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I went over to my boyfriend's house yesterday and everything was great except for when he was out working he said something about manpower and I (jokingly) said "where?" He didn't realize I was joking and we got in a fight about it. I told him I didn't mean it and I was joking and everything, but when we were on the phone later he said even though I said I was joking and swore to it that he still took it seriously and it really hurt him. (He works alot and he doesn't have a great homelife.)
So today he called me and we were gonna go to the mall with my friend and her crush even though he was supposed to watch a race with his dad at 6. When I got off the phone with him to go up the street to my friends to ask if we had a ride he called me back and said he couldn't go. Later, after calling his house phone and finding out his line was disconnected I called his cell phone and he said that he couldn't go because he was grounded because when his dad said he wouldn't take him to the mall he went off on him. Now his line is disconnected and I'm not allowed to come over or anything.
The thing is, I think Justin's still a little mad about what I said yesterday. He's acting different and upset or sad or something. I don't know what to do about it, because when I ask him what's wrong he'll just say nothing. I feel so bad about what I said and it's really getting to me that he's not acting the same. Anyone have any advice on what to do or such? Thanks, sorry this is long but I will rate all answers! (link)
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look him in the eyes and telling him that you were joking and that you know he is upset about what you said. if he doesnt believe you then maybe he is just a little stressed and needs a little space. hope i helped!! buh bye!! for any more help im me at T3RRI2010!!!
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Okay my boyfriend of 4 months and i just broke up. I really liked him because it seemed as though we went together longer than that because we were so close for so long but neways, it seems like everysinve we broke up every week he has said something about me and it has gotten back to me. The only problem is I dont' give a u know what about him nemore so I guess he wants me to know that he is still there. Well neways he told my best friend that he was gonna get one of his girlfriends to fight me *(note: i am not afaid of neone and he knew that if i got really mad i will beat his ***)* so i told my mommy and she called and cursed him out. I mean I don't cry I dont really worry about it so if i keep ignoring him do you all think that that will continue to hurt him instead of me fighing and arguing back with him, if i stoop to his level it's like he one right? Someone please help me what should i do? I have like so many other boys that want to go with me but i just can't jump into a relationship, so if i do go with someone do u think that will make him mad? Please help (link)
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i think he is just trying to get back at you because whenever you guys broke up he still probably was not over you. for the guys say your not ready for another relationship and that you need some space but if you are ready for a relationship you should go out with the one you trust the most but dont do it to get back at that other guy cuase youll really hurt him then. hope i helped buh bye!!! for any more help im me at T3RRI2010!!!
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really long story but i need all the help i can get!
well my X-friend, sarah, has a popular friend.
well they just became friends.
heres the story:
sarah and i made plans wedensday to do something thursday, she cancelled plans saying she was tiared and wanted to rest so i can come over tomorrow and she can by hyper.
so i said okay.. shure. tomorrows fine! but my sister is going up to look at colleges and so i need to know.. around 1045 or 11? and she said OKAY
and so we had plans and i was waiting for her to get online around 11 am because thats when shes always online.. so i said to myself "oaky she must be still sleeping"
"mom im not going to look at colleges with you and melissa, sarah can probally pick me up, worse comes to worse i wont get there." they said okay and left.
s0o i waited around untill 9oclock at NIGHT waiting for her to sign on, i called her moms house multipal times (said to call her dads house), her dads (no answer)and her cell phone millions of times. with no answer.
so then she finallu signed on about 10 o clock at night.. and
i said "WHERE WERE YOU!!!"
and she said "Katies house with tori, whats up?"
and i said "dude, we had PLANS today!"
she said: "no we didnt....."
i felt her tention of freaking out because she knows we did
she said: "it wasnt offical plans!"
i said: "well yes it was u said ill im u around 11 with the time you can get picked up!"
she said: " so that doesnt mean i can pick you up!"
i said: "well yes it does it even says it!"
(i was sending the real convo)
and then i got a IM from katie, she has never talked to me Before on AIM so i was trying to act like nothing is going between us, but wait. SARAHS AT KATIES HOUSE!
kaite: hey
me: whats upp
katie: why you messin wit my b1tch?
me: shes "messin" up "wit" my "l1fely" plans!
katie: so what she wants to hang out with popular people and not people like you, who are posers and infact fake their lives second by second.
me: my life is all true, but i got to go theres a emergency in my family, bye.
katie: yep, whats what i thought, there aint no emegency in yo family cept that im going to mess you up.
Me: you rnt going to lay a finger one me.
me: i have to go bye
katie: thats wht i thought.
Katie: your just scared
then Tori ims me
tori: whats going on with your family?
me: my grandma is about to die i have to go BYE!
Me signs off at 1136 PM.
then some reason i got a message saying "your screenname has been signed on in 2 locations and youve been kicked off" or something like that.
then my friend, mike left varies of messages and caling my cell phone. saying "your online but you rnt talking to me whats up"
me- im not online im at the hospital.
him-really what happened?
me - my g-ma is teribally sick and is about to die.
him- that sucks tell her to feel better, quickly.
me-thanks but it wont happen.
him- sarah imed me saying to calm you down
me- WHAT? im not even iming her
him- holy crap shes sending me the messages... its like I HATE YOU FOR CANCELING LIKE THAT!
and so on.. please help me and tell me if shes worth the friend i should get back (tori and sarah) and maybe a new fiend katie. but i dont know help!
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hey that was a really long story! lol! yeah im sorry about your grandma. buy anyways i dont think she is a true friend to go and cancel on you then set you up like she did. you should forget her and hang out with some other friends. good luck! buh bye! if you need any more help im me at T3RRI2010!
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Me and my friend Paul are practically brother and sister! We've always been tight but over the summer it seemed as if we were getting feelings for eachother that werent normal 'friendly' feelings. He invited me everywhere with him. We went to the beach to watch fireworks, i joined him for dinner, and almost every weekend we hung out at his house watching the stars and talking. i never feel uncomfortable around him and i can tell him anyhing. Were both strong christians and believe that God will lead us in the direction we need to go. But I just dont know ...
is this Love? :-\ (link)
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well im not quite sure if its love but for now lets just say he really say he likes you. so are you two like a couple or are you still just "friends"??? buh bye!!!
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ok so my periods started today, agh what a pain. but im supposed to go to a theme park tonight and i LOVE rollercoasters and going upside down and stuff. if i wear a pad (cant wear tampons for some medical reason) would i like leak going upside down or something? haha idk really i was just wondnering if itd be stupid or something
haha
thanks to anyone who can help :-D (link)
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no i dont think it will be a problem it should be fine. have fun! buh bye!
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Hello. . .19/f here with a problem...
I met this guy about 2 months ago. We've already had sex, and we act like a couple to an extent. . spending a lot of time with each other, kissing/cuddling/ect, talking on the phone for hours... He has told me that he cares for me and loves me.
He's afraid to be in a relationship, though, because his last (very serious) girlfriend cheated on him with his brother and is now pregnant with his brother's baby. He doesn't trust anyone. He has admitted to me, though, that he holds back some of his feelings for me.
Some days, he's very sweet to me and wants to be around and is very affectionate. Other days, he's kind of cold and shuts me out a little bit. Either way, he wants to hang out; it's just the way he acts around me that varies.
He has bi-polar disorder. I'm begining to think that maybe this disorder, although medicated, is making him act this way.
So these are my questions.
1. Does anyone have manic depression/bi-polar disorder? If you do, can you tell me how this disorder effects your social skills?
2. I want to be in a relationship with him, but I don't know how to help him take that extra step to trust me. He says "I love you, but i'm not in love with you. I don't think I could be in love with anyone." How can I help him stop holding back?
I'll rate you highly if you at least try to help.
Thanks. (link)
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well your boyfriend is going through a lot of stress. he lost someone he cared about very much and finds out shes having a baby with his brother. hes having a tough time coping with this. well for you and your boyfriend you should plan a romantic evening and tell him you love him and that youll always be there for him. whatever you do dont lie about this. also tell him that you know how hes feeling and maybe hell come around for you. dont get mad if he still tells you he is not in,ove with you because this will tell him and that you can wait. maybe a little bit later in life hell see that your really comitted to him and see how much you mean to him. hope i helped! buh bye! im me at T3RRI2010 for any more help.
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It is 2 weeks until this big event, I need my tummy harden and my chest a little flatter, can anything or anyone help me? (link)
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try working out more often... welll alot by like doing crunchers and sit ups. also try cutting down on food... dont starve yourself but justb try eating less like before a meal drink a glass of water or eat soup with it itll get you fuller easier and longer. hope i helped buh bye!
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my ex and i havent been together now for 1 year. Its a long story, but he was a total jerk, after it ended. (he blames me of course)Hes very bitter! Hes been with his little s**t now for a year. (he screwed her on the 2nd date, and she had a bf at the time) Hes always hated girls like that, but i didnt want him back after he did that, so he asked her out! Ok, we NEVER talk at school, and we dont have any classes together. (we're both seniors) shes 15!!
Anyways, we had a field trip and theyre were 5 buses. My friends and i picked bus #3. We were in our seats when guess who sits right behind me? Well i didnt even acknowledge that he was even on the bus let alone sitting right behind me. I didnt let him bother me, he was just being "himself" as usual. Well after we got into the theatre, the way we all walked into the rows, i was almost sitting next to him. (go figure) he all of a sudden says outloud "kayla followed me on the bus, and sat by me" and his friend, (her and i used to be better friends at 1 time) says, "Why did you do that for?" i was like "wtf, he followed me!" then i said, "God, you have the biggest ego!!" He just laughed. Then about a month ago, he told the same girl that im obsessed with him!! i imd him that night and asked him why he said something like that, and hes like "omg kayla i could give a shit about you"!! This is not a big deal, but i need to know why he just cant ignore me like i do him. Why does he have to make such lame comments? People actually believe him, that makes me even more mad!! (link)
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i think that when you dumped your b/f he still wasnt over you and he thinks that your putting him through pain so hes just trying to get even with you. you should try talking to him in private and try and become friends with him. hope i helped! buh bye! if you need anymore help im at T3RRI2010!
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okay so last night i woke up at like 3 and i was really nugry but i didnt want to go downstairs to grab something so i tried to go back to sleep...in the morning i had like a really bad stomach ache...then i was hungry so i went down to grab something but its like hard to eat...im hugry but i dont want to eat...wut with that? (link)
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well im not sure if this is it or not but your prabably just extremely hungry and not in the mood to eat though. you should try just eating something lite with some water. then later on eat whatever you normally eat. if this doesnt help you might be getting sick or something. hope i helped! buh bye!
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how do you get rid of dandruff with out like scratching it out or buying shampoos?
like home products if you can make something
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well im not sure if you can make anything but take a little bit more time getting the shampoo out of your hair while in the shower. this should help but if not just go to the store and buy some dandruff shampoo. hope i helped! buh bye!
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My bff Ashlyn, like this guy Tanner. Secretley I like him too but I haven't told her that yet. Well Tanner is been flirting with me ALOT latley and invited me to the movies. I told him, that I like him, but I don't want to hurt Ashlyn's feelings, he said he respected my descion since I've known Ashlyn longer and that he'd wait for me, cause he really likes me. I don't know what to do. I don't know how Ashlyn will react if I tell her I like him and he likes me too. What should I do. I really like him, but I love her too, shes my best friend. xox i`ll rate. (link)
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you should talk to your friend and be like i didnt want to tell you this because i didnt want to hurt you and i felt i needed to be honest with you. then tell her that you like him and he likes you. be really nice about it though and give her space to think about this. she might be a little mad about this the first couple of days but shell adjust to it after a little while. or you could point her to a different guy that she might like and then hook them two up. hope i helped! buh bye! if you need any more help im me at T3RRI2010!
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ok, my names danielle and im 13/f. theres this boy i like in a prep course i go to, his names daniel (lol). someone in his class read my xanga and read an entry that said i liked him, and she told him. he wasnt sure which danielle it was so he asked me for my last naem and i told him and then he smirked and left. today at the prep course, he was walking with me on teh way to class and told me that he knew i liked him. he didnt act weird or anything, but when we went through a tight dorrway, he tried to squeeze through with me and i think he tried reaching for my hand. now my question is, does it seem like he likes me? i rate. smartasses will be reported and given a bad rating. thanks. nellie x0x (link)
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well i thinhk he does like you and he was glad to admit it knowing that you liked him too. you should ask him to the movies or something. hope i helped! buh bye! if you need any more help im me at T3RRI2010!
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i want to ask this guy to like this spooky woods thing.. but im kinda scared.. (feeling like an idiot if he rejects me) we are friends, and i was thinking of like, on aim, i should be like "haha, your so cool we should hang out sometime." like that? then asking him tommarow :/ but idk. can you help me? (link)
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well you should go up to him in person or on aim and be like hey im going to this spooky woods thing and its going to be really dumb by myself and i was wondering if you wanted to come along. when doing this just be yourself and stay calm. hope i helped! buh bye!
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My guy friend needs help. He was just on the phone with me ( cause he knows about my site and figured i could help ) and said that theres this girl that he really really likes, but this other girl that he dates ( not a relationship, just dates ) likes him, but he doesn't like her anymore. And he told me she cries to him sometimes on the phone and that she says she doesn't want to lose him and such and he doesn't want to be a jerk, but he doesn't know what to do, and I don't know how to answer. Please help.
Love,
Mel (link)
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well you should tell your friend that he should tell this girl that he doesnt feel the same way about her and that they should try being friends. be nice about it. in the beggining itll be hard for her but in the end she might find someone new that likes her. then eventually them two might become friends. but after he breaks up with her give her some space not too much because they should talk about there feelings to eachother. hope i helped1 buh bye! if you need anymore help im me at T3RRI2010!
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Well heres my problem theres this one guy lets call him Joe. Well i've known Joe since like the 7th grade (im in 10th grade now) and i've always had a huge crush on him! it sux. well i think he knows and he's always like hinting at me that he likes me too. But, i dont want to get attached or become his girlfriend (he's asked me before) because he's got a rep of breaking girls hearts. But, i cant get him outta my head and i wanna get over him. but its so hard! what can i do to get over him? or should i go out with him and see what happens? but i dont want to get my heart broken i've been through it a lot. someone plz help (link)
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well if you really like him and have had a huge crush on him since 7th grade i think you should give him a try. just take the relationship slow that way you wont get too attached. just give him a chance he might like you more than the others in the past. hoope i helped! buh bye!
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lately i've had this huuuuuge crush on this guy, but i dont think he likes me... its really bugging me becuz he sends me all the signals a boyfriend would to send to his girlfriend at school. i really like him and hes really cute. i'm gonna invite him to my halloween party, but i'm not sure how to tell him about it. (link)
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just go up to this guy and act yourself and say im having a halloween party and id really like it if you were to come. make sure you say that youd really like it if he comes because then he'll most likely go to your party. have fun! buh bye! hope i helped! if you need any more help im me at T3RRI2010!
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Hello out there,
I'm here to admit something rather then ask a question... some advice would be useful.
I am in grade 8, I'm 13 years old.
I'm having some troulbe with school.
I have already failed two tests and gotten two 2+s (out of four- a c+)
I used to get all As. Mostly As, anyway.
It's not because I'm on the computer too much- I'm doing my work, same as ever, as hard as ever. Yet, somehow, my grades are still falling, and fast. I study for tests and still fail. I ask for help and still can't make it.
I don't know what's going on.
Help? (link)
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okay well just take your time through your homework and double check it. and for tests you should try and study for them in advance of time. and dont do your homework while watching tv. homework and tv never go good togethor.lol. hope i helped! buh bye!
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I don't know what's wrong with me but i always feel like i have to cry. I don't think its depression. Then again it could be. Maybe it's just that something's missing. I get annoyed fast, when i would just let it pass before. And eveybody seems to be agitating me. Maybe it's that i'm lonely, or that im just sad. Can someone help me?
sad and falling down* (link)
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well alot of people wannna cry when they get stressed. maybe your just really stressed. if this is the case you should try just sleeping in one day and just chill that day. this is what i do it sometimes helps me. or you could maybe talk to one of your closest friends about how your feeling. hope i helped! buh bye! if you need anymore help im me at T3RRI2010!
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I have a OLD friend but really concerned about her. She is just 12 and she went to her B/Fs today. She won't stay at her dads (parents r split up) and she always stays at her moms. I guess she wants people to think she iss cool I don't know. She acts like a prep and she NEVER calls her dad or anything and you know it hurts his feelings and she hasn't been to her dads in 2 weeks and when she did go she stayed in her room. Her dad and my sister (who is married to him LOL) have been VERY good to her. I mean my dad doesn't even care about me and she doesn't know how luccky she is. What can I do. Thanks (Please no smartA**es) (link)
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well you should tell your friend how lucky she is to have a father that cares about her and that she should spend some quality time with him. or maybe she is just really mad at her dad or something if this isnt it then shell regret it in the end. as far as it goes with her boyfriend well shell regret that too if she did somthing with her boyfriend. but as for you maybe you should try asking her wuts up with her and her dad. be nice about it though you dont want her to get mad at you for being nosy. then tell her if theres anything else she has on her mind and needs to talk about. dont bring anything up about her boyfriend though if she needs anybody to talk to shell come to you. hope i helped! buh bye!
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I always try to go on a diet but I have a hard time staying commited so it never goes on past 3 days! Same with exercises too. How can I get over this and finally stick with it?? (link)
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i know how that is. well like whenever you start craving like chocolate you could try munching on ice. thats wut i try and do it helps a lot. also you could hang a really bad picture of yourself to remind you of what you look like and then a skinnier picture of you to remind you of what you wanna look like on the fridge so that every time you go to the fridge youll most likely grab something healthy. for your exercises you could run around with some siblings or play with them. that always works. little kids always keep you busy. or you could try walking your pet. not only will it be good for you but your pet also. hope i helped! if you need any more help im me at T3RRI2010! buh bye!!!
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