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Hey! This is Mandy and Tish!!! Muahahahaha! We rock.. hard
Gender: Female
Location: The Good Ol' State of TexAs!
Member Since: March 22, 2005
Answers: 78
Last Update: March 28, 2005
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well i just became a vegatarian 2 weeks ago and all my friend does is joke about it she even made up a song up about eating meat and this pisses me off and gives me stomache aches and makes me want to burst out and she knoes but i still feel like its rude of her and i hate that feeling .. what can i do ?? .. thnx ... Love, MauraAnN (link)
Tell your friend about vegtarians and how they care about the poor animal. Tell your friend that she shouldnt be makinmg fun of you for not eating poor little animals.
TrIsH*.


I feel like the worst person in the world. On March 17 me and my boyfriend of 3 years got into a huuuge fight because he cheated on me. Our relationship was sooo good and we always got told that we were the role model for couples, well anyways..we got into a huge fight and we said things that we didnt mean and I told him that I wish he wasnt in my life and he would just die because I hated him so much, those were my exact words. Later that night at 11:26 I got a phone call from his sister (we were really close, she was like a little sister to me) she was crying really hard and she told me that she had found him in his room laying on the floor, dead. I didnt even know what to do with myself. He had taken a gun to his head. She read me a note that he left and it said "I'm so sorry, I love you so much" thats all it said, and he had the date that we started going out until forever carved into his arm. That night when my parents found out they tried to comfort me and all that but I just didnt want to be around anyone. I went to my room and I cut myself so bad and my mom walked in and stopped me and just held me and I cried for hours, with my wrists bleeding, and I fell asleep crying in my moms arms. I'm getting help now. I went to his funeral and it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life, I fell to the floor when I went up to his casket at the wake and his mom had to pick me up and just hold me while we cried. I go to his house all the time and talk to his family and just tell them how sorry I am and we talk about all of our memories. I havent slept since the night it happened, and I havent been to school, the doctors say I probably wont go to school for about another month, I might be homeschooled. I can't even look at myself anymore. I can't beleive those hateful words were the last words I ever got to tell the love of my life. I'm sorry it is really long but does anyone have any advice on how to help me get through this? (link)
Its ok!!!! you'll make it thru. I kno both of you said a lot of stuff that you guys definitily did mean. But its ok. Its all apart of God's plan for you. He wants you to apprecaite people more and think before you say stuff. But when you really love somebody and you find out that they cheated on you, i would totally say stuff that i would regret saying. It was VERY wrong for him to cheat on you... but its ok. And maybe keeping a journal and writting stuff in it that you dont wanna tell anybody else may help!!! Tell me how you are doin in a couple days!!
I Hope i helped A LOT!
MaNdY!


hi! im 13/f and im not loveing life to much.my mom is always yelling at me for nothing and slapping me alot and just hates me. then theres the thing that everytime i start to care for someone the dump me... and after the convince me that they like me or im pretty or something.. i really hate this. i got plenty more going on but yeah i dont need to dump all my shit on yall. but someone please tell me how to cope w/ this... ive been handleing this in a bad way for a little while now.. and i want to stop it..
thanks alot to anyone who helps me! (link)
You could do something fun in your life like do poetry or art. ( something thatlets your feelings out) Rember TiMe HeaLS EvErYtHiNg~
TrIsH*.


well i decided to have a sleep-over but i dont know what i should do or what movies i sohlud rent.. pleez help me out here. if u say truth or dare please give examples. (link)
Ok.. im my column i have some truth and dare activities... so look at those :') Then rent COMIDIES!! Or if your a grl... CHICK FLICCKS!!! lol everybody likes those. Or scarey movies!! Ok here are come comidies:
*Scarey Movie 1,2,or3
*Happy Gilmore
*Billy Maddison (everyone's seen it but it never gets old!)
Here are some chick flicks:
*The Noteboook
*Radio(lol not a chick flick... but i kno a lot of girls that like it lo)
Here are some scarey movies:'0!
*The Grudge
*The ring
*The ring 2(if you wanna go to the theaters)
*Childs Play
*Halloween
*Excorcist (if you REALLY wanna be scared)
*Friday the 13
HOPE I HELPED!
MaNdY!


Ok i am 15 yrs old am i am very small. My friends push me down and twirl me around. I am getting sick of them doing that. They think its so cool to be small but it's not! you always get underestamited!but I still wana be there friends!
What should I do?


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You should tell you friends how you feel... i know what u mean about being small i dont like being small either! You should be proud your small... if you want to still be their friends then do that... but if it gets out of hand tell a parent.
~TrIsH~


Ok, here's the deal. I have HIGH morals, and one of them is that i dont want to kiss a guy untill i get married. Well. theres this guy that i really like and he likes me. and if we go out i know that he'll wanna kiss me and i've been thinkg about it and i wanna kiss him. what do i do?? I am afraid if i dont then i'll regret it. And i think i'll regret it if i don't.

What do I do ??

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Wow... i can understand your moral being not wanting to have sex b4 your married... but no offense.. not kissing. BUt if you do go out with this guy, just tell him that you have morals and tell him. If he really likes you and wants to be with you, he will lsiten and still be your boyfriend!!!
Hope I Helped!
MaNdYY!


I guess this could go under this subject? but my class (8th grade) is graduating this year.. so we need to find a graduation song.. if you could list as many as you can think of with the artist's name that would be great!

please do not say graduation- vitamin c shes obvious.. (link)
DARN!!! that is the song i was gonna say!!! Well my class is like obsessed with the song "Aint no mountain high" lol maybe that one. Or any song that your whole class likes or makes you think about your last year in that school!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!


ok well my talent show is tomorrow and im singing this song called "your love is life to me" and my throat is bothering me! my boyfriend says its because of practicing but i dont know im scared because if i lose my voice i cant sing!! (link)
Well, first i would tell whoever set up the talent show that your throat is sore and you dont kno if you will be able to sing :'0!! And then the only other thing i can think of is drinking peppermint tea! lol and just wait to see how your throat is in the morning!
Hope i Helped!
ManDY!


Last night I tried to kill yself by ODing on sleeping pills. It didnt work though obviously. All that I remember is my dad bringing me into bed and my body started spazing out. I woke up this morning feeling really sick. And really upset because it didnt work.And the sad thing is htough.. If it had... I'm sure that my dad wouldnt have noticed and my mother wouldnt have noticed becaused she was on drugs and passed out. I just dont know what to do with my self. I need some advice. I also feel embarassed.. because after I tok the pills (they were sleeping pills) I wasnt in the right state of mind.. and one of my teachers IMed me when I was online and we had a conversation about stuff becasue I asked them if they ever knew a friend that tried to commit suicide... I mean come on now! wouldnt that just blow your mind? ugh. I dont know what to do. Someone please help me. I'll rate...If thats what it takes to get a decent answer (link)
Ok no matter how terrible life gets you should never end it. You'll have a happier life if u stop. Try to think of the good things in life.
And remember* Time Fixes EvErYtHiNg*

~TrIsH


How do I get my hair to become straight and stay like that? It's a little wavy right now. What kind of products should I use? My hair is kind of thick too. (link)
lol Its called a straightner.... lol they have wet hair straightners too to save you time!
Ceramic ones are the best!
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!


what are some good "truths" and "dares" for "truth or dare"?! (link)
I have awesome dares... muhahhaha i stole them from when me and my friends play!
*if your outside lick a lamp post
*Eat dog food or treats
*Prank phone call somebody
Thats all i can think about now!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!


My dog just ate 4 or 5 thin mint girl scout cookies. In case you don't know what those are, they're cookies with a lot of chocolate. He already finished them by the time I tried to get them away from him. I know that chocolate is very bad for dogs, and I'm really scared. I'm home alone so I can't go to the vet right now, and my mom won't be home until later tonight. Do you think he'll be okay? Is there anything I can do? Please help! I rate 5's!!! (link)
if you have the vets phone#... call the vet and ask them wat to do!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY & TrIsh


ok well i really love my best friend. im serious. and i want to ask her out but i dont want us to break up and not be friends anymore.wat should i do? (link)
Well.... first of all it depends... r u a grl or boy? LOL just jokin!!!!!!!!!!! anywayz, i wouldnt ask her out. I mean i went out with a friend before and now were not such good friends anymore... so i wouldnt because after you break up... things might be awkward or you guys might not just be friends anymore! trust me... i kno from experince!!
Hope WE helped!
MoStLy MaNdY!


im 23 and have had pretty bad teeth for a while . pretty large gap aand they stick out, apart from that I am really happy with my looks, but it is getting worse and worse as the days go by , not smling etc , should I confront my fear at 23??? what other options do I have? (link)
You should ask your dentist for braces!! I kno some of my friends moms have braces and trust me they are much older than you!! oh yesh and if you dont like the metal ones, they have these kind called Invisaline or something like that... im sure you have heard of them!! Or if you want to kno more just ask your dentist!!
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!


i flirt alot with a lot of different guys and i have a boyfriend is that bad? (link)
Yesh, it is bad. Because if your boyfriend gets mad about you flirting with other guys when you with him... he might get really mad and break up with you! Just try not to flirt a lot with other guys!!
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!


well i love my girlfriend with all my heart, she's the sweetest girl ever i would do anything for her, but lately it seems like shes losing interest in me what should i do.. i dont want to lose her because i would be lost.. i just dont know what to do. (link)
I would take her out somewhere and do something fun!! Or tell her how you feel!
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!


Any girls out there with really thick,corse and/or frizzie hair wut do you do to calm it down because mine is all three and it takes me an hour to straighten it when it is dry.

Any suggestions

i have a good straighnter-ceriamic

dont tell me to use freeze stuff on my hair it works but u cant tell. (link)
You can try a wet hair straightner!
Hope it helped!
MaNdY!


i have to do a oral presentation tomorrow and i am NOT good at this at all. when i start talking i usually forget and i dont know what to say next so i bascially stumble, so i need GOOD tips on how to focus and i do have notecards butt i cant use them alot so PLEASEE help me !!! (link)
Ok.. this is wat i do... if your able to being notecards up there... then do that and write down the key things in your oral presentation... so if you forget you can just look down for a second and maybe it will come back to you!
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!


When is a good time to tell your boyfriend of a year that the relationship is getting too serious and you're not realy for it? (link)
I think that anytime you and your boyfriend are just alone and relaxin and be like "Oh i have to tell you how i feel about our realtionship." And he will listen and be concerned if he is a good boyfriend!
hope i helped!
MaNdY!


what is jesse mcartney's phone number
like a calling number/example/2864152

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Ummm... personally... i d k but jessie mcartney suck ducks for all i care :O!
lol sry!
MaNdY!




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