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I am only 15 and I already have a kid and pretty much my life is ruined.I hate bein a mom at 15 it really sucks.The father of my child is wonderful though.He helps and supports my child as much as he can although both of our lives are pretty much over.I can't stand gettin up every 2 hours to feed her.I really regret getting in bed with the father.It was the stupidest thing ive ever done.I now hate my life.I have a beautiful baby but a messed up life.I ruined my life to fast.I should have waited till I was older and well now I just don't know what to do.I love my baby very much but im just not so sure that i can handle raising a child along with going to school and working to pay for the expences of my child....Plz someone help me.I really need to know what to do.I don't wanna give it to an adoption center but that might be my only choice.I really need some advice so someone plz help.

Desperate for my life back and confused!! (link)
Ok wow your brave and all and I know how you feel my cuz went through the same shit as you and she cried alot cuz she needed help she culdn't pay her parents didn't want to help I don't know about yours but...what I suggest you is to try and keep the baby as much as you can....and then well when your child turns 1 years old put him in a day care center...and ask your parents for help an if it's way to much to handle put your child up for adoption and make it clear that you want to see your child when you can and when you made anough money you want you child back...cuz my cuz did that and she regreted letting her baby go there...she wanted her back but they said no sry even though they made a promise to her they didn't let her have it back...so I suggest you to keep her and prolly make a baby shower or sumthing invite friends and family and all that so you get supplies and money and that will help you alot it will make you pay alot less then what you have to pay now....hope I helped

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p.s. good luck hope you make the right choice..and how old is your baby I love babies so much...write me back tell me how your childs doing...oh and whats the name?...lol...I'm a very curious girl..haha


okay well last night me and a bunch of friends were at the mall and we were just hanging out and this kid i thank i kinda like was there we were hanging out and stuff and i guess you could say we were "flirting" and 3 of my friends came up to me at the mal and were like he likes you you should go out w/ him hes really pretty you should but i really dont know if he likes me or not and im not to sure if i want a boyfriend rite now im so confused (link)
Okay well I think since your not ready to have a bouyfriend you should tell him how you feel and see how he feels about you cuz if he likes you you guyz might end up dating like you might change your mind and say hmm he likes me maybe I should try it I guess I could have a boyfriend before the guy I love changed his mind about me because I don't want one right now you...know...so just think about what your doing and the consiquences..or you can get your friends to ask him what he thinks about you and then well make the right choice either ask him out or just stay friends and have a free world of flirting

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Ok, whats 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base. I mean I know what they are but I forgot which ones which, help? lol (link)
first base is like plain old normal kissing and making out...second is going up the shirt and fillin each other up...third is oral sex like sucking and all that shit...home well obviously it's all the way ...sex


hi im a 13/m and i dont masturbate by like just putting my hand around "it" and pushing or w/e i just take a pillow or w/e and sorta push on that (sorry if thats 2 graffic). is that abnormal or not? (link)
It's normal but I'd say like start masterbating cuz if you do you'll get like a bigger hard on when you meet a girl for sex..even though your still to young but it will get your cock bigger and um yeah


lately my boobs have been killing me. they itch sumtimes on the nipple and then the rest of my boob feels like sum1 hit me 100 times. they just hurt! wut can i do and is it normal? (link)
It's normal because well if you have your period well your boobs hurt cuz their growing and you well they might be growing at a faster speed for it to feel like that...which must hurt but it's normal for sure...it's all part of the cycle

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Wow, usually I give advice, not get it. Oh well. Lately, in the mornings, I've been getting really bad charly-horses, in my mid-calves. You know what a charly horse is, right? Yeah, it's like a major muscle cramp, and it hurts RELALY bad. They last for like a minute and a half, and I can rub my leg and it feels better, but I don't know. Is there any excersises or anything I can do to help that? (link)
ok I had the exact same problem all I suggest you is to not flex your muscle in your claves cuz it might give one to u by it's self and do alot of lef excercises it will help the charly-horse to get like reduced....when I got them I had a limp in my leg and I couldn't walk but my mom told me to always put my heel down to walk...and well also if you touch you leg while it cramps and it's hard it's cuz your leg muscles are working to hard and they're skising....lol...but yeah just stick with calve workouts or leg workous it'll do da same

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ok, well i cut. and i dont want to hear the "oh dont do that! blah blah blah" im really trying to stop and i dont need anyone to be pressuring me right now. but anyways..i usually cut on my shoulders so no one can see and so that i dont kill myself. but the other day i cut my wrist. and i mean, i wanted to, but i didnt want it to bleed...and i didnt even push hard. i just ran it slightly across the skin. and it just started bleeding. im fine and everything, but is that normal? like is the skin just really delicate there or something? (link)
well it's normal for you to bleed around the wrist considering it is a deadly place to cut yourself...and I know I've been told that by my doctor three times and I still do it but a little higher...you probably cut one of those small blood vesels and they bled it's nothing don't worry just watch how you cut...don't go in to deep stay on top and I know what your going through...well maybe almost not 100% but i cut myself as well and only aroudn the wrist at first my intensions were I wanted to kill myself now it'sjust because I don't feel it ne more

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Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up? (link)
well have a talk with her and say you can go on a date with my best friend and if you end up loving him more then we aren't meant to be...even though you love her his will be hard for sure...but try to bring back memories of you two and make her feel the love she had when you first dated


HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
plz help! (link)
Girl you did for sure the right thing that man didn't love you...it's like he wanted you to beg on your knees and do what ever he pleases...and guess what even if you still love him you'll be happy for sure ur not with him no more

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well im a girl lol because some people like me to say that before i ask a ? but neways is it normal to pluck the top of ur eyebrows and the bottom because my mom said i shouldnt do the top
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no it's not good doing the top cuz u'll end up with an eyebrow or both all screwed up


I find myself really attracted to gay guys. They are very cute and a lot of them are so sweet! And they're funny and fun to be around! Is this abnormal? Since they are feminine, does this make me not straight? Can someone please help me??!!?! (link)
ok well um no it's normal ok and um guess what if you get along with a gay guy and you like him is because the straight guys are asswholes some times and well gay guys are funner to talk to and you can say like alot of shit which guy you find cute and all that and also you can um get along way better with a gay guy then a straight girl...so um yeah it's normal and it doesn't make you love girls doesn't make you les or fu** all

hope I helped


dont think i'm weird but all my life i've looked at girls and never thought it was weird but now i might think that i acually like girls as well as guys but i'm not sure what to do?(i'm a girl)
i dont wanna be sean as weird for liking the same sex but i think i acually do its weird....so should i react on these feelings or just supress them and not do anything for fear of rejection? (link)
um ok well for one your not weird and well guess what it's normal for pplz to have that kinda feeling it's called mixed emotions you don't know what you want and shit and well...I say you should try it with a guy and a girl and then choose which you like the most cuz you never know your maybe Les or straight and you'll never know unless you experience with both sex so just go ahead and try it out

hope I helped...buhbyes


why do I always find myself so ugly alot of poeples say I look good and I look at myself i9n the mirror and I find myself so ugly y? (link)
because well you see your self in a different way that other pplz do and thats normal but it's a self putdown which isn't to good to do cause you lower your confidence and well it makes you worry about things more easily...so just believe what guys say they're telling the truth and learn to love yourself as you are


Ok well I got alot of advice on weather I should like a girl or a guy and why do I like the same sex and the opposite and I don't know alot say it's normal some say it's life and well I want an honest opinion is it weird liking the same sex? (link)
Hey it's fine if you like a person of the same sex and the opposite it just means your curious...and since your curious I suggest you to try it out with a girl and with a guy and choose which one you prefer...and then you'll know weather you like guys more or girls more...it probably happens to alot of peoples don't worry it doesn't make you weird in anyway


It's allergy season and my nose won't stop running, and I can't stop sneezing! I am thinking of getting a nose spray, but have never used one because I am always scared it might hurt. Can anyone recommend something? (link)
ok well the nose spray thing doesn't hurt but it feels weird...um what you could always do is get allegra they help with allergie reactions and stuff like that I used them and by like one hour or less I think my nose wasn't running and I felt alot better...or if you'd like there's always the go c the doctor one which he'll priscribe a certain pill to help but might take alot longer then just taking allegra


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My mom got engaged to this guy after 7 years of them being together. But, i HATE him and so do all my sisters. He's cheated on her MANY times and she even walked in on him and another girl about a week ago!! She hasn't cried more than she has the day she walked in on him and the other girl. He knows he can get her back though, so he walks all over her! And, she's soooo weak when it comes to guys. She's become soo depressed and right now, shes in Virginia for vacation with him! She's coming back today. And ive tried talking to her many times about this as well as all my 5 sisters. She just won't listen. I want her to leave him. He's causing her nothing but harm! Also, to top it all off, he has an STD, Hepatitis C. And, he got it from another girl while cheating on my mom!!! And, she STILL won't leave him!!

What do i do?? please help...i rate high.

Thanks so much.. (link)
well first you need to talk to your mom one more time alone...and tell her he isn't healthy is you make love to him you'll catch STD,Hepatitis C...and also remind her that your old enough to make decisions but she needs to think of her children to her children need to be happy with the man she loves...and tell her if he's cheating on you he doesn't love you and if you get married he'll still cheat on you he's not a good man also remind her you love her and w.e. decision she makes you'll still love her but if she chooses him you'll never grow on to loving him...I know this other thing might be hard but it's prolly worth the try...talk to the guy and tell him your mom deserves better then what he's giving her and just tell him what you think about him you might push him away from your mom or sumthing

well I hope I helped buhbyes good luck


if you make-out with someone you like, but you arent dating them, does that make you a slut?? (link)
No a slut is a person that sleeps with alot of pplz making out doesn't count....if you had sex with 5 guys in a year or sumthing like that it's considered as a slut if you didn't date them while you made love to em


i've just put in a tampon for the first time about 2 hours ago . i tried to take it out , but it hurt to pull at the string . is this normal , and could this be because my tampon is still dry ? if not , how do i yank it out without it hurting ? (link)
well it could be because it's to dry or u putted it in the wrong way....ask your mom to help of read the instrustions they tell you how to put it in and how to place yourself it's very helpful go there first then your mom if you don't understand


0k im 13/f. i have bl0nde leg hair s0 i have put shaving 0ff f0r awhile. n0w i feel like i sh0uld start, s0 i need a little help. h0w d0 i shave¿ im afraid im g0nna cut myself! please give me a g00d 0utline 0f what i need t0 d0. als0, is it the same meth0d for the armpits 0r n0¿ thank y0u f0r n e help! i will rate :)
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Ok well it's kinda the same thing for your arm pitts but you just have to be less careful...you have to shave from the bottom to up words...and if your affraid to miss a spot put like shaving cream on your legs for girls or for the guys whichever works the same....and just shave like slowly kinda mediem fast you know not to fast not to slow....and you won't cut yourself unless you hold the raiser in side words to shave


what is the best way to get a babysitting job? (link)
flyers or ask pplz that have kids put up babysitting adds or w.e.




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