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Alot of People think i can be mean at times, which yes, i can. But I only speak the truth. I do not sugarcoat anything so I hope you do not take it personally. If you ask a stupid question, I'm going to give you a stupid answer. You can rate me 1's all your heart desires, but I don't care. Sometimes people need to hear the truth, instead of just, "Oh yeah..everything will be OK."
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I'm going to the movies tomorrow with my BF. I really wanna make out with him but idk how and i find french kissing discusting (Ive never done it but still just the thought of it creeps me out) Is there anyway to make out WITHOUT using the tongue?

PLEASE ANSWER THIS! I RATE HIGH! (link)
Sure there are. Just don't make out with your tongue. You answered your own question, doll.


i want to break up with my girlfriend but let her down easy, like break it to her softly and u know not an insensitive im dumping u manner just like a lets be friends 13/m (link)
Darling, you're only 13 years old. No matter how you break up with her, she shouldn't care because you're only 13 years old.


does anyone one if like school nurses give pregnency tests or anything (link)
Probably not, unless your school encourages unprotected sex.


i saw on a preview of a movie called "40 year old virgin" and he says "you best have a big trunk because i'm bout to put my bike in it" if a guy did that to you girls, what would yall do? because someone said that to my friend and she wanted to know what she should do! (link)
If he said that to me? I would smack him! Haha...that is just about the stupidest thing to say. I think your friend should dump this guy because A. He uses lines from movies as pick up lines and B. That was just about the worst and most disgusting pick up line he oculd use.


i really get along with my best friend, soo well that i love him as a best friend. but when i do something wrong he makes me tell him, and then when he does something wrong i have to beat it out of him and he stil is pissedin the end. i hate life rite now, why can;t it just go back to when it only hurt when u fell phsycially not , emotionaly too. tonite is hopeless...

~That Undescided GiRl ~
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Aww, you poor emo child. Anyways, I see no question in what you wrote, so therefore I cannot answer a question that was not asked.


if you talk to a boy online and you never saw him and you love eachother and have soo much in common and stuff, is that considered have a boyfriend even though you have never saw him and stuff?? bc i really love this guy and he feels the sam way but he lives real far away. is this like a boyfriend? and if it is say i went out with him and then i have a boyfriend here, would that be cheating on my online boyfriend?
I RATE SOOOO HIGH!!!
please help me quick!!

signed,
young, curious and in love (link)
What do you mean you rate SOOO high? The highest you can rate is a five, so yeah.....Find a Real boyfriend.

I am expecting a five by the way.


alright, certain people that i noe are WAY into my business. and it really bothers me because its my family. and its like i cant even tell my own mother a secret because she's gonna tell my grandmother and my aunt and then my uncle finds out and then my grandmother's siter's find out and before i noe it, the entire family noes the secret that i told my mother. and when my mother tells me a secret, and tells me not to tell anybody, i dont. and then she tells everybody about it! and when i just try to talk 2 her she starts yelling and it just makes me very upset. is there anything that i can do to avoid this problem? and i dont think it would help 2 say not 2 tell my mother anymore secrets because she sits next to me wenever im instant messsaging on the computer and reading everything i write. and sumtimes, she duznt always sit by me on the phone, but @ times she walks by and sumtimes tells me that im saying stupid things if whoever im on the phone with is talking about random topics. im really sorry that i meade this kinda long but i really dont noe how else to shorten it. i just need sumone to help me out with this. i rate high (link)
Well, first of all, I wouldn't tell her secrets in the first place. I never tell my mom secrets. And second, just tell her you need some space. i mean you're seventeen years old for gods sake!


Ok WEll when ever im at my house and i do something god without being told my mom is always proud of me and if i ask her for something like a shirt of the internet she will say yes since ive done so much work well today i went online and found 2 things i really liked and i was going to do stuff like vacume and mow the lawn to get it but unfornalty my mom already hired someone to mow the lawn and she already cleaned the whole house. I know you guys dont know what my house looks like but do u think you could like give me some suggestions on somethings to clean up or somethings good that you know you can thnk of thx!ill rate on anyones good advice
Sarah (link)
Clean the bathrooms. believe me she will buy you whatever you want for that!


my boyfriend went to college on thursday.. hes a freshman.. and im a junior in high school. he went out lastnite n stayed out til 5 am n didnt go to bed til 7 am..im wondering what he did in between those hours..and i dont want him to be out partyin all the time cause i know he'll cheat on me. as much as he says he wont..i really think he will. we wont be able to see eachother alot because hes away at school..should i worry? please help ill rate high (link)
If you know he'll cheat on you, then why are you going out with him?


So we just started school back up this Tuesday and I like it just fine. But the only problem is that I don't have any friends. And I sit alone at lunch, and all the kids look at me like "OMG what a loser.." I actually heard some kid behind me say to one of his friends about "oh look at the girl sitting by herself" and he laughed like it was the funniest thing in the world.

I am a very shy person, and I have actually tried to go up to a few people and ask if I can sit with them. They say yes but don't talk to me and make me feel really uncomfortable around them so it's pointless to sit with them. I have contemplated just going to sit in the bathroom or library at lunch.

But the only problem with that is I have to eat during lunch, because if I don't, when I come home I'll eat alot. My mom and I get food stamps and every month they lower the price so I can't eat all the food. What do I do? Do I just suck it up and sit by myself everyday? Or do I just not eat so much? Please help! I will rate! (link)
Wow. This is so simple. Go to a table, and ask someone if you can sit with them. Or just inrtoduce yourself. Duhhh.....And just eat alot at school especially if you get free lunches. Yum Yum!


i heard that if you put toothpaste on your pimple overnight, the next day it because less red and smaller. do ya think colgate works well ? (link)
Are you too poor to afford pimple medications or something? They're only like 4 dollars you know....


Hey my name is meaghan, and I really want a nickname for myself besides meg. I`m having a hard time finding a nickname, i just want a pretty one, not a goofy-ish one...i used to have the nickname mya but i got sick of it, so if anyone has any ideas on what i could use as a nickname, i would love to hear your ideas!


things about me:

I`m 15
Puerto rican, colombian , spanish
Dark hair

just in case you needed that to help you think of ideas.


THANK Y0U S0O0O0O MUCH ! x3 (link)
spanita
or
columba

because they have to do with your heritage and I think those names are totally neato.


Ok so my friend had a guy she barely knew go down on her like 2 months ago...and yesterday she noticed a red bump on her vagina..she was sorta worried about it but wasnt sure if it was an std from the guy or just a bump. If someone transfer an std to you..will symptoms show up right away? (link)
your friend is a retard. I hope she has an STD.


What are some things that turn on a guy whenever a girl does something?
[Example: Biting ear, kissing neck?] (link)
Getting a hammer and smashing his head continuesly, will turn him on.


im sure everygirl has the problem but i am confused me and my bf were at a party on the golf course and there was the bench like away from everyone he asked if i wanted to go up there with him and i said yes...so we went up there and all he did was sit there and barely even talked...i was kinda let down if u know what i mean.. but finally he started to talk and all of our freidns came up there being there nosey little selves........it seems like im making the first moves ..... i know he likes me but how or what can i do to make him come out of his shell (link)
Heres what you do: slam him up against a wall and scream, "LOVE ME IDIOT." Haha no....but really just get to know him better and tell your friends to bug off.


This may sound odd, but how do you grind? (link)
You're disgusting! Grinding is for losers who want to encourage sex with strangers. Chances are, if your asking what grinding is, you shouldn't be doing it.


my boyfriend always claims he misses me whenever i'm gone but i'm always the one that has to say it. what's up with that? (link)
Thats weird. How do you know if he misses you if he never says it? he is obviously less ensitive than you are. So just wait on those awkward silences until he breaks down and tells you that he missed you.




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