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Hey what's up Im Ryan, Im ambitious, playfull, funny, an all around great person to be with! If you want to know more ask me!


The United States Marine Corps is my life and i love being relied on to protect this country! I love going out to eat at a nice resturant and a very nice man or woman picks up my check just out of respect! I cant explain how it feels when people come up to me on the street and shake my hand like im a celebrity and tell me that im their hero! brings tears to my eyes. Mission before all else. God, Country, Corps, Self. We are America's 9-11 Force! First to fight, Last to leave. Thanks to all that care!
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Location: San Diego, CA...Originally from MN
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Age: 20
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I have my senior portrait appointment in a few hours and i dunno what to wear. I'm not on any sports teams or anything. So anyone who has already go them done what did you wear? (link)
Wear something that is preppy...not too preppy but something from abercrombie, hollister


How do you make a link of your advice column and put it on an instant message to a friend? (link)
well go to your page and copy the address up top and paste it in your messanger


i love my mom honestly i do, but she doesnt trust me....with anything!! not with my computer, phone or even with just my friends!! (especially the guy ones). how can i get her to just trust me? (link)
well you are still young and your mom doesn't want you to do anything that you might regret. Someday you will understand why your mom is like the way she is. Just do as your told and she will come around one day


i just found out that one of my best friends has been telling people that i was pregnant and had a miscarriage before, it really hurt when i found out, especially when i found out that this was why my boyfriend broke up with me, i want to tell her how i feel but i have no clue what to say, any ides on what i should do? (link)
be blunt...that's some bullshit how people have to spread stupid rumors! Go up to her and talk to her and tell her that trash needs to go and if shes going to keep talking crap then it's on.


i plan on calling this guy i like tomorow that i havent talked to in awhile... i kno he use to like me n stuff n i think he still does but im not sure if i ever showed him enough that i like him so basically im looking for sum hints n stuff to let on that i do like him n stuff like that (link)
if he sounds excited and makes time to talk to you then he likes you. Actually ask him how he feels about you. What's their to loose?


I'm an 18 year old girl who has had a string of bad relationships. I'm seeing this guy, who I really care about and love spending time with. The only thing is that every time I feel myself getting close to him, I pull away because I'm scared of getting hurt. I've been hurt in the past and used to self harm and was very self-destructive. I want to be as involved in this relationship as my boyfriend is but I hate feeling vulnerable. (link)
Let your bf know about your past and tell him that you dont want to be hurt. but with you, Make sure that you are comfortable with him and just let your relationship take its course....go with the flow.


If you fell in love (like REALLY fell head over heals in love) and you know it will never ever EVER work out(like the man might as well be dead its so never ever going to happen), is it normal to feel like you'll never love anyone that way again? He didn't break up with me cuz we weren't ever really together, but my heart is broken. I'm not angry with him or anything either. Its just that I know in my heart that i will never feel this way about anyone ever again, just is it normal? (link)
totaly normal!...you will eventually date other people but that love wont leave it will always be in the back of your mind


Hi my name is jessica my friend and i have known each other since 2nd grade now she thinks i called her a jerk so now its a big fight between us i tld her sorry but she said that it didnt cut it so i really want to be friends again what should i do (link)
if you have been friends for a long time she cant stay mad at you forever...let it pass over and talk it over with her


hey

ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot

~*~Emily~*~ (link)
ask him!...say so what are we....are we going out? I think you should meet him first before going out with him


What do you technically need to do you get abs?? (im a girl) (link)
Run..and do crunches...the only way to have nice abs is to keep you body fat low and to define then crunches work great


ok when people have sex ....does the guy all have to insert it... or does it just "go in" when they lay on top of each other...is it lyk a magnet effect...or something? (link)
If your asking how to have sex...i think your a little too young to know


Can you have sex when you are pregnant?? (link)
yes...only in the early stages


On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long (link)
well if you like him go out with him. Guys will always try to pressure a girl into doing something like that.....especially Sex. You did a great job of saying no. For one he will respect you a little bit more and make him want you more. For some reason girls love to play hard to get and it's a major turn on for me because when it does happen it's awesome! Im 20 and yes i have tried to pressure girls in the past but i respect all the ones that said no and didn't let me get to the next step. Just go with the flow of things and when it feels right then it's good to go


This is just a question of curiosity...how many mL's (milligrams) of water are you suppose to get each day? If not mL's..then oz's(ounces)..? Thanks!!!(14 year old gurlio) (link)
Well too much water wont kill you...drink as much as you can....hydration is key! i believe it's 12-14...glasses a day 12oz....some crazy number like that


Hey. I'm having my boyfriend over on Satarday, I have the house to myself and everything, and I want to make him dinner, but I have no idea what to make!!! Does anyone have any ideas, or recipes??? (link)
how nice...he will love it! I know i would! Well make him Chicken Alfredo!! It's just noodles, alfredo sauce...and grill or bake some chicken breast and cut it up into strips and mix it in the noodles and sauce!!! dont forget the garlic bread


i know how to kiss and everything..like i haven't yet, but i'm pretty sure i got the hang on it..>? (link)
everyone is different when it comes to kissing. Some people got it and some dont. I wouldn't worry about it...ur probably an awesome kisser anywaz


whats a good way to get over someone? (ex boyfriend)
please help me! thanks!

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Keep Busy with a hobbie or a sport. Something that will help you forget him and get over the relationship you had. Just have lots of fun and all the trouble you have now will be all gone!


ok well one of my really closest friends birthday is in couple of weeks and i dunno what to get her....she is girly and she loves pink! i dunt want to get her a giftcard or anything and i cant go to a salon and that stuff....but what do u think wuld make a really cute present? plz answer..and i will rate ya (link)
It's the thought that counts no matter what you get her


My boyfriend hangs around more with his "girl" friends then me. At the end of the day when we are waiting on the bus, he'll go and talk with his friends (girls) and not me. It makes me sooo mad! One of the girls is his ex girlfriend! and the other ones really like him. He's being a jerk! What's his problem and what should I do about it? Thanks so much! I RATE HIGH! (link)
hey...tell him that you don't like him going to talk to those girls. Tell him that you feel like he's not paying enough attention to you. You have to let him know otherwise he wont know.


okie well i want to have guys over n i want to go to gusy housess to hang out but im a lil scared to ask my mom if i can hang out cuz me n my mom r rele tight n she might makefun of me bt neways how do i ask her w. out having to b scared

i rate good (link)
you shouldn't be scared at all! You cant be clinged on to your mom all your life. Im sure you are still young so your mom wont mind as long as the boy's parents allows it.




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