Hello, My name is Megan, and I am a splendid listener. Have you ever a problem, IM me, I'm always on, or comment to one of my posts. I'm a really nice girl, and get along well with others.
Gender: Female
Location: Michigan
Occupation: Sophomore
Age: 15
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Member Since: August 8, 2004
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my bf and i have been together 4 2 yrs now.. we love eachother completly and we trust eachother and all.. my parents r really strict and they dont noe im wit him! i found out tat my bf is going to another skool so he can improve his grades.. n i really dont mind i meen i do cuz im not gunna see him as much but i trust him and he told me tat no matter wat we r gonna b together.. he said tat we could see eachother during the weekends n stuff but i dnt think ill b able to see him tat much and i donno im scared about the whole thing.. any advice would b helpful.. tanx (link)
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I can't understand your question.....Spelling things right would help.
-Advice-
Learn to spell, and trust your boyfriend. Cause if you did, you wouldn't be asking us this.
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Ok I am really sad for my brother right now :'(, well here is the story please help me on what I should do to help him.
Ok, My brother had a gilfriend when they broke up she said bad things about him to his friends and now he doesn't have any friends, which he had a lot of them. He was also a popular guy and he is about to turn 20, but I need help he is very depressed to have no one as a friend I feel very sorry for him. Please tell me some ways he could get either his friends back or find new friends I have no clue cause I am not 20 I am much younger but please help me so I can help my brtoher I feel like I shouldn't have friends just because he doesn't. thanx for helping me (link)
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Oh dear. Well, if your brothers friends believes rumors from his ex-girlfriend, then they're not friends at all. Tell your brother to get up from his slum, and make new friends, because if he is/was popular, i'm sure friend-making comes easy.
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ok i just started high school a few days ago and its really hard to make friends b/c they all pretty much came from all the same schools and everyone already has friends and groups already and i dont... ive met some ppl but we arent like close or anything so what should i do (link)
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You've met people. Thats good, blosom those "relationships" into something more close. If you can meet people, and they like you as a person, keep doing what your doing. Just keep it real, and be yourself.
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I'm going out with this boy. His name is Brandon. Well Brandon and I just recently, but today I found out my freind Chase wants to go out with me now. He didn't tell me this, but my friend sent me a convo with her and Chase and he said he only wants to go out with me and I'm the only girl that he likes, but he's too afraid to say anything because he knows I won't break up with Brandon for him. You see, me and Chase had a thing in the beginning of the year, but he had a girlfreind, so I ended up always being kind of the fall back girl and now that him and his girlfriend broke up for good, he realizes how much I really meant to him. I really don't know what to do. I like Chase, but I like Brandon to. They are both so different so it's really hard to decided. Brandon is really hott, and really popular. A lot of girls like him, so I'm not too sure if he really likes me because I'm really not that popular, nor am I all that pretty, so there's just something about that that makes me think that maybe he's cheating on me or maybe he really doesn't like me. Chase is really hott too, and he's really sweet and I know he would never cheat on me. I just don't know what to do. (link)
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This is what bugs me. Each guy, Chase and Brandon, seem to be really "hott". Why do looks matter? Or popularity? In my own opinion, you should tell Brandon how you feel about Chase, and tell Chase as well, if Brandon gets upset, then kick him to the curb, Chase seems like a better guy anyways. Because you're worried about Brandon cheating on you, and not really likeing you, yet you refrain from displaying those feelings about Chase, so I say go for Chase.
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Well me and my friends are going out tommrow in hte woods to drink i drink alot but not so often so that isnt the big deal i guess but see im only in middle school and theyre bring chronic so they can try it and I REEEEELLYYY I WANNA TRY IT TO jsut to see what it is like you know?but trust me i do not think im going to get addicted to it what should i do tho? (link)
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but trust me i do not think im going to get addicted to it what should i do tho?
How can we trust you with that statement, if you cant even trust yourself enough to solve the problem yourself? It seems as if you're worried about getting addictied. The only way you wont get addicted is if you DON'T DO IT.
It dosn't matter what grade,age,gender,race you are. Doing drugs is W-R-O-N-G.
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does ne one know a song that's like
"I can see you"
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"Summer of.."
that's all i really know of it. it's a guy rock band. (link)
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Boys of Summer by The Ataris.
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ok in this highschool im goin to its a REALLY bad school lol its ghetto..and yea anyways im not pretty or anything im over weight and yea u get the point but my question is how do i get more boys as friends? thanks! ( im really shy by the way ) (link)
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Darlin', Don't be worried about your weight! You want friends that will like you for YOU not what you look like, or you size. I'm sure you're a beautiful person inside and out! Just, be nice to everyone, and treat people with respect. =)
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theres this guy and we hang out in school or we used to schools out for now... well ya his exgirlfriend keeps iming mii saying he likes me. and shes like do u like him and i paniced and said no cuz i thought that wuz the best thing. i dont like going far with boys. im 13. making out maybe. i only made out once n that was in 5th grade. lol. i ended up thinking it wuz nasty cuz all his saliva was in my mouth. lol. but i dk i think that wuz cuz it wuz my first time. well the reason i said no is his exgirlfriend use to always make out in the hall way and i kno im not gunna do that. the 5th grade make out session was in front of one person. lol. and i wuz nervous evem with just one. well i wouldnt be able to be better then that you know wut i mean. he already had better then me so... well i paniced and i said i didnt like him that way and the other day the exgirlfriend imd me a chat invitation i took it and the guy wuz there. i freaked out. lol. my heart was pounding really fast. well ya i think i sounded really stupid in the hole conversation. i dk but she copied and pasted sumthing like he wrote it and it said dont tell karen i like her and karen lol thats me. but then he wuz like i didnt say that. {{no affence karen}} so then w/e. i dk wut does all this mean?? im really confused. in my opionn i dont think he likes me. (link)
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Hun, If he likes you, he will respect your descions not to "Make out in the hallway". But what you need to do, is be honest with him and tell him you like him. Okay?
-Megan
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i need alot of glitter names can someone plez give me REALLY good glitter name websites plez ill rate a 5 or n e thing dont say angel kissz or w/e i dun lik that one!! thanx! (link)
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Try www.iconator.com It has icons with glitter background, and they have names on them. So..Maybe that'll help.
Good luck!
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ok.i got this new courdoroy tan/white skirt..what kind of shoes would be best to wear with it? Im not the best walker in heals lol. Would plain white sneakers be good? What kinda "fancier" shoes would be best?
Also..i have split ends...but i like my long hair..does layering it sound like a good idea? (link)
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White sneakers would be P-E-R-F-E-C-T. Or, if you're wearing jeans, a nice and simple pair of flip-flops give an elegant flair to a simple outfit!
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Hey..I wanna call my ex bf and ask him to hang out..like go to a movie or something. Hes a nice guy and hes single..he flirted with me last year..when i call him what should i say? im pretty sure he wont turn me down..so im confident..just start me off? lol thanks
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Hey _____ How are you? I havn't talked to you in ages! Anything new? *Wait for responce* And if he asks you the same thing, Just be like "Oh well, I'm so bored....I was looking online and I heard that new movie _____________ is really good, and I know how much you love *Insert type of movie* So, Maybe you wanna catch it with me? *Wait for responce* If he says yes "Oh, awesome, how bout meeting me there/picking me up at *Insert time here* Okay, bye!.
If he says no "Oh, Okay, well call me up if you ever want to hang, i'm avalible!"
Hope it helped, doll. Goodluck.
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My boyfriend is leaving for Tennesee tomorrow and im really depressed about it. He's moving in with his mom and I probably won't see him much anymore since I live in Illinois. I spent the night with him last night, and im doing the same tonight, but im wondering if there is any way to make his leaving easier on me. I really love him, and i dont want him to know how upset I really am.
Is there any way I can ease the pain of him leaving me?
**we're going to try a long distance relationship, but it still won't be the same as having him here!** (link)
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I'm sorry sweetheart, this must be very difficult for you. :/ What you should do, is let him know how much you love him, tell him you do. And write him everyday letting him know you care,and if he really loves you, who knows, perhaps wedding bells is in the furture. My advice is, get a gallon of cookie dough, a good lifetime movie, and a cushy couch. That would make me feel better, perhaps taking a nice hot bath. Your heart will heal over time.
-Megan
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well im 13 and my boyfriends 16 going on 17 and his aunt that lives upstairs from came down and tolled me that he had a girlfriend and his juss playing with me.. and then earlier i let him go up my shirt because i trusted him ALOT and everything so when i found out i was a surprise because he tolled he dint have a girlfriend but his not the kind of person that would seem to bee doing sumtting like that because his really nice and den just about everywun sayed he had another girl friend and everything and i really wanna hear it from him and crap because i really really like him and shyt so i dunno what to really do.. to belive everywun else or wait till he comes next week to see me and ask him and i juss dont no anymore if im going to dumo him or not because everywun wants him and shyt and i have him AND I guess some other bitch does too..
what should i doo
p.s he comes every week to see me bacuse his in job tec. and its very very far so he stays thier overnite.. till friday and his like in highschool he sould be a senior but he satyed back 2 times (link)
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Um......Your typing is really messed up. Just ask him. "Have a girlfriend?" yes or no.
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Hey I'm having trouble picking what school I'm going to go to this year. I can choose this one school that goes from 12:30 to 3:30 and get all A's there. The only problem is that all the kids there are drugies and I probably wont be making a lot of friends. It's an alternative school so thats why its easy. My other option would be a school with regular hours but I would not be getting good grades there. Mabye C's and I have really bad anxiety about people so the other school would be better. It has only 5 people in each class room. But all my friends are at my school. I need some advice. Wat school should I choose?!?!?!?!?!?!
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Choose the one where you'll get good grades, because friends wont be getting you into colege.
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im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go? (link)
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Ick. This is a tough one. First off, your parents probably took away your computer because the things they saw on it,they didn't aprove of, and they didn't want you to see something like that. Believe me they do care, because if they didn't would you even be here? Parents are there to give you love and nuture you,not make your life a living hell, even though it may seem like they are. They probably try to read your IMs because they are wondering if you are mixing yourself with the right people or not. So, here is my advice. Talk to them. Tell them that you don't like it when they read your IMs and that they can trust you. They'll come to there senses and understand that even if it seems like they're trying to help,they might make matters worse. So, running away is not an option, it's an easy way out, but things will just turn bad in the end,and after a running away experience, do you think your parents would trust you? They feed you, give you a loving home, and cloth you. Just talk to them.Alls you need is communication. Have you any more questions, IM me at FLCsibling
Have a better day, darling. Things will get better.
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i asked before about if there was anyone that could help me..well if ur a phychic cuz well my boyfriend and i dont get to see each other alot and i juss wanna know if hes chating on me and if hes been tellin me the truth bout everything..i juss want someone that can tell me what is goin on and how things are hopefully im his only gurl.. (link)
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Sweety, A relationship isn't a relationship if you don't have trust. You need to trust your boyfriend if you really care for him. Ask him about it, not us. Go and speak with him, tell him your feelings because right now thats the best thing.
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Hey I was wondering what kind of facewashes are there for guys? cuz i dont want to use chicks facewash. signed
-Circus Freak (link)
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Darling, there isn't a "specific" brand for male or female. It's not as if females have different zits than you. Use clearasil, or just netrogena. Don't be embaressed.
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