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I am a teen who has been through tough break ups all the way to being threatened about my life. I just love helping erebody else. Its one thing if an adult trys to understand a teen. But it is another thing if a teen trys to understand the Teen. (us teens lay it down like it is, you feel me?)
You got anything on yo mind let it out, even if its embarassing, cause I have people asking the same type of Whateva, u kno what I'm sayin?
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ok well im am totally in love! with my bestfriend and i have heard from some of his friends that he likes me and really wants to go out with me! But idk if i should do that because we have about 2 weeks of school left and we rarely see eachother over the summer! which sucks. I have been wanting to kiss him for a very long time. but im scared to do it unles i know its ok. soo do you think it would be ok if i kissed him?.
since ure asking ure already letting me know that you are still in the friend zone. I say sneak up behind him when he's alone cover his eyes and say "guess who", with a sexy voice. when he guesses its you tell him you want to hangout this weekend. That's when you start asking him questions like "would you say we were friends or more than friends, depending on his answer work your way from there. That should lead into a relationship, and a little while longer for the kiss. a kiss is not expected it just sometimes happens. when you get real close. Good luck
Ok so I had these friends and i always knew that they were lets just say not my type of friends, but I stayed with them anyway just because i didn't want them to start doing their retarded "emo" act. cause supposedly there emo but we won't get into that. What I'm saying is i made the mistake of telling the trutht to them instead of lying to cover my ass and i told them how i feel about stuff and now @ mi high school noone who's in my classes will talk to me so you could say I have no friends! how can i be accepted??
my ??? for you is are these girls da ones who spread s**t about you causin' you ta have no friends?
If that's the case if people won't talk to you, you try talking to them. Do something really special to have you recognized, not something that ain't you or haters, will say ure trying to get attention. I say put yourself in there. Try going back to those friends and work it out, and make sure there's no beef, get into clubs, activities, sports, to get yourself recognized. The hardest part at school, especially if you're an outkast, like i was for a while, is to make friends. Its hard because once rumors start they can't be stopped. Try this out it tough bnut you need to try it out. Let's not make this suicdal, no need for that. Goodluck, and I wish u the best
how do i tease a guy when teasing?
husk down your voice so its grabbs quick ateention, make sure its close to his ear when saying whateva u're sayin' and touch his ear with your lips but as it was an accident but don't say anything, and keep on talking like your lips did not touch the ear. Make sure you have good breath and talk real close to the face, get youir eyes lightly watery so your eyes glow. No tears. with guys u have to get intellectual on him. so you stay in right bettween to safe and to open try it and get back to me and tell me how it went down.
ok there is something that is reeaaalllyy getting on my nervs...
i have really long thick healthy black hair until my ass...yeah great huh?
soo every girl is telling me i should cut my hair short. it is REALLY buggíng me...this may sound kinda weird , but my hair looks great long!!! and it'z not like itz dry and ugly! all the guys love my hair and tell me i should neva cut it short , but all the girls keep getting on my nervs with it!! i even postet a question here about what kinda shampoo i should use for my hair and i said itz long and the first thing i get is: CUT YOUR HAIR SHORT!!
wtf is peoples problems and why does every1 hate long hair except for the guys??
The girl are either jealous of your hair, or just want you to have it short. I'd say to just do what makes you feel best if you like your hair long keep it long if you feel like trimming it, I don'tknow, maybe, kidney high, then do that its your decision. Don't let people decide what you want to look like. Beyou, gurl, now push da haters to da side, and work it gurl!!!!!!!!!
When you have sex for the first time do you bleed? and if you do, does it get on the sheets, and how much do you usually bleed?
Thanks Ya'll
It's its your first time, most definitely, you're not as open so him putting even the smallest into can cause blood to sway out. So I would suggest changing sheets, or putting something over the regular sheets. And do not take birth control pills, that will also cause some bleeding during sex, use a condom, and brace yourself.
I lost my voice! agh... it totally sucks because my family kinda makes fun of me because i have to whisper when I talk. So far i'm taking medicine and drinking tea. Getting somewhat rest. is there anything else I can do to regain my voice?? I already missed 3 days of school and cannot afford to miss another day. I also was sick earlier with the flu and i went to the doctor about that, i don't think i should go again because last time was about 3 days ago.
Should i drink something hot or cold?
any medicine that DOES work?
what should i do??? thanks
Buy lemon juice, and honey
cup of water and add 2- 3 sips of lemon juice, and add honey, serve hot. The honey and the bitterness of the drink will take out whatever is stopping your voice, from coming out, i hope it works for you like it did for me
So here goes:
I'm 14/f and you guys are probably wondering "What has she been through? She's only 14."
Well, my grandpa left when I was young because of cancer. My uncle promised that he'll be with me forever and that he'd quit smoking. Now he's dead from lung cancer. My grandma, I adore and love, is getting ill everyday. I hate the fact that my family members are slowly going away. In addition to that, I've let one too many guys take my heart and break it into pieces. Now I'm afraid of letting anyone get close to me. IF a guy likes me, & even if I like him back, I find myself running away from the guy and pushing him away. If I have a friend that I really enjoy having around, I'll find ways to ruin the friendship. If I have a crush, I'll force myself to forget about him/her and convince myself that I'm just going to end up hurt again.
I just find myself secluding myself from people everyday in fear of letting them hurt me. I feel like if I push them away, when they leave, it won't hurt as much. I know I'm hurting my friends and family by doing this but I can't help it. I really want to stop myself but I can't...can someone please help me get over this?
seems like yoyu've been through almost evrything i've been through, and yea it hurts, you need to except the fact that there are hurtful people out there but not evybody is like that. People want to get to know you they haven't even figured out how to hurt you. You need to drop the insecurity, or you'll spend a school year, like I did, ALONE
trust me it ain't cool
I am labelled as a bitch. Only when im mad though. When people piss me off, i snap at them but thats all. Now im labelled at a bitch but im really not. I am always nice to everyone but people like to run their mouth and say shit to me so obviously im going to say shit back. I never get into fights just little arguements sometimes. I dont know how to solve this problem..how can i let people know im really not a bitch?
same happen to me this year people just donj't understang us, gurl, you need to just show your nice side to the people who they tell, so rumors won't look true to them, whatever is in darkness will soon come to the light
I'm just really scared right now. My dad has
just got finished with hitting me over and
over again and he took a plastic hanger and
just keep whacking me with it on my toes. And
that kills! I kept trying to run away but I
was too in shock to move out of his reach and
my sister doesn't think anything of it because
he does it a lot so she thinks that's what your
supposed to do. After watching my dad hit me,
my sister frequently elbows me or punches me in
the stomach if we play hide and seek and she loses.
My parents buy my sister everything and play games
with her and treat her well but they treat me
like I'm a piece of crap. They call me "a piece
of shit" and "a waste of space." And they threatened
to send me to a shrink and never let me see my
family again. My relatives gossip to everyone if
I tell them my dad hit me and they don't believe
me so I can't tell them. I will NEVER tell my
friends because even though I love them dearly,
I couldn't trust them with that. Also, I hate my
guidance counselor and I just can't tell him. After
my dad hit me I had my hand on the phone and I
was just about to dial 911 but I got scared and
stopped. I did it once before but my parents
denied everything. Once I was on vacation and
my parents were verbally abusing me and this
lady heard and called the police but my parents
denied everything. Sometimes I give my parents
a reason to hit me like if we are in a fight
but I don't know I'm really scared to come out
of my room right now. I need all the advice I
can get and if you believe I should call a number
and tell them what's going on who do I call?
I want a professional. But if they take me away
from the parents, where will I live? I really
don't want to live with strangers in an
orphanage! Would they put me at a friend's
or relatives house? I'm just really scared and
I don't really want to leave my parents. But they
can be abusive and I don't know how much longer
I can put up with it! Help!!!!!
Sorry this is soo long.
You should first print out this entire page as good prove, and send it to your guidance counselor, and then to all your good relatives. Don't send it to any child support agencies they will take you away 4rm your parents and in an orphange you go, then I know its hard for you but you need to tel your friends and make them promise not to tell, and last pray, becuase even god knows nobody deserves what you have to put through even woth your sister the person whop should be in trouble wit you is also putting you down. I am punished by my parentsin some form but not abused. If you know that they are beating for no reason at all you need to tell someone.
go to: http://tyrashow.warnerbros.com/
and post your story for professional help, Tyra Banks is a loving,caring celebrity, who knows professionals. I'll pray for you. And I wish u the best. How old are you by the way?
When i start eating, ill eat like everthing and cant stop and i always go for more
Anyway to stop this?
Im getting fatter and fatter and dont know how to loose it.
I have the same problem but still learning how to control it, here's what I've gotten so far. Stay away from the foods that take you in further. Stay away from allinjected foods, that contain elements, chemicals, and what not. eat naturals. I think you addicted to american foods. And staying away from it and taking the smallest amount of it will help. It you get hungry keep drinking water until u can't drink anymore. The water will fill you up so good you won't even think about eating anything else.
if you smoke ciggaretts can it delay your period?
Of course not you can still get pregnant while taken cigarettes. but i wouldn't go that far, gurl, you kno, i'm sure you wouldn't want another child to suffer off drugs, right.
How long you been smokin'for, and how old are you?
get back to me for more information
okay well my sisters boyfriend is like 18 and he likes me?! and im kinda freaked out. im only 14. and he always comes in my room and lays in my bed when im in it. and the one day my boyfriend was over and me n my bf got in a little fight. and i went in my sisters room to ask her what to do. and my sister was in the bathroom . and jake (sisters bestfriend) started to hold my hand..i let go and told him to stop...and he got pissed..im really freaked out..everytime hes over i lock myself in our computer room..but somehow he always gets in..please help!!
what are ya waiting for tell ya sister what's going on she'll know how to end it with him, and end it permanently if it get worse. This could lead to rape, I'm not trying to scare u, gurl, but dis is reality, peace. Let yo folks kno, let the owner of your home or apartment kno. u smart don't hide where he can get to you.
It's supposed to set rhinestones on to pieces of clothing. How does it work? Does it staple it, or glue it, or what? How well to the rhinestones stay on?
I have a pair of red leather heels. If I bought the BeDazzler and BeDazzled on loads of red rhinestones to make Ruby Slippers, would it work?
they are meant to be glued on with clear krazy glue or super glue. They stay on as long as they aren't forced off in the washer. Just try it out and see how it works, if, and only if anything falls off. Don't put it in the washer too long
The red stone on red heels NO WAY
i'm sure you don't want yo outfit to CLASH, when haters pass the first thing they look at are those shoes. So put hot pink, black, or violet.
I can't give u a complete answer cause it depend on the shirt or outfit
sorry if my facts were a bitch but think about it this way
fashion, just like history, repeats itself, but its still 2007
um me and my boyfriend both want to make out.. it's both of our first time and do you have any good places where we should do it? and if u say movie theater can u put a good movie???
I'd say on a bridge in the night time over a pond or a lake dat ain't polluted. It will lighten up the mood and help the both of you ease up in the caught up moment. u feel me. All you need to do is be patient, and brace yourself, it is going to be an incredible ride.
First kiss is nothing you should rush. by first kiss you can tell if yo man is a real-a or a Fake-a. I wish u and yo boo da best
I like this guy and I've liked him for like 5 years! The feeling just won't go away! Ok, here's the deal, in 2nd and 3rd grade we were like imseperable friends, in 4th grade my friend told me that he liked me and I relized that I liked him, in 6th grade my other friend told him that I liked him and after that happened he wouldn't even say hi to me in the halls anymore (not that we saw each other much XP ).
Now i'm in 8th grade and don't know what to do! We have no classes together and are on other sides of the school! NEXT YEAR WE'LL NEVER SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN (probably)! I can't just let him go, and the only conections I have are to him two friends that have classes with him. I'm a wreck with myself, PLEASE HELP!
You should go on your own and try talking to im. Sneak up behind him put your hands on his face to cover his eyes and say: "remember me".
Make him Guess
It will lighten up the mood for a start. Talk to him briefly since you haven't seen him in a while and say: " Wow, I haven't seen you in a log time, we should,like, hang out sometime. Have any ideas?"
This should help:) :) I wish you good luck! :)
when i was typing a question, i accidently hit like ctrl and i think a letter, im not sure. and it made all the words and letters more spaced out.
Idk what i pressed, and does anyone know how to make it go back to normal?
hit edit and then undo or go to format then paragraph and select single space
14/f
theres this guy that ive known for like ever [9 years to be exact] and we've always had feelings for eachother and we've always been close but he doesnt exactly live very close to where i do. but when we see eachother its like we were nvr apart. so im going to spend a week with him and his family because we very close and im kinda hoping that maybe him and i will do stuff [sexually]. and im not sure if its wrong for me to be hoping or wanting it to happen. i mean in some ways im nervous about doing anything but then the other part of me is like yes do it. I'm not sure what i should do?
is it wrong for me to want to do stuff with him?
[hes 16 & im 14]
No gurl there ain't nothin' wrong wit wanting ta hookup. Yoou should just be patient, and not rush in. Trick number one. Never ever act like you're desperate around him. It gives guyz a reason to call us ladies a S to the L to the U to the T. Act natural and flirt a little,just let things move slowly and naturally. On that night make sure you serve strawberries and cream, light some good scented candles. And watch a movie to start out.
I wish you good luck on this night :) :) :)
And remember act natural!
Im a girl, and i notice other girls boobs. Not like im a lesbian but i have a question.
Like me and this one girls boobs look the same size a 34A. but hers would be like morefilled in at the top and mine are like spaced out more. like theres like an inch space between them.
Does this mean that mine will grow like bigger than hers or something?
if not then like will its feel in and most likely i will have a lot bigger boobs than i do now, and than her?
Oh no, it always depends upon the bra she is wearing like victoria's secret bras they push up the breasts while spreading them apart. You will alaways see someone's elses boobs different then they really are that's really the point of a push up or even a padded bra.
Trust me your breasts are larger. It could even be a padded bra. Alot of people use it today. Consider yourself lucky :) :)
You're Natural! :)
What movies do I need to see this MONTH?
Any ideas for EREBODY out there
Freedom Writers
Dreamgirls
The pursuit of happieness
Blood diamond (if ya haven't seen it)
i am getting bored with websites.. is there anything else like advicenators myspace facebook or anything that has to do with keeping a teen girl entertained
go to aol.com and watch the DL wpecialshich s under specials. Or if you still feel aggravated. Check out you tube and try that enterrtainment. When I am bored I just check out what's gointg on wit celebrity gossip, and post committs, and letting people kno they need ta stop da hate. Anyway you can find to entertain yourself you can find it on www.google.com or www.mamma.com or www.bored.com (i kno its wierd but its real)
Good luck with the internet:) :) :) :)