ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her
Hey! don't be embarass! Everyone has their own issues.Remember this, MOVIES are fake! it's either reanactment or juss fictional things, dat wuz put down from their imagination! but seriously, The Village blows! I'll admit they did have jumpy scenes, but it wuz dat because of da music! dat's IT!U can stop being afraid i guess, by facing your fears!The creatures in da village is so fuqen ugly, why would u want them in your head?*lol* right? well i'm sayin u juss need to face them, N u can conquer anything if u put your minds into it! come on now, u gotta have da balls to this!*lol* good luck! hope i helped, take care!
-Phuong
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I need help witht this riddle please try n figure it out fo me ok here it goes....... there is a ,man on trial and a man steps up to the stand and asks to speak, the judge says who are u the man says brother n sisters i have none but the father of this man is my fathers son, how is the man related to the criminal. $M$
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Hey! The man is related to the criminal by da dad, it's his half brother! Look...."brother N sisters i have none" so by HIS mother N father he doesn't have any siblings! so the crimal is one of da fathers son!yea he says he doesn't have any siblings but read closely, he said" but the father of this man is MY FATHER'S son"so it's HALF BROTHER! His Father had an affair! basterd *lol* j/p, this is a good riddle! i hope i have da right answer, but seriously, if u do find out wut da answer is, please stop by my inbox! take care
-Phuong
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Can you have sex when you are pregnant??
Hey! Yea u can have sex when your pregnant! but only if u feel comfortable, so if do then go for it, if not, stop, because of the babi!hope i helped. if u have any otha ? then stopp by my inbox! take care
-Phuong
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Kevin1986 here again. I've been hearing a lot about guys only look at looks and everything like that. Lemme set the record straight here. If a girl is hott,she's a lot more likely to get asked out,true enough. But very few guys will tolerate a hot bitch. We're much more likely to go for the average looking girl with a great personality. I get pissed when we're made to look the bad guy and not every guy is as shallow as you describe. And besides,who are you more likely to ask out,Brad Pitt or the nice fat guy down the street? Stop being so hypocritical.
Kevin1986, Your a smart guy!*lol*Well i get what your sayin on this, but like everyone looks at da outer appearance first, N then they look 2 da personality,dat's what keeps da relationship goin, i think! Well i have this friend, N da first time i saw him, i wasn't so much attracted to him cuz of how he looks, but i got to kno him, N we did hang out N everything, N he's really cute now! I mean he looks da same as da first time i seen him, but maybe a lil taller, but he's so sweet, funny, nice, funn to be around with! So yea....their inner beauty comes out!Now, bout da Brad Pitt thing, I would ask da Phat guy down da street for dinner N stuff, he'll be nice guy friend, wherre i'll talk N hang out N stuff, N tell my secrets too, But Brad Pitt i would date him, N if he does fuq up suttin, i would prolly complain to muh Phat guy friend! but i always had a thing for Pitt! so i dunno, but eventually i'd thank my Phat guy friend for being therre for me!!! I hope u guys don't think i'm a bad person or anything....Take care
-Phuong
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Ok, I think i have an eating problem but i`m not sure. I have a tremendouse fear of gaining weight and i honestly can`t help it. I`m starting modeling soon and so I feel like I HAVE to look thin. I`m not eating period and my friend`s are starting to notice so when they make me eat I throw it up. My boyfriend says he`ll quit doing drug`s if i start eating again wich mean`s the world to me but everytime i start eating again I start crying in fear of gaining weight and throw it up then feel terrible. I don`t think i have an "eating disorder" but it`s kind of hard to tell when all of your friend`s are "concerened" that your loosing weight and your starting to look "sick". They say i`m starting to look to skinny, I have bag`s under my eye`s, and i`m getting pale. I can`t eat properly it`s just to hard. I`ve been extreamly depressed latley. Do I have an eating disorer? Someone help me please !!
Signed
A cry for help
*A cry for help*
Hey! I'm sorry to say, but yea u do have an eating disorder! if ur scared to gain weight, then eat suttin and wait for a few hours, then go work out, stay active! cuz i kno how modeling is! i did it, but i stopped cuz of school! but i'm starting soon!=) but look, being skinny isn't da point! look @ queen latifah((sorry if spelled wrong))she big N beautiful! u can be beautiful in anyway!You boifriend is a sweetheart!awww! ur friends care bout u, so don't let them down! if u can't stop, then seek help immediately! this is our advice you asking, N i garenteed dat half of the ppl is saying, to ask a professional doctor, ect.ect.! Being a model takes a lot of work, u get pooped really easily! i kno i have*lol*, so if u need anymore help, dropp it in my inbox, but i hope i help1 take care.
-Phuong
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Please, if you have an answer, help me. Especially guys, they might understand:
The thing is, I have this guy cousin who is 15 and I was hanging out with him 2 months ago, and he really has gotten quite groovy looking since the last time I saw him. Infact, he is absolutely gorgeous. ANd he is the funniest guy I know, and amazingly fun to be around. And I love him as part of my family, but when I went to visit him in London, I realised that I think I have feelings for him. But I don't think he has any for me...then again, I don't understand how guys are...but he talks about sex with me all the time, and I have seen him pretty unclothed...and he was comfortable with that. But I don't know...is it wrong that I like him, and is it unusual? And how would I know if he likes me or not?
Hey!well i'm sorry to say this, but i don't think u guys are hill billys(( no offense to who is)) but honestly, dat is illegal in da U.S.!Ur cousin is just open with u, N dat's it, like brothers N sisters! He looks at u as a close friend/companion. so yea it is wrong dat u like him, no it's not unusual, cuz otha ppl had this problem too, but they eventually ogt ova it!!! Juss talk to him, N i think he might understand! but like as i said, it's illegal, N he does have ur blood in him too! which is a bit odd, N disgustiong, i don't mean to offend u in any way tho! so sorry! but really try to get ova him, he'll be a friend N family member, but nothing more, if u kno wut's best for u, talk to ur family member, but best thing is, is to talk to him!i hope i helped
-Phuong
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Can u get pregnet by havin oral Sex?? Also will it hurt the 1st time u have oral sex?? I RATE
No u can't get pregnet from oral sex. Da only time dat it's possilble to get pregnet is when a penis goes in your vagina with no protections! don't u guys take sex ed? Oral sex....lets see, I don't think it hurts, unless ur giving a guys BJ N ur chokin on it, then maybe, or HJ N ur wrist might get tired or suttin like dat. But if a guy go downtown on u, as in eat u out, his tongue i dont think is dat strong, but fingerin yea! it can hurt, but dat's a slight chance of NO! if i wuz u, watch sundae night sex on the oxygen channel!*lol* or wait till u have sex ed in school, N ask da teachers!i hope i helped!
-Phuong
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ok there is this boy me and my friend both like him and think he is really hot. recently he went back to his home in another state and i still talk to him alot, and my friend on the other hand doesnt. idk what to do should i still like him and talk to him or give it all up for my friend? *signed- please HELP*
*Please Help*
Hey! u asked da right person.*lol*Well if he's juss hott, do u think it's worth losin a friendship over?Well here ask yourself this....will i see this "hott"guy again? Is my friendship with her dat strong? Will this ruin my life?Why do i like him? Why does she like him? Well for u still talkin to him, which is really kewl. all i can say is Communicate. Talk it out wit ur "friend". U guys are prolly mature enough to do it, right?*lol* j/p.No one can control your feelings for anyone, not your parents, not your friends, they juss have a sayin in it, don't mean they can demand u to stop.Talk it out wit her, N if she gets madd bout it, then your friendship wuzn't strong enough, N i'll say take time apart from her, N ask da "guy" wut would he do. but guys are pointless @ times, but it's worth a shot*lol*Don't give it all up, because wut if he's da "right guy"?u kno wut i mean?well i can relate to u,cuz i have these two friends who had dat situation, i'm not sure if they are still in it, but like my friends cousin came ova for da summa, N him N his cousin hung wit da gurls a lot, N one of da gurls already likes him a lot, N da otha gurl,i'm not so positive bout it, but she might have some feelings for him. All i can say is a "relationship" is stupid cuz u guys are in differ states, N long distants isn't da key!SO TALK IT OUT! i hope i helped, if not then IM me for more GButta13
-Phuong
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Hey I'd just like to say to everyone that when people are asking a serious question do you have too be so sarcastic and tell them to kill themselfs?? This is a help sight not somthing to be rude about. Is there anyway people who say things like that can be stoped?
Hey! I'm sorry if u felt offended by the comments!Yea well u have to know, if u do ask a "stupid" question, u'll get a "stupid" answer. *lol*. well i haven't seen dat kind of things, so....I'm sorry! But yea i do agree wiith u. Ppl are askin us for advice, N we juss have to acknowledge dat it can be a life or death situation. I hope u feel better! i hope i helped!!;)
-Phuong
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Um wut pills can u over take, but not od, to make you feel high or hallucinate. ..thx.
Hey! i'm not sure bout this kind of thigns, but i'm juss really not da person to let someone harm themselves! I'm really sorry if u feel offended N stuff. But your hurting yourself. I don't kno u, but for some reason i do care, I have many friends who do put themselves @ risk! it's devastating, don't u think u might affect someone in your life? you should! I hope u canthink differ, N getting high isn't all dat great! Trust me. i didn't do it, but i kno enough.If me being rated for something that can kill someone, then i guess me givin advice was wrong! I hope i changed your mind on some things!
Please be Careful!
-Phuong
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I have this friend and I really like him, but my best friend likes him too. I just met him yesterday and my best friends has known him for awhile. I really like him and she does too. I asked him if he liked her and he said no, but he told other people before he met me that he liked her. Idk what to do! I'm so lost and I want to be happy for my friend but me happy too! I think I should get over it and let her have him since she's known him longer. But what do I do?
-signed sister in distress-
*Sister in distress*
Hey!I went thru this so many times! Well he known her first.It's not like "i called dibs on this stud"*lol* But like your "friends" will alwayz be therre & bois come N go. Your just being a good friend, talk it out with her, communication can solve a lot.Get to kno him, cuz u juss met him, N let things ttake place from there, but gettin to kno someone doesn't hurt! I think the "stud" might have a thing for you since he said he didn't like your "friend", but don't jump to conclusion, talk it out!!!!therre's times that fighting for a guy isn't bad. There's this guy, he's my ex. but like we Best friends now, we still have chemistry. But like same thing wit me is like u, i did fought for him...N my friend got ova it. cuz she found another guy! but juss COMMUNICATE!!! I hope i helped.
-Phuong
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I am 22 years old....And I dont know if I have ever had an Orgasam before. I am almost positive I have..Either that or I lead myself to belive I had one cause I have faked it so many times...I know thats mean. I have herd of females ejaculating...but that has never happened to me. If you are brought to orgasam, are you sopose to ejaculate or does this only happen to certain women. Please let me know different experiences you have had so I can better understand. I am 22 I feel bad that I am still confused with this issue
Hey! I think you should watch Sex talk! it's on the Oxygen channel, at midnight! for my opinion, most people who do have orgasams,they do ejaculate, but they don't have to. Maybe it's just your not turned on. Everyone is still confused bout certain things. Don't feel bad, and good luck, i hope i helped!
-Phuong
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how do you make-out or french kiss?..and is there really a differnce?
there isn't any difference besides what the hands are doing, u kno grabbing, feeling, gropping, ect.ect., herre's how to do, but really therre isn't a way on kissing, the best way is, it comes naturally, N relax, let it flow, but herre's some advice
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Don't be afraid 2 slip him/her da tongue,but don't jump RIGHT in2 tongue action. Ease in2 it afta summ lip-2-lip kissing.:-). Use ur hands too-subtle touchin on da shoulda N neck iz gr8!!!!
havin Soft lips iz da best(girls, i'm talkin to u!!!)it amazes them, cuz they don't kno wut 2 do or wutnot....It gets them thinkin:-)So do wuteva it takes to get incomprehensibly soft lips:-)
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Being a truly Good Kisser iz knowin how 2 work ur hands!!!!:-D
First run 1 of ur hands through his hair N then gently squeeze da bak of his neck. If u 2 r sharing a LONGER kiss, put ur hands behind him N pull him close 2 u!!! but don't juss leave ur hands therre; make circles wut ur middle finer wit a featha-like touch. If u do this rite, he'll neva want 2 stop!!! But u kno it'll end soon!!! sorriez ppl!!!
fo sum ppl SOFT nibbles on da lips or ears will TURN them on!!!! but it must be SOFT...don't hurt them now!!!*lol*
Juss talk 2 da him/her!!! move towards them say suttin cute"i adore u, ur muh gurl/boi!!! ect.ect"
Da key 2 a gr8 kiss? For 1 thang, don't use too much tongue;it feels like an animal iz in their mouth when a guy/girl goes crazi wit da tongue. Also, don't open ur mouth too wide,dat way da amount of Saliva swapped will be kept to a minimum!!!:-D
last but not least da most important thang eva!!!!!
HAVE GOOD BREATH!!!!!!!
i hope i helped, good luck
-Phuong
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okay so i knoe how to kisss but ive never realy made out with a guy... so idk wut to do when i make out? where do i put like my hands? and how do i bring up the subject that i wanna make out with a guy?
Therre really is no right & wrong in kissing!!! but herre's my advice on it, this is my advice...
.........These are thangs or advice fo kisin N stuff...............
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Don't be afraid 2 slip him/her da tongue,but don't jump RIGHT in2 tongue action. Ease in2 it afta summ lip-2-lip kissing.:-). Use ur hands too-subtle touchin on da shoulda N neck iz gr8!!!!
havin Soft lips iz da best(girls, i'm talkin to u!!!)it amazes them, cuz they don't kno wut 2 do or wutnot....It gets them thinkin:-)So do wuteva it takes to get incomprehensibly soft lips:-)
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Being a truly Good Kisser iz knowin how 2 work ur hands!!!!:-D
First run 1 of ur hands through his hair N then gently squeeze da bak of his neck. If u 2 r sharing a LONGER kiss, put ur hands behind him N pull him close 2 u!!! but don't juss leave ur hands therre; make circles wut ur middle finer wit a featha-like touch. If u do this rite, he'll neva want 2 stop!!! But u kno it'll end soon!!! sorriez ppl!!!
fo sum ppl SOFT nibbles on da lips or ears will TURN them on!!!! but it must be SOFT...don't hurt them now!!!*lol*
Juss talk 2 da him/her!!! move towards them say suttin cute"i adore u, ur muh gurl/boi!!! ect.ect"
Da key 2 a gr8 kiss? For 1 thang, don't use too much tongue;it feels like an animal iz in their mouth when a guy/girl goes crazi wit da tongue. Also, don't open ur mouth too wide,dat way da amount of Saliva swapped will be kept to a minimum!!!:-D
last but not least da most important thang eva!!!!!
HAVE GOOD BREATH!!!!!!!
I hope i helped, if not juss write to me!
-Phuong
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Hey, I'm a 15year old female and my boyfriend that is 17 is in jail right now! It's not his fault! His mom got his bond lifted and they went and arrested him! My parents think I should just forget about him, but I love him so much! I dont know what I would do with out him!... What should I do? Should I still stay with him?
Hey! Well love is odd!!!U hve to think, would u give everything for this boyfriend? Does your parents know how he ended up iin jail? Talk to your parents!!! Communication is the best thing u have!!! Sit them down, and tell them how u feel bout your boyfriend!!!You do have to respect what your parents are sayin b/c they want what's best for you! but ur growing up,so they have to respect what your saying too!!! Juss talk it out, N they were once kidds too, so they must understand!!!!Follow your heart,tell them what u told me" it wasn't his fault, his mom lifted the bond, and i love him" Be careful, and make sure it's worth it! i hope i helped u
-Phuong
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I am in love wit my teacher...I mean wanna F him all the time what should i do..I mean we already did it.
Love is strange, but this "love" is illegal! Teachers/Adults should know this!I think you should talk bout what both of u guys are gettin into! If the principal finds out, then the consequence of his(teacher)actions is going to be severe! I think you should ask for help! As in a phd. This problem is often. this act that your teacher did is against the law,if he did get caught he'll get a second-degree sexual assualt. Which can sentace him a 3-4 years in jail! Your teacher must know it's illegal, yet it seems like he's using his authority to overpower u and make what you guys are doin is right! Well wrong!I'm sayin talk to your parents or see a therapist!!! Please, be careful!!!! I hope i helped you out!
-Phuong
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hey.. i gott this friend:we'll call her marge lol.. that iv'e had since kindergarden. and then i have this other friend: we'll call her ernest, that iv'e had since 1rst grade. i know them both so good that like there my sisters.. but now they are ditching me for each other one even promised to hang out with me on my birthday...but ditched me for ernest. even tho they talk about each other. ..what the hell am i supposed to dO?? i really hope you'll help me!!
hey! well it seems like "marge and ernest" have some bonding.from my opinion, I think you should talk to them about it! They'll listen to you, if you guys known eachother that long, your frioen should care, but talking it out is the best answer!!!Ditching you, is wrong, just tell them on how u feel!Still try to be nice,b/c they have feelings too!!!Friends care for eachother!! remember that. I hope i helped You! Take care
-Phuong
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