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Question Posted Sunday June 20 2004, 3:27 pm

everyone is calling my mom a slut an stuff just cause a few weekz ago at the feast my mom got really drunk (like always) an she wuz actin slutty an stuff (flirtin wit everyone an stuff) she was wearing a really hoochie outfit to an she was like yelling at me cause i was embarrest i tryed to talk to my mom but she kept yellilng at me an sayin "YOUR EMBRARRSING ME FOR CRYING!!!" mean while she was the reason i was crying! i really dont know how to handle my mom! she gets drunk to often! an i think she may be doing pot cause i walk in her room an like it smells like pot or somthing (its so not cigs!)

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ErIn answered Monday June 21 2004, 12:08 pm:
I think you need you need to just tell her she is acting like a child and needs to grow up have some of ure family and her friends there to back you up . DO not hold anything back tell her she is acts like a whore when she is drunk and even though she thinks it isn't bad tell her it really is . Let her know how this affects you , and if it doesn't get better try to find family that you can move in with cause she isn't going to do anything except get worse if someone doesn't stop her . Send to the meetings with people who are achohlics ( spelling ?) get together to talk about and overcome their problems. I hope this helps . E-mail me at morethanuthinkiam91@hotmail.com to let me know what you decided to do or if you need more advice .

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AT5 answered Sunday June 20 2004, 3:59 pm:
Well you can't make anyone stop doing drugs if they're drunk cuz they're too drunk to listen. Look go somewhere to clear your mind. If your mom starts getting abusive, move with your dad.

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blonde answered Sunday June 20 2004, 3:58 pm:
You need to sit down with her when she is sober and explain how it is hurting you. If she doesn't believe she does get drunk and out of control, maybe have friends and family tell her as well. If she still doesn't believe you guys, get it on tape! Play it back and then when it is done, have a long talk. Help your mother in anyway she can because she can end up hurting herself. Good luck and I hope I helped!

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MapleAdvice11 answered Sunday June 20 2004, 3:45 pm:
You need to talk to her about how you feel. Sit her down and tell her how embarrassed you feel when she is drinking. And make sure to do this while she is sober.

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LykViolencUhavMe answered Sunday June 20 2004, 3:37 pm:
i think you should talk to her about it. tell her how it makes you feel. but definitly do it while shes sober and doesnt smell like pot or w/e it was. be calm and polite about it but tell her ur feelings and how it hurts you that she acts the way she does. oh and talk to her while shes in a good mood too... ull get her to listen a lot easier. ;) Good Luck

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