Hey, my name is Ana Barrera. Im 14. I have brown/black hair, dark brown eyes. I basically give my friends advice when ever they need it, and my advice always helps. I like to dance, draw, and in the near future I hope to be a DJ at the hottest club in LA, California. I love to hang out with my friends alot. On my free time I give people advice.
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I really like this guy lets call Him "gabe" well Ok I met him like 3 days ago well OK I met him like 6 weeks ago but we never really noticed eachother till now. well when I met him we were at a party type thing and He drove me and my friend home But he ended up staying over at her house with us and me and him were talking and stuff then all of a sudden we were holding hands next thing U know were making out and kissing and everything else at school he doesnt ignore Which is kewl U know he even kisses me and everyones like "oh you and Gabe are so cute together" Even though were not going out at all but Hes 18 and IM 14 is it wrong (link)
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To me nothing is wrong about that, I mean if u really like the guy then it shouldn't matta the age difference. So if u really like him then go for it, but please, please don't go too far with him. But age doesn't matta if ur in love.
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i need a homecoming date and all these girls wanna go with me but i dont no who to take. i like them all but none more then the other. i dont wanna make ne of them feel bad. wuts a good way to pick the right one? (link)
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I think that u should dress the part of a pimp or sumthin, cuz it would be awsome if u went to homecomeing with the girls and u would be considered a pimp. Oh and this is comin for a gurl, odd for a gurl to say this ain't it? Anyway i think that it would be funny a ned awsome if u went as a pimp and dressed as a pimp goin to homecomeing with all those gurls.
Let me kno how it goes!!
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My mom doesn't think I should have a boyfriend but I'm 13!!! I think this unfair because a lot of my friends have boyfriends. I had to reject three people I might have said yes to, including the guy I like.I try talking to my mom about it but she just won't budge. I can't have a boyfriend until highschool!
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If anyway possible try to say yes to a guy and deon't tell ur mom. I kno that this might be no help but I guess to me that would be the only way.
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whenever i get a zit, i get everything out of it, but then the next day its bigger than it was when i popped it! help!
-JeNNi (link)
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Try puttin on sum vineger right after u pop the zit, it will stin ALOT but it will help. Trust me!!!
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i just burned myself on the oven rack in my oven. its blistering now, will i have a scar? it was 450 degrees to let you know...any advice? (link)
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Try puttin sum neasporn and rap it up in sum kind of medical fabric wrap. Leave it on there for a while it should be fine.
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Hey, Im 13 and Im in 8th grade, and I have a crush on Travis my friend hes also 13 and in 8th grade. We have alot in common, but Ive always been kinda shy and not telling people that I like them. But i wrote travis a note one day that i thought he was hott i didnt get a bad responce:) or a good one :(, and nothing is different between us and we are still good friends, i talk to him all the time. I wanna go out with him, but Im afraid of rejection so I dont know if I should ask him out. I feel that he might like me but I can never be positive. One of my bestfriends, Brittany thinks I should ask him out cuz if i dont i might miss a chance to go out with him if he likes me, and he might get over me and go out with someone else:( SO... my question is should i ask him out, i would really appreaciate your advice! THANKS!
im very scared and confused!! (link)
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I think that u should talk to him in person tell him wat u r goin through. And ur friend Brittany is right cuz u might miss the chance and u will regret eva not askin him out, and u shouldn't live with regretion. So if u want talk to in person or wright him another note, and see wat he says. If when u wrote him the first note and nothing happened bad happened with u guys then u should feel comfortable to say wats on ur mind to him, and if he's not a jerk then I think that u should go for it and ask him out!!!
Hope I helped. Let me kno how it goes!!
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Ok, well this guy and I just started going out. I like him so much and he likes me too obviously. Well we've only been going out for a day. Today at school I acted all weird. I mean I like him a lot but he makes me shy. I didn't talk to him much and tried to avoid him a little. I really want us to work out as a couple. What do you guys think I should do in order to not be shy and talk to him and such. I have had boyfriends so its not like I'm stupid, this guy just makes me shy like no other boyfriend has. Thanks :) (link)
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Don't worry about that, in time u won't feel shy about him at all. So everything will work out. Trust me!
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Ok, Im turning 15 soon can you guys give me some things i can do for a birthday party. That will be fun and not major expensive. Thanks so much! Btw, please dont delete (link)
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I think that u should go to a teen dance club in ur area with sum of ur closest friends.
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Is it ok to not want to kiss your boyfriend? I mean, I do want to but not just yet, we've been going out for a week is that ok? (link)
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Don't worry about it, I mean me and my ex b/f didn't kiss until the 4th month. So if u don't feel confortable kissin him yet that is kool.
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i just got around to my 7th day of my period and it was pretty much all done [less and less coming out], but all of a sudden, it got really heavy again!! why is this happening? does it happen a lot during this time? (link)
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don't worry about it, it's normal!
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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days? (link)
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We have our period for like week.
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Hi ! Ok here it goes..This summer i broke up with my boy friend of 10 months for a guy i met on the internet ! Now me and my new boy friend are really close and i love him alot ! But recently i started hanging out with my ex and i still love him too..what should i do ????? (link)
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I think that u should breake up with ur b/f and then stay single for a while and see wat happens. I kinda kno wat ur goin throught cuz just today I broke up with my b/f of 6 months and I am now regreting it and I like my bestfriend alot and he was goin to ask me out today (i think) and he ended up goin outwith sum otha chic, but it happened for the best reason, cuz now I can find out wat I want.
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Today everybody forced me and my boyfriend to kiss and we did but I totally freaked out as soon as I felt his tongue and jumped back going: Ew! He got really pissed and ran off. I thought everything was over until I saw him and we hugged and he said it was OK. Now he's gone cold on me, hung up on me and switched his phone off. I think I've runined everything but I like him so much. I need help and fast. (link)
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Just talk to the guy and explain y u freaked out. If he cares about u then he will totaly understand.
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i just started at a new school last week september 8th the first day i noticed this girl,jasmine had all the same classes as me me not knowing anyone decides to be friendly and say hey im new and i think we have the same class want to walk with em there and jasmine f*ck no f*uckin girls are stupid so i was like w.e and just went to class later dureing that day i realize she in every one of my classes!i didnt say anything to her the next day in Health we had to ask everyone what there favorite show was mine was boy meets world and she yells out boy meets world is like 70 years old her is full house and this kid dustin says yea and so is fullhouse she gos ya well at least its good and today she made fun of my friends outfit and my voice and just other stupid things....im very girly i dont have that many friends becuase im new but im making it it always seems like im the kind of girl that girls like jasmine love to pick on(she thinks she all that)but why do you think shes doing this she dont evan know me?and what am i spose to do next time shes talkin crap bout me? (link)
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The only reason that she is pickin on u is becuz she has nuthin better to do, so the next time she starts pickin on u again just act like she doesn't bother u, and she will realize that she can't hurt u. So if she says sumthin like " u r so stupid!" or sumthin like that just say "...ok". That's how I act around bitches like that.
Let me kno how it goes.
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ok...well tomorrow is picture day, and i have this zit!! YIKES!! so...how can i make it go away by tomorrow? (link)
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Try popin it then putting vinager on it, it's goin to sting like hell but it will work.
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i like this guy and him and his girlfriend just broke up today.. if i ask him out, is taht bad? because me and his ex are like friends but not really (link)
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Just wait a little while (like a month) and then u can ask him out.
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I have known this guy since 5th grade and i'm in 9th now. His name is Nick. In elementary we were practically enemies. We would fight all the time. Well at the time i was in love with his best friend Gabe. Well this past yr (in 8th grade, i had religion class with Nick and I thought that if i could maybe get closer to Nick that it would help me get close to Gabe like i wanted to. Instead of all that happening i just got closer to Nick and started to fall for him. Now i feel like he is the best person that i ever met because we connect in a way that i never have before. The thing is, he is going to a different school. I am going to one in Clearwater and he is going to one in Tarpon Springs. Now I feel like I am in misery because I didn't make a move and I don't know when I am ever going to see him again. And as many guys as I've met, none of them are as good as he was. I miss him so much. What do I do now? (link)
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Well if u really think that u like the guy the get his numba and/or his email/sn. So u guys could keep in touch. Don't think to urself that ur neva goin to see him again cuz eventually u will.
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Well, ive been a cutter for about..1/2 a year now. And i cut on my wrist..(i was pissed) and i went out without my wrist band on, and i think my mom saw! what if she sends me away to a mental hospital!?
Please help!
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Just let ur mom come to u and talk to u about it, but I think that the best choice is to tell her about cutting. I kno it might be hard to but it's better for her to find out by u than from sumone else. Trust me I was cutter and my friend to the counsler and she called my parents. So just try to tell ur mom that u cut and u will be glad u did.
Let me kno how it goes!
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my mom recently found out ive been cutting myself so now she questions it all the time and along with alot of other people do! i just want them to back off, its kind of a personal problem. what should i do? pleez help n' thanks. (link)
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I think that u should try to help urself to stop cutting, I mean I use to be a cutter and I help myself to stop by thinkin wat i have to look forward to in life like, getting married, having kids and all that otha stuff. So just think of all the things that u will be able to do in the near future.
Hope I helped!
P.S. and it also helps if u have one really close friend that tells u wat will happen if u die. I have this friend Zach, and he helped me stop cutting cuz he made me realize wat I have to look forward to in life.
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I go out with this guy and I REALLy like him, I mean REALLY. I want to do things with him like kiss etc but all our friends follow us around and tease us and we never get to spend time alone. Like, someone will say: Izzi kiss Jon and I just can't do it with everyone there. It makes me really embarassed and I get scared that Jon will think that I don't want to when I DO. I tried to tell my friends to leave me alone and they kinda do, but everyone else doesn't. (link)
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Don't feel presured to do anything that u don't want to. I mean my friend told my b/f to kiss me and I told him that I don't want him to kiss me just becuz sumone tells him to, I want him to kiss me when he wants to, and so he waited awhile to kiss me, but it was well worth it. So what Im tryin to say is that kiss the guy when u want to and when u feel the time is right. Then u will realize that ur happy u waited to kiss him and will realize that it was worth the wait.
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