Hi everyone I'm Sean. im 14, very athletic and all of my friends come to me for advice so it gave me the idea of coming here to help everyone I can out. if you need me outside of advicenators you can look up my facebook: sean hoel or send me an AIM...but only if u neeed it cuz i dont want any spam lol.
Gender: Male
Location: St. Louis MO
Occupation: student attending school
Age: 14
AIM: metrostika26
Member Since: December 26, 2005
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So..i have this friend and i dont want to go out with him..just wanna make out with him or this other guy..lol, anyway he thinks i'm afraid of getting hurt or hurting him but thats not it! i just really like 2 guys and i dont want a bf right now, should i just be friends with this guy? how do i give him the hint of what i mean! and not make him think i want to be more than friends with benefits???? lol oh yeah hi seany (link)
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i thot u said u couldnt get this to work.
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I really like this girl at school but she is my best friend. I'm scared that if I tell her and she says yes, I know we'll break up. Everyone knows that if you break up with someone you basically aren't friends anymore. Does anyone know what I should do? HELP ME!!! (link)
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actually, after you break up you usually always remain friends if the reason for the break up was you two lost it. its hard but its got to happen eventually. go for it and if it doesnt work at least you tried. if the girl wouldnt want to remain friends after that then shes not worth your time. hope it helps.
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ok well ive liked this gurl ever since iv known her, 4th grade, and i used to try an make her laugh to like me, well now were older, im 13 adn so is she, so yah i mean at this age we have alot of emotions and dk about things, but we went out over the summer adn had our first kiss.. but she left me the next week for a guy she supposably 'loved' but now thinks is a fag, and well then after a while we both saw other people, my g/f broke up with me a few months ago, for total confusin, and the gurl ive known since 4th grade , just broke up wiht her b/f lets say a wekk or so ago i dk soon lol, wel before she broke up wiht her b/f she said she had feelings for me, and she couldnt choose who, and then she told me she had ben lying baout her b/f to me for months, and it was rele a kid from my class, but any way so i had thot i liked this other gurl, but then like i went over to hmm lets call her sarah(gurl since 4th grade)s house last night, we watched movies in her basment , and soon enough we wer makin out on her couch, like for what seemed like hours, and i truely love her so much, i rele care about her, shes my life(im not a stalker just care about her ok) and well today i talked to her, adn well she sais she just wants to be freinds wit benifets.... and i mean im ok wiht htat kissin her and stuff, but i rele rele want her, i want to go out wiht her , i want to be with her, but she sais that shes scared to go out with me, because shes scared she'l hurt me like she did in the summer , so i just said, oh ok yah thats cool, so now the gurl who i had a crush on before might ask me out , or somthn i dont know, but i dk what to do, 'sarah' sais if an opportunity comes for a g/f that i had to promise to go for it, because she thinks that i need somone better for me, but i cant, i wont , no1 is better for me, i mean we have so much chemistry, and were closer than anyone ive ever ben wiht , no lie, we are like so close we know we care about eachother even as freinds, but i know what i want, and i think that she might be scared , scared of hurting me, scared of gettin close, to close to fal in love wit somone, so yah, i mean, idk im just gonna wait, theres nothin i can do, so thats y i came here
-waht can i do to show her not to be affraid but to take a chance, shes different than she was in the summer, and to take a chance and be able to be happy, because i know shes not, she knows shes not, but i thinnk she was happy last night , ..so was i... wel i rele love her, adn i wanna know some tips on what to do to go overboard for her and i need somthin to get her, to make her need me like i need her, ill rate huge for even an answer at all! (link)
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its 11 oclock at night and im eatin donuts.
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any cool sights where I can meet cool people.. besides myspace? (link)
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xanga, friendster, and facebook are the only ones i kno.
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ok my friend and i been best friends for 4 years and i dont wanna ruin our friendship but now in middle school shes waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay popular and im not....and i feel like her secertary because people treat me like it eeryday "oh where is ____" or "hows _____?" never a how r u to me and she hardly spends time with me shes always with her popular friends and i feel left out i hav other friends but shes my BEST i feel like im jealouse.. plz help!!! (link)
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a girl whose two faced and wont talk to you around her popular friends just so she can keep her image isnt worth your time. maybe not the answer you want to hear but i think you shoulf forget her. hope it helps.
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well lets see...i love my gf to death and thats how all guys should be. lately we broke up but we said we love eachother so we were still going out unoficially. I was doing everything i can for her i was like too selfless i guess. she told me to try not to luv her because she doesnt want to be hurt so i rip a part of my heart out for her and i do that. just asking how can i change and i guess this sounds weird but be a little more selfish because i cant. she has to be happy or im not thats the catch. (link)
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hehehe all sounds to familiar man. what i would do is just try your best to show her what your doing and if she doesnt respect it then you dont have time for her. from some experience ill bet shes gonna lie to you then and find a new bf the next day who will ultimatley ruin your friendship with your ex. well good luck to yah man. hope it helps.
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im 13/f and i've just gotten my first boyfriend. He thinks of it as serious and so do I, he got me a dozen roses for Valentines and had them delivered to my 6th period class. I really like him and I wand to kiss him. I know this sounds incredibly stupid but does anyone have any advice because I'm really nervous and I don't know what to do and we're going to the movies saturday and I'm pretty sure he's gonna... (link)
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Just let things go down you kno. Look him in the eyes then lean in and let him come most of the way but you gotta come in a little bit. Be careful after you get your first your going to wanna do it alot more. my gf was nervous about it so i asked her b4 i did just w.e is easier wit u. hope it helps.
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I think french kissing is really gross.. the whole open mouth part. I wouldn't mind making out though even though I haven't done either of them. Do you have to french kiss before you can make out with a guy? And what exactly do you do when you make out with someone? Where do you put your hands? How do you know when the time is right to start using your tongue? Any advice? I rate 5s. (link)
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well if you think french kissing is gross then you wouldnt like making out. frenching and making out are practically the same thing except in making out your hands go everywere. o and making out is usually alot longer than frenching like anywere from 5 mins to an hour.
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Okay so me and this guy are friends and we talk in class and stuff. But it stops there; and I really like him. I think about him all the time.
How do I move closer to him so he'll think of me more as the girlfriend type. (And we can't hang out outside of school; dont ask}
-Yeah I Love You. (link)
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easy, call him or have him call you and just talk to him and get as much alone time with him as you can at school.
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y friend has a new bf and they have only been togther for three days and they have already kissed and well when she hangs around him she pretty much ignores us and well when she is older and she meets a guy then i dono she is 12/f and i am 13/f when she is older i hope she makes the rite decisions with a guy cause if she goes this fast when she is this old then well think about when she is older i just need some advice the guy is 13 and is a grade older than her and he is going to break up with her and she never got broken up with before i need advice on whether if ui should warn her or what (link)
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dont interfere. it may not be the answer your expecting but she has to learn what having a bf really means. its supposed to be someone that you feel good around and like and have fun with not someone to just say o i did this with him. if hes gonna break up with her just tell her to be prepared for it. time will tell all but it will happen sooner or later anyway. hope it helps.
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There is this girl that i realy like. I got her phone number. I am going to call her and ask her out to the movies or somthing.
What should i say to her when i call her? My mind is blank of all ideas right now. I want to let her know her how i feel without being too deep and emotional. Also, is there any way i can ask her out besides saying "Hey, wanna go out?" I am 13 and she is almost 14.
Thanks for your help. (link)
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when you call her tell her that you like her and you were wondering if she wanted to hang out at the movies or something then ask her out on a real date while your there. hope it helped.
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im 14/f and i have alot of guy friends and also girls friends but i dont know how to ask my mom if i can hangout with my guys friends im always afraid she gunna say no what should i do? (link)
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easy, just tell her your friends are guys and i just wanna hang out witht them but assure her that you wont do anything that she wouldnt like (doesnt mean u hav to abide by that just so she lets you go). she most likely wont say no. hope it helps.
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The Boy i like likes me and another girl...and he says he likes me more. And the friends he hangs out with are kinda differant and i realli realli realli like him but i dont no how to get him to ask me out...i need help (link)
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try to get as much alone time with him as you can. look him right and the eyes and smile and then he will just fall for you its that easy if you both like eachother. If he doesnt ask you out then ask him if hes shy and if he says yes than you ask for him. hope it helps.
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ok we'll i liked this kid alot. & he's always like me but always went out with other people even though we liked eachother. So just like 5minutes ago he told me he broke up with his gf & he said do u still like me and i said yess i still like you & i asked him who he likes and he said he likes me but he likes my sister better=(
I've never felt like this i just went in my room crying. No one has ever... i just don't what to do. So can you please help me.
xo heartbroken♥
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That sucks but its life u kno. Time will heal your heart i had to learn that same lesson. good luck with your situation and try to keep your mind off the guy and start liking a new one if you can. hope it helps.
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I just started dating this guy a little while ago, and I like him, but it's so hard to talk to him. He's really sweet and I really do like him, but we can't ever have a conversation without awkward silences. Should I continue to go out with him and hope things get better, or should I just break up with him? Thanks. (link)
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dont break up with him. give it time i think hes just shy. hope it helps.
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I recently read a few pages of my gf's journal (I know, I know, I shouldn't have) and she mentioned another guy that she is interested in. She writes about how happy she is when she sees this guy. Should I confront her about it or just see what happens? (link)
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i would see what she does then if nothing happens forget about it and if something does happen ask her about it but if you just confront her right away it will make things harder because then shell be mad at you for readin her journal. p.s. i just ask me gf and she lets me read it so maybe it would work for you to.
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Ok Im 15 nd having a baby nd will the baby take the fathers last name or mine or is it our choice? (link)
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it is your choice i think but hun your 15 and your havin a baby think about that come on.
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i have love handles. first, i am 14/f. second, they are noticable when i wear camisoles (just in front of my girl-friends) and tighter shirts and things like that. i am not upset about the way they look or anything because God made me the way He wanted me to be. i am not overweight at all. my body mass index says that i am at a normal weight. i was just wondering if there are any exercises that i can do to get rid of them. i'll rate! thanks! (link)
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i would suggest crunches or the superman(if u dont kno wut that is it is were you lay on your stomach and have your knees perfectly straight and life them up using your lower back but you have to keep your knees straigt. then you life your arms up in front of you and u point your toes downwards.KEEP YOUR KNEES STRAIGHT OR IT DOESNT WORK AT ALL.hope it helped
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ok SO HERES THE STORY.
i have a boyfriend of 6 months and i love him and everything but..
I ALWAYS think other boys are cute. and one of the boys that i thought were cute was in my dream and we kissed! i dont get it..im starting to like other boys? should i move on because im tired of him? helppp..
by the way i never talk to these boys but one of them always stares at me at lunch lol (link)
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Well i think that its just normal you think a guy is cute but you also think your bf is cute too right so wuts the difference. its no big deal dont worry and you cant really control dreams so not much you coulda done about that. hope it helped.
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This guy that I really like in my senior class has been dating this girl who behind his back makes fun of him. He is so in love with her, he'll buy her a dozen roses for no occasion and bring them to school for her. I also heard he spent hundreds of dollars on a bracelet for her birthday. I know what she's been saying behind his back because she's in my french class. The other girls wanted to see her new bracelet and she just rolled her eyes and said "this is the THIRD one he's bought me"!. She is such a superficial bitch. She's also said she's only with him because his family has money. She's also a bigot, I've heard her making derogatory comments about homosexuals and african americans. I also heard she's cheating on him. I don't know what he sees in her. She is very popular and pretty, but has the personality and kindness of a dead squid. He would be heartbroken if he knew what she said about him and did behind his back. He is such a nice guy, I feel sorry for him. Should I tell him or just keep my mouth shut? Or, before I forget, HIS friends make fun of him behind his back for how hard he's fallen for her. (link)
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theres not much you can do because he wont believe you if you tell him. you have to let him learn the hard way im sorry but i cant think of any other way. hope it helped.
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