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That's a big word,..lol, but i think i know what it means. Well, this shouldn't be to hard unless you dont know what to look for. She'll flirt with him alot,..look at him occassionaly just to make sure he's lookin' back, she'll either always hang around him or look at him to see if he's coming smile then walk off if she's shy. I mean you could just ask and be like, "I was just wonderin' ya know?" i mean if you're real good friend's she'd tell you. And if not you could ask one of her best friends. Because that's one of the first rules of the Girl Code of Conduct. It's not written down but we just know what it is. And if she doesn't tell you just look for the signs!

♥Paige

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I tried that pencil trick with the girl i like, but she didnt react.Is that good or bad?

It doesn't work all the time. I do it to my friend and we're just jokin'. But, that's not necessaryly bad. Maybe she just thinks you're an idiot. It more works with guys than girl. I mean if you want to flirt just, look at her alot, i mean dont drool, then she'll think you're a retard. I mean different girls like different things so i just need to know more about this girl to help you further. Just write back and i'll help best i can!!

♥Paige

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17/f

is it wrong to think lustfully about others? i mean i can understand if it gets 2 be a constant thing and you objectify them, then its bad.. but is it really that bad 2 have inappropriate thoughts if its only ocasionally? please help

Occasionally its not. But if its constant thats bad. Because you know lust is a dealy sin right? SO i mean you can do it every now and then but dont keep it up

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13/f ok so i have this bf and i am so freaked becasue we are goign to stay home and see a movie this weekend but i dont know if he is the type to make a move how do i tell if he is liek that and how or when he will makle the move

Well,...he's use the 'ol "i'm stretchin'" trick and he'll move real close and not pay attetion to the movie and keep lookin at you. He's keep his hand on your knee or on yours,...or atleast he'll try.

Hope I Helped!!!

♥Paige

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heyy! ok well this guy that i know pretty well goes to my school, and hes in the same grade as me. well he cheats on every single girlfriend he has... and see last year, he would try and hold my hand, touch my thigh, and touch my butt...he was touchy feely... hahaha. well anyways, this year, like 2 fridays ago.. i kinda started to like him... and well i gave him a HUGGEEE hug when the football game was over! like me and him were linked together... we were flirting big time... i just dont know if i should go out with him ((if he asks)) cause like i like someone else to... PLEASE HELP!
will rate 5's((if good))

Well,...if you're open to being hurt then I say go for it. but,...maybe you can do like a friends with benifits kind of thing? So,..I mean neither one of you..((you expecially)) wont get hurt..that much if any. I don't go out with touchy feely guys myself, but my friend does. But maybe you like him because there's not a reason not to? Dont criticize me on that. But if you're open to do things with him that he wants or open to being hurt then I guess he's the guy for you right now.

♥Paige

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i'm a guy, 14 yrs. old. here's my dilemma. this girl has a boyfriend right, and everyday in class we hug and talk till class starts. she doesn't even act like she has one. my question is what do i do now, i'm totally clueless.

Honey, she's just flirty. Maybe she likes you, but I doubt it. But, if you make a move, things could get awkward between both of you. Just continue doing what your doing,..just dont make out with her or anything more...

Hope I helped!

*Paige

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Do guys just want girls who are hot? Or something more?

YES! Well, I mean most of them. Guys, you got to understand, are PERVS! I mean they may not show it at first but I mean, come on! But it just takes time for him to relize your personality and everything.

♥Paige

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I'm currently working on getting in shape for the upcoming volleyball season. I'm an average healthy weight but I have a gut. It sticks out almost 2 inches above my spandex. My thighs also bulge out about 1 1/2 inch. Does anyone have some good workouts that will target these areas? Or any websites that would help me out? ( Please not toneteen.com ) Thankss :)

My school volleyball season just ended, but my travel team has just begun. And recently i just had my sides toned in one day of practice. Like, somethings that we did were, run, obviously, do like 50 push-ups but, look at your feet when you do it, i know its completly weird but it worked for me, and crab-walks, do it real fast forward, then do it back-wards!

Hope I helped

♥

*Paige

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i have always loved "boy" we were together for two years then broke up. we are now best friends. however, he is now with my best friend and i still love him. he is so affectionate towards me and he just makes me feel for him even more. she is getting tired of him treating her bad (but she hasnt told me) supposedly a lot of people at my school now i like boy and she has probably heard the rumor. i know they are ending their relationship. what should i do?

I got the same problem/situation whichever applys to you. Anyway, you should probably get her permission. That's like one of the most important rules in the girls guide. Even though it's not written down you just know you're suppose to do it. And if she says 'no' just wait a while. Flirt, just drop little hints that you still like him so he wont stray or think that you're over him!

Hope I helped

&heart;

*Paige

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Ok, well i just watched Saw 1 with my friend the other day. It was a great movie!!! Ok but i am confused about one thing. So anyone who might have seen it, please answer this question!!??

Ok, well u know at the end when the guy is closing the door on adam, well does the doctor get out of the room or does he get trapped in to? gosh like part of me thinks he got out and part of me thinks he was still in there. Well thanks for any help!!

Both guys stay in there to die.

hope i helped

&hearts

*Paige

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okay this is going to sound weird and funny okay so i like this guy a lot and there is this other guy which i dont like but i think he likes me or something and like for the past 2 weeks i dream about that 2nd guy like every night does that mean i like him because im pretty sure i like the other guy! im so confused

Not really, I mean dreams are basically just thoughts that you're mind filters out sometimes. Like you can have a dream of someone you don't even know but that doesn't mean you're suppose to be with them or find them. It's just a dream.

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What's the difference between dating and "going out"?? Thanks!

Like dating is like when you repeatedly see someone and goin out is when you do it only a once or a couple times and you dont really have feelings for one another

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Hey...I so tired of people right now. Everyone is getting mad at me, and I havn't done anything, and this is just a really hard time for me..because of family problems. I just can't handle, it ecesspecailly now when I don't think my boyfriend likes me anymore...WHAT SHOULD I DO???????????

Hmm,....i wonder gosh i think this is my best friend but i dont know! so,..you should just tell everyone to leave you alone and hang out with the people you know wont get mad at your for nothing ((your best/true friends)). And you're boyfriend he's a different story. I mean if you have family problem is this really the best time for a boyfriend? I mean honestly. You dont really have time and if you're not in any of his classes ((assuming you're in school)) then whats the point really? there's more to life than boyz, but they have their role, but i mean you just need to relax and hang with your friends, and if you're family is pissin you off or somethin tradgic has happend you need to have some time to yourself to sort things out in your head. And i know you may know some of this and my advice may suck ass but i mean sometimes i really can help and i hope i helped you!

&hearts

*Paige

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what should you wear under the spandex you wear in volleyball??

A thong, i dont do it since my come up so high, but alot of the older girls do.

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Has anyone here read the Goblet of Fire? I'm about to go see it. I haven't read the book for 2 years, and I need to be refreshed on some things. Why was Ludo Bagman important? Why was Barty Crouch important? Why was Crouch taking PolyJuice Potion in order to look like Moody? And lastly, why were the Death Eaters burning down the place near the beginning of the book?

Thanks

Trinity

I dont know the Ludo Bagman one but, Barty Crouch was a death eater, He took the polly juice potion cuz he was pretending to be Moody and was planning for him to go to the graveyard, and because they're death eaters, there were alot of mud-bloods there.

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I feel like nobody likes me, and I dont know what I do wrong. Are they too embarrassed to talk to me? Or am I non-attractive>

You're not doing anything wrong. Guys,..you should know atleast, are retards. Even the perfect guy is a little retarded. And if he doesn't like you for who you are and if he doesn't think you're the least bit attractive then he's not worth the while. During these times in your life ((just makin a asumtion that you're in middle or high school)) all that matters if gettin' good grades, and pretty much having fun, and hangin' out with your buddies! I havent had a boyfriend in a while and almost all of my friends have a boyfriend ((or girlfriend for my guy friends)) but it bothered me at first and I was pretty despreate but I mean,..after a while you relieze that sometimes having a boyfriend just holds you back when you need to move forward. Guys really just see looks....at first. But I mean you don't have to be attractive to get a guy. And if you are gettin' bored or really want someone, you make the first move.

Good luck!

&&*hearts

*Paige

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so i have this " friend " , right ?? well she doesn't go to my school, but she says shes my friend or whatever. but i dont know what she really says abt me to her friends at school or whatever. i call her my friend , but idk what she says. how do i know if this girl is really my friend or not ??

Well,...if there have been any recent rumors about you, or around the time you 'befriend' her, up to now then obviously no. but, i have friends from other schools and they dont talk about me. I mean like if you dont really hang out with her or you dont really try to get to know each other better then no. i really hope this isnt who i think it is because i'd be really sad because if you are the person i think you are i really am your friend! my mouse doesnt have balls lol! if you get that then you're the person i think you are. And if she really is your friend you should talk almost everyday and you can tell her anything even knowing that she wouldnt tell a soul. and you have alot of insiders.

*Paige

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How does a gurl flirt so that aguy would be interested?

i'll tell you a few things that i do/ have done. like if he's wearing a hat i just take it and put it on and start running around so he cant get it back. or switch your pencial with his ((yes i know its retarded but it's worked)). Like whenever he's looking at you, smile and then look away.

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what does "525,600 minutes" mean??.. i did know but i forgot??..thankss..

*ALL 5'S!*

it's from the cermercial "Rent" and thats how many minutes are in a year.

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