I'm Suki. I love to see the first bloom of a wild rose, to smell the salt spray of an ocean breeze, to hear the laughter of little children at play. Oh no, wait - That's somebody else.
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Okay I was just wondering what is the law now for getting your permit and license? Because I heard they changed it. Well I'm 15 now and I'm turning 16 in March. (link)
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It depends on what state you live in.
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hey, how do you get those cool hearts? like what do you type in? (link)
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♥.
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im a 14/f ok, theres this guy that i like and that likes me. but...my freind also likes him and he likes her too but she has a bf so they dont have a chance of hooking up. would it be wrong if me and him hooked up..i mean with my freind liking him and all even tho she has a bf. i need advice fast. all thoughts are appreciated. thnx p.s. (( ill rate 5)) (link)
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You should ask her first.
However, I wouldn't advise you to do it, since he -does- like her. If she breaks up with her boyfriend and you guys are together, he might dump you to be with her or cheat on you or something.
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Well i am a grl and i like to wear boy clothes!!!
is that weird or normal? (link)
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It is normal.
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Hey,
I'm 16 and I want to try contact lenses. My optician says it's all OK. I was just wondering if anyone had any really good/bad experiences with contact lenses they could tell me about, or if there are tips any of you might have? Are they really weird to get used to? I have a real thing about touching my eyes, I don't like it at all. Will I find this really difficult? What happens if you can't get it out? (link)
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Well, you might find it difficult if you have a problem with touching your eyes. It might take a while to put in at first, but it is worth it. I've had contacts for years, and I've only had one problem. I couldn't put them on for a while due to allergies and some medication I was currently taking. All in all, I like contacts better than glasses though. Be sure to clean them good before you use them though, if you don't then it will probably sting once it is in your eye.
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O.k Well my best friend is a total whore... i mean like shes the type like if you have a dick .. shell suck it like after an hour of knowing you.. i confronted her about it like.. why have you changed so much (because she was never like this)The Other night i said some
things to her i maybe shouldnt have said..
but i meant them she told me i was never on her side, and i never helped her through anything meanwhile when she broke uph with her boyfriend i was there, through everything and when other people called her a whore i was there through it allll!!!
Well I Told Her i hoped she got pregnant and, shes a f****** whore, and a slut, and guys only want you for a#$ soo yea, i was pretty mean she was probably crying...
But today i was thinking am i just jealous of her. I mean shes a whore and she gets all the guys she wants, i always thought that if you havent done a lot of stuff with guys they'd want you more, am i wrong... AM I JEALOUS? (link)
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No, I doubt you are jealous. It sounds more like you are upset that she is changing. And that you hate what she has become. This will happen many times in life, unfortunately. Try to talk to her, if that doesn't work, move on. The past is the past. She may have been a great friend once, but now she seems like a whore from what you say. Not the kind of person who I would want to hang out with, but I don't know about you.
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I'm thinking of going to a new school next year. I don't want to leave my friends. This new school has more opportunities for me, though. I can't decide. Please help!!! (link)
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Go to the new school, but keep in touch with your old friends. If they don't make an effort to keep in touch, which -does- happen sometimes, then they aren't really worth it. You would have lost touch when you went off to college, anyway.
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Sorry If Its Long!!! .. Well here it goes
Ok well theres this guy .. well call him cody.
well me and cody have know each other for like almost 2 years. and over the summer we talked about how we liked each other .. and he kind of i guess strung me along for like 2 months .. sayin he liked me but wouldn't do anything about it, but when i asked if i should juss forget it he told me not to b/c he liked me ..
he said he'd call nd he said we'd hang out but he kept blowin me off and not callin but he "liked me" so i guess he thought it was ok. so i left him a message on aim sayin to call me so we coudl talk about it .. yahh well he got the message but didnt call. so we stopped talkin for like 3 weeks .. like i was pissed. and he knew it but didnt try to make it better.
soo halloween night me him and my friend kev chels and jenn all hung out. i didnt know he was gonna be there or else i wouldn't have gone. but we ended up having so much fun and i laughed the whole time .. all the feelings i thought i was over .. came rushing back soo fast!!!
so we talked about it and we talked online the next day and he told me he liked me and everything. so 2 nights ago we hung out and went to funspot and all of us were in a guy named brody's truck. i was like practically sittin on top of him the whole like 1 and a half ride, and he had his arm around me and stuff.
- - but when we were driving home kevie (the other guy who was there) was like "so cod are you 2 like goin out now. and codys like no. and kev was like wait what. how come? and codys like you heard me .. i didnt stutter ..
i juss dont get him .. so we talked nd hes like i REALLY like you, i honestly do i juss dont want a girlfriend .. but he told kevin that he didnt even like me at all .. hes pissing me off b/c hes not even tellin me the truth .. and i just wanted an honest answer (link)
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I wouldn't bother with him. He sounds like an asshole. Stop liking him (if you even do at all) before you get in too deep. Something is suspicious with him, he might have another girlfriend or something..but there is -definitely- something he isn't telling you. Basically, he isn't worth your time.
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what does stfu mean? (link)
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It means shut the fuck up.
But I'm sure you know that by now.
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Okay. Long story short. I have religious Mormon friend. Religious as in very, very religious. Anyhow, we got into a discussion tonight at "impure thoughts" He seems to think it's a "selfish want" to think impurely about others. I said that it's impossible to be rid of them, that by repressing it them you are not getting rid of them, just concealing them and they will just build up. I said that what you need to do is deal with them and get them out of your system.
Now I feel really bad about the things I said. I guess it's because I should respect the fact he's pure rather than encourage him not to be. lol. I feel bad for him as I feel he is a little misguided and placing unnecessary restraints on himself. Does anyone agree with me on what I said to him? Is it impossible to debate with religious people? At the time I seemed to make a lot of sense. But now I'm thinking and maybe he is right. Should we avoid discussions like this in the future? Does someone with some experience with religion have an religious answer to this?
Thanks.
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Yes, I completely agree with what you said to him. People who are extremely religious often get easily offended when debating with them, so if you want to ever get in a religious debate, make sure it is with someone who is less easily-offended. As an atheist, I often find myself getting into religious discussions with some friends, which sometimes end in fighting. It all depends on how offended the person will get. People who are overly-religious are generally not open minded to other ideas. I am -not- trying to stereotype religious people, and I know that some people are both religious and open minded, but I am just telling you about what I find to be the majority of the people. If I were you, I would avoid conversations like this in the future with him.
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im sorry its long but i really really need help!!
my boyfriend dated this girl jessica, i dont know how long they dated but they did date for at least a few months! this was at least a year ago because we have been dating for a lil over a year and it was before us. he was her first kiss and stuff. now out of the blue she is calling him and he told me that they always talk during jazz band (class) and my friend justin said they always go in this dark room to talk and sometimes this other kid goes in there with them but its usually just them. this girl told my boyfriend that she likes him and she thinks he likes her. he said that he just wants to be friends. (im going off of everything he told me). then for his bday a week ago, she made him cookies... he said he asked her to get him something for his bday and she had cookies left over so she gave them to him but there were a lot of cookies in there so idk. the girl is constantly at his locker and talking to him and HE sits by her at lunch ALONE TOGETHER and she calls him and they talk for hours at a time. everytime i come around she leaves. i dont know what the hell to do but its not going away. i tried talking to him and he said that he doesnt wanna feel like he cant be friends with her. how do i deal with this cuz im ready to just bitch her out and be really really mad at my boyfriend because hes going with it and allowing it to happen. thanks in advance! also jessica keeps saying to everyone how hot my boyfriend is and she wont stop talking about him and stuff. now were fighting and he just doesnt understand anything. i tried talking to him but it doesnt work. everyone else (including guys) understand but he doesnt. grrrrr
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From what you said, it seems like there is something suspicious in your boyfriend's story. I'd be wary of trusting everything he told you. Go with your instinct, it is usually right. If you think that they still have a relationship, and he is cheating on you, he isn't worth being with.
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My mother just recently died from lung cancer. She was just diagnosed on Sept. 15th of this year and she passed away on October 28th, 2005.
My boyfriend of several years had already told his spoiled rotten, self-centered, selfish daughter that she could have a Halloween party before the incident with my mother came up.
Instead of being here, supporting me, helping me make the needed arrangements and just being a shoulder to lean on, he decided it was more important to help out with his daughter's Halloween party, because everybody knows "Courtney" comes first....no matter what!
I think that's about as sorry as you can get. What do you think? (link)
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You should definitely dump him. I mean, his daughter should be very important to him...but a Halloween party. ?!. That's bullshit compared to a funeral. Seriously, though, this guy isn't worth being with at all, whatsoever.
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anyone know any good xanga sites to get qoutes, or how to search for them to find them?? knowing both would be GREAT thanks soo much!:)
xoxo* (link)
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Just go into "Blogrings", click Web Design, and search for quotes.
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okay so my boyfriend && i have been going out for 9 months now... he's a great boyfriend .. he has his days but i guess my dad doesnt think he respects me *thats just my dad trying to be protective* but anyways he wants me to give him head.. ive told him that im not ready bc i am only 14 but like he keeps on trying to get me to do it- i know that if he respects me he will understand but a part of me wants to && feels its the right time... number 1 i dont know how.. && number 2 i dont know if i should. am i too young and what would you do.. no smart ass comments either please keep them to yourself but i rate high (link)
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If I were you, I wouldn't do it. You are still very young and will end up regretting it later on in life, as many people do. If you are even asking, there is doubt in your mind. If there is doubt, you should fully think it out before doing anything. It usually means you aren't ready. He may seem like a "great boyfriend", but it sounds to me like he is pressuring you into doing shit that you don't want to. If you don't want to, don't be afraid to say no. If he continues trying to force you, you need to realize that he isn't exactly the best of boyfriends...
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I’m 13, in the 8th grade, and have a guilty pleasure. I’ve been raised in an intellectual household, with both parents having a Ph.D. Generally, I don’t watch T.V. So I was at my friend’s sleepover birthday party with 7 other girls, and she rented the First Season of the O.C. We watched 4 episodes---and I liked it! I feel kind of guilty, because I know that technically, the show is for advertising and eye-candy with a plot. But I can’t help it. That blonde what’s-his-face that stole a car and set a house on fire is really good looking. And it keeps me at the edge of my seat. Now I’m addicted! What should I do? Am I shallow for liking this?
Thanks
Cheyenne (link)
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No, you aren't shallow. Watching TV isn't something you should feel guilty about. I mean, I hate The O.C. a lot, however, a lot of my friends like it. It isn't like you are watching porn or something.
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thank you i would rate u but im suspended lol sorry (link)
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That's okay. I'm not one of those rating whores that go "RATE ME RATE ME RATE MEEEE!!1!!1!!oneeleventybillion!132" after every advice they give.
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sorry for all the questions lol but i know i love her thats the thing shes all i think bout dream about but i just dont want her telling me she loves me or anything and i dont no why she cant but i feel like if i love her any more then i do im gonna be in a right state you no what i mean but i told her this and she says yeh but shes not talking to me so can u tell me like what i can say to her i want to be with her so (link)
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Not a problem about the questions.
And the best thing to do is tell her what you just told me. If she can't understand how you feel, maybe she isn't the right person to be with.
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yeh i no what u mean but i do love her i jus dont want to feel like this does it makes sence (link)
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Yes, it makes sense. You just aren't too sure of your feelings yet, probably, meaning...you don't want to feel them. Just give it time, sooner or later you'll come to terms with your feelings.
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im going out with this girl sort off and we love each other and has said that to each other but i dont want to feel in love i dont want to be in love with her and i dont want her to love me back and i dont want that with anyone i dont no why its how i feel so i told her that and she said well i cant not tell u how i feel about u because i said can we jus like not say our feelings for each other but now she wont even talk to me what should i do?
i do want to be with her but i just dont want her telling me she loves me (link)
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Tell her that she is moving too fast for you, that although you understand that she wants to tell you how she feels, you aren't ready to feel "love" yet. Say that you want the moment to be special, when you first really do mean it. Girls will generally like when you say that kind of thing to them.
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ok this is probably the stupidest question here, and if it gets deleted thats ok, im just curious.
now ive never done this, and dont plan on it, but if youre a girl, with a boyfriend, and you kiss(lips or french) a *gay guy* is that still cheating on your boyfriend?
lol. im sorry, im just curious and kind of want to see opinions on it. (link)
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Yes, I consider it cheating.
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