together its just going to make them more jealous and eventually they'll stop. just talk to him!
hope this helps!
xokaitox
has anyone seen the episode of the girls next door, where the one girl, goes to chicago with her mom, and when shes talking, shes wearing that little sweater, with the grey hearts. and its pink. and it buttons up the middle. i saw some girl in school wearing it, and i only saw her that one time, and i havent seen her since, and I want it soooooo bad. SO bad. does anyone know where i can get that? or no what it is? and no what store she got it from?!?!! or even anything similar..
thank you sooo much.
i think i know what your talking about..but i could be wrong. anyways i have that sweater and i think i got it at pacsun or delias.
hope this helps!
xokaitox
Does anyone know any good ideas for concealer that won't fade with sweat and will stay on all day? I'm going to be out in the heat & sun and have a few pimples to cover up. Does anyone have a few suggestions or products maybe? Thanks.
i know how you feel! i use clinique foundation and set up powder. it stays on aaaalll day long. its a little bit on the expensive side but i thinks its worth it!
hope this helps!
xokaitox
i have EXTREMELY curly/frizzy hair and i can't find any straighteners that will work in it. Can anyone tell me any good ones (money is not a problem)
i use a phi straightener..its made from the chi company and its absolutely amazing!! its not sold in most stores but you can find it online. its usually around $30. i would also suggest putting on hair damage protection spray before your straighten your hair to keep it smooth
hope this helps!
xokaitox
So I have no idea how to dance. I mean in school and stuff we don't really have that much dances and stuff and now we're having one. I'm sure some people at that know how to dance from going to clubs and what not but...i can't//don't know if i can dance. This is a tough question..but when everyone's dancing I want to join in to make memories..any tips?
just follow everyone else...for the most part, on fast songs people jump up and down and for slow songs couples dance
hope this helps! and have fun!
xokaitox
15/f
aight so like there are a lot of things going on in my life right now that i really need advice on so if you have even just a lilttle input that would be awesome. I have 2 problems((this could be long))
Anywho...((friend problem)) me and my best friend are like really close but sometimes she gets annoying. Like she tries to flirt with guys and they'll be nice nice to her n stuff, but then they will like totally talk behind her back and say shes annyoing n stuff. Also a lot of other girls say shes annyoing and they dont want to be friends with her. This girl is like one of my closest friends ever and i cannot justr stop being friends with her and i dont want to! She gets mad over little things and gets her feelings hurt easily so i have no idea what to do!!!
((boy problem))
so me and this one guy have had like a thing goin on for a lil while. But we arent and havent been going out. He is known for being a player and i know not to trust him but i like him a lot. I cant stop my feelings! Its not i get to choose them. Im obviously not the only girl in his life but hes the only guy in mine :(
Please dont tell me there are are "other fish in the sea and whatever because there is like no one good at my school. All the guys just want sex and they dont care about your feelings like your not even a person. I know im about to get screwed over(for like the millionth time) but i cant let go of him i donno what to do!!
I dont feel happy with myself anymore like nothing is going right for me and i know it souds lkie im just sitting here feeling sorry for myself but theres nothing for me to be happy for anymore!! i hate it.
friend problem :: i know exactly how you feel but you shouldnt care what others think about it...i know it seems hard but it sound shallow if you just stop being friends with her because other people dont accept it. maybe just try talking to her about calming down w/ guys and stuff but i'd suggest not to be mean about it just explain to her how to hang out with others in a more relaxed way.
boy problem :: it sounds stupid but there are other guys..if you dont let go of him soon, eventually you're going to get hurt.
as for everything else...its summer! turn off the computer and take a jog around the neighborhood or call some friends to hang out at the park or pool!
xokaitox
what are some cute good prom themes...thanks=]
a night in paris
[ we did this for ours and it turned out really cute]
new york, new york
hollywood
idk just a few ideas..hope it helps
xokaitox
My friend is going through a tough time for hie relationship. He was telling me how difficult the situation is the other day, and all the sudden, he said, "on the top of that, something else happened to me..........." but he doen't want to tell me what the "something" is, and asked me not to ask him either......
Now, all I can think about is what the "something" is!! What should I do? he asked me not to ask him, but why he told me "something" happened to him, but don't want me to ask??
maybe its nothing too important or maybe its embarassing for him to tell. if you really must know, just ask. if hes your friend he should open up to you.
14/f/Australia
So I have this internet stalker guy and I'm really scared. He thinks he has my phone number and address but it's not mine, but he can get mine so easily. We always fight (Because it's a forced friendship) and he says if I don't forgive him he'll call my home, and school and get me into trouble. I usually forgive him out of fear but tonight I decided to stand up to him. I know he'll call that house and find out I don't live there and get my real number. He did it to Kevin so he's doing it to me.
Anyways my question is: What do I do if he does call? Also: The only way to save myself is to get a private number so he can't find it AND FAST. But if I tell my mum she'll get the internet cut off. Do I tell her what's really been going on or do I say something else to get her to change it to silent.
first of all, you cant worry about getting in trouble with your mom now. this is very important. you need to stop talking to him and if you think its serious enough, report him to someone. he cant get your number or address unless its on the internet so if you have it on somewhere take in off asap. dont believe the things hes telling you, he is most likely lying.
good luck!
How do i get rid of pimples? Diet solutions?
Websites would be helpful. Any creams or products i could buy in Sydney, AUSTRALIA?
Any information on getting rid of pimples will HELP!!!! Thanks Heaps! :D
i dont think there is a specific diet for avoiding pimples but just eat healthier and dont get too stressed. its also important to wash you face. i use clinique 3-step face wash and it keeps my skin pimple-free. to get rid of a pimple fast put toothpaste (make sure its all white or else you will have a blue/green dot) on overnight or put some windex on it.
hope this helps!! =]
i need a really fun exciting birthday present for my mom. but its soooo hard getting her stuff: she doesnt use/like/wear the following -
make up
perfume
jewelry
music (ya shes really picky)
watches
cookbooks
clothes (she hates a lot of things)
shoes (SHE has to pick them out)
gift cards (she wont even let me buy them for my friends)
kitchen utensils (anything from silverware to bread machines)
pillows
stuffed animals
jars of macoroni
basicly she doesnt like a lot of things. =/
i am making her a birthday card though, but i want a store bought gift to go along with it.
i cant ask her what she wants, becuase shell say she doesnt need anything.
i want to get her something fun, maybe a bit useless, but something that she will really enjoy.
any random ideas?
*i already thought of making a video of our family and a scrapbook, but we dont have any pictures and videos.
just a tiny bit about her: she homeschools me and my brother (no gifts saying teacher, please!!!)spends 6 hours of her day drivng and watching my brother do gymnastics (his gym is 1.5 hours away) so i was thinking to get her something that will amuse her while she watches my brother.
i am willing to spend up to 100 dollars.
thanks!!
well, whatever you get your mother, shes going to love it. every year for my moms birthday i get her flowers and have them send them to her work but you can arrange a home-cooked meal for her made by you and your brother or something like that
hope this helps!!
ok, i like this guy, lets call him Jim. and he likes my friend Cal, and she likes him back. My friend Connor told Jim this,"You know Abby[me] likes you." and Jim is like ya, i know. but i didnt know that he knew. Jim called me pretty and stuff but i dont know what to do bc now he knows that i like him, and now i cant talk to him. i see him all the time in the hall, after school for track, and at open gym every tuesday. So its really awkward bc now i just cant even talk to him as a friend. i dont know what to do. please help. SHould i talk to him? but if i do, hes not the kind of guy who is mushy and stuff so idk if thatll work. i know he doesnt want to go out with me, well, i dont know but i probably can guess. so what should i do? sorry its kinda long
act like you dont know he likes you..i know it sounds hard to do but seriously if he talked to you and called you pretty and stuff then he is either a player or he likes you. dont wait around just because your friend likes him. do what you feel is right.
good luck! =]