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stay away from my boyfriend!!
my bf and i have been going out for over a year and i really love him. the problem is that lots of other girls like him too. girls are always calling and texting him, inviting him to do stuff, and hanging all over him, even in front of me. i always hear rumors about girls saying they like my bf and wish we'd break up. some of these girls are even my "friends." and im thinking HELLO, he has a girlfriend!!! is that normal behavior? becuz i just dont get it. i would never, ever throw myself at a guy who is taken. my dad says i should get mad at them and say something like "hey, stay away from my bf!" but im just not like that... i dont want to start any drama or seem like im jealous or overprotective. but i feel that way inside, and im tired of worrying about losing my bf or being betrayed by a supposed friend.
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You know most girls are like that with their boyfriends. But really he knows that hes not single. He's just a girl magnet and he can't help the fact that he is one. He wouldnt turn you down just because a lot of girls flirt with him. But I know how you feel. And you should feel that way its normal for people to feel like that.. because it is not right for them to do that especially if its right in front of you. You will not lose your boyfriend unless those girls go beyond the top with him. The most important thing with you and your boyfriend is trust. And if he breaks that then you can start to worry. But if you guys are honest and you know you wont lose him and everythings going fine then it will be ok. Try not to be jealous of your boyfriend, guys really really hate it when girls are jealous because they get a lot of girls flirting with them. Try not to show it and everything will be fine. Just think if you and your boyfriend switched tables and you would be seeing him jealous because of all these boys flirting with you. Have a positive attitude around your him, and show him that you are the only one he can flirt with :)
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Don't wait any longer, the more you have to tolerate this crap from those girls the worse the situation will get. I think they like him because there's always something attractive about the Alpha-male. The Alpha-male is the one that stands out - the one that's in charge of the entire group, is he the Alpha-male in the group? If so, that's probably why. You need to talk to these girls one-on-one individually. Altogether may be awkward. Does your boyfriend accept those invitations? He's probably a little awkward about this too, so you should talk to him as well. Discuss this together before you two aren't still very close. I understand where you're coming from, I was getting mad just reading your question because it's absolutely breath-taking how many girls are willing to throw themselves at a guy just to dump them a week and a half later for a title to get rid of their reputation of desparation. I guess I'm getting too personal now, so I'll stop :/
Hope everything works out.
With Love,
Sidney
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you have to be alittle protective if you want him to think you love him. Other wise he will think you don't and maybe have an affair.
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just talk to him about it. it may seem akward to but if you've been going out for over a year, then you two are probably pretty close. the other girls are going to keep trying to get closer to him but if you and him just keep staying together its just going to make them more jealous and eventually they'll stop. just talk to him!
hope this helps!
xokaitox
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