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Q: I HAVE THIS EX B/F...WE STILL TALK ON THE PHONE ALOT... AND WE FLIRT ALL THE TIME.. A PART OF ME WANTS TO DATE HIM AGAIN.. BUT THE OTHER PART DOESN'T.. SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME!!

Ask him out, if he says no than you two can still be friends and if he says yes then maybe it will grow into something more.

Q: well i was in gym one time and i fell off of the rope i was climbing. i hurt my arm really bad and my gym teacher told me to stretch it out. he didnt let me go to a nurse. when i got home i went to the emergency room because it hurt really bad. they x rayed it and turns out i fractured it. what should i do about my teacher?

Tell your mom or the principal in your school, or both about your teacher. Tell them in detale what he did and said to you when you hurt your arm.

Q: well the past 3 years me and my ex have been talkin every single day on da phone.. he calls me everyday and he is so sweet to me and so am i but we havent seen each other for 3 years never.......i kno its weird but i kinda liked da way he waz with me and how he called me everyday anywayz today i went to see him and omg i think i like him alottttttttttttttttttt......but i dont know what to do he called me today and we were talking about each other and eerything please help me i like him alot

If you like him, ask him to go out with you. He will probably say yes it sounds like you both like eachother.

Q: hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?

DON'T HAVE A BABY! You may feel like you do but when the time comes you won't like it. Baby's reguire alot of time (obviously) that means you have to care for that baby, no friends, no dating. And since you have to finish school you might have to go to a new one for teenage mothers. It is emotionally and phisically draining to have a baby even for some adults. You should wait until you are old enough to have a job to support the baby.

Q: Hi
I really dont know if Im inlove with this person but every day and night I cant stop thinking about him, he never met me before, but I really always thinking about him this gut is an actor. I know your thinking that this is just crush because his famous and popular because he really is a popular actor. I dont know but when im thinking about him I always think of a lot of good things like we will live happy and I will always protect him..and take care of him I know it's crazy but that's how I feel. im 13 years old and Im a girl... I think that I should forget about him but I know that it's not gonna hapen because his always in my heart...
If there's just something or someway that could help me forget about him I will do even though it's painful but I need to try..
I hope you can help me.
thank you...

Look at the guys in your school, focus on guys you know. And maybe you won't forget about him at first, but if you start to notice other guys you know it will be easier to think less about him and more about them.

Q: well you see, i really want to go to middle school, like BAD! But i have maybe a 89% to go to this acting school, and i ,may even be in a show! what should i do? i will like to go to school with my friends, but this is a one in a lifetime chance!

Signed,
Confused Actress

Well, you should weigh which is more important to you. Going to school with your friends is a good experience, and so it going to an acting school. It all depends on where you are in your life if your life, if you really want to be in a show or movie whatever than go for it! and if it doesn't work out it that means you can try again or go to school with your friends. Either way I don't think you would lose the friends you have if you went to a different school, you would make more friends.
Signed
MapleAdvice11

Q: my sister is having a baby and she really loves symbolic and unique names so i was wondering if i could get some suggestions... thnx :-D

For a boy you could name it Jaden (Jay-den)
For a girl you could name it Kennedy.

Q: im really girly and i am decorating ma room but wot colour shall i do it? its a big room

Well, my sisters room was painted a light green on two walls facing each other and a little darker green on the other two walls facing eachother, it looks good, the room isn't too big or too small.

Q: my mom never spends time with me i ask every day to but she always says she's to busy but she's not i have talded to her before but she just said so what do i do

Sit her down and tell her your feelings. If she knows how you feel she'll most likely find some time to spend with you.

Q: What does the term "in heat" mean when referring to animals? I just know it's somthing sexual..

It means the female animal is realesing a horomone telling male animals to mate with her, in other words she's ovulating, able to be impregnated.

Q: well im 13 years old and i have strech marks on like the top of my legs near my but and when i wear a bathing suit you see them and i am so self consious of them it sucks do you have any ideas on how to get rid of them thanks!

If you went to a high end health food store the people there would be able to give you an ointment for stretch marks. Usually they can be expensive.

Q: Okay so I like this guy and he used to be my b/f but now we're just friends. We went out for almost a year and I still like and I think he still likes me. I want to go out with him again what should I do?

I think you should ask him if he would go out with you again. I mean if he still likes you he will. Or if you don't feel comfortable just plainly asking him to go out do stuff as friends so you guys can get a good relationship and then see if he would like to go out again.

Q: What if you moved away from ALL of your friends and you know you will make new ones, but you want to old ones now!?

Talk to them on the phone and on the computer, it makes you feel better. And you can fly to see them or have them fly to see you. But otherwise talking is the best way to feel close to your friends.

Q: all my friends say im not fat but when we fight they say im fat an ulgy meanwile when we are friends dey say i look good an mad thin.. im 14 an 130 pounds an i think im really fatt! i tryed everything to lose weight but its not working! i was even thinking about throwing up my food :-/ all my other friends are really thing an are like only 65-95 pounds! it really sux! i really dont know what to do any more! iive even tryed to wear diffrent clothes!

-help!

You are not fat. Your friends (depending on their height) seem a little too thin. But believe me you're not fat. DON'T THROW UP! It will only end badly, for one you can lose all of your teeth. And it's over all bad for you. If you want to lose some weight then you could work out or run you know? Maybe go to the gym, but you are not overweight and anyone who tells you that is just being mean and they aren't fighting fair.

Q: My friend has been dating this guy (he's 15 and she's 13)and he wants her to sleep with him. She keeps asking me what to do, but i don't know what to tell her. I know she doesn't love him (i don't even think she likes him) and when ever i tell her what she doen't want to hear(like "no") she gets really mad and goes to our other friend who keeps telling her to do it(but she doesn't even know what she's taking about.) She asks me every day and i'm sick of it! Sometimes i just want to tell her to do it to get her off my back. Please Help!

Tell it to her straight, tell her the risks of having sex and that she can get pregnant. But she might not listen sometimes you can do all you can and the person will still do the wrong thing, so if she does it anyway know that it is not your fault and you did all you can do.

Q: everyone is calling my mom a slut an stuff just cause a few weekz ago at the feast my mom got really drunk (like always) an she wuz actin slutty an stuff (flirtin wit everyone an stuff) she was wearing a really hoochie outfit to an she was like yelling at me cause i was embarrest i tryed to talk to my mom but she kept yellilng at me an sayin "YOUR EMBRARRSING ME FOR CRYING!!!" mean while she was the reason i was crying! i really dont know how to handle my mom! she gets drunk to often! an i think she may be doing pot cause i walk in her room an like it smells like pot or somthing (its so not cigs!)

shell

You need to talk to her about how you feel. Sit her down and tell her how embarrassed you feel when she is drinking. And make sure to do this while she is sober.

Q: My rat is nibbling my finger whenever I put it in his cage and wait for him what does this mean?

It means he thinks your finger is food, it's better to just put pick him up and hold him in your hand.

Q: im baby sitting my sisters baby and she keeps crying ive fed her and changed her nappy wot else can i do?

Try playing a game with her, something that she can do like if she's a baby, play with a stuffed toy. Other wise you can call your parents and tell them that she is crying.