All of my friends always come to me for advice. I am pretty much the peacekeeper in my group. I know i have not been part of this for like any time at all, but i hope i can get bigger and help people with problems like i do the people i know. I will almost never say anything rude mean or annoying, but if i do withought thinking, just comment me and tell me so i can fix it!
-alex(:
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and things are really great, except when it comes to the computer. When we first moved in together, he had his own computer and I was waiting for mine to be mailed to me.. So I'd use his computer to get online, talk to my friends, play games, normal stuff. He has it set so he has his own profile, and I have mine. On his computer it's password protected. So a few days ago, my computer came in the mail.. and we're both using it because his is broken. I set up a profile for him and I have mine, password protected. Anyways, the whole problem is, he'll wait until I go to sleep, get online until 4am or so and the other night I had to walk by the computer room to go to the bathroom and he heard me coming and all I hear is "click click click" like 17 times really fast of the mouse. That bothers me, like what does he have to hide? And he deletes his internet browsing history every time he uses my computer? I don't really care if he's looking at porn or whatever, and he knows that, but it bothers me that he deletes his history. I just get the feeling that he's hiding something.
I just need to know how to approach him about it.
It's frustrating me. (link)
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you can take it in to the computer store, and there is a way to check the deleted history. I'm not sure how much money it costs, but not too much. And, before you do this, if you catch him doing that, just ask him what are you doing? not like interrogating him or anything, just very casual like saying do you want something to eat?. But if that doesn't work, then do the deleting thing. Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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Im dating this boy whom I really like a lot.
But he is always really mean to me, and we fight all the time. He is always trying to make me have phone sex with him and he considers it "making up" he tells me all the time "lets fight so we can make up" and when I say no, he gets mad and starts saying I dont care about him and im selfish and I dont care about nobody but myself. He always has a way to turn things around and make me look like the bad person and feel really bad for something.
he calls me fat all the time and I only weigh 105 lbs and im 5'5. He calls me ugly all the time and then he says he is just playing. But sometimes he can be the sweetest guy in the world.
He is 16 and a preacher, so maybe he takes out his stress on me, or maybe its because he is black and im white?
Today him and I got into a fight and he told me
"If you were hangin off a cliff with lions and snakes under you, I wouldn't pull you up I would stomp you down"
I dont know what to do anymore. (link)
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That right there ^^ is not a good boyfriend at ALL! You were right to tell him thats it wouldn't work, if he acts like that. But, you shouldn't handle this on your own. I mean "don't ever threaten me---and your gonna leave is a 'no no'". That doesn't sound to well safe. I mean I would take it seriously. Just tell an adult about that. On top of that, you said he was a preist. Heck, that is not a way someone that religious should act. And priests, i know for a fact that they don't channel their anger to another person. well at least a good one. So he obviously does NOT respect you. Your doing everything right, and desetve such a better boyfriend. So, like i said, please don't handle this on your own. Bring someone who is acctually in your presence, into this. Not someone who can't do anything (such as me over the internet). Hope i helped. good luck, don't forget to rate!!
-alex :]
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my boyfriend of two months wants t odo other things, eg handjobs ect, i want to but on the other hand, i don't , please don't tell me that its what i feel comfortable with then do it coz i don't know!!! I am 14 F
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well if your asking us, then frankly your not ready. And since you're only 14 years old, you should wait for hits "big adventure". Because if you do it now, you will most likely regret it later. So wait til' you are 100 percent sure! Thats when you are fully ready. Hope i helped!Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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How do Erase thingsz u looked up in the internet
I have Firefox (link)
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you could use file shredder, if you wanted to delete things that you downloaded.
But if you want to delete stuff that you looked up, you could press the down button on the toolbar. (place where you type in the address) and mouse over it, and press delete. You could also go to tools then interenet options, then private. Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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omg!!!!!im so fustrated and its with myself! ive been dating this guy for a little over a month and he wants to go to the next level and kiss me.i truelly want to as well very badly but i just cant!im just so nervous and shy about it and i can never bring myself to do it and its so fustrating!ive kissed only one boy and when i did it i wasnt really scared but i did go out with that boy for like 7months b-4 i did it. i still dont understand why im so nervous to do it again!i told him that he would deffinately have to make the first move and he has tried but i think he wants me to make a little bit of an effort and like meet him half way but i just cant!!he tried twice and i was just to danm shy!!!i talked to a friend who has tried to help and she said when you get the first kiss out of the way youll feel a whole lot more comfortable. i have no doubt i will and i want to feel comfortable but i cant even bring myself to have our first kiss!i know it might sound like im taken it way to seiriously but ive never made-out with anyone and ive only kissed one boy while all of my friends have made out numerous times!i just want to feel that special feeling you get when you kiss someone you care about and i feel like almost crying when i let countless perfect oppertunities slip away because of my nervousness!!!i feel like if i keep letting my nervousness get in the way it will never happen or wont happen until im like 20!!!i jus need some danm advice!!!BAD!!please and thankyou! (link)
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well, it depends on how old you are really. If you are in your later teens, you should be able to kiss somebody, unless you just really think that you are not ready too. But if you are in your younger teens, you probably should wait til' your just a bit older. But it really sounds like your older so hers the advice, tell him that you really want to kiss him, but you just can't bring yourself to. If he really likes you, he will give you time. Just work on your relationship, and try to spend time with him, and cuddle, and talk and stuff. That should help. Don't forget to rate!!
-alex :]
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There's this guy in my class, he's so stupid but i thought we were friends. In class he didn't know how to do anything that we were learning on the computer so i did half the work for him and then he told me to finish the whole thing up since i'd do it faster.
I finished the WHOLE thing for him and just as i was about to work on my computer, the teacher assigns more things to do on the computer.
I was starting to work on my computer and then he tells me to work on it and I'm like no and he called me a douche bag.
Are we friends?
Maybe he just said douche bag at the heat of the moment?
Maybe I'm looking in too much of this? (link)
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From my point of view, it didn't seem like you were good friends to begin with. And if he asks you for more help in the class, just tell him to pay attention more, and maybe tell him what to do again. But don't do it for him again, if he is gonna treat you like that. In fact, i wouldn't do it again at all. He probably has no respect for you, and expects you to do his work for him. And since you said no, that probably surprised him and he just said the first thing that came into his head. Just let him fail, and then he will realize that he should pay attention, rather than rely on other people to do his work FOR him! hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!
-Alex :]
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i have liked my best guy friend forever. the problem is, i don't know if he likes me back or not. but it's not a little crush, i like him so much! i cry myself to sleep all the time from being upset about him possibly not liking me. what do i do? (link)
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maybe you could try flirting with him a little bit. or have some of your friends ask him if he likes anybody. But i like i said, flirt with him a little. like bat your eyelashes a little, or touch his arm when your talking to him, look at him straight in the eye, ummm if he's talking to you, listen closely, and bite your bottom lip. It's usually a turn on for most guys. Hope i helped. Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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i have a problem with pulling out my eyelashes.
i go through fazes where i don't do it for a while ; & i have these think , curly, beautiful Itlaian eyelashes. normally, that's during the summer. or for a week or two during the school year. mostly, i just pick at them at random times. currently, that's where i am. when i am bored, don't want to do homework, anything. my mom says i usually do it throghout the school year because i'm stressed. i always ask this question, & everyone gives me such great answers. for some reason, i jsut can't stop.currently i have practically no eyelashes on both of my bottom lids. on the top, i have sparse clumps of 5 or 6. i look disgusting. it's tearing me apart. please help me (link)
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instead of pulling out the hairs, you could keep a stress ball, or something to keep your hands busy. Like, i used to pick at my lip? i know, random right? yeah well, i got a stress ball/silly putty, and whenever i wanted to do that, i squished it, and i forgot about doing that. hope i helped! don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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okay so i have had a crush on this really hot guy for like a month or so. we are friends and we text all the time and he is really nice and he would tell me how nice and pretty i was and stuff. he had a girlfriend, and they recentley broke up. we haven't been talking much lately, just on the bus and some in the hallway, but we have like stopped texting. he told me over text like 2 weeks ago that he liked me, and i told him i liked him, but that was when he still had a girlfriend. my other friends who are friends with him asked him recently who he liked and he said alot of people, but that the only one he thinks he has a chance with is samantha, another girl in my grade!!! i am so confused about everything! then today my other friend, melissa was talking to him. me and him and melissa all ride the same bus. here's how the convo went:
Melissa- Hey billy!
billy- hey melissa, why dont you ever ride the bus anymore?
melissa- oh i have basketball.
billy- oh okay. well ive been having to sit next to anna (thats me), and we talk like the whole time and stuff but it's really awkward.
melissa- why?!
then melissa's boyfriend came up and told billy to go away right when he was about to talk! idk what to think anymore! i am really confused, and if you have any insight on this AT ALL, please tell me. i dont no what to do or think or anything. give me ideas on what to text him if you can. please, anything will help! (link)
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so what from what you said, he thought is was awekward to sit next to and talk to you. right? well thats probably because both of you told each other that you both like each other. And, now that he is no longer dating anyone, he is probably thinking that maybe you don't feel that way anymore. Try to talk to him, and flirt with him more. He will most likely get the vibe, and if he still likes you, flirt back. hope i helped. don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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okay well im in the school right now trying to research on a retard project, wellllll. : /
can anyone tell me about famous canadian dishes that can be carried out on a budget for normal kids that go to school eyyy ? help please. :)
MUCH appreciated by far. xoxo (link)
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well, my friend is canadian, and she always talks about this food called poutin. its french fries and cheese. i haven't acctually tried it, but from my sources, its delicious. Plus, all of the kids always eat it. hope i helped. Don't forget to rate :].
-alex
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I lose a lot of hair. I was wondering why this was. Is it due to stress or do I have a nutrient defincienty? (link)
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that happened to me last year....ALOT! like when i would put all of my hair together, and pull my hands through, like 45 hairs would come out. i think its from straightening your hair to much (if you do that"/) or just lack or nutrients. I started to use this shampoo and conditioner called tressume. it works sooo good, it makes your hair soft silky and full of lust. lol
anywho, it stopped all of that, and now my hair is super healthy.
btw, you can get it at like target or something.
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is anybody having difficulties downloading music? cuz i dont know whats going i cant get any songs to come up with the artists im typing in and i even typed in common ones like backstreet boys and britney spears and still nothing.. what do i do? (link)
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you may not be connected to the interenet, if you are on a laptop. because that happens to me, i just have to reconnect, then its fine.
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what program to people use to make images such as these:
http://a589.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/107/l_bdae073108f7d33e42ea7293f0122abc.png
http://a646.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/95/l_bdb3c3ca4c024fb2bdbb77bb6f1dce7d.png
http://a139.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/22/l_52b12916ade1e2da3fd231547a9e85f2.png
thank you (link)
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that is exactly what i've been asking all of my friends that have those pictures. nobody will tell me the software. so if you find out, will you try and let me know? thanks!
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this christmas im getting an ipod but now with the new ones coming out idk which one i want to get. which do you think would be better.. ipod Touch or the new Ipod nano? thanks :) and please say your reasons for choosing so. (link)
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well, i have the new nano, and i have to say that i love it. but the ipod touch is really awesome too and my be easier too use. the iphone and the ipod touch are the same exact price, and look the same. so if you could find an iphone, i would get it. the nano, is only 150 while the other too are like 400 dollars. i wanted the nano because it is easier to lug around, and will fit in tight spaces, and cost a lOT less. hope i helped! don't forget to rate!
-alex
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16/f i've been really horny lateley, and i was thinking about masterbating last night. but when i tried to slip my finger into there. it hurt really bad. i never dont it before. any tips?
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you were probably in the wrong spot, or your muscles could just be very sensitive and not like that. some people are like that. also, thats fingering yourself. masturbating, is more like puting vibrating objects in you sorta, but i guess that is sorta a form of it.
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muffin top, whatever you'd like to call them. i have it and i want to get rid of it. how could that be done?
exactly what kind of foods do i need to eat
LIST ANYTHING.
what exercises should i do?
LIST ANYTHING.
i seriously need to get off my toosh and do some exercises and eat healthy but im tooo lazy.
thanks in advance (link)
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Here, this helped me alot. They are side crunches they get rid of them pretty fast if you stick to a schedule. Here is how you do them:
Get on the floor into a regular sit-up position (knees bent(, then drop your bent legs to the side, resting them on the floor. Your torso and head should face the ceiling.
With your hands behind your head, crunch straight up, then lower.
Do 15 to 20 repetitions, then switch sides.
You should definitely feel this in your obliques -- the muscles that run along the side of the stomach. Add these to your regular routine and try adding some cardiovascular exercise (walking, jogging, aerobics) if you are not already doing so. This will help burn more fat and reveal your newly formed muscles and toned waistline.
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15/f
man i really want a lower back tatoo but ppl say you cant get one till youre like 17, but man i see chics with tats' all the time and they aint 17 they're like 15 or 16! is there any places where they'll give you a tat' BEFORE you are 17?
oh yeah how much do the lower back tats cost? if you dont know just give me an estamet.....tnks (link)
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i am not sure how much they cost, but i know you either have to be 17 or 18 to a tattoo. If you want one before you turn 17 or 18, you have to have parental supervision and stuff, and the person doing the tattoo will make sure to see and id and stuff so he won't get arrested. so if your parents don't want you to get one, then your pretty much out of luck until you get older. Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!!
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does anyone know a strip clubs(where u can see nude woomen) for 17 years old and up in New york city
tanx for help
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i don't know of any of those types of strip clubs, but i do know that you have to be 18 years or older unless using a fake i.d which i strongly discourage to get in.
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well i havent had my period for 4 months is it normal???...ive only masterbated with my cuzzins and thats it they r girls so is it normal??? (link)
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uhhmmm...no it is not very normal for that to happen. you should go see a doctor because things could be serious. Tell your mom or and adult you trust, she may know why this is happening.
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well ive had my period for over a year now and ive had boobs since the 6th grade and my nipples havent exactly like "popped out" like they only stick out when im cold. is something wrong with me? if not when will they "pop out"?
please help. im desprate.
becasue i really like this one guy and when he like wants to feel me up im afraid hell find out that they havent "popped" and hell make fun of me. (link)
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That happened to me in 6th throught the beginning of 7th grade. They will do that eventually. Just give it time. It does sound like you are only in 7th grade, i personally think that is to yound to e felt up. If you are so afraid about showing your body then you are obviously not ready. ESPECIALLY AT THAT AGE! And if he is your boyfriend and is only with you to feel you up, and makes fun of you, what kind of boyfriend would that be? Hope i helped! oh and nothing is wrong with you and they will "pop" in short time. Don't forget to rate!!
-alex
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