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ok, well here's the deal. my bofriend and i hav been going out for about...3-4 months. and i love him,but i dont no if its because HE says he loves me every few minutes im with him. ive thought about breaking up with him, but wen i told my best friend she said "he loves you too much. if u broke up with him, it would kill him" and hes tried to make out with me, but i rejected him. wat should i do? (link)
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tell him that you need to take a break. then decide if you really love him or not... it's better to end it now..then to wait another year and find out you don't love him...it would hurt both of yall way worse...
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i met this guy..who wa snot very popular..and not allt hat cute..and ended up falling HEAD OVER HEALS for him...at 1st wanting to keep the relationship a secret and we spent EVERY second toogether..it was amazing..we went out for almost a year...during 7th grade..and i know im really younge ot be tlkain liek this and i used to not too..and this is the only guy i have ever felt this way about...so we were toogether and i hurt him a few times by breaking up with him sometimes..becuase i have a problem and whenever i feel liek im gettin too close with someone..i get SCARED and break up with them..he stuck around 4 times...and i just got so sacred..the things he said ot me..and how i felt so deaply for him back..i was in love..all my firneds saw it too..the 4th time i got scared he said his heart coulodent break anymore and he couldent do it agian..he would not ocme back too me..i hurt him to bad he said..now he moved away to texas..summer going ot 7th grade..now its summer going to 9th grade..its been a year and im still in love with him...he hates me.says i hurt and and cant do it anymore..the worst part ever is..hes moving back..into my neighborhoodd a few stgreets down..and i dont know what to do..i want to tell him how i feel but i dont know what he will do bacxk..is there a certain way i should tell him? somthing i should do..help me..i need him..i cry EVERY NITE becuase of him....hes my everything.i love him. please give me advice..thanks..bye
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Well darlin'...i know exactly how you feel. The same thing happened with me...only the other way around. He broke up with me and i told him i couldn't take it anymore...so then when i thought i was over him...he told me EXACTLY how he felt and that he needed me in his life and that i was his everything. so hun, just tell him how you feel. remind him of why he loved you the first 4 times... and let him see how much you love him and need him...
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summers here and i want to loose some weight...problem is i have a hard time sticking to a diet and excersize program...im 15 and i really wanna loose some weight before school starts up again...problems i have are-
1. finding an effective excersize...i cant run though so dont suggest that please
2. my parents keep junk food scattered round the house even though i try to avoid it..i can pretty much avoid it all accept the chips?!
3. finding a healthy food that i can snack on
4. finding a way to keep calm at dinner and not go over bored
could anyone possibly help me find excersize i can do? and help me keep away from junk food??
any advice is greatly appreciated...
I WILL RATE HIGH!
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riding a bike is a GREAT exercise...my friend rides her bike everyday...and she lost 12 pounds! and she looks great. a good food to snack on would be pretzels, carrots, jello (low fat of course)...and low-fat yogurt...
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is there any way to make your boobs look bigger like when im wearing a cami? like pushup bras, but those dont really help me that much.. any good advice? (link)
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go to victoria's secret...and get a pushup bra w/ a little padding in it... ask someone that works in there...they always help me...
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ok i went to this dance with my guy friend. first off when we were dancing he started grinding wiht me and then with slow dancing we were dancing really my face was right against his. also when we were grinding there was a point where he kind of backed off. why was that do you think?? and do you think he likes me?? Should i tell him i like him?? (link)
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he probably does like you. and you should definitely tell him...regret lasts a lifetime. he prbably backed off because he did something wrong haha...
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Hey 16/f, theres this guy that i like but he has a girl. There were times that i told him that i had a b/f but it didnt stop him from kissin me and tellin me he loved me. He even told my cousins that he loved me and that he wanted me badly and that he would do anythin 4 me. I want to play hard to get and tease him and do things to make him want me more. What could i do....plz help! I rate HIGH! (link)
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1. why does he have a girl if he "loves" you?
2. to make him want you more...let him kiss you and stuff...and flirt with him...
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i have a lot of moles..and i hate it. i have a lot on my face and arms! they are soo annoying, like not trying to sound conceited but i am kind of pretty..but the moles just ruin me! i hate them so much! is there anything i can do about them! makeup? surgery? anything!!! (link)
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get surgery. go to the dermatologist... because moles can be cancerous... so they may tell you that you HAVE to have them removed...
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Hey, i need help!!! Im going to highschool in about 2 months, and I want to look good! I Know i dress really tomboyish, like with all my band shirts and dickies and stuff, but that stuff looks cute on other girls...My hair is black because I died it and its starting to get brown hilights in it from my natural hair color. It looks kool if i straighten it. I am overweight and I am extremly determined to lose weight.
I really like this guy who is going to my school and would like to impress him. Please help.
I rate 5's Only and if you wanna leave a mean comment go ahead, you'll just be wasting your time. (link)
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well to lose weight..just watch what you eat and exercise a lot. but girl, you don't need to change who you are for some guy. let him like you for who you are...and not who you aren't...
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okay well me and my boyfriend were going out for 5 years and then he proposed, and well we were gonna get married but some stuff happened and we made each other really mad so we broke up. so then he got a girlfriend and they got married. so i wasnt that upset because i had a boyfriend. and we went to my xboyfriends house to see it, because we dont hate each other. and then i was mad when i saw the house because it was the one i'd been looking at for like ever. so my boyfriend and his wife were inside and i was outside getting some air and he came out and he was turning the sprinklers on, and i walked up and asked him what his problem was and he fliped out on me and was saying how my boyfriend doesnt love me and hes only with me because im hott. then i got upset and my boyfriend drove me back to where we lived at a camp. so i told everyone [family + friends that live there] and they got mad at him. and he showed up 2 days later and told everyone that he still loved me and all that. so then my boyfriend proposed to me and i didnt know what was wrong, i said no. i told him i loved him and everything but i still had feeling for my xboyfriend. so i went to walmart ((idk why)) and i saw him there. and i asked him if he still loved me why he got married. nd he said cuz he wanted me to feel the pain he put me through. so i told everyone at home that we were back together and now theyre all mad..did i really do anything that bad? (link)
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well it wasn't that bad what you did. but you broke someone's heart girl! ok so he got married...and then u had a new boyfriend... your new boyfriend probably loved you more than that other guy...i mean he proposed too. and you just left him..for ur ex that is/was MARRIED. i guess it's ok that y'all are back together...but be careful so things don't end up like before...
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o0o0o0kkk well my best friend.. i get the feeling she doesn't like me and I REALLY WANT TO CHANGE WUTEVER IM DOIN WRONG but the thing is i dont no wut im doin! wut should i do to help our frendship here???
i rate high!
*~!desperate for help!~*
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just ask ur friend what it is you're doing wrong. sit down with her and tell her that you've noticed things have changed and you would like to know why. and ask her what you could do to save the friendship...
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are there any home remedies that can get rid, or help treat pimples. I have some of that perscription stuff...but I'd like to try something new. I rate high. Thanks! (link)
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try to relax and not get stressed out...stress causes pimples! and also keep using the perscription stuff...it def. will help!
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What do I do when I'm in love with this kid and he loves me back but he's so scared to love me because he's thinking he'll get hurt or something. But he and I are really close but know he's talking to his x-girlfriend when he told me he wanted a break and to be with me, but not know why is he talking to her and not me? I really really really love him and I know he loves me..what do I do? (link)
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maybe he's not over her yet? but everything will work out... "in the end everything will be okay...if it's not okay..then it's not the end"
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I haven't seen my dad since i was like 6. I got his address and his phone number. I wanna call him but i dont know what i would say to him. My mom thinks that its a good idea i should talk with him. But like i said i dont know what i would say to him. My dad's girlfriend wont let my dad ever talk to me. or if i send him a letter she wont let him read it. She doesn't even have a picture of me because she doesn't want me in his life. What should i do and what should i say? please help (link)
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wow. why doesn't she want you in his life? that's crazy. you should definitely call him! just say whatever your mind tells you to say...
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i like this boy, and me and him have a really fliry relationship. i slept with him in november while he was going out with my friend. we hang out sometimes and flirt a lot and i really think im in love. but he blows me off sometimes and hes such a jerk. he'll ditch me for a party, and he doesnt pick up his phone somtimes. lately hes been doing this more and more and i dont know what i should do because i like him so much! can somebody help me? (link)
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well hunn...the boy got what he wanted... u need to forget about him...he's not worth your time! if he asks you to hang out or do somethin...BLOW HIM OFF...he deserves it. just try to meet new ppl and forget about that jerk!
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i am in the process of writing some songs. I think that they suck. And i need advice on how i can make them better. I cant ever find anything 2 rhyme with anything. If you get what im saying i need some help or tips on writing songs! (link)
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I have written songs in the past...but if you need help rhyming...go to rhymingdictionary.com ... and i'm sure your songs don't suck...just let someone you trust read them...and ask them for feedback. if they say it sucks, then just keep trying. don't give up!
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OK so the kid i like (who has a g/f) asked me the other day online if i still liked him..and i tried changin the subject but hes like "No don't shange the convo.." so i told him: idk because you have a gf... then he said ooo ok..now hes talking to me a lot more..should i have told him that i still liked him? should i tell him the next time i talk to him? help me! i rate 5s! (link)
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Well...I personally would have told the boy. But yes you should tell him next time you talk to him because if he asked you if you still liked him, then he obviously cares about you still. maybe he likes you too and is only dating the other chick because he thought you didn't like him. tell him...
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Theres this guy well theres two guys and there both friends and they both like me. they didnt come out and tell me but i know there friends and sisters have told me and they give off more then enough hints. but my promblem is: they like me but i dont like them well at least i dont think i do see there bosinas and i dont date bosinas i only date americans i know i knoww sounds dumb but thats just me. and i kinda think i like one and i cant like him i wont let my self. but i kinda think i only like him or think i do is because im still trying to find the right guy. im 16 and i still havent found the right one. so what do u guys think my promblem is? thanks for the help..
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well 1st of all... i understand that you only want to date americans...but if you start to fall for a guy... you can't help the way your heart feels. 2nd of all, most people don't find the "right one" when they are 16... good luck with your problems...
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I like this girl so much but she is practically dedicated to this guy but he doesn't love her the way I do but I can't tell her that I love her because we are likebest friends and I really wanna date this chick but she is to tight on this other guy what do I do? (link)
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Well, if he doesn't love her the way you do, then just wait for her to drift away from him...and then just take her out a few times and then tell her how you feel about her...don't tell her right off or she might like freak out... but just be there for her through everything and wait your turn.
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hey this i a very weird question to ask you guys out in public but my bf and i want to start having sex. But idk if he wants my "pussy" shaved or not and im not going to ask him because it would be awkward. What do you think i should do? (link)
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Well I think you should...mostly ALL guys like it that way...
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